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I seem to have a concerning number of “would you date a trans woman”, “would you introduce your girlfriend to your family is she was trans”, etc. posts on my feed… guys, gals and miscellaneous pals, I wish y’all would be kinder to yourselves.

I am dating a trans woman and, let me tell you, I’d sooner end my own life than let harm befall her. I have introduced her to my family and they all get along well with her. We’ve been dating for over a year and a half and she’s moving country so we can be together.

Being trans doesn’t make you any less of a person. Anyone who tells you otherwise can go fuck themselves, quite frankly.

#lgbtqiia+#transgender #lgbt #transfem #transmasc #nonbinary #agender

2021bingo

Just a reminder my blog is trans inclusive. It’s bi inclusive. It is pan inclusive. It is intersex inclusive. It is ace/asexual inclusive. It is aro/aromantic inclusive. It is queer inclusive.

I don’t support terfs or exclusionists.

If you came here looking for an ally in your bigotry you came to the wrong blog. Go away. You are not welcome here.

imsobadatnicknames2

I know I already made a post to this effect but it's so baffling to me when someone defends the fact that headphone jacks are slowly but surely getting phased out by smartphone manufacturers with some variations of "wireless headphones are more convenient anyway" bc like. If we're talking about convenience what I like about wired headphones is that they conveniently have a single plug that makes the same damn pair of headphones universally compatible with every single audio-output-capable device I own, from my phone and my computer to my fucking gameboy and my casette player, it doesn't get any more convenient than that.

billyp673

And you can’t forget to charge wired headphones

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stop deactivating

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i thought we all agreed we were here forever

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Original

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snommelp

So, I’ve been pulled over a few times in my life. Not many, but a few. And I’ve also been in a couple of cars that got pulled over. And let me tell you, if you were actually doing something wrong, the officer doesn’t make any small talk, just straight into “I clocked you doing 70 in a 55.” The only time I’ve ever gotten the “do you know why I pulled you over?” was the time when I wasn’t doing anything wrong, and I got let go even though he insisted to the end that I was doing 87 in a 70 (white privilege at work).

“Do you know why I pulled you over?” is a trap. It means there’s a good chance the officer doesn’t actually have a good reason to ticket you, and is trying to get you to waive your 5th Amendment rights and incriminate yourself. If you make a guess, that’s a confession of guilt.

But there’s another trap, that I’ve heard of but haven’t yet experienced. It’s “do you know how fast you were going?” With that one, they’re hoping you’ll say no, because then they can name whatever speed they want – you just said you didn’t know how fast you were going, if you deny the speed they name then you’re lying to them.

themightytej

Oh, I’ve had that one. Go with “yes.” Don’t give them a number, just say “Yes.” Then they still have to offer a number and you can deny it without contradicting yourself. They could just ask you, at that point, but that’s suspiciously similar to saying they don’t know, and they tend to avoid doing that.

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Reblog to save a life

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if you scroll past this just because it doesn’t affect you personally, i see you.

dovewithscales

Also, you can always go to court and contest a ticket, and a lot of times you’ll win. Or if the cop thinks you’ll win they won’t even show up and you’ll win by default.

They like to target out of state plates because anyone who would be majorly inconvenienced by a court date two months away is a lot more likely to just pay it.

billyp673

I once heard that the correct answer to “do you know how fast you were going” is “I believe I was going the speed limit”, but don’t quote me on that

youcanstillwhistle

I think the "pre" and "post" parts in "preposterous" should cancel each other out but everyone else seems to find my idea completely erous

billyp673

If they can cancel out like in algebra, does that mean they can also be rearranged? Or would that be postpreerous?

cholerascum

"erm! actually! I'm not comfortable calling people it/its! it just makes me uncomfortable I feel dirty and icky and mean! why not just use they/them? sending love!" doesn't feel good reading once. reading it 12000 times on 4 different posts? fucking explode. leave it/it's users alone. you really don't have to share that someones chosen pronouns makes you uncomfortable. you sound like a transphobe.

rosiemoo

Thinking back to the person who said “I have an issue with it/its pronouns” and I replied “you and everyone else”

I was then locked into an unskippable cutscene where they said my pronouns are bad because they support slavery. Still a head scratcher that one

cholerascum

insane behavior on their part. hell forever.

billyp673

I’ll never understand people who don’t respect other’s pronouns. Like, there are some neo-pronouns that I don’t understand or whatever but, at the end of the day, it’s just a word and it makes the person who identifies with it happy. I don’t need to understand it to understand that it makes the person feel more comfortable in their own skin.

It’s not my, or anyone else’s, place to dictate how someone else feels about themselves and, by extension, their pronouns. If you can’t use someone’s preferred pronouns, then you’re prioritising your own (likely incorrect) personal grammatical pedantry over the wellbeing of others and I don’t think I want to associate with someone like that.

TL;DR: I agree, and happy pride :3

#lgbtqiia+#respect people’s pronouns

lovehype

i hate this place i want to go to build a bear

lovehype

me and the besties going to build a bear

leftnipsdoodles

powerful mental image, had to get it out

erisluna35

I felt bad for Beth. Had to include her.

ok-fandom

I woke up out of a dead sleep to make this and then immediately passed back out

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I raise u

awkwordalex

Trainer Alex wants to battle!

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I add

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please consider

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A new challenger enters the stage

serperoir

how about…

duothelingo

I present:

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Fuck you

cholerascum

nihilism and pessimism are stupid.

the world is beautiful idiot!!! love is beautiful too moron!! look the night sky for two seconds!!!

nihilists DNI!!!!! unironically!!! fuck off!!!

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I personally think absurdism is the solution to nihilism

“nothing matters so why do anything”

WRONG: Nothing matters, so do whatever you want, whatever makes you happy! Live free from eternal judgement, live free from the idea that you must act a certain way!

cholerascum

I really love that

cholerascum

thinking more on this. I do disagree with "nothing matters" even if viewed positively. it's less so that nothing matters, and moreso that it's ok and fine. do what you want yeah!! live free of eternal judgement!! if what you're doing makes you happy, it matters!!! and it's ok!!!!

billyp673

What about optimistic nihilism? Nothing has objective meaning, so you may as well ascribe subjective meaning instead. The world is beautiful, life is wonderful, and you don’t need permission from the universe to view it as such.