Starry Dilemma

This is a Galewife blog now I don’t make the rules Middle Earth nerd/Sci-fi fan/RPG lover/Swiftie

[what-even-is-thiss]

You’d think that once you finally get long term access to a cat and your yearning to have cat access is fulfilled that you’d become slightly less obsessed with seeing people’s cats but no if anything it gets worse

[what-even-is-thiss]

Now that there are two whole cats in my life I have become even more obsessed with cats. Tell your cats I said hi.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I am reminded every day why I love cats because they’re right there, doing cat things, being absolutely adorable and committing cat crimes. They are friends with me and are so soft and also sharp.

[what-even-is-thiss]

You’d think that once you finally get long term access to a cat and your yearning to have cat access is fulfilled that you’d become slightly less obsessed with seeing people’s cats but no if anything it gets worse

[what-even-is-thiss]

Now that there are two whole cats in my life I have become even more obsessed with cats. Tell your cats I said hi.

[what-even-is-thiss]

I am reminded every day why I love cats because they’re right there, doing cat things, being absolutely adorable and committing cat crimes. They are friends with me and are so soft and also sharp.

[hellothisisangle]

[magnificentcoffeekitten]

I love these so much! Look how neat!

They also did Astarion!

[kororobus]

...consulting with the tadpole probably

[arianiziolek]

by Bhaal...

[ainavenelf]

I still can’t believe this happened. ❤️

My custom Gortash has officially found a new home at Larian Studios.

They unboxed him on stream, featured him across their social media, and even tagged me as the artist.

This project took months of work, and seeing the team behind Baldur’s Gate 3 holding him in their hands is something I never imagined.

Thank you, Larian. This truly means the world to me.

[wolfgirl1129]

🔥 **Let’s Talk About Outrage!** 🔥

Why are we directing our anger at Taylor Swift for her lavish wedding when there are far more pressing issues at hand? 🙄💔

The reality is staggering:

- The president just made a whopping **$1.6 billion in crypto.** 💰

- Meanwhile, he's been accused of **taking food and medicine from starving children.** 😢

- Not to mention, he accepted a **$400 million plane from Qatar** and has gutted SNAP benefits, leaving vulnerable families in dire situations.

- Oh, and let’s not forget how he spends **millions golfing on our dime.** ⛳️

Instead of judging celebrities for their personal choices, let’s redirect that outrage towards those in power who are making decisions that impact countless lives!

🗣️ **Take your outrage to him!** We should be focusing on what truly matters and advocating for change. Share your thoughts below! 💬✨ #Priorities #SocialJustice #OutrageRedirection

[when-emma-falls-apart]

Because the same machine that wanted USAmericans to be outraged at Kamala (so they abstained from voting and directly led to a Trump victory) wants you to spend your energy hating a sometimes problematic singer’s tachy wedding and staying distracted instead of hating Nazi oligarchs and genocidal state leaders.

Jesus Christ just please VOTE whatever your next election is before you completely lose the chance to.

[when-emma-falls-apart]

My condolences to the men’s USA World Cup team who will now be summarily executed

[gravitren]

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[pokemonprofessor]

For the uninformed, vaginismus is when the vagina painfully tightens and spasms when faced with pressure, usually from anything trying to insert into the vagina. It’s the reason I can’t wear tampons, and why many people can’t have vaginal sex without severe pain.

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

[frustratedwaffle]

I’ve never even heard of this??

[meetingthestoryteller]

There are an abundance of female sex disorders that no one talks about. The only reason I know them is because of my abnormal psychology class. But yeah, everyone knows what erectile dysfunction is.

[witchyouandditchyou]

Also vulvodynia!! If you experience chronic irritation, itching, pain, burning, etc on your vulva, and don’t know what it is or have been told by your doctors that nothing is wrong with you, YOU HAVE A REAL CONDITION AND YOU ARE NOT ALONE. Check out these resources:

https://www.nva.org/what-is-vulvodynia/

https://m.acog.org/Patients/FAQs/Vulvodynia?IsMobileSet=true

Anyone is more than welcome to DM me if they have questions or need support for this.

[rooji-r]

[willgrahamscock]

I know everybody has moved on but what they did to bellamy blake was the worst character assassination I’ve ever seen on television and I’m still pissed off 6 years later #notmybellamy

^ characters that would hate each other

[when-emma-falls-apart]

What do you MEAN it’s been six years?!!

[drizzledrawings]

I love when platonic love and romantic love is so blurred that it doesn’t even matter anymore. All that matters is the devotion that’s there, the unwavering devotion

[when-emma-falls-apart]

Clarke and Bellamy

[beardedmrbean]

[theman]

I GOT A FUCKING RAISE THE POTATO WORKED WTF

[tattooedzombigirl]

This potato works. Every. Fucking. Time.

[imanutcase-10]

Then bring me luck

[thirddeadlysin]

the day after I posted this last time I was notified that I was selected for a really cool mentorship gig and got an unrelated glowing review at work

[icantbearsedtothinkofone]

Hey Potato, cure my -ing cold so I can have a good time while away.

[dduane]

Here's the potato. Make what use of it you will. :)

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

today I found out my mother doesn’t know what dandelions are and now I’m wondering what other strange secrets she’s been quietly harboring

[krystal-prisms]

Where do you live that you don’t have dandelions?

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

we have dandelions EVERYWHERE, they are basically our State Weed, it is absolutely impossible that my mom has never interacted with a dandelion before, this requires further investigation

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

So after extensive interrogation I have an update:

my mom is in fact aware that dandelions exist. she temporarily forgot the name and there was some miscommunication.

the truth is actually weirder

she’s aware dandelions look like this

she is familiar with this flower. she knows the name of this flower. she declines to believe, however, that these are also dandelions

she does not believe these are the same plant. I tried to explain, and she thought I was either misinformed or lying. so I asked her what exactly did she think the yellow ones were called?

she answered, with complete confidence: Daffodils.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

gosh I enjoy this website

[authoratmidnight]

For comparison, this is a daffodil

[quietlygrousing]

See, folks in the southern US will tell you up and down those are buttercups, actually.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

i don’t think so? i’m southern and buttercups are what we call these things (much tinier)

[maejacrezz007]

Wait I thought those bigger cup ones were Easter Lillies???

[fractiousrvt]

This is an Easter Lily. It is an actual lily and therefore deadly to cats.

[blood-trip-god2]

They’re marigolds and I know a bitch when I see one!

[delphinidin4]

This is a marigold:

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

….we need to start taking the phrase “go touch grass” more literally. go outside and examine a flower i beg u

[jmtorres]

“buttercups” is a name applied to MANY flowers. in my part of the south it was this one:

imo there’s correct identifications of dandelions, daffodils, easter lilies and marigolds in this thread, but buttercups are simply impossible to agree on and the only solution is for everyone to post pictures of their local buttercups

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

*squints* is that a motherfucking EVENING PRIMROSE?!??

[demon-and-human]

Hello I would like to add to the confusion:

That purple fella is a Morning Glory as told by my mothers (texan)

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

⬆️ morning glory

[huehueiamabaguette]

wait so if thats morning glory what is this?

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

[delphinidin4]

*Puts hand over gaud’s mouth* It’s a butterfly pea. Please ignore the Latin name.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

*licks ur palm* i won’t be silenced THE PEOPLE HAVE TO KNOW

[bananonbinary]

i just saw the tag “canon complicit” instead of “canon compliant” and im laughing its like “canon is a criminal act that i unfortunately support with this fic”

[quillingmesoftly]

The Three Grades:

Canon Compliant: “This fic goes along with canon.” (Because I like it? Because I’m too tired to disagree by writing my own fic? Who knows? The author may or may not tell us.)

Canon Compatible: “Listen, I know it ISN’T canon, but think of it as Microsoft Office for Mac, it’s COMPATIBLE with canon, and that counts.”

Canon Complicit: “I have not died a hero, so I have become an accessory to the Villainy of Canon.”

[faustandfurious]

Canon Compatible is a great term for when your fic is Probably Not What Tolkien Would Have Wanted but it doesn’t really contradict anything in canon either

[quillingmesoftly]

#you can install this fic without canon crashing and that’s what matters

[may12324]

Queen Tilde and Princess Elise from 'A Snake Among Swans'. I read this book in like two days and have so much fanart on the way...

[anilevelenrahc]

[setulose]

I think I might be about to send a deranged email

[setulose]

Couldn't find an email address so it was instead a deranged form submission

[setulose]

HUGE NEWS

[det395]