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For Valentines day I redrew this comic of things people have actually said to me
Please remember there are asexuals who want nothing to do with sex, and that's okay.
Y'know what no actually I'm posting about this because it's genuinely really fucking getting to me. I'm so fucking exhausted by how it feels like some people just took "some asexual people can still want sex, and that doesn't make them no longer ace" and just devolved into "oh so ace people can want sex? cool well i'm going to assume ace people/ace characters must want sex at least a LITTLE 'cause who doesn't?" It's genuinely really fucking upsetting that as an aroace, even in LGBTQ+ spaces, even in asexual spaces, I feel like I'm STILL faced with the same acephobia I would get from non-LGBTQ+ people. From non-asexual people. I feel like I'm still having to face the bullshit of "I don't care if you say you're asexual, there are asexual people who do want sex and do have sex so you're still the weird one." I feel like I still have to face that fucking idea that "everyone wants it, you'll want it eventually, or you'll do it because a partner wants it." No! I don't! and I'm tired of people in my own fucking community making me feel even more fucking broken and alone and making me feel like now instead of being discriminated against for being asexual, it's just turned into being discriminated against for being "one of those asexuals." in the fucking "I'm not like those queer people" way. I'm just so exhausted by this shit. Obviously I think asexual people who do want or have sex are valid. But I'm fucking tired of people making me feel like I must be broken and there must be something wrong with me if I'm an asexual who doesn't have or want sex. it just genuinely makes me feel like.. if being asexual means you're still gonna get perceived as maybe wanting sex and if being open about being a sex-repulsed asexual gets people saying "well don't push your trauma onto other people/make it other people's problem" then what the fuck am i that people can relate to. because it just. makes me feel like the community of people who are like me is a lot smaller than i thought.
stop trying to make yourself more palatable for your oppressors !!
I hate the stereotype of ace people being more down bad for their favorite characters than allo people are because if I'm being honest seeing my favorite characters sexualized genuinely makes me want to cry. and then I usually get so nauseous I have to lay down
"asexual discourse" is so funny cause dude that's not discourse and it's never been discourse. it's not an argument and it's not a conversation bitches are just yelling at us unprompted and then making up people to get mad at 😭
I must say. If your dni is a group by existence, and you constantly talk negative of that group.
You are just a bigot. They aren't crossing your boundaries, you are just a bigot.
This goes for any group. And no, saying "this group doesn't exist" doesn't work, cause homophobes said that about gay people...
If you talk shit about a group of people cause their existence. They deserve to react.
you favorables took over our label
you don't get to decide what asexuality is
it belonged to us originally
not to you
I’m not sex favorable???😭 If you go to any of my posts they’re clearly tagged apothisexual and sex repulsed. And I wouldn’t give a fuck if you personally founded asexuality you still don’t get to decide how other people experience it. But please point me to a single post of mine where I mention being sex favorable I would love to know where you got that information from anon
