"Queer people should be accepted enough that they feel comfortable talking about themself" and "Nobody owes you an explanation of why they identify a certain way" are two statements that can and should coexist, by the way.
One is about the activism and acceptance of queer people, and the other is just entitlement. Do not feel like you should have to explain yourself to deserve the same acceptance and respect as anyone else.
You are valid in your queer identity.













