Are there any other characters from the MCU you would send to DC? Would they be related to anyone in DC? If so who?
Im just saying,,, a Black Widow x Catwoman would go so hard,,, maybe they could thrupple with Bruce and peg him who knows
Ive never posted abt how fixated I am on Nat x Selena (Natena? Selasha?) But yall i could eat that for breakfast, brunch, lunch, dunch, dinner, and dessert. And a lil midnight snack. #givetheworldmorelesbians
Obviously Tony in DC is also fun, but that's a OG one ngl. Bruce x Tony always cracks me up tho cause that's two of the most bottom men to ever bottom
I can't remember where I saw it, but Steve Trevor and Stave Rogers being the same person?? Peak shit. I thought it was so clever it was cute, tho I dont think they'd actually date (bc Cap is so fucking gay) but angst potential for WW is crazyyyy 😩😩
And Deadpool is my cherry on top. I have no idea what hed be doing there, what a possible plot would be, but hed annoy the shit out of the overly serious heroes and I just like the idea of that. Yk what? Daredevil too. Get the whole team red in there. Deadpool is my little princess <3 hes my favorite, which is crazy to say considering all i write is Spiderman and DC, but I adore comic DP with my whole heart
Writing thrupples with a 'hinge', from someone who falls asleep in the middle every night.
A hinge thrupple is where two people are dating the same person, but not one another. So, not a triangle.
I don't know any thrupples with a childish Jacob-Edward rivalry over the 3rd person (annoying, overplayed)
I don't know any always lovey-dovey thrupples where the two suitors don't do anything outside constantly showering their 3rd with affection (honestly a bit creepy to me)
I'm bi/pan and nonbinary/fluid. My partners are a big burly cis dude and a tall snarky androgynous lesbian, they're not at all attracted to one another. Sexuality/gender plays a big part in dynamics and what I'm called (one calls me Wife and the other calls me Boyfriend).
Many poly peeps set out with intention to have multiple partners, my situation happened accidentally with some help from my autism. Basically I fell in love with two people like the movies but instead of drama I had an honest conversation and they both agreed to try it out. 🤷
I call both my partners 'babe' which in hindsight maybe I should've used 'hun' for one of them, but it's also so cute when I say babe and have two people turn to me. ❤️ They do have some unique, less appropriate pet names tho.
So so so much communication is needed to make sure you're on the same page as your partners. Google calendar helps, as do chore charts. I have 2 date nights a week, one for each partner. Holiday plans are discussed months ahead of time.
Relationships develop at different speeds! One partner may be ready for a milestone a month in, a different partner may be ready for the same milestone in 4 years.
So many perks! Splitting bills, splitting chores, coordinating when emergencies happen, and VOTING! With 3, the discourse for deciding anything from what to eat to what color to paint a room is SO much quicker.
I think the biggest difficulty was getting over my fear that I was doing something wrong, that I was selfishly drawing 2 people into something that would end in heartbreak. I was also afraid my partners wouldn't get along. 😵💫
Minor difficulties include deciding who to take for events that are +1 only, remembering who we've come out to, and getting crushed in the middle of the night when both partners roll towards the center of the bed where I sleep. 🪦
I can only be legally married to 1 partner where I live, but my other partner hates the idea of doing joint taxes so 😂 when we have a wedding one day, we're going to get legal permissions to, say, visit me in the hospital when I'm dying and call it good.
Yes, I can have another wedding and it will be just as beautiful and symbolic as the one that included legal paperwork.
Only two people can be on a marriage certificate, but three people can be on a mortgage! We've jointly owned a house for almost a year and a half and it's been so much work but so nice to have our privacy.
My partners get jealous of one another, that's normal. They know to communicate that feeling with me so I can give them some 1 on 1 time or special attention.
If me and one of my partners are struggling in our relationship, I DONT vent to my other partner and just give a basic 'I'm working through something with X right now'. I know too many polycules that have become a drama mosh-pit. 😓
My partners can be friends, or lovers, or simple acquaintances but THEY decide that and I don't push them to do anything except communicate when needed. My partners are introverts and it's taken years for them to build up their platonic relationship lol
Yes, I do occasionally get double-teamed in sexy ways (less than you'd think). 90% of the double-teaming I get is both of them calling me short or agreeing that I'm cute when I'm angy about trivial things, though. 😾
My partners now consider each other metamores, friends, and team-mates. My lesbian partner calls my male partner their 'husband in-law' sometimes, particularly when they want something from him.
Sometimes my partners bicker and I think it's cute bc it means they've become very comfortable with each other. If they have an actual issue I just encourage them to talk about it/I don't try to fix it for them.
We generally live a comfy, laid-back life and do all the mundane things you'd expect of mid-twenties to early-thirties folk- raising two dogs, fixing the sink, caving and ordering taco bell, forgetting to make that appointment, griping about the economy, bringing home plants, watching birds fight over the bird feeder, and sleeping in on the weekends. We just do it with 3. ☘️
Extra note: Polygamy is a term used in religious and male-centric plural partner situations. We use polyamory, polyfidelity, harem (jokingly), and thrupple to describe ourselves. Maybe some use polygamy and like it, but where we live (Utah) the term is generally reserved for fundentalist mormons.
There's probably a lot more to say, so maybe this is just a part 1. Feel free to ask me questions or comment with your own hinge experience (or tell me about your thrupple ocs)!
I just had a dream it felt so real I actually thought it was a real episode I was so hyped and excited.
I dreamed that Rhaenyra and Mysaria got MARRIED!!!
Rhaenyra and Mysaria came up with a convincing argument to why them getting married would help her imagine and they told her council and everyone agreed, I can't remember why but it made sense she really came up with a good reason.
I was like " OMG how is Daemon going to react! How is Allicent going to react! How is her son going to react"
It was such a good episode I was so excited for the next episode because Daemon would be coming back home to find out that his wife got married even though she's already married..TO HIM!!
How would that work ?
Is Mysaria his wife too? Would he have two wives ?
The Wicked brainrot is literally taking over so have these songs and lyrics from my On Repeat for some ships and characters!
Thrupple: My Love Mine All Mine by Mitski
Lyrical Highlight: “My baby here on Earth showed me what my heart was worth”/ “Nothing in the world belongs to me but my love, mine, all mine. Nothing in the world is mine for free but my love, mine, all mine, all mine.”
Gliyero: All to Yourself by Emerson Azarian.
Lyrical Highlight: “You got what I need but you’re kinda smothering” / “I know you’re capable but you’re too available” / “Yes, I love you but it’s a living hell.”
Fiyeraba: Fools Like Me by Lisa Loeb
Lyrical Highlight: “If love is blind, if love's a drug, it always is, it always was and love was surely made for fools like me” / “I did, I can, I was, I am only human, living, dying, just like any fool who ever breathed. Maybe it's the sanest thing or just the sweetest kind of dream but love was surely made for fools like me.”
Gelphie: The Black Dog by Taylor Swift
Lyrical Highlight: “That was intertwined in the tragic fabric of our dreaming, ‘cause tail between your legs, you're leaving. I still can't believe it, ‘cause old habits die screaming.”
Galinda: Taste by Sabrina Carpenter
Lyrical Highlight: “If you want forever, I bet you do, just know you’ll taste me too.”
Elphaba: Hurt Feelings by Halsey
Lyrical Highlight: “And in a few years I will leave, but I'll perpetually believe that any man who says he loves me is hiding something up his sleeve” / “Wash me in the water, you can cut off all of my hair and I'll be changing like the weather but I'll never be like him” / “'Cause blood is thick but water is forever and I'm stiffer than a board, lighter than a feather. And that girl will be a problem only if you let her, and I left her back home but I cannot forget her.”
Fiyero: Sweet Delusion by Bella Poarch
Lyrical Highlight: “It's a fantasy, better than being alone. Keep me company, don't you ever let go. Lose my sanity and get lost in the smoke, ‘cause reality is inevitable.”
