truthnuke zone

autistic gnc lesbian | adult | certified factfem and himejoshi ⚢

[gatekeeper-of-witchcraft]

at this point, asking gnc women their pronouns is a microaggression

[itisthefunpolice]

I’m not joking when I say this, I mean it. Asking a gender non-conforming woman her pronouns is sexist and I say as much when I’m asked. It’s the implicit message it sends: “I see you, and you are female, but you are not feminine enough to fit societal standards and therefore you must not be a woman”.

[unfriendly-lime]

Automatically using gender neutral or male pronouns for gnc women sends a message. Constantly asking (harassing) a gnc woman for her pronouns sends a message. Liberal parents, teachers, and classmates going out of their way to tell gay, gnc, and/or tomboyish girls its ok to be trans or introducing them to genderism sends a fucking message. That shit is noticed and gets internalized along with all the other misogynistic crap thats spewed at us on a daily basis. Its evil.

[xxactlyperfect]

It happened a few years ago, but I vividly remember when I first got a buzzcut. When my ex-therapist first saw my new haircut, she immediately started asking if I’m a lesbian, after assuming I am trans. Of course. Because there is no valid reason for a woman to not want this long hair, which will clog up your drain, fall down everywhere, and require a lot of maintenance.

They will tell you “beauty is pain” and act surprised when you say you’re not a masochist.

[unsentimentaltranslator]

They will tell you “beauty is pain” and act surprised when you say you’re not a masochist.

[hungwy]

Another reason why trains would be good is that most people are not good at driving

[p0pipos]

it's not yuri if one of them needs to get checked for prostate cancer

[gnomebutch]

I find it so insidious how people see the obvious correlation between autism and gender non conformity and say it’s because autists are somehow biologically more transgender on average rather than realizing that gender as a whole is a oppressive construct that punishes those who aren’t good at fitting into social norms

[badmiffy]

um actually I’m immune to social influence btw, i just HAPPENED to arrive at the same free choice as every other woman on the planet. you know, the one that’s socially expected of us and that we face social repercussions for not choosing? yeah it’s pure coincidence

[g1rluninterruptedd]

uh oh a rant:

it’s very difficult to be empathetic with women who don’t like people like me sometimes. yes female socialization and we should still protect women, regardless of if they hate women and feminism and xyz— it gets very frustrating being a girl, especially a black girl, and having to defend women who would throw you under the bus at literally any given second. and to be so honest, im not gonna feel bad for them 24/7. there are times when its genuinely just like fuck it all, girl, you’re on your own, why waste my breath. obviously not all the time but sometimes it’s just so irritating. because sometimes i think “how do you not see this very obvious pattern?” and when its racist non-black women, it just bothers me because ?? we’re on the same team, what is your problem. 😭 i’m still gonna root for you but it just sucks

edit: and even women who SHOULD BE ON YOUR SIDE OH MY GOD like that “lesbian feminist” i had posted that was shitting on that actress for her looks ????? girl fuck you 😭

[loveridden1999]

i may have my father's worst traits but i am more ethical & virtuous with them than him

[vexingwoman]

One of my most controversial opinions is that although male suicide statistics are often thrown around in an attempt to elicit sympathy for men, I almost never feel sympathy. Each time I hear the male suicide stats, I imagine a venn diagram where one circle represents demographics that are overwhelmingly male, and the other circle represents demographics with extremely high suicide rates.

And do you know what demographics often make up the intersection? What demographics are both overwhelmingly male and have extremely high suicide rates? School shooters. Child rapists. Terrorists. Those who murder their wives and children. Violent criminals.

There is often this depiction that men who commit suicide are merely lonesome victims of ‘misandry’ who could not fulfill the harsh standards of masculinity. And yes, many of them might be. However, no one ever mentions the flip side of it, which is that male suicide statistics are often just an extension of male degeneracy—that men who commit suicide are not always victims, but rather victimizers seeking to escape the consequences of their actions. Don’t you ever wonder what the male suicide rate would be after subtracting all the pedophiles, murderers, and terrorists?

[glorbzorbler]

Genuinely is this the goal. Let the surplus male population do what they do best.

[donutfem]

At its core I’ve come to the conclusion that Reddit is a pornography site that just so happens to have some non-nsfw interest based communities and that’s why the culture there is the way that it is.

[no-just-hell-no]

Protect trans kids. But please, dont investigate what happens in childrens gender clinics. Please dont do any research on puberty blockers. And please, dont why the numbers of trans identified youth skyrocketed over the last past years. We don't really need to know why some people regret transistion, so don't tell the trans kids detransitioners exist. Don't let them hear those stories, don't do any research on why they thought they where trans but regret it now. Protect trans kids by never challenging their claims, never be cautious when you see homophobic parents who clearly show signs of transhausen by proxy. Don't be alarmed when doctors from a childrens hospital talk about how puberty blockers ata certain age will render them unable to orgasm. Just hand out puberty blockers and hormones and send them off to surgery, but please don't ask why, don't ask if this is safe, don't ask what will happen in 10, 20 or more years, because, they are so vulnerable, we need to protect them.

[feminist-furby-freak]

Science matters! Unless that science disagrees with our ideology I’m which case science is a bigot and reality is evil

[the-sappho-of-lesbos]

I don’t know I just think if you are fighting so unbelievably hard to make lesbian mean someone who desires sex with men you are weird. Why does it bother you so much that there are a group of women who genuinely, down to their core, genuinely don’t find men sexually attractive?

Why are people so set on the idea that a woman must be wrong, or close minded, or narrow or not accepting human fluidity to just be like “yeah, men don’t do it for my sexually. I’m not attracted to that. I’m not interested in having sex with men. I know what desire and arousal feels like because I feel it for women. So I know I don’t feel it for men”.

[acidbathbunnies-moved]

Scientists mapped all the nerves of the clitoris for the first time

High-resolution X-ray offers a new look at an understudied organ: the clitoris.

'Useless' female organ discovered over a century ago may actually be important for fertility

The rete ovarii, a poorly understood structure connected to the ovaries, may be much more essential to ovarian function than scientists init

some cool articles i found

[acidbathbunnies-moved]

[bushpropaganda]

and the research was led by a woman!! dr. ju young lee, thank you :'))) her website is linked in the first article, but here it is again.

[glorbzorbler]

Long live the clit ✊️

[invinciblehorseedit]

my subversive and kinky fetish is liking vagina and not penis

[digichips]

"I'm a bi woman and my boyfriend is also bi, so we're a queer couple."

Hetero relationship.

"I'm a transman and I'm dating a transwomen, and since we're both trans, we're a queer couple."

Hetero relationship.

"I'm a transman dating a cisman and we're SO gay!"

Hetero relationship.

I'm a woman dating a transwoman and we're both lesbians!"

Hetero relationship.

"I'm a AFAB nonbinary person dating a AMAB nonbinary person and we're very queer!"

Hetero relationship.

"I'm a woman dating a man and we're very kinky, so we're queer!"

Hetero relationship.

"I'm a woman dating a man who likes painting his nails, so that means we're-"

Hetero relationship.

Female x Male = Hetero relationship. It doesn't matter how different and unconventional you think your relationship is from most hetero couples. It's primarily women I see insisting their hetero relationship is not like the others and is "queer" because it's not blatantly based on Christian tradcon values.

And yeah I get that bi people don't stop being bi when they're in a relationship with the opposite sex. But a female person dating a male person still makes the relationship itself hetero.

[swisssjeez]

Every other day a trans person will make a post about how they realized that even their most ardent allies are just playing along to be nice and don’t actually see them as their gender identity and all the comments will be other trans people agreeing because they’ve noticed it too but not a single one of them would ever waver on their stance that society and social analyses should be focused on gender identity rather than sex.

It really highlights how effectively “transwomen are women” is used as a thought terminating cliche. It doesn’t make logical sense to know that most trans people are not perceived as their gender identity and still insist that it is of the utmost importance as a sociological factor. But “transwomen are women.” They couldn’t even say “yes, transwomen are women but sex is clearly the social factor with the most influence,” because that’s not the point of TWAW. It really is meant to, and does, terminate any thought beyond those few words.

[niiwa-angel]

"OMG!! Trans women are being BANNED from life! They're trying to keep trans women out of sports, schools, shelters, and employment!"

Nooooo, you're being politely redirected from categories and options that aren't made for you. You can compete in all the sports you want, just not in the women's category. There are more male and mixed sex shelters than women's shelters, you are more than welcome to go to any of the men's/mixed sex shelters, you just can't get into the women's shelters. You can go to school and study whatever you want, you just can't take women's scholarships or attend a women's only college. You can apply to any job you want, you just can't take a job at a female only shelter/clinic and put the clients at risk.

This is not discrimination, this is just protecting specially created categories created to ensure the safety of women or to help women break into education/employment that is harder for them because of their sex. It's not limited to sex based issues either, we see this in multiple different areas.

I, as a white woman with no Indigenous ancestry, cannot get scholarships, grants or bursaries created for Indigenous students. That's not "reverse racism" that's protecting the integrity of the programs set up to help Indigenous youth get into higher education.

I, as an able bodied and minded person, can't compete in disabled sporting categories. Those were made for disabled athletes to compete and interact with other disabled athletes. Allowing a non disabled person to compete not only takes a spot from a disabled athlete, it creates an unfair competition for the disabled athletes still there.

I, a 23 year old, cannot enter a writing competition for teenagers. I could 100% out write a 13 year old, but a teenager is still learning to write and teenage writing competitions are made to promote writing in young people.

I'm not being excluded from sports, competitions, or education, I'm just not able to take space away from vulnerable people. Trans identified males need to learn that there's a difference between being redirected and being oppressed.

[bushpropaganda]

btw transwomen have been forcing themselves into lesbian spaces since the 1970s. transwomen have been stealing slogans from lesbian activists and other rights movements for just as long. there is a very long, very documented history of their entitled behavior. and even back then, lesbians were demonized for protecting their community against males.

time is a flat circle. this clash between entitled males and women's rights has been a very long time coming. the same rhetoric they spewed back in the 80s and 90s, they're using now, except governments all over the world are bowing to them.

the lesbians before us didn't give in, and we owe it to our elders to keep up the fight.