the definition of queer

honey | he/him | carrd w.i.p. welcome to my little corner of the internet pfp from pin

[honeydreamzz]

read my dni before interacting with any of my blogs (this one, @a-trans-kids-advice-blog @life-story-of-a-transmasc-wreck or @7-honey-reblogs-7). thanks!

welcome to my blog! i'm honey and i go by he/him. i'm transmasc, biromantic / omniromantic questioning, asexual, grayromantic, romeric, therian questioning, and an otherhearted furry. i'm a minor, so no nsfw on my blog.

i'm into hamilton (and history in general), the owl house, gravity falls, warrior cats, wings of fire, and more!

some of my favorite music artists are ajr, cavetown, the front bottoms, alec benjamin, alex g, avicii, imagine dragons, billie eilish, olivia rodrigo, girl in red, clairo, mgk, and blackbear.

in my spare time, i enjoy doing traditional and digital art, writing small stories and poem-like pieces, researching lesser known lgbtq+ identities, and spending time with my online friends and communities!

carrd coming soon :]

[honeydreamzz]

happy new year y'all here's a silly thing i drawed

[honeydreamzz]

a message from a mlw grayro-ace transmasc and questioning multiromantic

lesboys and turigirls are valid.

he/him lesbians and she/her veldians are valid.

aromantics, asexuals and aromantic asexuals are valid.

cistrans people are valid.

intersex people are valid.

non-binary and otherwise genderqueer people are valid.

m-spec lesbians and veldians are valid.

transmascfems are valid.

afab transfems and amab transmascs are valid.

straightbians, straightcians and gaybians are valid.

if your identity is considered contradictory, complicated, weird or difficult to understand but it makes you happy and doesn't purposefully harm others in any way, it's valid.

you're all welcome on my blog <3

[honeydreamzz]

are you truly a queer ally if you exclude or don't support the following?

queer people of color

queer women / queer afabs / feminine queers

queer men / queer amabs / masculine queers

intersex individuals

transgender individuals

non-binary indidviduals

any kind of non-conformity (pronoun, gender, label, etc.)

queer alterhumans

neopronominal / varipronominal / multipronominal / apapronominal / alterpronominal / nullpronominal / crosspronoun individuals

xenogenders

aro- / ace- / aroace-spec individuals

queer people who don't confirm with certain stereotypes of their identities or of queer people in general

the answer is, no, you really aren't. you're an exclusionist.

[status-quo-hater]

Cool post but I have 2 questions I'd like you to clarify if it wouldn't be an issue

Why did you group in "AMABs" with men and masculine people

Why did you group in "AFABs" with women & feminine people

Could you explain the reasoning here for me please?

[honeydreamzz]

i actually don't know the reasoning, i changed the post because i see why it's stupid to group them together and i don't really know what my thoughts process was?

[honeydreamzz]

are you truly a queer ally if you exclude or don't support the following?

queer people of color

queer women / feminine queers

queer men / masculine queers

amab queers

afab queers

intersex individuals

transgender individuals

non-binary indidviduals

any kind of non-conformity (pronoun, gender, label, etc.)

queer alterhumans

neopronominal / varipronominal / multipronominal / apapronominal / alterpronominal / nullpronominal / crosspronoun individuals

xenogenders

aro- / ace- / aroace-spec individuals

disabled queers

queer people who don't confirm with certain stereotypes of their identities or of queer people in general

the answer is, no, you really aren't. you're an exclusionist.

[perfectfeelings]

“Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive.”

— Unknown

[thoughtkick]

“I lost myself trying to please everyone else. Now I’m losing everyone while I’m trying to find myself.”

— Unknown

[honeydreamzz]

so incredibly relatable? story of my life man

[honeydreamzz]

blood makes you related, love makes you family.

[elementalspirits]

I can't stop thinking about that little homotherium cub they found.

[thememedaddy]

[aroacesafeplaceforall]

Reminder that you don’t need to label every single feeling and emotion you have. We’re all just big balls of chemical soup using words invented before we were born to describe an emotion that we can’t possibly share with anyone else as our brains react and produce emotions differently.

[honeydreamzz]

i don't get why there are people who believe that being queer is a choice. why would trans people choose to be uncomfortable with our bodies and have to use up a ton of money and time just to make it what we feel happy with? why would queer people choose to be prejudiced and discriminated against, oppressed and possibly revoked of rights or killed?

being an alterhuman isn't a choice either. why would we choose to wish so badly that we were born in our real bodies, the ones we were meant to take on, that we hate who we actually are?

[honeydreamzz]

lesser known label tuesday

welcome to a new series of tumblr posts in which every tuesday, i will make a post describing and explaining an lgbtq+ identity or label most people haven't heard of. enjoy!

disambiguan/conclusian

a term for when one's gender, sexuality, romantic orientation, relationship desire, identity, etc moves out of the questioning state, and one finally knows who they are identity-wise. this term can be used even when ones identity is inherently confusing, so long as they know they identify as it for certain.

[honeydreamzz]

i don't get why people have the assumption that being lgbtq+ is a choice. why would millions of people willingly choose to be queer knowing they would be harassed, prejudiced, oppressed, insulted, and possibly revoked of their rights or killed just because they were queer?

[honeydreamzz]

friendly reminder that you don't owe anyone an explanation or apology for your identity. as long as you're happy and aren't purposefully being problematic or harmful, you do you.

present yourself in a way that doesn't confirm with society's general standards or society's standards for your gender or sex. use pronouns that don't conform with what people would assume your pronouns are solely based off of your gender or sex. be an alterhuman or a system or whatever people might call weird because it isn't normalized by society. or don't! whatever makes you happy. whatever is you

[honeydreamzz]

“Back in my day, this Autism and ADHD stuff didn't exist!”

the first known case of autism was documented by french physician jean itard in 1799. greek physician hippocrates who lived from 460-375 bc described patients with quick reactions and short attention spans, exhibiting symptoms of adhd.

“Transgenders and gays didn't exist in my day, though!”

gala was a sumerian priest who spoke their own dialect and took on feminine names around 5000-3000 bc. the first known lesbian woman in modern times is from 1821; anne lister. in general, homosexuality rose in ancient greece, ancient rome and ancient china thousands of years ago.

“Gay people are abnormal, humans are the only animals that have homosexuality!”

over 1500 animal species have documented cases of homosexuality. this includes the barn owl, chicken, emu, spider, bottlenose dolphin, bonobo, penguin, giraffe, cat, and dog. the bonobo are even bisexual.

we do exist, we have existed since before the modern day, and we will continue to exist until the end of humanity. we are not the first and we are not the last.

[stinky-gremlinn]

[My art, don't steal, tag if reposting]

[honeydreamzz]

as a trans man i can heavily relate. i carry the rage of thousands of women and loads of empathy for them too.