Pinned / DNI
Ben, he-him, 23 (Nov 2002 if I forget to update it bc ofc I will),
I am an openly queer clocky trans man under the poverty line in the U.S. south with no intent or ability to leave. I am not cis-passing & am perceived as a woman by the public & am affected by women’s rights. Please remember that when you come to complain about my male privilege. You are not punching up. You do not see me as a man.
T4T, Gay & grey-aego, I heart microlabels
Spondylolisthesis + Scoliosis Squad
My discourse side because we’re doing this again with even more dehumanizing takes I guess
If I ever say something that’s racist or ableist or anything please feel free to call me on it, I was raised in the south with unrestricted internet access as a child and I’m unlearning a lot of casual bigotry that I grew up around & never clocked as bigotry so I always appreciate the corrections! (Just don’t correct my grammar/typed accent i’ll piss on your shoes /j)
I may seem rude. That is intentional, I have been a doormat my whole life & it lead to me being abused by someone very close to me. Be kind to me I will be kind in turn, but I don’t hand out respect on a silver platter to assholes anymore.
Heads up I am very likely neurodivergent in the vein of either ADHD or autism but getting screened is expensive and a pain in the ass as an adult so idk which one & I’m not gonna find out any time soon. I got braces, my little sibling got diagnosed that’s just how it ended up lol
Basic beliefs-
Intersex people are real and deserve respect, biology itself is not a cut and dry one or the other binary and I am BEGGING you to read past middle school biology textbooks
TME and TMA is now being used to repackage misogyny against trans men and y'all have gone from trying to punch up to pummeling trans men and intersex people to pulp.
And if we are going to cling to the labels, Trans Men can be TMA and Trans Women can be TME.
nonbinary people are real and deserve respect
trans men and women are men and women and deserve respect
ace, aro, aroace and poly folks are real and queer and deserve respect
systems are real and deserve respect and it is frankly between them and a specialist if they are faking
accessibility benefits everybody
cringe culture is dead and I am beating that dead horse to pieces
It costs $0 to be kind to people
Yes kink belongs at pride yes kink is a huge part of the pride movement but let’s maybe make sure there’s still safe spaces for queer minors & non-consenting parties at pride as well instead of centering the feelings of kinksters, coming from a kinkster & yes those statements can coexist
antizionism ≠ antisemitism
Covid is still real and hasn’t gone away please for the love of god stop viewing children, elders and immunocompromised folks as collateral damage.
you do not need dysphoria to be trans as per the DSM-5 and its separation of gender dysphoria from being transgender, & your perception of what makes one trans is an incredibly narrow and privileged view of being trans.
transandrophobia is real
exorsexism is real
misandry (specifically against cis men) is repackaged misogyny and the patriarchy/misogyny fucks us all over
feminism is great & i'm proud to be a part of feminist beliefs, but the majority of feminists are racist, transphobic, ableist, classist or all of the above so I struggle to identify with that label & I say that as someone raised by 3 generations of feminists & activists on both sides of my family.
trans men are not cis men and we experience misogyny just like women & any other afab folks do and that is not a hot take because we are perceived as women by society as a whole.
also because someone genuinely was acting like this towards me, no trans women are not the only trans people who experience misogyny and if you genuinely believe that please go outside and interact with real people for once, no amount of theory or hypotheticals will outweigh actual lived experience
seriously please stop demonizing & putting down trans men & intersex folks, you’re regurgitating anti-trans rhetoric with a trans flag bow on top.
being trans does not alleviate you from wrongdoing or being a predator freak and pretending like it does (looking at isff) gives all of us a bad name
Fuck proshippers
Fuck exclusionists
Fuck Gender Critical/Anti-Trans “Feminists” & SWERFs and every radfem in between, you’re all transphobic shit & your ideology is based in white supremacy.
Fuck transmeds
Fuck zoophiles & their apologists
Fuck pedophiles & their apologists
Fuck PETA
Fuck ICE
Fuck 12
Fuck Trump
Fuck Israel
Fuck Russia
Fuck AI
Fuck you, and fuck off. And leave me to my lotions. /j
FAQ that nobody has ever asked-
Q. What’s the problem with Jell-o101?
A. Proship pedophile who groomed my fiance from ages 12-16 then sent her roommate and boyfriend to cyberstalk him & try to poke holes in his story when he finally came out about it last year(2025). Long story. (< read up there if you’re curious)
Q. What’s the problem with isff? (Also who is that)
A. Pedophile apologist. Other people have done a way better job at explaining it, believe me if you look you will find it. ( also isff is isuggestforcefem/suggestrogen.)
Q. Why do you talk/type like that?
A. Mom from Appalachia, dad from Scotland, grew up around both dialects and I never know what word is from which until I say something like “should I pitch this” to my fiance and he looks at me like I’m from another planet
Q. Are you like kinning Ben from TWDG or is that name just a coincidence or..?
A. I know. I picked it from TWDG. Don’t look at me so loud.
Q. Is your username a super princess peach reference
A. Why yes it is thank you for noticing it is my favorite game of all time next to super paper mario & i have had my physical copy of it for longer than I’ve been a big brother 💪 That game card is old enough to drink



















