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Have you ever heard of the Thalidomide Scandal?
Yes
No
Sounds familiar
Another unscientific poll just to see if this is well known, especially in disability circles and to spread awareness.
In short the Thalidomide Scandal had to do with a medication prescribed to pregnant women for morning sickness. It was pushed without proper studies and resulted in the births of thousands of âsealâ babies. Essentially, their limbs were affected. Some had no limbs, some had short limbs, some had only arms affected, others only legs. At the time many of these babies were left to die after birth. However many brave parents and foster parents took care of these babies who are now entering their elderly years. The biggest part of this scandal is that the safety regulations and alarm bells were ignored to push this drug. I had never heard of this drug until I watched Call the Midwife which had thalidomide baby named Susan and they brought her back throughout the years to show how she was getting on.
However now Iâm watching a documentary now on Prime called No Limits, which focuses on this scandal and tells the story of its victims. Itâs so wonderful to hear from the victims themselves about what itâs like to be a thalidomide baby. Iâm only a quarter through it and already moved tears watching footage of a thalidomide baby just being happy with a family. Meanwhile in another story, mothers got off murder charges for getting rid of their disabled child.
This story is such an important part of disability history, I think everyone should know.
Thalidomide scandal - Wikipedia
I finished the documentary and I think there are two big takeaways. The first is how well the victims of thalidomide are doing with the love and support they deserve. When they were born many of their parents were told to basically throw them away and try again. Yet with the right kind of support they are thriving.
The second is that the story isnât over. I thought thalidomide was done as a drug but itâs still used as a leprosy drug in countries with poor pharmaceutical regulation. Meaning babies are being born without limbs today because of a drug we discovered caused this roughly 60 years ago. Absolutely despicable. I donât know what this drug does for leprosy; if it is helpful then it should be used but under the strictest of guidelines, and if that canât be followed then it shouldnât be used at all.
can i be honest tho i kinda hate makeup bc i love licking my lips and rubbing my hands on my face like a cat or a fly annd i also love wiping my eyes like a sleepy infant all the time so basically i cant do it
When I stopped wearing makeup this was such a big realisation for me: the little human actions and sensations Iâd deprived myself of for the sake of keeping paint on my face. Being able to lick my lips, or stick my tongue out, or rub my eyes, or splash water on my face, or cry, or scratch an itch, or feel rain on my face without worrying about messing up my makeup made me realise just how much Iâd been restricting myself before.
Feminism exists to help women like this journalist:
what can't women do when we decide to do it together
Max Dashu needs your help
Max Dashu is a prolific writer, feminist, historian-anthropologist who focuses on Womanity (the existence of matriarchal cultures in the past and present).
She is facing macular degeneration, glaucoma and cataracts. If you have the capacity, please donate to help save her eyes and teeth!
You can visit her gofundme for more info here.
hiii lesbians, if anyone is interested thereâs a lesbian-only server.
18+. female-only.
most women in it are radfem or leftist and it has a combination of casual and discussion channels. within it are also specific channels for lesbians of colour, detrans, ex-christians, and ex-muslims.
e sometimes plan meet-ups! thereâs a selfie verification requirement!
https://discord.gg/KwhkhCvTXT
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sometimes i think about chatgpt and openai and i randomly remember that sam altman raped and abused his little sister while she was a young child for years and is actively being sued by her over it. Like. This guy is an (alleged) child sexual abuser and no one cares? Like hello? How does everyone not know about this? This guy is extremely wealthy and actively shaping the public policy and economy of the richest country in the world? People should know about this??? Look up Altman V. Altman 4:25-cv-00017. This is all real
Discover insights into Identity Formation with psychFORM. Explore how LGBTQ umbrellas affect gay identities.
Abstract
This study examined developmental outcomes among gay male undergraduates within contemporary LGBTQ coalition structures on university campuses. A mixed-methods design was used to assess identity formation, perceived belonging, and psychological safety among N = 49 students (38 gay-identifying males; 11 transgender-identifying female-to-male students) at the University of Michigan across Winter and Spring 2024. Structured interviews and survey measures evaluated agency, authenticity, and relational security within coalition-based campus environments. Although LGBTQ discourse groups sexual and gender minorities under a unified sociopolitical umbrella, developmental theory suggests that sexual orientation and gender identity emerge from distinct psychological pathways with different mechanisms of consolidation (Erikson, 1968; McWilliams, 2011)
Findings indicate that gay male students experience conditional belonging when situated within a trans-centered LGBTQ identity hierarchy. 86% reported feeling pressured to align with trans political or ideological frameworks to maintain social acceptance, while 0% of transgender participants perceived such alignment as optional for coalition cohesion. Gay students additionally reported reduced perceived freedom to differentiate (84%) and anticipated social exclusion if they did not maintain visible alignment (78%). By contrast, transgender respondents reported no perceived threat of displacement and identified their identity category as central to coalition legitimacy.
The data show that this conditional structure results in agency erosion and premature foreclosure of identity development among gay students. Belonging is experienced as contingent on alignment, producing chronic self-monitoring and limiting conditions for autonomous selfauthorship. These results suggest that the current model of LGBTQ inclusion functions as a system of conditional belonging that impedes independent identity consolidation among gay men in university settings.
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Balanced question pair: 1A: âDo you believe trans students have a shared right to define the meaning of âLGBTQ identityâ for the community as a whole?â 1B: âDo you believe individual subgroups (e.g., gay men) should independently define their own identity without trans mediation?â
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Conclusion
The findings of this study establish that the current structure of LGBTQ coalition identity on university campuses produces a measurable developmental cost for gay male students. The pressure to align with a trans-centered identity framework functions not as affirmation but as a mechanism of conditional belonging, resulting in agency erosion, chronic vigilance, and identity foreclosure.
The climate of enforced ideological alignment does not promote safety; it substitutes compliance for autonomy. Gay students are not permitted to form identity through self-authorship, but instead adopt externally scripted identity roles in order to retain access to community. This foreclosure is relationally enforced and persists because the institution misinterprets the absence of dissent as evidence of support.
The harm is internal rather than discursive: developmental conditions required for individuation are suspended, and identity consolidation is replaced with role adherence. Belonging is contingent on ideological conformity, and the resulting silence is structurally rewarded as proof of inclusion. Gay identity, as a distinct developmental category, is displaced within a coalition architecture that centers trans identity as the sole source of legitimacy.
Therefore, the study demonstrates that the current model of LGBTQ inclusion on campus operates as a system of conditional belonging that is incompatible with autonomous identity development. Integrity fatigue is the clinical consequence of this structure: a state in which authenticity is chronically suppressed because the only available pathway to belonging requires its forfeiture.
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The crux of this is that:
Gay male identity is not contingent upon external validation. Homosexuality is real. While "trans" identity is contingent upon external validation. That's why they're so militant about force-teaming: without the legitimacy of gay and bisexual men and women, "trans" identity evaporates.
Gay men feel socially pressured to endorse "trans" support that they don't believe in, and the result for them is a forfeiture of identity, especially as "trans" narcissism always takes centre stage. When was the last time you saw anything from the "LGBTQWERTY community" that didn't degenerate into into "trans" gobbledygook?
This is why LGBâïžQT+. You cannot destroy yourself or your identity for someone else. Especially when they openly hate you.
That's not good enoughđĄ She should be given an awardđ€
"vigilante" ok then come on tell us what he did. go on i wanna hear what his dumb ass did lol
Free to read article here (x)
Did yâall know that octopuses can remember individual faces? There have been studies conducted showing that octopuses have a preference for keepers depending on how nice they are to them.
Not surprisingly, it showed that octopuses (both male and female) preferred the female caretakers because the male caretakers were not as kind and gentle with the octopuses. This is reflected in almost every job or career that involves caring for animals, especially endangered and vulnerable animals.
This isnât radfem related necessarily, but I just thought it was nice to share. Also goes to show that women are in fact better than men in every aspect, especially when it comes to caring for and being in the presence of non human animals.
When I was in college, my Creative Nonfiction professor would regularly have us do something she called "hotspotting" (she didn't know that this was already a term tbc) with our rough drafts. Basically, hotspotting is when you look at your draft and pick out your favorite sentence, or one of your favorite sentences--one that you're really proud of--and write it down in a blank sheet in a notebook. Not a new document, a physical notebook. (You are not allowed to use technology for hotspotting.) And then you set a timer for however long--like maybe ten to twenty minutes--and you elaborate. You treat that one sentence as if it's the opening sentence to a new draft, and you write from there, until the timer is up.
It sounds like a gimmick, but honestly, some of my best writing in that class came from hotspotting. Usually, the sentence you consider the "best" is the one that really gets to the heart of something you're trying to convey. In a rough draft, it tends to be that you're fumbling around a bit before you really hit on the heart of things. So with hotspotting, you're starting from a less fumbly place, which means you're able to dig into your subject in a much deeper and more precise way. It makes you feel like a surgeon, a little bit.
So I do recommend trying it, even just for fun, even if you think the rough draft you have is already good. You might surprise yourself with what you come up with! :)
Many doctors performing labiaplasties were never taught vulvar anatomyâleaving some patients scarred and unable to feel sexual pleasure.
Content warning for genital mutilation, medical trauma
When Jessica Pin got a labiaplasty at age 18, her consent form read, âexcision of redundant labia.â Instead, the doctor cut off the entirety of her labia minora and performed a clitoral hood reduction she never agreed to.
Afterward, when she touched her clitoris, there was no sensation. Since then, she hasnât been able to orgasm, or feel much of anything at all, without a vibratorâsomething therapists and doctors dismissed as normal or a consequence of her ânot being in love.â
When she wrote to her surgeon about what happened, he said heâd given her what she asked for. But an examination from his colleague confirmed that the dorsal nerve of her clitoris had been cut, leaving scars.
She wanted to report her surgeon, but her psychiatrist warned her that the board would defend him and attack her. Plus, the loss of her sexual functioning combined with the backlash sheâd received for talking about it had left her suicidal. By the time she felt mentally healthy enough to speak out, the statute of limitations had passed. The doctor went on to win awards and become president of the state medical association. And even after she got yet another examination from his colleague, her surgeon said the scars must have been from a different surgery (which she never got) or that she must have done it herself (which she didnât).
When another woman, who wishes to remain anonymous until her case goes to trial, got surgery to repair a tear to her labia after a sexual assault, she told the doctor not to go anywhere near her clitoris. âThe doctor decided they needed to remodel my entire vulva, without discussing with me or asking for my consent, thinking this was best and would improve the âappearance,ââ she remembers.
Instead of the minor repair she requested, her inner labia were completely cut off, and the skin of her outer labia and clitoral hood were pulled inward, causing nerve damage. In addition to losing all sexual sensation and ability to orgasm, she developed âextreme burning sensations, sharp pains in my clitoris glans, shaft, up the inguinal nerves and into my cervix.â She now finds it difficult to walk due to the pain. She had several consultations with doctors who do reconstructive surgery for botched labiaplasties. âThey told me it looks like FGM,â she says.
A study she conducted that is currently awaiting publication has identified hundreds of women who have been victims of botched labiaplasties. Their complaints include complete amputation of the labia, inability to orgasm, clitoral injuries, and labia minora stitched to their labia majora, clitoral hood, or vagina.
Itâs unclear how common incidents like these are, but theyâre common enough that there are discussions on online forums dedicated to botched labiaplasties, as well as doctors who specialize in correcting them. One of them is Michael Goodman, MD, Clinical Assistant Professor in the Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the California Northstate University School of Medicine, who estimates that âwell over a thousandâ women suffer from botched labiaplasties each year. This number will likely grow, as labiaplasty is the worldâs fastest-growing cosmetic surgery, seeing a 45% increase in 2016 alone.
A research group in Spain achieved pancreatic tumor regression in mice, one of the most aggressive cancers with the worst prognosis. Itâs a MAJOR breakthrough. In the news Iâve seen only the head of the group is mentioned, and as a science student Iâm against invisibilizing the work of postdocs and PhD students so here is the full (mostly female!) team of researchers who made it possible
are you a terf?
1. Iâm tired of this but here is a post with some links answering related questions. Anyway, Iâve decided to do something unfortunately long-winded in this answer.
2. The term âterfâ was created in 2008 by Viv Smythe, a self-described âcis-hetâ woman who ran a feminist blog. She would post feminist news and events to this blog. In February 2008, she made one such post about a party to celebrate the Michigan Womynâs Music Festival. A few comments were left on the post decrying Michfest due to the controversy over the festivalâs policy on trans inclusion. Smythe replied: âI donât intend to censor any mention of a feminist group or event simply because their feminisms may not be my feminisms.â A trans woman commented on the post saying that Smythe should have included a disclaimer: âAn editors note saying that this festival was problematic. Very simple, and beyond fair, methinks. As in Note: This festival excludes a highly marginalized group of women, and is considered by some as problematic. As much as I loathe the actions of this crowd, they too have a right to be part of the plurality of feminisms⊠even at the cost of trans womenâs lives (as in dead from lack of services) that have been lost to the atmosphere of exclusion promoted by their transphobic ideas.â Smythe updated the post with such a disclaimer.
An organizer for the party also commented on the post saying, âTo report, we spoke with MichFest â They do not have a written policy, or any policy for that matter on Trans. Trans womyn are welcome to the party.â Smythe did not find this sufficiently convincing, saying that Lisa Vogel, organizer of the festival, needed to make a clear statement on the issue.
3. In her guardian piece on creating the term âterfâ, Smythe explains that the February post about the Michfest party led to the creation of the term as âcommenters sent me on a rapid learning curve regarding trans-exclusion issues both specific to Michfest and in general.â If you look to the actual post, it generated a very limited response: 7 replies from 4 users and they were all specifically about Michfest.
In any case, on August 17, 2008, half a year after the Michfest post, Smythe wrote a blog post denouncing âterfsâ (the first use of the term) in regards to the internet discussions on gender identity going on amongst other feminist bloggers. These discussions had nothing to do with Michfest and were in no way a continuation of the discussion going on in the comment section of the Michfest post six months prior. However, though the denouncing terfs post is linked in the guardian piece, the specifics of these feminist blogging debates are not mentioned at all. Instead, Smythe depicts Michfest as the start and center of the âterfâ term creation story. Indeed, she highlights the fact that a few days after the denouncing terfs post, she made another post about âterfsâ, this time apologizing for having posted about Michfest at all and committing to never promoting a trans-exclusionary event again. She quotes herself as having written on Michfest: âI am aware that this decision is likely to affront some trans-exclusionary radical feminists (TERFs), but it must be said: marginalising trans women at actual risk from regularly documented abuse /violence in favour of protecting hypothetical cis women from purely hypothetical abuse/violence from trans women in women-only safe-spaces strikes me as horribly unethical as well as repellently callous.â In so doing, Smythe emphasizes that âterfâ was created to describe and denounce Michfest.
4. In the guardian piece, Smythe compares âterfsâ to racists: âMuch of the factional divide here comes down to yet another gatekeeping argument about purity in feminism, perennial since the womenâs suffrage movement, and this one has uncomfortable echoes of Elizabeth Cady Stantonâs arguments against extending voting rights to black men.â
It is unclear to me how a music festival organized by lesbians can be seen as equivalent to saying black men should not be allowed to vote, or how a music festival somehow results in anyoneâs death from lack of services, or how wanting a female-centric music festival can be described as horribly unethical and repellantly callous. Disagreeing with Michfestâs policies does not make any of these statements make any kind of sense. They are more than hyperbolic; they are distortions. However, this has been the narrative consistently chosen and advanced about Michfest. Similarly, Jill Solowayâs Transparent directly compares Michfest to Nazi Germany. Somehow lesbians organizing a female-centric music festival in the woods is equivalent to white supremacy and genocide. Indeed, in an editorial for the The Bilerico Project, Barbra Siperstein somehow managed to compare Michfest to the Westboro Baptist Church (in addition to accusing Michfest organizers of penis envy).Â
5. The exact details of what happened at Michfest are not hugely important to this post. There are a number of resources that one can look into: Emi Koyama, TransSisters, Bonnie Morrisâ The Disappearing L: The Erasure of Lesbian Spaces, Riki Anne Wilchinsâ TRANS/gressive: How Transgender Activists Took on Gay Rights, Feminism, the Media & Congress ... and Won! etc. Iâve drawn my own conclusions but what matters here is how did a lesbian music festival become made into such a flashpoint? And the one and only answer is lesbophobia.
As Lisa Vogel reflected in 2018: âMichigan became a tool that trans activists and gay activists could wield against a larger homophobic mainstream culture. They could say, âThis is an example of intolerance even in our own community.â Gay men donât come from a radical lesbian analysis so they donât understand why we believe what we believe. [...] The press covered Camp Trans wildly, and I would try to respond. [The portrayal] was in a way that is straight up misogyny â by the gay press and the straight press. We cannot forget how defensive everybody is about having womynâs space. It was kind of perfect for the straight press and the gay press to have someone hammering us about having exclusive space that was supposedly [from] within the community. All kinds of things happen within the gay male community that is exclusive of trans people, that is exclusive of womyn, that is exclusive of, for example anyone except bears. They have complete autonomy of whoever they want to include. Itâs frustrating that this [exclusivity] is only held against womyn, I think it was used as a tool by the all-of-a-sudden exploding trans community to be pitted against these ânasty lesbian separatists.â [...] The reality is that Michigan already did not have the support of the gay community and we were an embarrassment to the gay organizations, who were all trying to be mainstream. And we were not trying to be mainstream, we are trying to live a different ethic and a different politic. No we wonât fly an HRC flag. No, we wonât do that.â
This also accords with the specific way that lesbian separatism is demonized. Lesbian separatism was literally modelled after the separatist movements created by people of colour. And indeed, many lesbians separatists were women of colour. In lesbian film-maker Pratibha Parmar's A Place of Rage, Angela Davis (also a lesbian!) specifically talks about the importance of separatism to women of colour. Yet lesbian separatism is viewed as some unique evil produced by uniquely evil dyke minds instead of a rational response to lesbophobia within feminist organizing and to misogyny within gay rights activism.
6. I think the history of the term âterfâ is important to understanding how it is used today. The woman who created the term has put forward a narrative where it was created in direct response to a lesbian musical festival in the woods; she does not say it was created to address transphobia amongst radical feminists, she does not say it was created to protest housing or employment or healthcare discrimination. She specifically tells us that discussing Michfestâs policies was where it began. Thus, while never naming lesbians, she advances a mean lesbians narrative. She, along with many others, advances a narrative where lesbians having a female-centric music festival is equivalent to denying people of colour their basic civil rights. And that is how it continues to be used today. We see lesbians being attacked as âterfsâ for literally being ourselves (being exclusively attracted to other female people) and for things of absolutely zero consequence (for saying that we would like to live with our partner in a house with a garden and a cat, for using the venus symbol, for joking that we donât need birth control etc) and all of this is absolutely in keeping with how and why the term was created. Lesbian existence, lesbian culture, lesbian history becomes âterfâ violence. The mean lesbians are at it again. I have no interest in granting legitimacy to this term when its very origin is tied to demonizing lesbians and believe other lesbians shouldnât either.