[probuccalfat]

these women did wonders for the “i’m single and i like it that way” community… i’m having a sexy ass life!

[sparrowposting]

"if you worry, you suffer twice"

Brother, I am inventing new types of worry and ways to suffer thrice. Perhaps even FOUR times.

[rennaturtle]

Something i drew right after final episode of The owl house

[sometiktoksarevalid]

[hardrockerhippie]

At first i was like: why the hell is this on tumblr?! And then it suddenly made sense...

[ekjohnston]

This is incredible.

[speedlimit15]

[cozyjorts]

for full context

[omglee-i-cant-even]

[kosmogrl]

april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good april will be good

[spacespectrum-deactivated202010]

my armenian father getting angry at a squirrel

[cornchipz-revival]

“you are. stealink…. my nuts…”

[shiny-goodra808]

I think about this video all the time

[disgruntled-neighborhood-wife]

You. Are. A. Leetle tief…

[arrow-ettes]

how it's feeling rn

[engulfes]

Growing up is actually all about realizing people don’t inherently dislike you and it’s a bit odd to assume they do

[existentialdruid]

This

[jelliebeanbitch]

there are more tweets in this thread

fucking SLAY

[darlington-v]

this isnt even the full thread, there are even MORE tweets to this thread that i think are really necessary to read if you do what op is talking about! it is not enough to know that feeling this way hurts the people you love, we already know that.

this rest of the thread continues after the third tweet from the reblog.

like THE FULL THREAD is genuinely so reassuring.

sometimes, it is not enough to just know, sometimes you might need that reassurance of "do you really think of me when i'm away?" and someone reassuring you that yeah, they do. and evaluate that! trust that! just like op did.

and then learning that ykw, it's NOT any of my business really. and finding comfort in that trust that like. whether they are or aren't thinking of me, they really do love me.

this full thread changed my life and i am ALWAYS going to give the full thread because the parts people cut out aren't enough for the people experiencing these things, speaking as someone who does. it, really it just makes us, made me, feel bad about my own capabilities when i saw the unfinished thread.

[mooch-the-goblin]

When I was going through a REALLY rough period of self-loathing due to weight gain and shitty body image, I vividly remember sitting in the shower with my partner in the dark, expressing my feelings of disgust I felt when I looked at myself in the mirror. He wasn't really saying anything and I sort of called him out on it, asking for some kind of feedback or support.

He very quietly said "I don't really know what to say. I tell you you're beautiful all the time and hearing you talk like this makes it feel like you don't really believe me" I'm not 100% sure, but I think his voiced cracked like he was getting emotional.

That made EVERYTHING shift around me and I felt AWFUL for centering my misery and not even considering that there was another party involved in my relationship with my body and my self-image. I wasn't letting his love in. I wasn't intentionally disbelieving him, but I WAS doing it.

From that moment on I promised him to believe him when I asked him about my appearance. It's made a MASSIVE difference in my self-confidence. If I'm not sure about an outfit, I just ask him "Do you think this looks good?" And if he says yes, I say "okay!" And then I don't think about it beyond that.

I'm not saying "your opinion about your body doesn't matter, just ignore it and listen to other people's opinions instead." I'm saying you can't see yourself the way the people who love you do. Your partner(s), your friends, your siblings, etc. The people we love and surround ourselves with become a mirror that reflects the most-adored parts of us that we can't otherwise see.

It's only fair that we believe them to be honest with us when they express that love. Your friend isn't just placating you when she says you look amazing in that outfit. Believe her.

I didn't realize until that moment in the shower that I could choose to believe my partner and take away so many doubts and fears. I no longer spend all day fussing with my outfit and worrying about how a garment sits. I choose to believe that when he says I look great, I do in fact look great and I don't need to care beyond that.

This isn't exactly what OP's Twitter post is addressing, but I think it's deeply related. Believe that you are lovable and allow the love of those around you to shape how you see yourself.

[ourlordapollo]

The zoo in my hometown posted this picture of one of their cheetah cubs and I'm obsessed

HIS NAME IS YAM ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDINF ME

[carfuckerlynch]

[noahnomore]

[clauonacloud-deactivated2022071]

[latinajedi]

[gay-jesus-probably]

YOU GET THE FUCK BACK HERE AND EXPLAIN THAT RIGHT NOW

[riluri]

well damn

[ospreyonthemoon]

[letslipthehounds]

Every time, I know what's coming, but every time, I just lose it at "Uh. That"

[glorybox13]

the way the series makes it as obvious as possible that they were each other's soulmates

[therulerofallpotatos]

They did this joke so many times and it ate every single time

[tofiam]

It was one of the most nicely done forced proximity strangers - to friends - to lovers in the trope history.

[memewhore]

[ruffboi-mags]

unmute for the love of god please it's amazing

[moonlightdistractions]

to think I would have just swiped past on mute, therefore not hearing pure unadulterated joy

[theblackparadeisdead]

Bro I fucking love the DB Cooper case nothing about this whole situation sounds real. None of the passengers on the plane realized they were being hijacked until the plane landed two hours after it was supposed to and the fbi showed up with suitcases full of money. The note about the bomb almost went unnoticed because the flight attendant thought she was being sexually harassed so she didn't read it. One of the main suspects was the first trans woman in Washington to have a sex change operation. A reporter who was so dead set on his suspect that he brought him to court was so upset about being wrong that he went catatonic and was treated with electroshock therapy and it WORKED. There's been multiple "I'm DB Cooper" death confessions. He never even SAID his name was DB Cooper. Either he got away with a million bucks in today's money and the most iconic and harmless crime American history or he impaled himself on a pine tree while falling a zillion miles an hour in the dark while clutching duffel bags full of cash and either option is equally hilarious. He wore a clip on tie. He committed an act of sky piracy. What in the fucking looney toons

[theblackparadeisdead]

HOLY SHIT HAPPY BIRTHDAY DB COOPER

[l-a-clift]

“That’s why it’s hard to make friends when you’re older,” she said. “Friendship is rude.”

Her friend’s eyes widened. “What?”

“Think about it! When we’re kids we decide who we like and stick by them no matter what. As adults, we’re taught to be polite.

But, friendship is an imposition— at least, I want it to be. Call me after nine o’clock. Don’t think you’ll ever wear out your welcome. Overshare, show up at my door, go to the grocery store with me so we can waste another hour chatting.

We’ll never be friends if we spend all of our energy trying not to bother each other.”

[valtsv]

"came back wrong" sure yeah that's cool i guess "came back suicidal" now you're talking

[valtsv]

came back imprisoned by obligation to bear responsibility for the love and grief that others feel for you. came back painfully aware of the horror of existence. came back to a life you cannot bear to live anymore, to a body you cannot bear to call yours.

[foone]

we tried to listen to a playlist called "90s alternative" on the youtube, and the first song was Radiohead's Creep. I skipped that and started with something else, Bittersweet Symphony by The Verve.

After that? it plays Creep. okay, I let it play. After Creep finishes, it plays... Creep. Huh. Weird. I select Smells Like Teen Spirit instead.

after it finishes, it plays Creep.

okay weird. I scroll down to Oasis - Wonderwall, and play that.

and it finishes, and... Creep.

YOUTUBE STOP IT WITH ALL THE CREEP

[foone]

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