#nonbinary thoughts

[thesaddesttoothless]

every time someone who goes by it/its gets called they/them an angel loses its wings

(*assuming the person who called it they/them knew its pronouns were it/its)

[sleepyqngel]

me when i smoke, but i do it in a transmasc cowboy who’s into forcemasc way so it’s fine

[almightybagel]

I am not a man, I am not a woman, I am just a human, a person, maybe even a creature. Though I have somewhat of a connection to masculinity and femininity, I am neither.

[domsdirtythoughts]

Sometimes I like to think of the tip of my penis as a big fat mushroom shaped clit at the end of my cock. That's what it feels like in my head sometimes. I love gripping my clitshaft and stroking and pumping as my clithead swells and gets so fucking sensitive. I don't even touch it, I just pump my shaft and it pulses and throbs so hard, and it feels so swollen it might burst. I love watching it swell up as I squirt sperm.

[wiggly-fruit]

just me or did any other enbies feel like stereotypically gendered activities had to be hidden when you were growing up?

Like you had to hide them to avoid being pigeonholed into uncomfortable binary gender stereotypes? Like I felt self conscious about liking Ben 10 and occasionally watching episodes of it here and there at friends houses and playing with the “boys toys” in elementary school. I also felt self conscious about my intense interest in the Disney fairies movies and strawberry shortcake. Like being afab I didn’t want to be seen as a girly girl or a tomboy. I just wanted to be lil ol me who liked a little of everything and was just a kid.

same goes for being given anything gendered that wasn’t immediately unisex. Like there where occasions where I had to be given the “boy” option because there wasn’t anything else. That felt weird because I didn’t have the words for it but it definitely made me feel like I was going to be pegged as weird for how tomboyish it was. However being given overly “girlish” things was too weird too because it felt not like me to be seen as a cis girly girl for my interests.

[nonbinairyboi]

Being nonbinary and in a relationship with someone who is also nonbinary can feel so isolating when it comes to silly things like memes or text posts. It cuts you out of every post that says ‘I love it when she’ ‘I love it when he’ ‘girls are so cute when they’ cause it could be gay or straight and still not include you or your partner.

[arachnid-party]

i need to stop saying i’m a man just because it’s better than being seen as a woman again. i’m not. i’m just not.

[featherlesswings]

I haven’t had even shoulder length hair since 2014-15, but Kattigan has me dying to grow out my mohawk to his length. How do you do long hair in a masculine presenting way with an AFAB face & body? 😭