they should make it easier to get bottom surgery
special mention to how the BMI requirements are horrific and they need to go!
I've been thinking a lot lately about how many trans women I've known who come to realize over time that they experience much more bottom dysphoria than they've consciously understood
I think this is partially a problem of trans women being fetishized, a trans woman's value being equated with her penis, but I think it's also partially a problem of availability. personally if something is difficult to attain then I have an internal reflex to unconsciously convince myself I don't want or need it. for this reason and many others it needs to be made easier
personally it's fucking crazy going through life not even being able to be naked around trusted loved ones or fully have sex because the dysphoria is so bad. it's unacceptable that so many of us have to live like this. it's horrible that for many trans women it's almost impossible to get the care we need. it does not have to be like this
GOD. YEAH. YUPPPP
I've come to realize over the past year or two just gotta bad my bottom dysphoria is and how much i want surgery. This is after a good decade of me telling myself "Oh no, i dont mind my dick. Haha, yeah no, it's not gonna be worth the trouble for a part of my body that not that many people will ever see anyways 🙃"
And now that im realizing i really really want bottom surgery I'm just kicking myself for not starting the process sooner.
The BMI limit for it in my country is 30, and I'm extremely worried about it. They might force me to lose like 15-20kg, and I don't even know where to begin. I don't even want to lose weight in the first place. I love being fat and soft, it makes me feel like myself. And the idea that i might have to fucking diet and lose that, just to access a gender affirming procedure is tearing me up inside.













