[notyourtboy]

Genuinely fucking evil how acknowledging the very concept of the oppression of people AFAB is enough to get you dismissed and derided as a bigot. Its literally an objective, indisputable fact that 99.99% of misogynistic oppression is targeted at people AFAB with the specific intent to control uteruses / reproduction and have us sexual objects. There is no argument here.

Actual fucking male supremacists have utterly dominated the trans community and made it so that acknowledging this basic fact is grounds to silence, harass, and abuse you.

And then they turn around and invent a special category of oppression that apparently only affects people AMAB and act like that's not straight up MRA incel shit.

If you believe in AMAB-exclusive oppression but think believing that people AFAB are oppressed is bigoted, you're a misogynist and a male supremacist. I don't value your opinion or perspective on anything.

[birthdaymoid]

I don't trust trans women who came out after high school ngl. i had one of those at my school, "female socialised" and "othered" my ass, she was like every other guy. never presented feminine. openly friends with people whod throw transphobic harassment at me. then she came out after we finished school and went in my dms acting all friendly

"oh this guy and that guy are transphobic(" lmao oh really? finding out now? now that you get burnt it finally matters? tell me something I didn't know

[misandryfunnymoments]

hi thanks for visiting my blog. like my bio says this is essentially a venting blog for discussing feminism and how misogyny affects women and navigating that discussion along with how trans individuals may change how that discussion is carried. i have identified as a trans rights supporter (again i struggle to call myself an activist as i am sort of just finding a way to navigate through life) for a long time now (and even considered myself trans for sometime now, if i still do is another question) but have often struggled answering questions i kept to myself of how misogyny properly was carried out to trans individuals. this blog is here to share these thoughts.

i would not necessarily call myself a radfem (again i'm not really an activist) but i may frequent blogs of those who do and their circles to share discussions. i may converse and share things from individuals whose opinions you may not agree with—this does not mean i agree with everything they say. i believe trans people have a right to exist, to be safe, and have access to healthcare. i do not believe i am a "terf" (though i do think that term is thrown around without concrete meaning) and am generally supportive of however a trans person identifies. however, i may share posts that are not, but i will try to tag them. that being said, i do believe there is a difference between how a trans person identifies and their biological sex. for example, i may refer to trans women as different than biological women, or may refer to afab trans people as biological women.

if you want to block me if my blog makes you uncomfortable, feel free to do so. i may add tags to watch out for here if certain language you may consider transphobic bothers you and you want to avoid it.

alright hopefully that covers it. happy scrolling ✌️

[solacryptic]

Hot take but I don't think we should be afraid to point out misogyny and sex-based oppression on the off chance it's interpreted as misgendering. To do so isn't disrespecting a person's identity but calling out toxic behavior. Someone does not need to be a misogynistic cis man to act like one or to perpetuate patriarchal oppression.

[butchpeace]

Intro Post

I lived as a trans man for 10 years before detransitioning and reconnecting with myself as a woman and a lesbian.

I'm against transition because it's medically harmful, not because I have any hate towards trans people.

Gender ideology disproportionately affects lesbian and bisexual women and tomboys, and causes us to become divorced from our community of women and disconnected from feminism. This leaves us vulnerable to all forms of abuse as well as psychological and medical distress.

Female people of any identity label are my priority. You’re beautiful and you deserve love, health, and a happy life.

Note: The Discord server is now closed due to lack of bandwidth to moderate. If you create a new group, DM me and I’ll add it here for others to find!

My Writing | My Comics | Medical Research | Asks

Radfem Library by @ladielabrys2:

Radfem Resources | TikTok | Linktree

Resources for learning about radical feminism. find me on twitter @ladielabrys2

[transchauvinist]

its crazy bc if transfems had just acknowledged sex based oppression & the need for afab spaces i dont think terfs would have sprung up as a reactionary movement or at least quite as strongly as they did. if transfems had put a single iota of effort into unlearning their male socialization instead of prioritizing getting cis pussy ts would not be happening. if they had realized that gender constructs are waaaay more complicated than just claiming they have some innate womynly soul this shit would not be happening. like come the fuck on

I feel like terfs exist regardless; but it probably would have been a better direction for the sorry state of transfeminism now.

[the-humble-parasite]

the trans community refuses to acknowledge the truth behind male/female socialization because it makes them dysphoric, and that’s how we end up with “TRAs” misrepresenting actual mtfs as bigoted pussy-obsessed rapists

Look me in my big beautiful eyes and tell me that you genuinely believe people perceived as male or female are not raised different based on that perception. A world where you are raised the exact same regardless of perceived sex does not exist. Wokeville only exists inside your head and you use it to hurt actual oppressed people

[fearlessfeministcat]

not even FTM spaces can be same sex, i see trans women posting up in there all the fucking time its crazy.

[coremilk]

① Does anti-AFAB-oppression exist* as a distinct axis of oppression (which does not target trans people AMAB, but does target both cis women and trans people AFAB)? ② Were you AFAB? ③ Are you trans?

*(That is to say "should it be used as a framework for analysis?")

Please select your answer carefully.

① No. (∄ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② No. (I was not AFAB)　　③ No. (I'm not trans)

① No. (∄ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② No. (I was not AFAB)　　③ Yes. (I'm trans)

① No. (∄ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② Yes. (I was AFAB)　　③ No. (I'm not trans)

① No. (∄ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② Yes. (I was AFAB)　　③ Yes. (I'm trans)

① Yes. (∃ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② No. (I was not AFAB)　　③ No. (I'm not trans)

① Yes. (∃ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② No. (I was not AFAB)　　③ Yes. (I'm trans)

① Yes. (∃ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② Yes. (I was AFAB)　　③ No. (I'm not trans)

① Yes. (∃ Anti-AFAB-oppression)　　② Yes. (I was AFAB)　　③ Yes. (I'm trans)

See results

Voting ended onNov 20, 2025

Since this poll by @trans-exchange, which was added to one of my posts, was phrased in a way that conspicuously fails to detect people who hold the belief that trans women (not AFAB) are spared from being targeted by a distinct axis of "anti-AFAB-oppression" when that axis of oppression is not referred to as "misogyny", I'm making this poll as a complement.

I prefer to force this point rather than leaving it ambiguous.

[coremilk]

Compiled from the raw numbers of the poll results:

The rest of the numbers (656 participants of 713 total votes):

All participants (656): 　　　Yes: 37.3% (245)　　　No: 62.7% (411) All people AFAB (343): 　　　Yes: 56.3% (193)　　　No: 43.7% (150) All people ￢AFAB (313): 　　　Yes: 16.6% (52)　　　No: 83.4% (261) All people ￢trans (66): 　　　Yes: 57.6% (38)　　　No: 42.4% (28) ￢trans, AFAB (52): 　　　Yes: 55.8% (29)　　　No: 44.2% (23) ￢trans, ￢AFAB (14): 　　　Yes: 64.3% (9)　　　No: 35.7% (5)

This poll was made in response to @trans-exchange adding a poll to this post asking whether trans women and trans men respectively were oppressed by misogyny.

(As this data is based on a convenience sample, the results should not be taken to have external validity.)

The wording of the question was attempting to ask if the concept of "sex-based oppression" (in a specifically trans exclusionary formulation, as understood by TERF ideology) should be used as a framework for analysis.

[marbleguard]

this is one of the best posts I’ve ever seen. The community polled itself, and the results straight from the horse’s mouth are so enlightening. Male people do not believe female oppression exists, while the majority of female people of course know that female oppression exists. I bet if you ran this same poll with “cis” women and men, you would get similar results, with men stating female oppression isn’t real and the women arguing that it is.

if you are a trans man or afab NB person, really think about these results, and what they suggest.

[queen-mayhem]

Oh wow. Many thoughts.

Men think sex-based oppression isn't real, shocker. I like when they say it out loud, though.

The trans movement as a whole believes sex-based oppression is not real. Shocker. I like when they say it out loud, though.

The notes of this post are absolutely seething about these "terf-adjacent transmascs" who "lack solidarity with transfems" because they acknowledge the existence of sex-based oppression.

There are full-blown batshit insane struggle sessions going on in the notes of this post, falling largely into the categories of "AFAB people are evil" and "Convoluted language arguments, because this post comes way too close to acknowledging that TW are male and TM are female so the language must get more obscure."

[quinntheestallion]

PEAK thread- people who peaked recently within the last two years- can you share your experience and what sent you over the edge. I’m curious

[quinntheestallion]

Hey guys, as a consciouness raising excercise-I said I would make a free pdf/zine based on some of the responses to this thread. So it can be shared around and hopefully raise more awareness on how women and girls are feeling. If you responded to this thread and you're okay with your response being featured, can you reply here or DM me with YES. And specify if you'd want to be anonymous or have your handle included. Thanks! Boost pls so ppl see <3

thessaralka

imminenthideoutandroid

@irretrievablylost

our-lady-of-cyber

myke-litoris

femalienation

youren0tfunny

bornkicking

@zukunftbittevergangenheitendlich

lillcarrionbird

ayelonit

peaking-bug

colombinaa

catgirlprostatecancer

@grandiose-saturation

@janfamnationsoldier

@flytrapfem

opinionsstuff

@in-lavender-haze

@gynkgobilobo

aroseinthecrypt

the-damndest--creature

etincelle-libellule

@trueheartberry

@samswifegamgee

@friendlyfreakazoid

iamabat-ama

@imnotdyingbutyouallare

female-uncle

@radovercover

@dhakcjshkvjbd

@sirikenobilegends-2005

@fedupradfem

@confessionsofabutch

terrafemming

aroseinthecrypt

(Couldn't tag everyone, this website is ass)

[quinntheestallion]

PEAK thread- people who peaked recently within the last two years- can you share your experience and what sent you over the edge. I’m curious

[iamabat-ama]

When I couldn't find a single transfem out of all the people I followed, even mutuals, who was willing to speak out or even just stay silent about i-suggest-forcefem. Even if they didn't call him out by name, they reblogged a bunch of weepy posts about how every transfem who gets termed is like a beautiful little star whose light goes out and on and on and on. Not ONE, not a SINGLE ONE valued kids over kid touchers as long as the kid toucher was transfem.

But I did see transmascs call it out. And it happened at the same time as a wave of anti transmasc posts and trans pride posts that went out of their way to exclude transmascs. No way to obscure the pattern any more, trans men were women and trans women were men. Each group was following the social patterns of the sex they started off as. Nobody was treating trans men like men or trans women like women either. All it did was give people "a good reason" to keep quiet when they see a man sexually abusing people.

[female-uncle-deactivated2026071]

Mine was a series of things, a lot of it amounting to terrible behavior from transwomen on and offline. I kept half-peaking, but because I was trans identified and medically transitioned, the truth was too painful and I kept trying to push it down.

My 'peak' came from the ISFF drama (as seems to be the case with many others), and lingering rage over the TME/TMA shit. I was searching one day for receipts on Tara Knight/bundleofstyx, and stumbled across a forum where others were talking about this stuff. I lingered for a while, talked to some women; the anonymity made me feel safe for the first time ever to talk freely about my feelings and experiences. I guiltily scrolled radblr for a while, and eventually after speaking with other women about the health and mental ramifications of being on T, I decided to just pull the trigger and say "fuck it, I can't do this shit anymore".

That was three months ago. I have been reading radical feminist lit and connecting with other women including detrans women. It's been scary and have lost quite a few irl friends just for daring to detransition (and I'm pretty crypto too lol). But I will take that any day over having to spend one more minute bending over backwards to serve men who do not respect me and who parade around in women's clothing acting like they know a single damn thing about what experiencing misogyny is like.

[aroseinthecrypt]

I'll join in on the others saying that it was the ISFF shit happening and it being defended while the Epstein files were still coming out that eventually did it for me. But if I'm being honest, it was a slow boil over the course of several years. (TW for sexual assault.)

screenshotting what I wrote so it won't be too easily searchable. it's actually so crazy that I endured all of this shit for so long because the "it's not the group, it's just this individual that's a creep and making everyone look bad! cis women do some vile things all the time too!" was such a load-bearing excuse within this ideology that was drilled into me over the years.

[grandiose-saturation]

I think the ISFF situation + just so many people lying to defend him and others like him made me leave. I peaked March 2nd, so this is all very fresh for me. Someone else made a post about desisted/detrans women who considered themselves transfeminist, and I was going to send an anon, but didn't end up sending it. I'll send screenshots of what I wrote, because I think a lot of it is relevant to me peaking:

[fematrix]

maybe i'm missing something, but where that "radfems hate/fetishise/try to silence trans men" idea came from? why would i want to do that? why would any of us do that?

many of us are detransitioners or desisters, many of us spent years and years in some local "queer" communities. maybe that's just my bias and a pure coincidence, but when i hear horror stories from those times, trans men are literally never the perpetrators or aggressors in them.

we know how it feels to be so overwhelmed with society standards, misogyny and stereotypes that we would even reach for a rusty blade if it offered to take us out of this whirlpool of despair and hopelessness.

why would i hate them? i was like them, a long time ago, although it feels like a different lifetime today. but there's no hatred or aggression, only compassion and understanding of how cruel this world can be.

[pinsbyyou]

being in the trans community makes me feel like i’m in the twilight zone.

“become a tr-nsf-minist. that means male privilege doesn’t exist, but you’re privileged for being a female. if you argue against this, you’re a tr-nsm-sogynist and a TERF.

talking about your oppression makes you a TERF, and TERFs are the women that everyone in the community hates. we’re calling you a TERF because that justifies harassing and abusing you. if you focus on anything other than me, you’re the type of woman that deserves to be abused. you’re not even a woman, so you don’t get any language to talk about your oppression, other than the language i said is okay, and i will never say any language is okay.

i am the most oppressed, most important person in the world. no, you can’t focus on the irony of the fact that the most oppressed woman is actually male and the worst type of man to be is actually a female.

you’re a man, and you’re so entitled, we know you’re a man. you act like one. but in reality, you’re just a female. you’re going to stop being a man to stab me in the back. you’re going to kill me, i know it. if you go talk to those people over there, just know you’ve proved me right. you’re a man, but you’ll never be anything other than female. males are more oppressed than females. we need to make a bomb that kills all of you.”

[ftmradfem]

You can’t be transgender and a radfem bae. Kinda antithetical to our whole deal

i'm female and i wholeheartedly believe in the solidarity between and liberation of all females, the eradication of the patriarchy, that females should be entitled to single sex spaces, that sex is real and gender is a social tool enforced by the patriarchy, etc. (to put it simply, for brevity's sake)

i use the label ftm for clarity, as that is the simplest way to describe myself to others on a surface level. i have medically transitioned and i don't intend to detransition but, that does not mean i'm not female because i am and i always will be. i will continue to advocate for all females, including gnc and transmasculine ones.

the way i present myself to the world does not negate the fact that i'm a female and also a radical feminist.

[onevoltperoctave]

transandrophobia vs. transmisogyny honestly really is just an extension of both misogyny & male entitlement respectively. funtionally, every transfemjnist is a borderline MRA and transmascs are outright bullied by the males in their community who really deep-down see them as immature girls and wants them to shut up.

ftm radfems are honestly really brave for breaking out of the cycle. i'm proud of you guys.

[snappysnarlystarryfrenzy]

I sincerely hope that the trans masc voices project fiasco makes a lot of FTMs peak and realize that MTFs do not care about them unless they are quiet and complacent. You can't even talk about negative things that MTFs have done in the community without them dog piling you. You can't speak up about the actual misogyny (read: transandrophobia) in your community without being called a whiny little bitch and told to shut the fuck up. I peaked because I got tired of being treated like a second-class citizen in my own goddamn community, as if MTFs are the most oppressed class to walk God's green repugnant Earth, and therefore we should treat them like gods.

I want a lot of fellow FTMs to realize that radical feminists do not hate you. Every radical feminist group that I have been a part of from Tumblr to discord has welcomed me with open arms. Several radical feminists are also FTM, or formerly FTM. You do not have to tolerate that sort of treatment from trans identified males. You deserve so much better. You are worth so much more. You don't owe anyone your allegiance just because you have dysphoria. You are not a scapegoat for MTFs.

[ferrethavermoved-deactivated202]

transandrophobia is a subset of misogyny

[ferrethavermoved-deactivated202]

the mtfs and transfeminists of tumblr hate transandrobros (and all afab trans people) because if transandrobros talk about the specific oppression they face by at the intersection of being trans/gnc and being born female (and female for the rest of their lives too), then the theory of transfeminism completely shatters and they'll all have to admit they have male privilege as a result of having been born male.

trans men and theyfabs and transmascs talking about their experiences with growing up female and facing misogyny their whole lives is exactly what transfeminists don't want to hear because if trans men are born female and experience misogyny because of it then that means sex based oppression is real which then means they are no longer oppressed for being male