#aro yearning

[repulsed-confessions]

You can't choose your sexuality, but you can choose not to date at all, btw.

[salamies33]

krusie and kriselle satisfies just the right itch in my arospec mind. hmmmmm

romance that is indistinguishable from friendship yet deep nonetheless. closeness going beyond traditional relationship dynamics… your love and affection is more meaningful than any label could communicate or ‘confine’ it as

vs.

childhood yearning that persists despite your current relationship being unsure. there’s so much left unsaid but the distance between you speaks louder than you ever could… continuing to yearn for what once was when that’s more than what you’re ever supposed to want or ask for

[lostangelofthestars]

SMASHES MY KEYBOARD

AROMANTIC YEARNING SHOULD NOT BE POSSIBLE,

PLEASE RIP THIS FROM MY MIND

[l3m0nteeth]

genuinely how do ppl even get into qpp relationship? I don’t even have a best friend who would prefer me over others, how do you get so close to someone that you’re their favorite so much they’d genuinely be happy with committing to you???? I feel like nobody would want that from me and I personally struggle to get to know someone even past just general friends I want someone who’s mine, I want a qpp so much, but howwww???? T.T

[aro4aro-yearning]

i give affection freely without worrying how close we are or what we are called

[kaikaikarasu]

"Do you have romantic or platonic feelings?" Man I don't know, I just want us to walk our individual lives exploring the meaning of life together and call out their name like they once called out mine so that we can be ourselves again

[ Reference: Namae Wo Yobu Yo - LuckLife ]

[melancholylakeentity]

It’s not that I’m unlovable, but I never feel lovable enough to be anyone’s first pick, or favorite. Perhaps it’s selfish, but I want to be someone’s first person to go to when they hear good or bad news. I want to lose my inhibitions, emotionally vomit the thoughts I’ve been repressing, and have someone stay and listen and care instead of deciding I’m too much. I’d rather not dwell on if I want something romantic or platonic or in between and the nuances of that, I just know that I want someone that will always ask me to be their plus one- out of genuine want, and not obligation. Someone who will always want to come home to me.

[edwardallenpoe]

Oh man yearning for romance bc you're a huge romantic/romance positive in general but also being romance repulsed for yourself when you actually just want very intimate friendships is wilddd. I want a friendship that goes as hard as a romantic one without the romance please. I want to go out and have fun and smooch and do all of that and say I love you but you know what I mean when I say that so you don't get the wrong feelings. I feel so deeply and so intensely for my friends, more than romance can ever describe because it's not romance. I want to say all these things and not be rejected because you "have a partner" and view what I ask for as romantic. I want to live in a big house with my friend(s) where we can be each other's people and be each other's rocks. I want a loveless marriage that is so full of love. Can anyone hear me