JUST GRADUATED✨

riri/rii/peach,(she/they) AYYYYYE fuck yeah!!

[thisusedtoberum-deactivated2017]

The reddest of all flags ladies and gentlemen

[aswefollowthelights]

YIIIIIIIIKESSSSSSSS

[lizardtitties]

If your boyfriend, girlfriend, or even just an overly protective friend says anything like this to you in response to you going out, please dump them immediately. They will argue with you, they will be hurt that you don’t appreciate how much they care, they will have some reason you make them act like that, they may even have a sob story about being cheated on or having trust issues that makes you feel sorry for them or guilty. Don’t listen to any of it, and walk away immediately. They will absolutely go off the deep end and try to get you back with apologies and threats to you or themselves. Do not listen to it, tell people what’s going on, and cut off all contact. This is not loving, caring behaviour, this is dangerous manipulation.

[soleil-moon-bye]

DUMP HIM

[the-stray-liger]

“I don’t know why I’m allowing this” bc you’re not their fucking dad you ugly ass disgusting piece of shit. Dump their ass like, in a river, after beating them up with a crowbar. 

[leseanthomas-deactivated2021030]

[utteradoxography]

cool pics but at what cost

[qsk-deactivated20191002]

[traintracks-moved-deactivated20]

please stop scrolling

hey all! my name is eden and i’m a trans guy living in a not-so-great home. i’m currently about a year away from moving out. my friend jack is also a trans guy who came from an abusive home and is now living with his boyfriend in chicago. he is pregnant and starving and he is 16. he does not go to school.

my amazon wishlist is https://www.amazon.com/gp/registry/wishlist/PEHLMI6JVGA/ref=cm_wl_huc_view, some of it is binders and boxers for me, some of it is food and baby supplies for him. it’ll be updated every so often. he will receive packages because my parents go through my mail.

my paypal is http://paypal.me/prouvaire or [email protected]. he does not have a paypal and neither does his boyfriend

[traintracks-moved-deactivated20]

if you want anything in return im offering tarot/rune readings! send me an ask or im.

[traintracks-moved-deactivated20]

jack’s boyfriend and him broke up and jack is now living in a car. the situation is pretty dire, as he is homeless and pregnant. i cannot take him in and it seems like others can’t either.

he’s a broke, 3-months-pregnant trans youth with limited contact with his mother. please, even a dollar helps, and if you can’t donate, please reblog. thank you. this will be updated if i get his mother’s paypal email.

now that the situation has changed, it’s better if you can donate cash to him. paypal money works for supplies, but since we’re both underage, we can’t transfer money out of paypal. if his mom has a paypal i’ll transfer money to her account.

edit: jack is staying with his boyfriend again, as theyre together. he owes his family $350 for medical bills and still needs money while he looks for a job.

[quartzgrist-blog]

had a dream where some dude spinner the wheel on wheel of fortune and it spun so fast it opened a vortex and everyone started chanting around it

also vanna white exponentially got younger and the old wrinkly man wasn't there

[quartzgrist-blog]

sometimes i find it hard to believe that there are actual people who think west indian people are from western india

[quartzgrist-blog]

i thought that disney show shit was a joke. orange juice only makes spicy things worse oh my god

[moonfirebrides]

Milly and Deli’s gorgeous Wedding

How beautiful is this? I see why Milly and Deli’s wedding photos are making the rounds. Keep your heart open fam. If this doesn’t inspire you, I don’t know what will.

[throughhelenhighwater]

Studio Ghibli films + food

stills from My Neighbor Totoro (1988), Kiki’s Delivery Service (1989), Howl’s Moving Castle (2004), & Ponyo (2008)

[nevaehtyler]

This incredibly pure and important 

[khaliflow3r]

MY FRAGILE HEART

[insertepithethere]

😩💜

[dixonette1013]

If I ever not reblog this assume I’m dead

[evilspice]

[kushandwizdom]

You got this Auntie

[lieutenantfish]

here’s a homestuck troll I made in 2014 that has 60,000 horns

[catgirldick]

Holy shit at first i was like ‘why isnt the image not loading?’… and the i notice a tiny orange line to the left of the screen and GOD was i not prepared

[lieutenantfish]

his name is Hornss Hhorns

[purified-zone]

is their quirk to repeat every single letter 60,000 times

[lieutenantfish]

I tried to respond to this with 60,000 y’s, 60,000 e’s, 60,000 s’s, and 60,000 .’s, but the page crashed so just check this out.

[quartzgrist-blog]

he has either 0 or 60,000 friends

[nevaehtyler]

Beautiful!

[blackfashion]

Talented. 

[quartzgrist-blog]

shit like this is why i don't use facebook. smh.

[nilvoid]

no fucking words

[infinite-hog-supply]

and this in the face of the govt. announcing that survivors will maybe get five and a half grand  for losing their homes and in many cases their families - not quite the same as a year on JSA, not enough to cover a few months rent in London. That’s what working class lives are worth in the UK.

[socialismwithasmile]

Bourgeois “democracies” always act in the interests of the Capitalists and the Lanlords, this is yet another example. Fucking evil

[ororomunroedontpullout]

It’s hard to say this wasn’t on purpose. The evidence is stacking up so high. They wanted to tear down that building and make money so they made it a literal death trap, refused to improve it, covers dit in highly flammable materials, and now are moving the rest it if the area-what they wanted all along

[lierdumoa]

To my friends on the spectrum, let me explain to you an unspoken social rule that possibly nobody has ever explained to you before

If a neurotypical asks you, “What game are you playing?” they’re not asking you to describe the game.

They’re asking you if they can play too.

If a neurotypical asks you, “What are you watching?” they’re not asking you to explain the plot of the movie/tv show to them.

They’re asking if they can watch it with you.

.

When neurotypicals ask you “What are you doing?” 

What you think they’re asking: “Please explain to me what you are doing.” 

What they’re actually asking:  “Can I join you?”

Now here’s the really fucked up part. If you start explaining to them what you’re doing? They will interpret that as a rejection. 

What you think you’re saying: [the answer to their question]

What they think you’re saying: This is an elite and exclusive activity for a level 5 friend and you are a level 1 acquaintance. You are not qualified to join me because you don’t know all this stuff. Go away.

.

This is why neurotypicals think you’re being cold and antisocial.

IT’S ALL A HORRIBLE MISCOMMUNICATION.

[bonehandledknife]

I didn’t realize, even thought it took me almost three decades to learn this, that this was such a paradigm changing realization until we had our conversation today.

But it really really is. One of the most bewildering realizations I’ve had is most people don’t talk to learn things unless its related to work or directly towards their own hobbies, all the words and questions are bonding questions if done socially. They are “lets make friends” questions.

So if I answer their question without an opportunity for the person asking the question to give a response or to join in somehow, the asker feels alienated and starts shutting down.

Example: what are you reading?

True answer but not what they’re looking for: Title of book

Best answer for social scenarios where I want to retain/create friendship: This book is about x and y but it has z that i know u have an interest in too.

Example: what are you doing?

True answer but not: drawing

Best answer for friends: I’m drawing but would u like company while I’m working?

And sometimes frankly I’m not in a headspace where I can process people so the answer is something like, “I would like to do something in a day or later, do you want to plan something?”

Tldr: communication is wierd

[survivablyso]

HOLY

SHIT

that explains so fucking much thank you

(why the fuck do neurotypicals never just day what they mean ie hey this show looks cool mind if I join you)

[bonehandledknife]

Further annoying?

They don’t realize that’s what they’re asking and they just feel rejected and go away. So you can’t even ask them what you did wrong because they can’t even put a finger on why they feel the way they do they just know you made them feel bad for some undefined reason.

[animate-mush]

#is this true???#I don’t know any neurotypicals who can confirm for me

Yes.  And the good news is, there’s an entire field of study devoted to it called Pragmatics.

What’s being described above is such a common and well-understood (within the field) phenomenon that I was actually taught on the first day of Pragmatics class: “one common feature of autism is not having an innate or intuitive sense of pragmatics.”  And on the other side of it, in teaching I often ran into the problem of (presumably neurotypical) students getting bored and saying “but this is just common sense.”

The other good news is that there are algorithms for figuring this stuff out.

[ineedarendezvous]

Google “Grice’s Four Maxims of Conversation”

[quartzgrist-blog]

what????? What???WHAT??????

[cujohjo]

Actually, I think this may be the best part of the evilicious finale.

[captioned-miscellaneous-videos]

Alton: “Alright, so here is your blade! You gotta cut down the coconut! ”

Chef Yaku: “I’m happy to let him pay $26,000 for a coconut tree. Because I’m tall, I just reach straight up and start grabbing coconuts off the tree. And I don’t really have time to look for a tool and open them…”[smashes coconuts] “Man, you think a stupid coconut gon’ stop me!”

Other chef: “This dude’s like smashing through these coconuts! What am I up against here?!” [to Chef Yaku] “Ah, man…”

Chef Yaku: “This could be your head.”

Other chef: “Uh, come on…”