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One Nice Bug Per Day
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"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
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Today's Document
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH
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JBB: An Artblog!
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Lint Roller? I Barely Know Her
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double posting?? in THIS economy??
i am tempted to put out an accompanying like. note page / post(s) with my playlists to say why what songs are on there are there?? i kinda think that'd be cool... its smthn i do/think about regardless a LOT so. it might be worthwhile asf!
ig lmk if thats something you'd want?? i could maybe do it for baph's playlist first and see how it feels
woah hey woah! i posted my newsletter for the month!
i promise i'll actually start doing things for my ips sometime soon my life is just. looks behind me at all the everything im not dealing with presently. yeah...... ill get there trust me! but for now, here's what i've been up to!
raymondgaymond published a post on Ko-fi
check out @polarayzed for the polarayzed post too ! (also me haha)
hello chat i ported my entire spotify library to youtube music Finally (i plead depressed + overwhelmed pls forgive me)
you can find my playlists on my youtube channel below! i'm gonna try and publish one of 'em at Least once a week for the next foreseeable future if not every few days / daily when i can.
back from the dead with what i've been listening to in this life. [icon artist - jamie mckelvie; source: the wicked and the divine (comic)]
firstly i uploaded my hyperpop playlist (3+ hrs) and my baphomet (from the wicked and the divine) playlist is up too!
i plan to also like. make videos of these playlists as well if i can (ofc giving due credit) bc im honestly rlly proud of my song choices in a few of my playlists aha (tho it'd only be for my shorter character playlists.... hyperpop is far too large to contain i think. unless the masses truly wished for it hoghousg)
eventually we might get to my more personal playlists being uploaded... i dunno! my library is HUGE (like... 20,000+ songs) so..... we will see. anywho! i hope someone enjoys these.
my taste varies widely so. maybee if you stick around i'll post a playlist thats up your alley? just a thought :)
Reblog to give a trans person a fresh and perfectly ripe mango wait huh
It's the wikipedia image??? How big could it be
What
Huh???
can see the pores on that thang
Reblog to give a trans person a shockingly high resolution mango
Love how a lot of “autistic parenting problems” can get fixed by just using your brain:
“my autistic child doesnt like hugs” so don’t hug them, that will be 150 dollars
“My autistic child had a meltdown in a busy grocery store” so don’t bring them to a busy grocery store
“My autistic child is a picky eater” So give them the food they like but also encourage them to try new food in fun positive ways
“My autistic child only want to wear the same shirt everyday” so let them wear the same shirt everyday
“My autistic child claims loud noises hurt their ears.” So turn the goddamn noise down, Susan!
some of this definitely tracks but a lot of the time it’s not as simple as that. if you’re a single parent with an autistic child, and you can’t afford childcare, you can’t just leave your kid at home alone while you get food. sometimes taking children to places that they don’t like is 100% necessary. however, something that might help in this situation is giving the child clear information beforehand about what is going to happen, letting them know they are heard, and telling them exactly what is expected of them and how long it will last:
we have to go to the grocery store. i know that you don’t like it there because [anything they have said before about why it makes them upset] and i don’t either, but we have to do it. we are leaving at x time, so you have until then to [transition from what they were doing before]. when we are there, you need to walk next to me/hold my hand/(maybe give them a task such as counting how many types of fruit they can see in the store, a small activity to do, or a stim toy. keeping them grounded and entertained is good). it will take y amount of time, and then it will be over and we can come back home and you can do z [special interest related activity or other reward that will recharge their nd batteries after a draining experience]
autistic children grow up to be autistic adults. sooner or later they will have to go into a grocery store, maybe on their own, maybe every week, for their whole adult life. acclimatising them to knowing how grocery stores work from a reasonably young age, helping them learn that grocery stores are not scary, and that if they are scary they are at least endurable and that trips there don’t last forever, is going to be far more effective and helpful in the long run than simply teaching children that if they don’t like something they don’t have to do it. coping strategies are far more useful than avoidance for situations that are necessary.
i am saying this as an autistic adult, who was an autistic child, and who has very specific difficulties with grocery shopping myself, before anyone comes for me calling me neurotypical or whatever.
If you are a parent with a child who has sensory issues (this could also include autistic and adhd children, as well as undiagnosed children), here are some ideas.
1. When going into a loud, crowded, busy place, give your child headphones if they are sensitive to sound. The headphones can be connected to soothing sounds, or they can be disconnected headphones. You want to muffle the noise to allow the child to not become overwhelmed. If it’s an issue with movement and/ or sight, you could try giving your child sunglasses. Yes, you may be indoors. Yes, you may think it looks silly. If it helps, who cares?
2. If your child likes a particular shirt, get multiples of that shirt. If they want to wear the exact same shirt everyday, let them! Get one for every day of the week. And now you don’t have to sort laundry.
3. Give your child a job. Maybe in a store, they have to tell you every time they see a particular shape or color. Maybe they need to help you read the can. Maybe they are in charge of marking things off the shopping list. Make your child feel important and listened to. Don’t just drag them around like unruly luggage. They aren’t a suitcase.
me when i start and catch up with an 100k+ fic and in 0 times bc im Obsessed and then i just. what do? how life work now? wait for update? .... 🥺
Still never gonna be over the fact that it took Maes Hughes one night to figure out the truth about Amestris when it took the rest of the cast half the series
these tags lmfao
oh edward elric bleeding out and nearly dying impaled by a massive steel beam shaving pieces off his soul and years off his life because he chose not to kill the objectively worst guy he's ever met but he's just like. ah. if this is the price i have to pay for mercy i'm glad to pay it. 16 years old, unshakeable belief in the value of a life, shortest fuse in the world, mad as hell at all times, heart of gold for all of humanity. no one is doing it like him
the protagonist of all time
heeeeyo! it's the first of the month! you know what that means?? new raymondgaymond record!
uhhh...... its been a bit of a doozy.... but you can read up on what i've been up to here! check out @polarayzed for the polarayzed post, the sibling publication to the raymondgaymond record!
raymondgaymond published a post on Ko-fi
if you were wondering how my animatic is going: i've been in posemy.art for a few hours....... im posing individual finger joints and reposing the boys frame by frame for reference...... hahahaha
jumping from being extremely ouran pilled to extremely song of achilles pilled is so wild. and i want to flip flop between them bc fanfiction and animatic...... guys.... please my brain i will dissolve
half of me drawing an animatic for tsoa is me just stopping nd going ":") they're so pretty. wow." while drawing achilles and patroclus
im literally just trying to peacefully navigate youtube and now im getting recommended The Song of Achilles animatics and i KNOW they're all heart wrenching >:((( i am already plagued by thoughts of them have you No Mercy?
i ended up reading 300/369 pages of "The Song of Achilles" in one night (it took 8 hrs and i was reading 0.66 pages a second)
all that to say i was up till 6am and both very okay and very not okay 👍🏻
I would know him in death, at the end of the world.
Drawing Achilles and Patroclus again is very good for my soul.
collecting all the characters i think have ptsd and cptsd and making a little safe haven in my soul for us
i am starting with simon from iron lung and leon s kennedy from resident evil. yknow what? fuck it. grace get in here girl!!!! (resident evil (9))
in safe haven we have blankets and movies and all the snacks. they'll be safe and cared for i Promise
[no beers in] do you think im ever going to belong somewhere
