I don't even f×cking know

"Is the desire to be free a contagious disease?" - 23, f, bi - not TERF friendly - all trans/queer welcome

[urbanxdivinity]

What pleases u in bed?

sleep

[7244395]

Prior to 1980 psychiatrists could diagnose you with “sucks at life disorder”

[sinetoning]

problems disorder

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

Lol it's me!!

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

When the fuck, how the fuck, and why the fuck was there a porn blog on my dash? From someone in my follows list?

Fastest unfollow I've done in a hella long time lmao

[real-pcys-deactivated20190118]

hot take: moms need to learn how to listen to and comfort their daughters without making everything about their own traumas

[real-pcys-deactivated20190118]

a classic example

daughter: hey this thing you do bothers me very much and i wish you wouldn’t do it

mom: well my parents abused me and im not even as bad as they were and i had to sit through it so you gotta sit through whatever i do to you too

[daeranilen]

a common variant

mom: well i’m having a really hard time right now and you know that i’m doing my best and that i didn’t mean to hurt you ergo you are in fact the asshole for asking me to consider your feelings and change my behavior during this hard hard time i’m having

[thetrekkiehasthephonebox]

least favorite

mom: fine. you’re right and i’m wrong and i’m a horrible person. there. are you happy now?

see also

mom: you can’t be mad at me. you’re not allowed to be mad at me. i can’t stand it.

[sasstrek]

daughter: There’s this thing that bothers me about school/life

mom: well I’m so sorry that I’m a terrible mother and that I can’t fix every problem

[jabberwockypie]

I have legitimately blocked people on here after seeing them do the “Fine, you’re right, I’m a terrible person” thing. I lived with that shit for more than 20 years, I’m making the choice not to have people like that in my life anymore.

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

Um. Um, guys? I.... I hate to be the one to tell you this, but.... that's gaslighting. Straight of gaslighting. Like, Mother Gothel in Tangled, gaslighting.

[scretladyspider]

I mean

[furbearingbrick]

adhd is stored in the ass

[sunlitkoi]

the a in adhd stands for ass

[moonybyte]

What do the other letters stand for then?

[commodorecliche]

Ass Don't Have Dopamine

[arsonistblue]

I’m sorry Mrs. Teacher, I’m trying to focus but I’m 

dummy thicc

and the clap of my a(dhd)sscheeks keeps distracting my brain 

[pocfansmatter]

Hey I'm happy that Twilight is coming back but I can never get over the fact that Stephanie Meyer thought it was a good idea to write in that the werewolves have to cut their hair or else their fur would be long & shaggy to maintain.

As if most Native Americans literally don't cut our hair for spiritual reason. We literally believe it's an extension of our spirit. Its painful to cut, it's the evaqulant to cutting out your soul.

That's why we literally only do it when someone dies. Because its to show your mourning. Only to show your love and how much pain you're in.

Not all tribes do this but enough do. I literally went 3 years without cutting my hair once. Some have gone decades.

But naw turn to doggy cut hair regularly. The first set of Native actors they had literally got recasted because they refused to cut their hair. What did you THINK was gonna happen Meyer?

Notice how Booboo Stewart has always had long hair since his Twilight days?

Anyway heres a little clip about braids.

[autisticexpression]

I did not know this and it's a fucking stupid piece of world-building tbh. No other werewolf media has this. Sounds like she was deliberately disrespecting indigenous culture.

[red-mercer]

She's a Mormon and it's literally in the Book of Mormon that Native Americans were turned that color because of the sins of the ancestors

So it's at least partially racism, and part being the kind of basic who gets wet for khakis and Volvos and crew cuts

[cripplepunk-sylveon]

Meyer was kind of shit around the Quileute in general, she never asked any of them if they WANTED to be part of her bullshit or if mangling their legends surrounding wolves was okay. It’s more 80% racism, 20% being that kind of basic.

It’s shit worldbuilding. (Besides, they’re not even real werewolves, they’re shapeshifters and that just makes it even more bullshit)

[halflifefunny-deactivated202212]

since so many people are coming out as exclusionists, lemme just let yall know, my blog is a safe space for all genders and sexualities. asexuality is part of the lgbtq+ community and pansexuality is super fucking valid. we dont support exclusionists here.

[db4yup]

aromantics are part of the lgbtq+ community also and if you don’t think so fuck off

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

Yeah so like I was gone from Tumblr for awhile and now I find there's a whole goddamn community of exclusionists on here who are loud and proud about that, and I mean like, free speech and all that shit but to anyone else, just know that if you've stumbled on this blog somehow then you're a lovely human being and I support you

[jollyjoules]

Story of my life people. You know what’s real ? The struggle.

Happy Pride Month ♥

[jumpingjacktrash]

this right here is why ‘queer’ is an identity, not a slur

[frnkieroismydaddy]

QUEER IS AN IDENTITY, NOT A SLUR

[lemonsharks]

Put the Q back in LGBTQ+

[gardeninthevoid]

queer ≠ friend

one thing i’ve had to get through my head after hanging out with a bunch of lgbtq+ people in my area, both online and irl, is that not all lgbtq+ people are cool, glamorous, tumblr-queer. they don’t all have great wisdom to offer. they’re not all going to have exciting bonding experiences with you.

some of them are boring, some of them are annoying, some of them are dumb. some of them are conceited, some of them are reckless, some of them are cowardly. some of them have deeply regressive ideas and views. some of them have serious undealt with emotional issues. some of them are assholes! and that’s okay! you don’t have to be friends with all queer people you meet! you should obviously still respect their identities, support them, and defend their rights as far as gender and sexuality go, and you may still relate to each other in some aspects, but that support and sense of family often won’t extend into any other areas of life.

and that’s okay, because all it means is that lgbtq+ people are simply people. the community is not some special breed - it’s tied together with a thin string of “not straight or cis”, and aside from that, it’s a very diverse community of completely normal people, all unique and different from each other, some great, some not that much, some just not meant to get along. nobody’s personality is defined by their sexuality or gender identity, including yours. it shouldn’t define your relationships, either.

[transgendersuggestion]

Even if you don’t pass you’re still trans

[sweetiepie08]

Mandalorians: He is the Mand’alor

Din: No you don’t understand. I never set out to be Mand’alor. I only wanted to save my child from Moff Gideon.

Mandalorians: He took on one of most dangerous Imperials in single combat to protect his family! Praise the Mand’alor!

Din: Wait, let me explain. The child was a foundling under my care…

Mandalorians: He treats the foundling as his own flesh and blood! All praise!

Din: No! listen! He was threatening my Child with the darksaber, so I took out my pure beskar spear…

Mandalorians: *shaking* This is the most mandalorian thing we’ve ever fucking heard…

[oliver-do-the-twist]

[gfwooyo]

i hate how reward systems never work for me like i can’t just say “if i finish this assignment i can have a cookie” bc my brain is like “…..or u could just have one right now” and i can’t argue with that logic

[truestoriesaboutme]

Self-imposed deadlines don’t work either because I know the guy who set them and he’s full of shit

[truestoriesaboutme]

This is going around again, so I should say, I was wrong when I wrote this.

Actually, I know the girl who set them and she’s full of shit

[bisexualshakespeare]

Congrats on the gender. Get well soon with the executive dysfunction

[mad-dyspunktional]

I honestly cannot believe how far T(W)ERF rhetoric has spread on this site. They used to be the ONLY ones I saw openly mocking the concept of identifying as queer, the ONLY ones I saw referring to people as ‘kweer’ in a mocking way.

[mad-dyspunktional]

You all are so 100% certain you know how to identify radfem and T(W)ERF rhetoric and can’t possibly fall victim to it but guess what.

They are nowhere near above pulling this shit. And you all are falling for it.

[mad-dyspunktional]

And if you think that screenshot is an isolated incident, think again!

There are countless radfem and T(W)ERF blogs that I’ve blocked that said ‘secret radfem sideblog’ in the description.

Like, it’s great that we’ve made being a T(W)ERF so unaccepted on this site that they can only be open about the most toxic of their views in secret side blogs rather than on their main, but it’s time to accept that they’re taking advantage of that in a really fucking insidious way.

[robertplantspants]

Just a tip on how to recognize these blogs. If you follow someone and you start getting suggested t*rf blogs that’s a good sign the person has sideblog for that stuff. There was some cowboy blog I followed a while ago and I used to get follow suggestions saying “this blog is similar to cowboy whatever” and it was a ton of t*rf shit and low and behold they ended up outing themselves

[nothorses]

This is why we learn about what actual TERF ideology is. Saying “trans women are women” and “TERFS not allowed” and putting “TERF destroyer” or whatever in your bio is not enough. Learn how TERFs actually work, and what they believe, and where it stems from, and how they express diluted versions in order to warm up non-TERFs to their ideas.

Do the fucking work. Unfollow/block people who express TERF ideas even if they don’t label themselves as TERFs, challenge those ideas in your community, and you won’t have to worry about secret TERF blogs anymore.

[npdclaraoswald]

Just in case you happen to be unaware, some of the “radfem lite” they post to warm you up to their rhetoric, just off the top of my head:

Ace/aro exclusionism

Bi exclusionism or claims that bi people are “less queer” bc of “straight passive privilege”

Saying you have to be dysphoric to identify as trans

Invalidating nonbinary people

Calling queer a slur regardless of context, saying people can’t identify as queer, and saying that it can’t be reclaimed

“Mogai hell”, “kweer”, or otherwise mocking less common labels and claiming they are “just cishets who want to feel special”

Excluding sex workers from feminist discussions or claiming that sex work is inherently evil

Basically anyone who thinks they can determine what other people identify as

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

Good to fucking know, ig. Jfc. Wtf is wrong with some people?? How hard is it to understand that mysogny and misandry go hand-in-hand, that trans women are in fact women, and are affected by moth mysogny and misandry? Fuckin hell. It's not the goddamn vagina itself that determines whether someone can be sexist against you or not.

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

uh oh someone gave kirby an ass & legs that go on for miles

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

this is actually slightly less painful than i anticipated 

[chessys]

my husband of twenty years: i love you me: he’s just saying that to be nice

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

Me in 21 years lol

(btw I'm engaged now and I'm so excited)

[turing-tested]

almost said “thank you king” to the cashier at the dollar store today

[sincerelyyours--kriegerin]

why didn't you honor the king

[caesarsaladinn]

So much of what is “cringe” is just… earnest.

[argumate]

what if you made an honest expression of genuine human emotion and someone saw it!

[cargopantsman]

Mortifying