every time someone who goes by it/its gets called they/them an angel loses its wings
(*assuming the person who called it they/them knew its pronouns were it/its)
seen from United States
seen from Philippines
seen from India
seen from Estonia
seen from Russia
seen from Italy

seen from United States

seen from Brazil

seen from United States

seen from Syria
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seen from China
seen from United States
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seen from Morocco
seen from Spain
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seen from Thailand

seen from United States
every time someone who goes by it/its gets called they/them an angel loses its wings
(*assuming the person who called it they/them knew its pronouns were it/its)
If transmasc and transfem are nonbinary identities, then why are we using agab language just a random thought
I made some
(yes, if you ignore certain pronouns that someone uses, you ARE a transphobe)
We arenât living in the darkest timeline but this sure does seem like the weirdest.
I can actually say that there are people out there with so little faith in Humanity, the scientific community, the government, and the media, that they trusted one small blog/ânews outletâ/podcast above all of it. And thought that drinking horse dewormer was really the way to save them from a deadly global pandemic.
After consuming certain bits of media this year, I can definitively say that there is a somewhat common problem for lazy authors. (The ones that donât want to do research and risk misrepresenting a group of people.) It takes the form of them attempting to âmake up a fake illnessâ or something else and accidentally landing on a real one. Which they have simply mislabeled. Because Humans are weird.
I can inform those unaware, that there are people who believe that they are mythical creatures trapped inside Human bodies. And I look at the things I wrote above this and have to say to myself âthey arenât hurting anyone with their beliefs. Several people arrived at these conclusions independently, so itâs a thing. It doesnât affect you. Who cares? As long as theyâre happy and donât harm others, then itâs fine.â
Years ago I explained to people why saying they identified as an attack helicopter, wall, or chair is offensive. While I now know that there are people whose gender is related to fog, space, and/or the smell of books, etc. So the only criticism I could honestly think of (besides the fact they were clearly lying/being sarcastic) was that the way they said it isnât how people talk about gender identity.
I have had to think about how I wouldâve argued with those ignorant people, if I didnât know as much about the subject, as I did at the time. And certainly less than I know now.
And then I was subjected to seeing the opinions of people with about three times my lived experience, talk about the so called âmenaceâ of trans/non-binary people. When, as we all know, they are statistically less likely than the average population of commit crimes. In addition to being far more likely to have violence perpetrated against them.
A t.v. show lasting fifteen years had a mlm pairing with an actual lgbtq actor involved. With its other character based on a real life m-spec man. Which just so happened to trend higher than a historic u.s. election following a highly anticipated (and somewhat expected) love confession between the two.
Memes about the show (often made by people that hadnât ever seen it, or hadnât watched it for several years) became how some people heard which candidate was winning in the polls, and who actually won.
The format of those memes is still regularly used to inform people of whatever new thing has caused unrest among the community (and/or tumblr at large) that cares about a show that ended almost a year ago.
They/we are so passionate that we have regularly trended in this intervening year. On some memorable occasions, it was for things that we already knew about.
Tl;dr: The world is a strange place, and it is much weirder for having you in it. Nothing will ever compare to the time that we have been living in. This is the shit they write about in history books.
Fellow Enbies, Lend Me Your Ears
Iâm nonbinary, and although I know Iâm nonbinary, Iâve been recently struggling to find a more precise label for how I identify. I need to know, how did yâall do it, if you managed to find a good identity for yourself? Iâve tried researching different nb gender identities, but it feels like no matter what I find, nothing fits me quite right. I know that itâs ok to only identify as nonbinary and/or genderqueer, but I canât help but feel a bit broken. Thank you for reading this, some advice would be greatly appreciated <3
An Archive of Our Own, a project of the Organization for Transformative Works
Summary:Â An ice cream cart has set up between the wine shop and the bus stop. Crowleyâs in a good mood, which can only be enhanced by a vanilla cone with a flake. Providence in action.
Thereâs a young person already waiting at the stop, desperately arguing with someone on the phone. âNo,â ey say through gritted teeth. âWeâre not doing that.â
(Or, Crowley has an encounter at a bus stop. Itâs rare a demon gets to help someone.)
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ko-fi
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