I fucking hate self help or motivation posts that essentially boil down to "you just gotta do it! Do the thing that is holding you back!" cause like, that's the fucking problem, dude - I can't do the thing! I really, really want to do the thing, fuck, I've been wanting to do the thing for years now, but I CAN'T! Don't just tell me to do it anyway and call that help, like, give me the tools to do be able to do it! Or maybe just actually help me to do it with you! I dunno, some of us have got developmental disorders and mental illnesses or other disabilities, and you saying "you just gotta do the thing" is actually just a giant slap in the face, bro. Fuck!