idk anymore

[goblincrikit]

[thesesummersonspoet]

Hey guys I just want to give a heads up. The book Adam by Ariel Schrag has been turned into a movie which has been named as one of the most exciting LGBTQ films of this year. I don’t want to spoil anybody’s fun but you should know before watching that the book is about a cis boy who pretends to be a trans man in order to persuade lesbians to sleep with him. 

This post has a plot summary that explains more about this concept and why it’s so harmful.

It is deeply deeply transphobic. It is lesbophobic as it features a corrective rape narrative (a lesbian does have sex with him and then decides she does love men after all). 

Here is a review of the book by a trans man. I have yet to find one by a lesbian but will edit this if I do. 

This book gives out incredibly harmful notions about trans men and lesbians that are used to hurt them in real life. It’s so entrenched in the narrative that I don’t see how the film can be any better. You can find more info in this twitter thread

I’d like to tell people to boycott it but I can’t tell you what to do. So instead I’m going to ask that you share this because it being named as an exciting new LGBTQ film is going to make LGBTQ teens want to see it. And they should know before hand how hurtful it could be. They should be able to arm themselves with that knowledge. 

Please reblog. 

[igotthatsweetheony-deactivated2]

Not to be a needy bitch bUT CAN SOMEONE PLEASE JUST BE MY FRIEND IM SO FREAKING LONELY TF!

IM BEING SO SERIOUS RN!!

Like i wanna have one of those chill kpop friends where junk wont get awkward after a day!!!!!! Oh my god! I wanna be close too!!!

Like bih i want someone who i can run to for any situation

Ex: PENTAGON COMING FOR MY ASS!!

I wanna just roll up in ya dms like

Me: BITTTTT U SEE THIS DISRESPECTFUL NONSENSE?!!?!

AND WHOEVER IS GONNA BE LIKE

Them: OH ON GOD?!???!!!! WTFFFF?!?!

ANOTHER EXAMPLE:

I see a really funny video or picture buts not even that funny but it highkey has me rolling at the moment

Again im LITERALLY TUMBLING IN UR DMS LIKE

Me: BWHAGADEHDUG GIRLLLLL (or guy idec) U SEE THATDDHD IM WHEEZING

I JUST NEED SOMEONE TO LAUGH WITH!!

Or even GIGGLE AT LEAST!!!!

Also i just need someone to talk to and make inside jokes with man.

Like no joke if im fumblin in ur dMs at like 4 Am

And im just like

CARELESS CARELESS SHOOT ANONYMOUS ANONYMOUS!!

U BETTER BE LIKE

HEARTLESS MINDLESS NO ONE WHO CARES ABOUT ME!!

Or like

Im comin in wit

LEMME SEE HOW YOU GON TREAT ME

U gotta be on point with that

I AINT NO EASY BETTER THINK ABOUT IT TWICE

Im probably rambling at this point im so lonely everyone is prolly gonna scroll passed this anyway thanks for listening to my crazy ass ramble

NO BUT REALLY IF UR INTERESTED IN BEING FRIENDS IM SO NICE OMG I LOVE EVERY GROUP AND IF I DONT KNOW ONE IM DOWN TO LEARN JUST PLEASE DM ME!!! OR JUST REBLOG SOMETHING!!!!!!!!!!!!

[lookatmeenoww-deactivated201301]

Okay seriously. Reblog if you're OLDER than 11.

[danisontnonfire]

why is it that not more than 1/20 of Tumblr haven’t reblogged this

[thepiscesactor-deactivated20121]

Just an experiment. Reblog if you actually give a fuck about male victims of domestic violence and rape.

[minotaursauce]

Of fucking course

What sick bastard doesn’t

[xaldien]

“You’d be surprised”, said Xaldien, who just lost four followers and received a lovely “men can’t be raped” anon shortly after reblogging this the first time.

[minotaursauce]

Yowch, disgusting.

[samuraiko]

If I don’t reblog this, assume I’m dead.

[moving-blogs-dm-for-new-one]

If you don’t, please just unfollow me, because I don’t want those ideals on my blog.

[got7-dicks-in-my-ass]

They have a voice and a story too

[ask-the-fishdick-deactivated201]

((REBLOG IF IT IS OKAY TO COME INTO YOUR INBOX AND SAY THE RANDOMEST SHIT I CAN THINK OF BECAUSE I REALLY WANT TO INTERACT WITH YOU))

[vergeangst]

Yes! I love interacting with all of you!!

[thishellagay]

To everyone affected by Jonghyun‘s death who has or had depression/anxiety/other mental illnesses.

This is a quick reminder that you are still human. You are still allowed to feel other emotions than sadness. I have depression, and I have been having a hard time reminding myself of this.

Please don‘t bury yourself in grief. I‘m not saying that it is not ok to be sad and upset — I am myself. I‘m not saying that it is not ok to cry — I did myself. But you‘re still human and you still matter, and just because Jonghyun is dead, you shouldn‘t be neglecting your mental health. Don‘t get mad at yourself for laughing at something funny someone around you said. Don‘t get mad at yourself for not being able to stand the posts about him anymore because it makes you sad. Take a break. Grief, but don‘t neglect your mental health thinking that you don‘t matter now. Because you do. All of us do.

[thishellagay]

A male and a female artist: literally only collaborate with each other.

Everyone: Awww! They must be dating! How sweet! Look! I ship it!

Two male artists: hold hands and are kinda cuddly

Shippers: Aww! They could totally be dating

Everyone: yoU’RE FOrCInG HoMOSExuALITy oN THEm!!! NOt EvERYonE HAs TO bE GaY!!1!!!1 YOu‘rE So DIsGUSTinG!!!!11!!12 FEtiSHIzER!!!

[weavemama]

ladies and gentlemen we have officially reached the “in case a nuclear attack happens” phase……. [x]

[trip-usingizi-rp-blog]

This shit is wild.

[goodshinyhunter]

There should be an amber alert or something to warn us, hopefully. But if you’re so close to the blast that the entire outside flashes white your first priority is to get underneath the blastwave any way you can.

After that you have 2 options: drive away or protect yourself from the radiation.

Option one is tough because literally everybody else is going to want to do this, and you could get stuck right in the fallout. And lemme tell you, if you’re stuck out there when the ashes first fall for more than 15 minutes, you’re dead. Radiation poisoning.

Option two is harder, but has a better success rate. Get underground. Most houses have a crawlspace, but in this bad time just saw a fucking hole in your floor. Put table over hole. Pack some large containers (like tubs), with dirt, tight, and stack them on your table or wherever you’re going to be directly underneath. you need 36 inches if dirt to be protected from the radiation poisoning. You could preemptively buy lead and stick that in a container with a lot of serface area, i forget how many inches you need vertically.

How ever much serface area the dirt/metal/lead covers is how much you and your party will be able to move around. As long as there’s enough inches vertically you’ll be good so long as you stay under it.

You gotta stay under there for at least 2 weeks, 3 to be sure.

[galaxy-manticore]

Also, if you can see the mushroom cloud, stick your arm out as far as you can. Do a thumbs-up and close one eye. If your thumb is bigger than the cloud, you are safe. If the cloud is bigger or the same size as your thumb, then that means you are in the radiation zone and should evacuate immediately.

[magic-owl]

I cannot believe I actually have to freaking reblog this but here y'all go just in case

[shit-editor]

Take a break from the humor for just a second and read this.

[thewickedwilds]

Sorry, what year is this again??

[thishellagay]

Be safe everybody.

[frauleinpflaume-deactivated2020]

For artists who have problems with perspective (furniture etc.) in indoor scenes like me - there’s an online programm called roomsketcher where you can design a house/roon and snap pictures of it using different perspectives.

It’s got an almost endless range of furniture, doors, windows, stairs etc and is easy to use. In addition to that, you don’t have to install anything and if you create an account (which is free) you can save and return to your houses.

Examples (all done by me):

Here’s an example for how you can use it

[ovebooh]

Reblog if you support romantic same sex relationship themes and gay characters in childrens entertainment!

[anonymous-snake]

SLAMS THE REBLOG BUTTON

[dumpsterthot]

AND NORMALIZE IT.

[squeeesh-deactivated20171106]

👏👏👏

[thishellagay]

After growing up with Harry “set in the nineties in a wizarding school were technology doesn‘t work“ Potter and Percy “use of technology attracts monsters and ur gonna get killed“ Jackson I find phones in fantasy literature always so awkward

[inuitsquid-deactivated20230719]

Ullaakuut! I am Inuk, and I am here to explain to all you Qallunaat about the very incorrect and downright rude word used to call Northern Indigenous peoples in Canada and Alaska.

Eskimo is a slur. Some of the older generation are fine with being called that, but it’s been only recently that Northern people have been colonized by the Qallunaat. As such, they grew up in a time where their language was taken from them, and they were told that that is what they are called (you’ll also see this with the use of Indian when referring to indigenous people). The younger generations tend not to be as happy with being called Eskimo, and given the role the word has had in the colonization of us, there is good reason for it. We have our own words for us. Mine is Inuk. Plural is Inuit. Inuit means people.

Eskimo is a slur. If you are not a person who would fall under the term, you have no right to say otherwise. Northern indigenous people can choose to reclaim it if we want. Some do. But that is not an excuse for you, as Qallunaat, to use the word. A lot of us see it as a slur. It doesn’t matter where the word comes from. It doesn’t matter what it means. It doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks, we say it is a slur, it is a slur. You can argue until you are blue in the face, but white people, who colonized my people, who threw my grandparents in residential schools, who called us Eskimos and protested seal hunts and our ways of life, do not get a say.

Eskimo is a slur. We can reclaim it, but for many, it is still a dirty word. And no matter how much a word is reclaimed, it will always be a slur. We have names for ourselves. We have our words, our names which we present to you. If you demand I call you Scottish/French/whatever, I can demand you call me Inuk. I am not an Eskimo. That is not my word.

As well, “censoring” the word doesn’t suddenly make it okay. Take it out of your vocabulary.

If you are white, you are not to add on to this. You are not to talk about the origin of the word. You are not to argue that it’s not a slur. I am the person who that word refers too. I am telling you it is a slur. Do not whitesplain on this post. It is a slur. Point blank. If the word is not used on you, is not meant to refer to you, this is not your conversation. Northern people are the authorities on this. No one else. Our word is law on this, and when a sea of voices denounce the use of the word, and a few promote it, you may not use those few to call me a word that is hurtful and carries a painful history of colonization. My people are called it. Not yours.

If you need a word for nose rubbing, bunny kisses is an acceptable (and adorable) alternative that is respectful.

[kignofscars-deactivated20191103]

reblog with your sign + if you’re a denim jacket, a leather jacket or a bomber jacket person it for science

[afishlearningpoetry]

The Most Terrifying Villain in Get Out Is White Womanhood by Aisha Harris (full article).

“‘White liberal racism’ has been accurately pinpointed as the movie’s symbolic Big Bad, the villain that, when left unchecked, will destroy us all.”

Including Jordan Peele on Jeff Goldsmith’s The Q&A Podcast, The Birth of a Nation, King Kong, To Kill a Mockingbird, Jack Johnson, The Scottsboro Boys (#tw: lynching et. al), Emmett Till, the 1923 Rosewood Masacre, A History of Rape Reports and Lynching in the US (#tw: rape), Odell Beckham Jr., women who voted Trump, the West/Swift feud, Key and Peele’s “Othello Tis My Shite” sketch, the Democratic 1994/1996 Crime and Welfare Bills signed by Bill Clinton and the Super-Predator myth. #getoutspoilers #get out spoilers #spoilers

♫ They see a black man with a white woman At the top floor they gone come to kill King Kong ♫

Bonus: Other modern moments similar to this dynamic:

[ellidfics]

White women didnt’ ask to be used this way by racists.  We really, really didn’t.

[akeelahandthetea]

didnt a white girl just get busted for saying she was gangraped by a bunch of black men this year. and then days later came out as a liar? Rhetorical question, yes the fuck she did.

Like… In a post about white women using their victimhood as a weapon, you identify as a white woman and proceed to play the victim. Sit with that. And be a more critical thinker. 

[whaticantremembernow]

The lack of self awareness is staggering

[crimepatisserie]

if she wasn’t so shite at makeup she could’ve fooled people 

this is the story of the girl lying about being gang raped x  that @sojournerlies was referring to 

“In 1994 Susan Smith claimed that she’d been carjacked in South Carolina by a black man who drove away with her two young sons (ages 3 years old and 14 months). For nine days, she made dramatic pleas on national television for their rescue.“  

In 2007 Amanda Knox was accused of murdering her roommate, Meredith Kercher in Perugia, Italy. Naturally, she was like, “Uh uh, not me!” and blamed Diya “Patrick” Lumumba, her boss, and Lumumba was arrested. 

In 2010 Bethanny Storro claimed that she was attacked outside a Vancouver, Wash., coffee shop by a black woman who approached her and asked her whether she wanted something to drink. She claimed the woman said, “Hey, pretty girl,” and then threw a cup of acid in her face, disfiguring her. Police went on to investigate and started to think that Storro wasn’t telling the truth. And she wasn’t.

After Storro held a news conference shortly after surgery, with her head wrapped in gauze, she was booked as a guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show, but she canceled the appearance after Oprah’s staff did some digging and things weren’t adding up.

In 2013, in an exclusive interview with ABC News, Storro discussed how she used the acid on herself in a failed suicide attempt because of a then-undiagnosed mental illness called body dysmorphic disorder. The illness causes an obsession with minor or imagined physical flaws. She admitted that when she was a national story, she felt that she “mattered.” She said, “In that moment I felt like I was cared for and I mattered.” She also claimed that she didn’t mean to blame it on anyone else. Right.

source for these 3 stories here x (i only put the women/’recent’ liars, the whole list has a lot more disturbing lies and terrifying outcomes for Black people who were falsely accused)

this is probably the most infamous case, screenshot taken of this article x

Brooklyn nun lying about being raped by a “hulking black man” x 

White Woman Claims She Was Robbed By Black Man Then Arrested For Lying x

all of this is on the first 2 result pages of a lousy google search 

bonus content:

so get your head out of your ass and stop wailing when we’re called out on racism and look around you instead of trying to make excuses for yourself/ourselves and try to silence Black folks 

[ororomunroedontpullout]

White women and their feminism speaks to agency of a woman and their choices but the minute it’s about racism, it’s all about how they were tricked, forced, or manipulated into being racist and how the real culprit is white men. Like they break their backs to play the victim even if it means they use the same sexist tropes

[blackgirlshit]

Welp…

[undadasea]

PSA

I love every fanfiction author on earth !!! Thank you so much for using your own time to provide us with a free(!) story to read that is 10x better than every book I have read put in one!

For long fic writers: Your detailed fics are so amazing and you amaze me every single time with the amount of research and time you have put into your beautiful works! Whether I am looking to kill time or just want something to distract me you have provided me with that, and I am so glad we have writers like you!

For short fic writers: Your fluffy/angsty/smutty/all of the above fics are so nice to read after a long day! When I just need something small because I don’t have the energy for something long, you wrote something for yourself and shared it with us, and I am so glad that we have writers like you!

If you write fluff; Thank you so much! I love reading your self-indulgent fics. They are so sweet and adorable and those characters definitely would do that.

If you write angst; Thank you so much! I love reading your painful fics. I’m always excited to see how it will end and if things will ever get better.

If you write smut; Thank you so much! I love reading your own fantasies(or realities, or just what you chose to write). They make me smile and blush.

If you write romance; Thank you so much! I love reading about my otp falling in love over and over. Even if it is cliché, it’s also unique and I’m still  surprised each time.

If you write about platonic relationships; Thank you so much! I love reading about my favorite best friends and siblings. You bring something not often seen and your courage is amazing.

If you write crack; Thank you so much! I love reading your random fics. They make me laugh time and time again and even if they are weird and ooc, they are amazing too.

If you write anything else; THANK YOU SO MUCH! Whatever it is you write, it is amazing and I love it. 

I know my singular opinion doesn’t mean much when there are millions of people on this earth, but I want it to be heard!

I LOVE FANFICION WRITERS. YA’LL ARE THE REAL MVPS.

[sunrise-on-the-reaping]

this is my favorite tumblr post ever

[1minhomo1]

Sometimes we feminists really need to understand that the majority of feminism is infected with White Feminism™, and a lot of the problems that center around female oppression originate from racism. You know who receive even less money then the general gender wage gap? Women of color. You know who face racially charged sexual harassment in work places? Women of color. You know whose bodies are actually perceived as ‘dangerous’? Women of color.