#intp dating

[coffeefueledqueen]

*ISTP and INTP have been house hunting for a while. They finally found a house they want to put an offer on."

ISTP: If we get this house we need to get a two person bike and ride it around the neighborhood.

INTP: Ok. But we need to do go through at the same time everyday, regardless of the weather, and in marching outfits. That way everyone knows it's "our" thing and we can be known as the weird athletic couple on the corner.

[alltypesofmbti]

Dating intp by an intp :)

[murderandmbti]

Flirting

ESFP flirting: You're soooo sexy *wink*

INTP flirting: Baby you are hotter than the bottom of a laptop *awkward eye twitch*

[shipwrexked]

INTP and Flirting

Anon asks: How do INTP’s flirt?

uhhhhh we...don’t. Look the fact that I’m married should be proof that there is a God because I, in no way, pursued that relationship. Flirting to me is like observing mating rituals in the wild. I understand it in a clinical sense but not a practical one. 

Let me tell you how my husband and I met.

Picture it: A mom and pop bookstore on a forgotten side street. Me the reclusive, bookish INTP, browsing the New Release shelves minding my own business. 

Enter stage right the young, shy, sailor boy looking for new reading material before he ships out for the next 6 months. He too is browsing the New Release shelf when he reaches for the new J.D. Robb book Judgement in Death. A small, slender hand with shortened nails reaches for the same book at the same time. 

Sailor Boy: I see you reached for the same book as me. Does this mean you also like bad ass female detectives who solve crime?

Me: uh yes

Sailor Boy: Have you read the first books in the series? 

Me: I really liked Naked in Death. Eve Dallas is so amazing.

Sailor Boy: I really like Roarke. He’s suave, sophisticated, but a little dangerous. 

Me: Oh yeah he’s a great representation of the quintessential bad boy with a heart of gold.

Sailor Boy: So do you come to this bookstore often?

Me: Yes I don’t like the crowds at the bigger box stores.

Sailor Boy: Will you be here in 6 months?

Me: ummm I have no idea and that is weirdly specific..are you a stalker?

Sailor Boy: Would I tell you if I were a stalker? and no I’m not but I am a sailor and we’re shipping out tomorrow I won’t be back here for another 6 months and I’d love to meet up with you and talk books some more.

Me: oh........uhhhhhhhhh...hmmmmmmm..well ok.

Sailor Boy: Why don’t you let me buy you that book. We’ll both read it and discuss it when I get back.

And that is how my husband managed to secure a date with the reclusive INTP Female. How he managed to convince me to marry him is a whole other story.

[ihavetoomanyblogsaboutnothing]

Dear Universe, If you could send me an ENTJ to date, I'd be eternally grateful. They may seem like villains, but I really like spending time with them. Sincerely, INTP

[not-that-subtle]

take me to the beach and hold my hand as we clambor along the rocks to peer in the pretty rockpools

[murderandmbti]

how about some enfp and intp dating? i turn out to be really good friends and have crushes on xnfp's as an intp

Entp : Hey, Intp ? I need some dating advice.Intp : Just because I'm dating Enfp doesn't mean I know how I did it.

[ihavetoomanyblogsaboutnothing]

INTP: The Dating Bible of an INTP by Lisa Ailers

For anyone who is like me and loosely uses MBTI to assess whether someone would be a good partner for them, this book is only a few dollars on Amazon Kindle and is extremely helpful. It doesn’t go in depth about the inner workings of an INTP or dating them specifically, but it does give a comprehensive look at type-to-type relationships for the INTP. It gives the threat, the opportunity, the short-term potential, and the long-term potential of each type's relationship with an INTP. It’s so helpful! Seriously, it’s worth a few bucks.