shy autistic sea creature

Ash/Apollo || 18 || they/them || the worst person around || the scary trans liberal college radical feminist they warned you about || current special interest: shining nikki & cult of the lamb

[dandelionsresilience]

“What options do I have besides suicide?”

this is NOT an “alternatives to suicide/coping methods” post. it’s “what do we do now?”

1. have hope and keep trying to do good

do what you gotta do to make it through this week

be brave and be kind; we are still here

survive for the people who have survived before, and to spite the people who want you to despair

call a hotline

when you are miserable, make something; it will change the world

2. it might not be over yet

check whether your ballot was counted, you’re allowed a few days to fix errors

it might just be a signature mismatch

fix your ballot if someone made you vote for someone you didn’t want to

good things happened in this election too

more positive ballot measures passed

3. the way out will always be community

bond and organise with your community

engage in community activism

the way forward is together; anarchism starts in the now

you’re still allowed to stay/get sober, and you’re allowed to take precautions if you’re not sober

do your own trans healthcare

[graveyarrdshift]

"I'm just a girl", "girl math", "girl dinner", "divine feminine energy", "bimbocore", "clean girl", "girl's girl", "girlfriend brain" SHUT UPPP!!! SHUTT THE FUCKKKK UPPPPPP !!!!

[liliparfait]

propaganda i’m not falling for

[imissthembutitwasntadisaster]

"I know chatgpt is bad but you just don't really have any choice" you literally do. Don't use it. Have some moral backbone.

[birdsareblooming]

it's been like 2 years. i havent touched it. never needed to. "you don't really have a choice," are you so swift to forget the recent past? Bitch i still use itunes to download mp3s to so i have them forever and any song i want, then my sister burns them to CDs. When boycotts rolled out my other sister got no thanks to scan what products we shouldn't buy. i still use corded headphones not because "its older" but because it's easier. a fool criticizes those who buy candles 200 years after the invention of the electric light until the power goes out. become ungovernable. you are not immune to propaganda. you've never had Chatgpt forced upon you, the only thing forced upon you is the idea that Chatgpt is forced upon you. why claim you need something today that you didn't need yesterday. little bitch.

[teophan]

[10april]

[communist-hatsunemiku]

This video is a perfect demonstration of just how badly elderly people need to be introduced to video games. Like it should be a thing in facilities and assisted living, it's like a no brainer, and could enrich these people's live SO MUCH!!!

[wonder-doughnut]

Someone probably already said this somewhere in the notes, but it is critical that we end the stigma of video games being brain rotting wastes of time. The controlled mild stress of playing a video game is actually very good for staving off the onset of dementia because the snap decisions necessary while playing them keep the brain active and focused, as opposed to just passively taking in information like you do when watching TV or even reading a book to an extent.

Video games could keep people cognitively coherent for a longer time. This means they could literally keep families communicating and connected for a longer time. And yes we could use more than just Wii Fit and Wii Sports at nursing homes because those are less physically accessible than video games that don't require motion controls.

[tra-archive]

God this woman posted on r/vent talking about how hard it can be to be an ugly woman (her words) and all these moids were in the comments saying “now try being an ugly man,” “now you actually have to work hard for stuff like men do instead of using your looks,” “at least you can still get sex,” etc.

I have no words except I hate men

[templeofpoes]

Ugly men are ignored at worst but still get girlfriends/wives who act like their full-time mothers and ‘’sex-dispensers’’ to these losers

but ‘’ugly’’ women and girls are targeted, harassed,bullied,demeaned, dehumanised, beaten, assaulted, abused and killed. It is made worse if you are ‘’ugly’’ and *something* so ‘’ugly’’+disabled, ‘’ugly’’+Black,Asian,Native etc

we’re told from childhood just how subhuman we are and how we don’t even ‘’’deserve’’’ to be raped by these degenerate creatures

a similar thing happens in autistic spaces (which I can no longer go to because of this) where males will tell us how it’s harder to be an autistic male because they’re not alphas that get dates meanwhile we women say well we don’t get dates either but are harmed and predated on more than non-autistic women and these disgusting freaks tell us, no joke, that we should be grateful for the attention and at least you’re lucky enough to ‘’’’’get action’’’’’(rape/assault)

KAM.🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓🪓

[demonprincex]

you don't "hate kids," you hate being forced into a caretaking role.

you don't "hate kids," you hate censorship passed off as family values.

you don't "hate kids," you hate the constrictiveness of the nuclear family.

you don't "hate kids," you're just not used to occupying fully age diverse spaces so you're not used to the noise or the many different kinds of needs.

you don't "hate kids," most public spaces just aren't built for kids, and so the few kids you see are always uncomfortable and distressed.

you don't "hate kids," you hate the intense social rules assigned to kids and anyone who interacts with kids.

You don't "hate kids," you hate how society reproduces its most restrictive elements and how kids are powerless to resist it.

[spellbound037]

I don't hate kids, I hate everything about kids that makes them kids. As a physically and neurologically disabled person, I hate people who are rude for no reason (general disability), people who leave random things on the floor (general physical disability), people who are unnecessarily loud (autism), people who don't consider the feelings of others (general disability), people who make weird/gross sounds (misophonia), etc etc etc. These are things that are intrinsic parts of childhood. Kids are going to do these things, some of them can be corrected immediately, some cannot. It's a lot easier to say "I hate kids" than it is to go into detail about exactly how my disability impacts my perception of the world and other people. Even this much detail, which is not much at all, is more than I would ever willingly explain to a random woman in Walmart, or even my own grandmother. Not everyone can be expected to tolerate children's behavior. If you are able to, you should, but some of us just aren't. There's nothing wrong with not being able to handle screaming children, just don't have children, and what reasonable person gives a rat's ass what your justification for that is?

[erebusvincent]

[luvkirby4ever]

Idk if 4chan is actually dead but this is the only thing good that ever came from that site anyways.

[mala-santa-radfem]

i'm sorry but i find this so deeply pathetic. you don't love being a woman. you love consumerism and that has nothing to do with being a woman.

[softblockwashere-deactivated202]

[milfposting69]

[thetreetopinn]

*DYING AT THAT TAG*

[dragongyrlwren]

The anonymity that comes with being behind a screen.

See also: the knowledge that most of the people they do this to aren't going to take the time and effort to confront them either irl or online, and the delusional belief that they'll immediately bow to their ridiculous demands.

They don't expect to be ignored, and they don't expect their behavior to ever come back to bite them. It's arrogance, and the demand to have this kind of power over another person. Which it stupid and honestly makes them a special kind of awful.

[mademoisellemaddox-deactivated2]

conversion therapy but wrapped with a rainbow/trans bow on top

[strange-aeons]

My 4 homophobic uncles when I show up to Easter dinner on shrooms

[bananaofchaos]

[newyikecity]

i'm going crazy yall

[knife-red]

[femalegothic]

are the women unfamiliar with rejection on the planet with us right now? where are the women who have never felt unwanted or ugly?

[woman-respecter]

like that one post said, anyone who has ever tried to posit the existence of male only issues really doesn’t see women as human beings with feelings

[magnesia]

They think that every woman is pretty and has a long line of fanboys waiting for her because they dont see ugly women as human or even notice their existence

[unexplained-events]

Faces carved into the walls of the Paris Catacombs

[m3n4c3v35537]

Frenchmen be like “this pitch black cave full of skeletons is not scary enough, I must make it worse”

[der-ewige-retard]

[guerrillatech]

[lizzylolz]

[emergency-broadcast-archive]

[emergency-broadcast-archive]

[vexingwoman]

We need more teachers to shed light on some of the trends they’re seeing in young girls, good or bad.

A teacher on here said that in her school, girls as young as eleven are now using anti-aging skincare products. Another teacher said half the girls in her class now identify as trans. And I’ve seen multiple teachers talk about how girls are outperforming boys across the board, to a ridiculous degree.

I’m very curious to know what else teachers are noticing.

[radfem4agoodtime]

buckle up!

boys are 95% of my problem. all the time. i work in high free/reduced lunch schools with quite a bit of diversity as well (many refugees/immigrants.)

i see everyone in both schools, so that’s about 700 kids.

ninety. five. percent. of my problems. are male.

the other day, the rare time i had a girl be my “problem,” it was because a boy in her class was taunting her and she very rightfully wanted to punch him in the face.

i had to restrain a student the day before that because he attempted to ATTACK two of his classmates due to something that happened on the playground.

in fact, every time i’ve had to restrain to prevent physical harm (about 5 times in the past 3 years,) 4/5 have been boys.

i have boys as young as kindergarten full on MOANING and saying “daddy” in a moaning voice as well. they think it’s so funny and obviously at that age don’t know why. but you know who’s not doing that, even though it’s “funny”?

girls.

there are special classes for the kids who are ~so smart~ (separate issue.)

these kids should have minimal, if no behavioral issues. guess who the problems are when that rare event happens, though!

and guess who the majority is in both of those classes even though, societally, girls are outperforming them?

I’ve debated many times to leave teaching to find a job where i can focus on women/girls.

it’s just too much, y’all.

[barebackscissoring-deactivated2]

males shouldn’t be allowed to practice gynecology, end of story, not sorry

[transmedicalistic]

i see 27 is in your bio, is that your iq or your age?

[dysphoric-vanitas]

Fun fact: most of the things I’ve heard about male gynecologists is that they’re usually a lot more careful and gentler than the females. The females are rather forceful and tend to say “Oh, I have a vagina too, this isn’t too bad.”

I’ve only heard of one horrid male gynecologist but he seems to be cruel only to my friend.

[barebackscissoring-deactivated2]

not that fucking misogynist dipshits like either of you care but i was raped by a male gynecologist when i was 16 and unfortunately my experience is in no way uncommon. i challenge you to google instances of male gynecologists assaulting and otherwise violating their female patients and get back to me.

[deadlyviolet]

Talk about misogyny, they assume a woman who has the same reproductive organs would be less careful than a man who clearly doesn’t and can’t relate to what he is handling. Men are so careless and dismissive of the pain women feel cause they don’t relate and have this notion about women.. wasn’t there many posts discussing the misdiagnosis women suffer from due to male doctors, especially with chronic pain and endometriosis..¿¿

[rad-itzel]

i am 42, and I have never gone to a male gynecologist. I don’t care how “gentle”, “careful”, sweet”, and “adorable” they are, I will never go to one.

Just like I would never take my car to a mechanic who has never driven a car.

And that is not considering the chance of assault and harrassment.

And then there’s this:

[princess-fivey]

I go to 100% female doctors and don’t regret it.

[tumbir-banned-me]

Female doctors get paid 1/3 the amount of pay as a male doctor, at the same hospital, yet they on average have more patients, better success, especially surgery and work more