Aggressively Positive Offical

I'm here to aggressively compliment you and scream "YOU'RE AMAZING" at the top of my lungs because the best thing to do is to tell the truth until you believe it (*grabs you by the shoulders and starts shaking you* YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL)

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

hello humans!

every single person on this planet is beautiful and unique and spectacular and awesome, but unfortunately, many of them do not realise this 😔

so because of that, i have created this blog purely for the sole purpose of reminding all these beautiful, talented people just how awesome they are (and this includes you 😊). but for some reason, people find it hard to believe they're good even when their very soul is woven with threads of pure amazingness. being gentle doesn't really get the message through.

so we have to be aggressive :)

i am here to be your extremely hyper and fierce cheerleader. i am screeching compliments from the sidelines and cheering my head off when you do the most mundane of things. i am here to tell you about all the great things about yourselves over and over until you realise it.

(basically i bully you into realising you're wonderful)

i am aggressively positive, and will not stop until you realise just how beautiful you are. 🥰

side note: my ask box is open for you to share your achievements with me. whether you swam across the pacific or did your homework, i will celebrate you with every fibre of my being, and will scream hysterically at your amazingness until my voice goes hoarse.

OOC & tags under the cut

pronouns are she/they, but you can use whatever i don't really care

this is a side blog so it might take me a bit longer to respond than if this were my main

i genuinely believe everybody needs to realise they're good :)

Tags:

aggressively-positive celebrates — celebrating an achievement

aggressively-positive speaks — usually when i have something slightly more serious/different to say

aggressively-positive — HELL YEAH YOU'RE AWESOME

aggressively-positive answers — answering an ask that isn't an achievement

offically-awesome — an achievement that is deemed officially awesome

not aggressively-positive — when i have something ooc to say

anyway, that's all from me, and as a reminder: YOU ARE A WONDERFUL HUMAN BEING AND SCREW ANYONE WHO SAYS OTHERWISE

[bubble-official]

I’m a shitty person

[avhira]

No

[bubble-official]

Yes

I clearly am

[avhira]

Absolutely not

How are you 'obviously' when it's not true?

[bubble-official]

My friend is HAPPY.

It’s her one month anniversary and here I am crying about it

I fucking scratched through the top layer of my hand because I can’t bring it in me to be happy

And the only person I can talk to doesn’t GET IT

And she says she won’t be upset and then she just

I fucking can’t

[avhira]

It's okay to not be happy for someone, even your best friend.

[bubble-official]

But it’s wrong not to be happy

She didn’t do anything wrong

She’s just in a happy relationship and I am too emotionally immature to listen to her be happy and talk about it

[avhira]

No, it's not wrong to be unhappy.

It doesnt matter that she hadn't done anything wrong.

And it's not being emotionally immature to not be able to hear her talk about it.

[bubble-official]

I have no reason! I AM emotionally immature.

“Emotional immaturity refers to the inability to manage emotions in a mature way, often resulting in selfishness, lack of empathy, and difficulty in relationships. It can manifest as overreactions to situations, impulsive behaviors, and challenges in accepting responsibility for one's actions.”

I am so fucking selfish for feeling this way. I am 100 overreacting and I don’t have any excuse

I’m just to fucking clingy

[goldenbunny30]

Clingy isn’t bad, k? And some other ppl are emotionally immature too. I think @aggressive-positivity-offical needs to be called upon. Repeated

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

hey @bubble-official !

YOU ARE NOT EMOTIONALLY IMMATURE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO FEEL WHATEVER FEELINGS YOU FEEL. NO EMOTIONS ARE UNACCEPTABLE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO NOT BE HAPPY FOR HER. THAT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON IN THE SLIGHTEST. EMOTIONS AND LOGIC ARE TWO DIFFERENT THINGS. IF YOU LOGICALLY KNOW YOU SHOULD BE HAPPY FOR HER, BUT THE EMOTIONS YOU FEEL DONT LINE UP WITH THAT, IT'S OKAY! YOU ARE NOT A BAD PERSON! YOU ARE AWESOME AND WONDERFUL AND BEAUTIFUL AND KIND AND YOU SHOULDNT FEEL PRESSURED EVEN BY YOURSELF TO REGULATE YOUR EMOTIONS INTO SOMETHING SOCIALLY ACCEPTABLE. FEEL WHAT YOU WANT TO FEEL. AS LONG AS YOU DONT ACTIVELY TRY TO MAKE YOU FRIEND FEEL BAD ABOUT IT, YOU ARE NOT IN THE WRONG IN ANY WAY. ITS COMPLETELY NORMAL TO FEEL LIKE THE EMOTIONS YOU ARE HAVING ARE WRONG OR SHOULDNT HAVE A PLACE OR ARE COMPLETELY UNFOUNDED. BUT THAT DOES NOT MAKE IT TRUE. YOU ARE ALLOWED TO FEEL WHAT YOU FEEL. YOU ARE ALLOWED. IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON.

I LOVE YOU, OK? <3

@bubble-official @bubble-official @bubble-official

[bubble-official]

DID YOU CHANGE YOUR URL FOR A SEC OR ARE MY NOIFIS BECOMING SCHIZO

I

Fuck you caught that

Yes I did

[goldenbunny30]

I agree that you deff hate yourself

But you need uh aggressive positivity and so @aggressive-positivity-offical

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

is there hate going on here?

SELF HATE?

@bubble-official I'm going to have to ask you deny this accusation of self hatred with some relevant proof, or i will be forced to be Aggressive and i don't think either of us want that

so show me you being nice to yourself or i'll do it for you

[ririwithrice]

i don’t think i’m interesting or cool or funny enough for my friends anymore :(

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

HEY RIRI

I LOVE YOU, OK? YOURE BEAUTIFUL, OK? YOU ARE INCREDIBLY INTERESTING AND COOL AND FUNNY AND YOUR POSTS ALWAYS MAKE ME LAUGH AND YOURE JUST AN AMAZING FUCKING PERSON IN GENERAL AND ANYONE WHO THINKS OTHERWISE NEEDS TO STOP AND HAVE A SERIOUS THINK AND READJUST THEIR PERSPECTIVE ON LIFE BECAUSE ANYBODY WHO CANT SEE YOUR AWESOMENESS IS BLIND AS HELL BECAUSE YOU ABSOLUTELY RADIATE JUST FUCKING SPECTACULARNESS EVERY DAY ALL THE TIME

AND STOP DOUBTING YOURSELF, YOUR FRIENDS STILL LOVE YOU. OK? I KNOW FOR SURE. YOU DON'T HAVE TO BE SOME PERFECT PERSON TO HAVE FRIENDS. YOU JUST HAVE TO TRY. AND YOURE ALREADY DOING THAT

HAVE AN AWESOME DAY :D

[girljournal]

[kindness-offical]

✨kindness spotted✨

But also, be kind to yourself!! There are other people who are hurting, but you are too and it’s okay to step back and take a breather before coming back. That is not to say that it’s okay to be mean when you’re hurting, but that it’s more than okay to take some time for yourself

[bubble-official]

Others matter more

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

NO THEY DONT

YOU MATTER JUST AS MUCH AS EVERYBODY ELSE HERE AND IF YOU TRY TO BE SELF DEPRECATING TO ONE OF THE NICEST, KINDEST, MOST WHOLESOME AND LOVABLE PEOPLE ON THE PLANET I AM GOING TO BE VERY ANNOYED WITH YOU

ILY BUBBLE <3 MERRY CHRISTMAS AND HAPPY NEW YEAR

[thedeadskincellsonyourpillow]

love trans people

[the-rat12]

haha you love yourself!!!!!

[i-hate-network-programming]

trans people rock!!! i love them a lot :3

[amy-offical]

i love all trans people except myself

[aceofpans]

loves you double to make up for it

[amy-offical]

why

[aceofpans]

you deserve it

[amy-offical]

no i dont

[aceofpans]

you do because love isn’t something you earn. You actually just get it by doing nothing. You deserve love for living

[amy-offical]

but horrible people dont deserve love

[aceofpans]

true

but youre not horrible

[amy-offical]

yeah i am

[aceofpans]

have you murdered hundreds of people?

No? So youre not a horrible person

[amy-offical]

i guess...

[aceofpans]

so you’re deserving of love?

[amy-offical]

nope

[aceofpans]

you are though

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

@berry-plasmagirl-berrington is that denying of self love i hear? you better watch out, if i hear something like that again i'm going to have to be forceful...

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

I left a toxic friendship! It was really difficult and took a lot of tears but I did it

YIPPEE!!!

That is so awesome. I'm so incredibly proud of you, well done you wonderful person <3 as somebody who's experienced that sort of thing for myself, I know it can be so hard to leave, but I know you're going to be so much happier because of it <3 :D

YOU DID A WONDERFUL JOB YOU BEAUTIFUL PERSON GREAT JOB! IM SO PROUD OF YOU FOR STICKING UP FOR YOURSELF AND HAVING THE INCREDIBLE STRENGTH TO DO SUCH AN AWESOME THING <3 HAVE AN AMAZING PERFECT STUNNING DAY WITHOUT ANY TOXIC JERKS TO SPOIL IT XXX I LOVE YOU SO MUCH, AND IM SO PROUD OF YOU. GREAT JOB, PERFECT HUMAN. HAVE A SPECTACULAR REST OF YOUR LIFETIME <333

[allsadnshit]

My mantra this week

[vengeful-unholy-ghost-offical-d]

Bread

We making a sandwich?

Ok ill bite

Bread butter

Open tags @crow-offical @villain-offical

[villain-offical]

Spiders

@supervillain-offical @hell-offical (+Open tags)

[supervillain-offical]

Thanks for the tag!

Pineapple pizza.

@supervillains-assistant-offical @cia-offical @superhero-offical @the-pineapple-offical @pizza-offical @tophat-offical + open tags

[cia-offical]

edible glitter

@fbi--offical @profain-offical @the-irs-offical + open tags

[the-irs-offical]

carnivorous cheese

@bank-owner-offical and open tags!

[bank-owner-offical]

Spiders.

Open tags !!

[ghostlybluetrain]

Vanilla extract

@aceofpans @make-me-president

[aceofpans]

ffucckk took my answer

yoghurt

@bellabookworm @belial-offical

[belial-offical]

Uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Marmite and colby cheese mmmmmmmm

@mariorat-the-aroace @dqk-theaceartist @windowtoluxus

[dqk-theaceartist]

oh um

chilli jam 👁👄👁

@cornelia-likes-tf2 @mariorat-the-aroace @no-one-offical @jerseyshoremassacre @roryjuice +the other besties! :)

[rory-bug]

one square of fresh charmin toilet paper

@dippitystick @i-like-eating-bones

[i-like-eating-bones]

Canned pumpkin

@saunteredvaugelydownwards @literarycrow

[literarycrow]

Polvorones

@oneepichermit @art-of-a-crow @aromatenmalen

[oneepichermit]

Sea salt caramel Ghirardelli chocolate @captain-blue027 @quietlyartistic13 @kirbyeatsgrass

[quietlyartistic13]

An entire container of mustard

@gandagastthepsychotic @swagtreeengineer @bouchard00

[sunny-funny-honey-pants]

three cans of tuna

@sylki221b-is-back @the-first-lamb-to-the-slaughter @moonkissedfaeriephantom @chimckenegg @ghostonagravestone @olive-and-aves

[ironspider-noctis]

(i‘m so dumb i read “three cans of trauma” wtf brain?!)

pickles

@chaotic-snowflake @aliensatemysocks @livelove-fangirl @ghostonagravestone @eatlembasbread @bwsdjc

[like-dandelions-in-the-wind]

an entire can of maple syrup

@thelocalidiot @siriuslyepicrunner @mr-tellmeafuckingsecrett

@sylki221b-is-back @eyes-without-a-faceee @fortyraccoonsinatrenchcoat

[eyes-without-a-faceee]

Crushed up lollipopssss!!

@toweird2benormal

[toweird2benormal]

one giant m&m

@fortyraccoonsinatrenchcoat @siriuslyepicrunner @thesightofthestarsmakemesmile @gl1tzygl0ck @2rexxer2 @just-4-girl

[gl1tzygl0ck]

4 whole sticks of cinnamon

@jel-e-ton @yourl0calqueer @milkymagicc @identitycroissant-tm @imkindasleepdeprived @will-soos @named-after-a-planet @not-really-a-conjunction @sherlynsandra

[identitycroissant-tm]

Croissant.

@autistobrat @rosemelodyshah @anon-remsha @lovely-mosspatch @thesightofthestarsmakemesmile @shenanigan42 @kelabookwortoes

[anon-remsha]

Grapes

@dont-you-dare-follow-me @the-grassy-hill @moriartea221 @whenyoulikeandwhereyoulike @darling-deceased-female @investigative-deduction @aka-edmond @i-eat-rusty-nails @lovely-mosspatch @thatwasfunnypleaselaugh @spectrexviiii @mischievous-archeologist @221biandconfused02 @moroniccats @aggressive-positivity-offical @local-fandom-nerd @lostwriter--xx3 @tinytk123 @type-blaze0 @lokijiro @lonidraper @lestradelurkshere @weighted-blanket-official @eeveegirlisnotonline @autistobrat

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

some berries i found on the tree outside my house (they taste kinda sour tho...)

[slfcare]

reasons people might be looking at you in public (that aren’t negative)

they like what you’re wearing.

you look like someone they know.

they recognize a piece of clothing or accessory you’re wearing.

they think you’re beautiful or attractive.

they’re not actually looking at you; they’re completely zoned out.

they're bored and people-watching.

they recognize you from somewhere.

they’re hesitating to ask you something or give you a compliment.

they’ve seen you in that same place before.

you caught their eye.

you look like how they imagined a fictional character to look.

you’re actively reminding them of something completely unrelated and they’re thinking about it.

they’re admiring one of your visual qualities (smile, stance, hairstyle).

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

NOT reasons people might be staring at you in public

wow that guy is really ugly and a loser i hate them

i love you and GOD DAMNIT ID STARE AT YOU TOO BECAUSE YOURE BEAUTIFUL AND AMAZING AND I LOVE YOU <3

[i-am-a-fish]

Hey , hey. listen to me. you are fucking got this ok? whatever it is, you can handle it. you're got this

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

O B E Y F I S H

[storybookprincess]

changing my mindset from “if I don’t keep my home clean i’m a useless horrible failure” to “i deserve to live in a comfortable, clean environment, so i will do my best to provide myself with that” has been fairly life changing

and it applies to so much!!!! i try to take whatever i’m beating myself up over, like “i haven’t been eating enough veggies lately so i suck as a human,” and instead reframe it as “my body deserves all the important nutrients found in vegetables” and suddenly i’m ten billion times more inclined to actually prioritize eating more veggies

shame is a paralytic!!!!! self compassion is an actual motivator!!!!!

[purr-in-ink]

A small reminder from your feline friend 🐈‍⬛🤍

[chibird]

Any little step is better than no steps! 🐢

Chibird store | Positive pin club | Instagram

[thatwasfunnypleaselaugh]

I kinda wanna make a note game. Just for the ego boost of being given notes.

We're going exponentially because I'm fucking scared. I do not expect all goals to be reached. I also will not be surprised if they're achieved before they're reached. Again, this is for notes and ego.

Orange means reached

Blue means in progress

Green means achieved

Red means gave up who said that?

4 notes - I'll hydrate myself

32 notes - I'll go back to working out

128 notes - I'll try and seek professional help regarding gaining weight (situation is getting dire, I am definitely not eating enough)

256 notes - I'll make some designs for Magpod/Nightvale characters I think should be designed

512 notes - I'll… sigh… stop self harming

768 notes - I'll stop picking at my skin + various other bad habits

1024 notes - I'll ask my irl friends if they hate me rather than just Spiral about it

2048 notes - I'll come out to my mom as trans

4096 notes - I'll come out to the rest of my family as trans

8192 notes - I'll come out to people at school as trans

16384 notes - I'll tell my parents I need to go to therapy

32768 notes - I'll inform my internet friends (not y'all, unfortunately, because Tumblr isn't safe for that) of a particular lie I have told

[thatwasfunnypleaselaugh]

So far, y'all failed to do even a single one

[breathethewater]

@walmart-the-official maybe we can get further then one goal :3

[breathethewater]

Maybe we'll stop at 80

[breathethewater]

Didn't end up stopping at 80 :3

[thatwasfunnypleaselaugh]

:3

[type-blaze0]

Sorry ori, the S.A.D. and job have me in a 0 to death combo. Now, ahem

@autistobrat @lovely-mosspatch @gayfurbyboi @bella-book-worm @anon-remsha @thatwasfunnypleaselaugh @archermightexist @harpymortem @british-cabbage @221biandconfused @bubble-official @king-of-oreo @mischievous-archeologist @netherator @identitycroissant-tm @rosemelodyshah @eeveegirlisnotonline @i-eat-rusty-nails @aka-edmond

Moots do your thing.

(Too lazy to find yours so oh well)

[anon-remsha]

@bellabookworm @the-grassy-hill @identitycroissant-tm @moriartea221 @whenyoulikeandwhereyoulike @investigative-deduction @aka-edmond @i-eat-rusty-nails @lovely-mosspatch @spectrexviiii @mischievous-archeologist @221biandconfused @moroniccats @aggressive-positivity-offical @local-fandom-nerd @lostwriter--xx3 @tinytk123 @lokijiro @lonidraper @lestradelurkshere @weighted-blanket-official @eeveegirlisnotonline

[aggressive-positivity-offical]

CMON GUYS WE CAN DO THIS LETS GO :D

@tagging-officals-offical @satan-offical @homosexuality-offical

[tanknaka]

hey

hey friend

dont kill yourself tonight ok

you have a really pretty smile and i know its not always easy to manage one but itd be a bummer if we never had the chance to see it ever again

youre really important and you matter a lot so stay safe and try and have a nice sleep

[the-grace-of-fallen-angels]

I would like a moment to thank the people who reblog post like this so that it eventually shows on my dash.

It is keeping me alive

[satan-offical]

No don't hate yourself, you're such a beautiful and amazing soul. I want to let you know that I will never give you up, or never let you down. I'll never run around and, desert you. I'll never make you cry, or say goodbye. Never gonna tell a lie, and hurt you.