There's so much more of course, but too little time and space in one post to list off every single valid experience.. all plurality is valid, don't let anyone tell you otherwise
Masc-heavy plural system flag we made because the only one that we could find was lowkey ugly 😔 it basically just means a system that has mostly masculine-leaning parts/alters/headmates etc.
btw just so it’s clear this isn’t a coining blog or anything just something I did for like 2 minutes on a whim
the first 3 is the ‘[blank]-heavy’ system template and the last one is the plural flag but the purple is blue. galaxy is because we like space 🙂↕️
We just want to let you know that even if you are a non-disordered system, we still love you and wish the best for you! Don't let anyone bring you down! If you need us to eat your hate asks, we will. They're quite crunchy
Just a quick reminder for those who so happened to follow this blog...
• Pro-Plural — We support plurality in all forms as long as nobody is being harmed. We are not interested in fakeclaiming, syscourse, policing identities, or acting like strangers know someone’s mind better than they do. Different experiences with plurality can coexist without becoming a competition.
• Anti-radqueer — We are personally uncomfortable with radqueer spaces/content. This is mainly a comfort and boundary thing for us rather than a debate topic, so please just respect it and move on instead of trying to argue or “change our minds.”
• Neutral on TransID topics — We are not fully educated on TransID identities/discussions, so we stay mostly neutral. We would rather admit we do not know enough than spread misinformation or act overly confident on topics we are still learning about.
• Neutral / leaning anti-darkship & anti-proship — We personally believe topics like darkship/proship should remain private rather than openly/publicly shared, especially because these topics can sometimes be tied to coping mechanisms or deeply personal issues. We are uncomfortable with those spaces ourselves, but we also do not support harassment over fictional content. Our main concerns are privacy, boundaries, proper tagging, and keeping those discussions away from minors/general spaces.
• Anti pro-contact — We are strongly against encouraging contact with abusers, harmful entities, dangerous people, or anything similar. Please prioritize safety and reality over romanticization.
• We enjoy coining/making terms for both plural communities and LGBTQ+ identities! Most of our terms are made for fun, creativity, self-expression, self-indulgence, worldbuilding, or for friends. Anyone can use our terms, even people in our DNI. We do not believe in gatekeeping labels on the internet.
• Plural — We are prastressgenic plural. We may use terms like sysmates, headmates, alters, members, fragments, etc. interchangeably depending on comfort or context. We also switch between I/We pronouns often. We personally prefer the term “plural,” but “system” does not bother us either.
• Some of our opinions/beliefs may change over time as we learn more. We are human and allowed to grow, rethink things, or change perspectives.
• We support respectful self-expression and identity exploration. Labels are meant to help people understand themselves, not trap people into strict boxes forever.
• This account may contain discussions of plurality, identity, coping mechanisms, stress, derealization, unreality, fictionkin/fictives, trauma mentions, and other sensitive topics occasionally. Please curate your own space responsibly.
• We block freely and heavily curate our online experience. If you are blocked/unfollowed/ignored, do not take it personally. Sometimes we simply want a more comfortable timeline.
• We are not interested in discourse, purity culture, harassment campaigns, or callout behavior. Constant negativity is exhausting and we would rather focus on creativity and community.
• We are very attached to our original terms/flags/projects, so please do not directly steal, heavily copy, or repost them without permission/credit.
• Slow replies are normal for us. Energy issues, stress, motivation problems, internet issues, or switching can affect response times.
• Tone tags are appreciated but not required! We may occasionally misunderstand tone through text, especially in serious or sarcastic conversations.
• Please avoid venting heavily without permission first. Certain topics can be overwhelming for us unexpectedly.
• The owner of this blog is a masc genderfluid minor. Please interact carefully if you are 18+. Anyone under 13 DNI for your own online safety. People around 23–25+ preferably DNI or interact cautiously, as we are below 17 (but above 13). Please respect our boundaries and safety online.
• We have a BAH( @goobersbah ) ! If requests are closed when you see this, it is likely due to internet issues, stress, low energy, burnout, or motivation problems. We dislike leaving people waiting for long periods of time. Questions and casual interactions are usually still welcome unless stated otherwise.
• We are cringe but free. Being weird online is more fun than forcing ourselves to be “normal” all the time.
Extra dnis / iwec
• Forsaken fandom DNI / interact with extreme caution — We have had extremely negative experiences with people from this fandom, especially involving old friends, and it heavily ruined our perspective on the game/community overall. Please do not bring up Forsaken around us unless we mention it first. We would strongly prefer this fandom to stay away from our page entirely.
• Hazbin Hotel / Helluva Boss / Vivziepop fandom interact with caution — We are uncomfortable with both the fandom and many of the topics/content surrounding the media itself. Some aspects of the creator’s behavior, fandom culture, shock humor, and the way certain subjects are handled make us uncomfortable overall. Please do not constantly mention these media around us or force us into fandom discussions.
• Country Humans fandom interact cautiously unless we know you well — We are not heavily involved in the fandom and generally do not fully trust the community due to past experiences and the nature of some content within it. Especially interact cautiously if you heavily favor/glorify problematic countries/characters, romanticize wars/conflicts, or treat serious history like an aesthetic.
• Extremely toxic/chronically online Pony Town players DNI — If your entire existence revolves around drama, stalking, vague posting, harassment, purity culture, clique behavior, or treating Pony Town like a life-or-death battlefield, stay away from us.
• Heavy fandom discourse accounts DNI — If your account is mostly dedicated to harassing people over ships, headcanons, canon accuracy, or “problematic” fiction 24/7, we will probably not get along.
• Please do not force fandom/media discussions onto us after we say we are uncomfortable. Repeatedly bringing up topics we dislike “as a joke” will get you blocked.
• We may enjoy media casually without wanting fandom interaction. Enjoying something does NOT automatically mean we want to engage deeply with its fandom/community.
• We are very cautious around fandom spaces that normalize harassment, dogpiling, doxxing, stalking, purity culture, or obsession over strangers online.
• If you constantly mock people for harmless interests/hyperfixations, DNI. Being cringe online is not the end of the world.
• Fandom elitists DNI — We do not care if someone is a “real fan,” knows every piece of lore, owns rare merch, or has liked something longer than others. Please go outside.
• People who intentionally spoil media repeatedly after being asked not to DNI.
• People who make liking dark/problematic fiction their entire personality interact cautiously. We do not want graphic topics randomly shoved into conversations.
• “Anti-cringe” people DNI — If you spend your free time bullying people for being weird, passionate, self-indulgent, or creative online, you sound exhausting.
• We are uncomfortable around fandom spaces that heavily sexualize everything constantly, especially around minors/general audiences.
• Please do not compare us to characters/fandom stereotypes constantly. It gets uncomfortable very quickly.
• We block/mute fandoms and communities freely for comfort reasons. It is rarely personal and usually just us protecting our online space and mental health.
• If you aggressively defend creators/communities that repeatedly harm others and refuse accountability, interact cautiously or DNI.
• We would rather enjoy media peacefully than constantly argue about it online.
Hi! Just an fyi, the endophobia blog is anti-endo. Also, best of luck on ur blog! :D
The original context of "endophobia" has nothing to do with "endogenic" individuals, which is one reason I recommend their blog.
However, if our dni was not clear enough, this blog does not support endos/willows/tulpas/ect.
We do support nondisordered plurality that has religious origins esp within the context of indigenous spirituality but none of those are endo/willo/tulpa/ect. Cultural plurality has it's own terms and has nothing to do with complex dissociative disorders, as it is not a disorder, but a cultural aspect & practice. Cultural forms of plurality are explicitly ruled out of the diagnostic criteria for complex dissociative disorders for this reason.
so I'm wanting to be plural, a willogenic system and Im very indecisive with if i want to or not. I have multiple reasons why and I have no doubts it would help my mental state but I'm scared that I'll regret it. I've been on this decision for months now I'm tempted to put the decisions on a wheel and spin it to see what I get
I think if it’s been on your mind your months now, then it’s probably not going to go away, and usually that means your mind has set itself on a decision even if you haven’t consciously made one.
If you’re willing to accept it if you end up regretting it later down the line, then I say go for it, because the chance you WON’T regret it is great enough it’s a loss not to try.
Wishing you luck with whatever you choose though. You’re valid, and I hope you get where you wanna be with this 🫶🫶
Hello! We're known as the Kageverse System! Our host is Akaira, and we have a medium-sized system. We are mixed origins, questioning parotraumagenic or traumaform, but are mainly endogenic.
We moderate for r/fakeclaimingcringe2 (Basically the opposite of r/fakedisorderscringe and r/SystemsCringe) , and have an anonymous TikTok account!
OUR DNI:
Anti-endogenics, including anti-willogenic and/or anti-tulpagenic
T.R.A.S.H.
Fakeclaimers
Active participatants of r/fakedisorderscringe or r/SystemsCringe
People who treat introjects as their source
OUR STANCES:
Pro-endogenic, tulpagenic, willogenic, etc
Anti-harassment
Anti-fakeclaiming
You don't know what goes on in someone elses mind.
Radqueer neutral (We find radqueerness confusing, and don't understand it that well so we don't have an opinion on it. IWC though.)
