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18 | INFJ | British (Unfortunately)

[kay-star]

MOVING BLOGS

The end of an era ! And the start of a new one!! I'm moving blogs to @sagesades. This blog will not be deactivated but i'll just be more active on that one :D

So moots, feel free to follow me there! ✨️

[kay-star]

MOVING BLOGS

The end of an era ! And the start of a new one!! I'm moving blogs to @sagesades. This blog will not be deactivated but i'll just be more active on that one :D

So moots, feel free to follow me there! ✨️

[aropride]

like does anyone else still feel the exact same age they were in march 2020 like 90% of the time

[hopesbarnes]

im curious. put in the tags if you have siblings, how many and if you’re an only child, oldest, middle, or youngest. i feel like this tells a ton about you

[catcrumb]

[mulletbutch]

I think this picture of my gf helping fix my car should be in the MoMa

[adamsmasher]

[nightmaretour]

Having multiple health issues is kind of like you're constantly stuck juggling several objects and occasionally they're all in the air at the same time for long enough for you to do something else if you're quick about it. Also if you drop one you die probably

[talentlesshuman]

Vent art

[talentlesshuman]

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[thankyourluckystars13]

I'm really not apologetic with this hard stance, either. I'm very firm on this, too. My art has already been used, twice now by people who did not ask my permission, so they could "enhance it" with Gen AI. I really see nothing good coming from generative AI except poor excuses for laziness and glorified search engines that don't work.

[iguanodonwildman]

This is an important time to make the distinction between generative and analytical AI. Analytical AI is what AI is supposed to be for. It’s all the boring stuff like analyzing data for patterns. For example, you probably heard about that AI that was designed to tell apart bear claws from croissants for a bakery that is now being used to detect cancer cells with greater accuracy than human doctors. That’s an analytical AI, while everything mentioned in the post above is generative AI. (Which sucks!)

[ozempicofficial]

[gayshitanddadjokes]

[manda-kat]

I think parents don't understand how punishing a child isn't for when they make you upset, it's for when they do something wrong. Like, you don't just punish them for stress relief, it's so they can learn right from wrong.

So if your kid learns, for example, that helping mom make dinner = getting in the way, but not helping = being lazy, but asking if mom needs help = being annoying and asking stupid questions, then you have basically trained a person to see the only option that doesn't lead to scolding as 'hide and don't be thought of until dinner is done'. So now what relationship is your kid going to have with cooking or cleaning or chores in general? How is that going to affect them as an adult?

If there is no right answer regarding the things that bother a parent, then your kid is going to associate those things with being punished no matter what they do. If talking during a car ride is bad and annoying, but being quiet and staring out the window is bad and disrespectful, then what are they going to do every time they're in the car with you but count every word they say? If texting is suspicious, but why don't they have friends, but going out with people is irresponsible, but why don't they ever leave their room, but their friends are all bad influences, but why did they stop hanging out with them, they were nice kids, then what are you even doing?

If playing video games is lazy, going outside is unsafe, playing is ignoring chores and doing chores is being in the way, then YOU'VE CREATED A CHILD WHO'S LEARNED THE ONLY WAY TO AVOID BEING SCOLDED IS TO DISAPPEAR WHENEVER YOU'RE IN A BAD MOOD! You've created a person who is hardwired to feel guilty no matter what they choose to do. You turned them into a confrontation ninja, who can vanish as soon as a hard conversation enters the picture. You've trained a person to disregard why rules exist and instead focus on who they can placate and suck up to in order to make the rules change. Because to them, rules and punishments are just who gets on the bosses nerves at the wrong time.

[sizzlingcandyjellyfishhhhhh]

no revenge because I forgot what you did #memoryloss

[gothhabiba]

I love not playing along

[gothhabiba]

"she's gained a lot of weight lately" "oh, good for her"

"on the wrong side of 40" "huh, which side is that?"

❗️I am not playing along with you❗️

[madlori]

Sending out the love to all my fellow donut-house-builders.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[marlinspirkhall]

[ghostmadewithlove]

Gonna start using OwO and UwU again and you can't fucking stop me

[ghostmadewithlove]

Uh oh

[innerchildabortionclinic]

I'm back on dark empath vs narcissist tiktok again and these comments are killing me

[sector-v]

Extremely irksome as an autistic person to ask a clarifying question and be told you’re “splitting hairs” when you genuinely just don’t understand because there isn’t enough information. Like, buddy. This is me at my most basic level of “what do you mean by that.” You wanna see me split hairs? If you really saw how thin I could slice a hair you’d hurl

[sector-v]

I will split a hair into smaller halves every hour my demands of mutual participation in communication are not met