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3 Ways To Activate Your Main Character Energy🌸

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑 𝐨𝐟 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐨𝐰𝐧 𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲!

I thought Ms. Robyn Rhianna Fenty would be the prime example of resting in your femininity and simply being the main character in your life! After watching The Savage Fenty’s 3rd fashion show on Amazon Prime Video, and seeing Rhianna walk out in the end (like the baddie she was). I could almost feel her energy oozing from my computer screen. Her sensuality, confidence & beauty was absolutely breathtaking! The way she glides across the stage like she owned it put me in a trance.

At that moment, it clicked in my head that I needed to make a blog post on Main character energy. The energy& Confidence that Rhianna has acquired over time IS OBTAINABLE! Of course, she did not become the femme fatale we both love, lust, and adore overnight! It took hard work and dedication!

The secret is, is that it’s all in your head! Our minds are the most powerful thing we own, we have the power to bend and change our reality! If you’ve been following my blog for a bit, I'm sure you’ve seen me reblog & like posts about manifesting. So, I will not bore you on that.I'll sum this up in a sentence. If you change your mentality, and your thoughts ( both conscious and unconscious). Over time, along with hard work and dedication. The universe will change your reality!

3 𝐖𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐔𝐧𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫'𝐬 𝐞𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐠𝐲 𝐢𝐧𝐬𝐢𝐝𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮!

Main character energy is simply putting yourself first in your own life! Its a common misconception is that “Main Character Energy” is all selfish & not Caring about others. This is NOT. TRUE. If you were a people pleaser like me long ago I had the habit of putting others' needs before my own. After doing that for almost 19 years, a few months before my 20th birthday. I started my level-up journey & put myself first. Being a people pleaser at that time, used to have me feeling drained, I fell into a deep depression to the point where I neglected my hygiene!! This phenomenon is called your “Wounded Feminine” I'll make a post on this phenomenon next week so stay tuned! But for now, here are some tips that helped for the past year and a half.

𝟏. 𝐒𝐓𝐎𝐏 𝐂𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐢𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐯𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞!

Thanks to social media, we tend to have a habit of looking at the profiles of people who are no longer in our lives, reminiscing about the past. This could be an ex-lover, friend or a family member(s). When you Focus on the past and not in the present moment, it will leave you lost, and feeling like the side character in your own story! You must get out of that bad habit energy! By following this strategy, it helped me to make myself the center of my life again & grow as a person. The people who are not in your life anymore, do not deserve your time, thoughts, and attention any more. Regardless if you walked out of their lives or if they left you. If you need to do a social media cleanse, do it! If you need to block people for your own sanity do it! You need to move forward in your life. Dwelling on the past will serve you no good. This is not a skill you will master overnight, I'm still trying to master this myself. However, once you begin doing this unconsciously, You will begin resting within your main character's energy. This is the MOST important skill on this list.

𝟐. 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤 𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐡𝐨𝐛𝐛𝐢𝐞𝐬

Growing up, I used to have so many hobbies! However as a young adult, I looked at my current life and realized I don't even have half of the hobbies I used to do as a kid. It's quite a common phenomenon among most adults. I'm convinced it's because of capitalism, social media & technology. We tend to work so much during the week, that we never have time to develop & work on our hobbies. The little time we have do have to spend, is with our eyes glued to a screen! Eating away hours, and hours of our lives. It sad if you think about it, all for the pursuit of money!

Think about all the things, you used to do as a child. It might have been painting, playing an instrument, video gaming, etc. Having a go-to activity that you can do solo, can remind you that you are capable of doing amazing things! It's a great way to build your identity & social capital! When you have a hobby you enjoy, not only does it makes you look better in some people's eyes. You're consciously putting yourself first! THAT is exactly what it means to thrive in your main character energy

𝟑. 𝐑𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐳𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞

Romanticizing your life is a simple & cost-efficient way to rest in your Main Character Energy. A strategy I use to help me romanize my life, is by picking out: one or two things I enjoy, and gave me a sense of pleasure! An activity that uses all of your 5 senses. Alright let’s take a break from reading.. I want you take the time to think of at least two things in your life that gives you a sense of pleasure! 🙂 take note either on paper or in your head. Before 2021 ends my goal for you, is to engage in at least one activity that gives you a sense of pleasure! I’ll share an experience that recently helped me romanticize my life, and put me and In my main character energy!

Last month, I had the most amazing bath of my life! I got myself some cheap wine from my local grocery store; Filled up my bathtub with bubbles and lavender. (for relaxation) Poured myself a glass of Chardonnay, then I went straight inside my bathtub & played some Summer Walker. I completely Allowed myself just "to be" and relax. Engaging in all of my 5 senses. Just thinking about it makes me want to do it all over again!

When begin to romanize your life, you put yourself as the main character in your life! Start focusing on doing something that gives you joy throughout the day, and whatever makes you happy! ❤️

What are some things you do to feel like the Main Character in your life?

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Until next time my loves!

(chichi xo)

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