fed up radfem

[harrypotterfuryroad]

i thought we weren’t allowed to acknowledge that

[hexagon-club]

funny how they rediscover what a woman is when they want to discriminate against them

[febphlegm]

people are really like "lesbians are so creepy and pervy for having sexual integrity and not wanting to sleep with certain people" like that's not the literal opposite of being creepy and pervy...

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

Goldstar lesbian: I’m pretty lucky I figured out my sexuality early and never slept with a guy. I’m glad I didn’t because I know I would regret it now, and it would have made me really uncomfortable, so yeah I’m pretty happy I’ve always known I was a lesbian which I’m aware is a pretty rare experience. Yay, good for me.

Everyone on earth for some reason: oh so you’re just a creepy straight guy who is saying that women who have slept with men are dirty impure sluts? you’re saying that late bloomer lesbians aren’t actually lesbians? You are a misogynist who judges women’s value based on their sexual history?? You want women who have slept with men to literally fuck off and die??? You are literally planning a mass genocide of women who have slept with men???

Gold star lesbians make up approximately 0.5 percent of the global population. No one hates you or is mad at you because you are straight or bisexual and slept with a man, and no one hates you for being a late bloomer lesbian who slept with a man. It’s fine, in fact, you are the status quo. I have a lot of respect for women who didn’t realize they were lesbians until after sleeping with a man, or even marrying one. All the hardships that late bloomer lesbians talk about when it comes to compulsory heterosexuality, social pressure, and uncomfortable sexual encounters with men are exactly why I’m really happy and proud of myself for figuring myself out early, and not caving to any social pressure, because I know that’s not an option for most lesbians and not a common experience. Late bloomer lesbians have every right to also be happy with themselves and proud of the things they’ve gone through to get to a happy lesbian life, and it wouldn’t make me insecure. You wouldn’t see me claiming that late bloomer lesbians are creepy men.

But the second commenter is absolutely right, I don’t view any type of male as a real woman! But even if you believed trans women are women, they are male and have penises. If being a gold star lesbian requires never sleeping with a man, there is no physical tangible difference in sleeping with the male body of a “cis man” and a “trans woman”. You have sex with your bodies, not your internal identities.

[dogs-need-womens-spaces]

[gnomebutch]

“If you’re gay…become bisexual and sleep with people you’re not attracted to! It makes you better!” DO YOU HEAR YOURSELFFFFFF !!!!!!

[anxiouslyliquidcurse]

when the lesbian flag pfp user has a moidian slip so bad you dont need to check his blog to confirm it

[friendlyfreakazoid]

I disagree with that post that was like “tumblr was worse when the demographic was straighter” because I think tumblr’s demographic is still exactly as straight as it has always been, it’s just that now all the straight people are pretending to be gay and calling themselves he/they puppyboys and she/it transbian catgirls and that kinda shit. And I think tumblr’s demographic has actually gotten more homophobic than it used to be because the fake gays feel threatened by real homosexuals so they need to shut us up so they can keep pretending that they are gay. And like sure, people were doing some seriously corny “horny posting” back in the day, but like… have you seen the way trans people talk about sex? It’s worse now.

[multigenderswag]

Reminder to multigender people (and trans people in general, but this came up on the multigender survey so I'm addressing multigender people in particular) that you can't "transition to become intersex." You can absolutely transition to have mixed sex characteristics, or both a penis and a vagina, or whatever other transition is best for you, but if you're not intersex you shouldn't refer to yourself that way. Intersex people have repeatedly explained that it's inaccurate and offensive to claim you're "transitioning to intersex," don't do that.

[dhakcjshkvjbd]

it’s offensive to think you can become intersex but not offensive to think you can become female? why?

[dhakcjshkvjbd]

hmmmmmm

[sickofthis666]

"A social and medical category of ppl facing specific discrimination since birth" 🤔 Well I wouldn't know nothing 'bout that. Obvsly.

[an-awkward-tangerine]

"Intersex people face so much discrimination from the moment they are born, doctors mutilating their genitals, parents forcing them down one gender path, etc. that it would be offensive to call yourself intersex when you have faced none of that discrimination"

Unlike women who aren't discriminates since birth, aren't mutilates because of their sex, aren't forced down one gender path... wait.

If sex is a spectrum and one can transition to female even if they were not born that way, why can't they transition to intersex even if they're not born that way ? Because of oppression ? Are you saying female people are not oppressed ?

[kiefbowl]

also, if JKR just never had a twitter, all these idiots would be on their hands and knees barking like dogs for this hp tv show. as an hp fan, I remember how annoying hp fans were. all the annoying hp fans disappeared and now all these annoying hp haters have sprouted up. I see you, I know what you are. fake ass haters. you looooove hp. you can't get it out of your damn mouth. shut the fuck up we KNOW you will be watching so you can make your shitty youtube videos for content lmao. "I watched the HP series so you don't have to" x20K. grow a BACKBONE instead of creating racist conspiracy theories on reddit!! <3

[majchic]

You can't be body positive if you don't like bodies

On millennial feminism's attempt to love your body while hating female bodies in general

[like-a-ruby]

saw that post where the op is like “i don’t give a fuck if the word queer upsets you, i HOPE my identity upsets you” and hundreds of ppl in the notes are rbing and tagging it with “queer as in fuck you” and it struck me that this phrase used to be gay people saying fuck you to straights who called them queer to hurt them and it’s now straight people saying fuck you to gay people who are hurt by the word queer. “queer as in fuck you” has been successfully reclaimed by the straight community

[flashdyke]

the gold star shit isn't just homophobic it's biphobic too. you reek of biphobia girl thnx for fishing yourself out. another biphobe to block

will we ever find out why bisexuals think acknowledging their existence is harmful

[gender-machine-broke]

What did they do to be expelled from the friend group though I wanna hear what the friend group has to say

[iwanttolisten]

I think these tags are important.

When I was with transfeminist circles I saw these posts all the time and it was a super effective guilting tactic. I kept several MTFs in my mutual circles way too long after they started going on aggressive screeds against "TME"s (which I wasn't even against at the time due to said transfeminist conditioning), doing kink shit I'd normally block people over on-sight, and making comments like "I don't agree with ISFF but the construction of the pedophile is used to oppress us"... because I was afraid I'd look like a transmisogynist excising them from my social circles. So, with the other transbians on the site, they continued to get worse in ways none of my other mutuals did and my dash became insufferable lol.

I am reminded of the minority tolerance phenomenon. As a trend, people become less bigoted towards a minority group the more they interact with members of said group inter-personally. This isn't to say minorities will have no problems in non-minority friend groups, but that as a trend they become more liked the more familiar a majority gets to them, because it becomes clear they are just normal people with harmless differences like everyone else.

This makes this whole thing a real outlier. Trans women getting in social groups *while* already out as trans women (so there's no "coming out as gay and being kicked out of a friend group" bias happening), becoming friends with the people there, and then being expelled again and again, well... That's not really typical?

If the problem is "trans women are seen as gross and weird and everyone is always looking for a socially acceptable reason to call them gross and weird", why is this superficial barrier of "difference", being perceived as "gross and weird", not diminishing as the MTF befriends the circle, and prolonged interaction makes people see that he's actually pretty normal? That's generally how it is for gay people.

[anjomecanico]

Human females urgently have to unite to kill aggressive males like the female bonobos do, it's a behavior for betterment of societies that humans missed and should get back

[cabbagefem]

If you can respect a religious woman not wanting to do X around male people because her religion tells her to but you can’t respect a woman who doesn’t want to do X around male people of her own free will you respect religious misogyny more than women

[cabbagefem]

Nun: I want to live with only women and no men because of my dedication to virginity and Jesus, to never get married or have kids and live on (basically) a commune

Men: yeah okay

Radfem: I want to live on a commune with only women and no men and to never marry or have children to dedicate myself to loving and supporting other women

Men: you insane misandrist bitch this is literally the holocaust

[cabbagefem]

Muslim woman: I don’t want to exercise around any male people, including transwomen, to be modest because my religion tells me to (and because it makes me more comfortable)

Liberals: yeah okay

Other woman: I don’t want to exercise around male people because I feel better in a female only space

Liberals: why is this literally racism

[kiefbowl]

men who identify as women are never like…gender envy!!!

[jmdj]

????????

Eddie Izzard

[kiefbowl]

it's so funny when queers are like queer is anti-capitalist and then you look at their blog and they're like here are all the beautiful things mass manufactured in china you need to buy to be yourself. and all the surgery you need. and sex work is work. hm. okay.