Hey, little confused here. If you're nb, how can you be male? I understand that you can be attracted to men, but that means you're nb loving males. Nb means you're not male? If you wouldn't mind clarifying how that one post is transphobic in wanting men (people identifying as male) loving men(people identifying as male) to only interact since most accounts include nb people
The post was transphobic because it was actually written that mlm was for cismen only. Well, it said it wasn't for NB people, who actually fall under the trans umbrella.
Non binary just means I'm not binary, it doesn't mean I'm not demiboy or demigirl for example. I'm genderfluid / genderqueer (depends on which term you prefer) ^^
It's not to some random dude on the Internet to gatekeep what I'm authorised to interact with based on what he supposes I am. It's not because some dude thinks I'm not male or mascpassing that I'm not allowed to interact with mlm content.
If you only want to interact with cismen, it's your right and you can say it, but don't wine when trans folks come to point out that transmen are men and, thus, they're included in the mlm community. You love your men when they have a penis, okay, good for you, but don't say you ain't transphobic while writing black on white (or white on black depending or how your settings are) that you want to exclude trans people from a community they belong in.
On another note, some trans people are not in a safe space to come out as trans and / or gay, even on the Internet, so giving shit to someone base on their appearance only (so reducing someone to their mas/fem/white passing) is 1- an absolutely shitty thing to do, 2- dangerous for the person in question, who you might force to out just because you're an idiot with eye-blinds, and 3- why the fuck would you want to keep on gatekeeping in the community when white cishet people are already stomping on us like nobody's business...
Enby people can be male, female, agenre, genderqueer, demiboy, demigirl... Like sexuality, gender is a spectrum in 4D, there are so many gender identities! And, don't forget, sometimes we just put an umbrella term instead of the long accurate resume of our love and sexual orientation because we don't have the energy to give a lecture about each term.
My case: I often just say that I'm queer when, in depth, I'm genderfluid (leaning demiboy), gray-ace and panromantic.
But I don't have time to 1) explain each term to everyone I met, 2) face some acephobia and endure some guys telling me that I didn't find the magic dick yet (often times it's their own) or that I'm just abnormal and / or broken, 3) start à conversation in which I have to explain the difference between sex and love and how they don't need to go hand in hand, 4) ear some biphobic shit from ignorant people..
TL;DR: Stop gatekeeping based on people passing.