#fear of judgment

[solaceissolitude]

my life would be 100% better if i was just confident

[mistplaced-thoughts]

I hate the feeling of not knowing how to do something. I hate being perceived as dumb—even just for fun. I want to learn anything and everything, be an expert in every single thing so I never come across as an amateur, someone less capable, someone who doesn't know.

[nova-moon13]

[400fairyfartss]

"Normalize–" STOP😠 YOU CAN BE THE FIRST TO DO, FEEL OR HAVE THE THING. YOU DO NOT HAVE TO WAIT TILL IT'S COOL AND TRENDY. YOU DON'T HAVE TO WAIT UNTIL SOMEONE ELSE VALIDATES YOU. PEOPLE THINK NICHE MUSIC TASTE IS COOL BUT SOMEHOW IT'S UNCOOL TO BE DIFFERENT WHEN IT'S SOMETHING ELSE???

STOP WAITING FOR THINGS TO BE NORMAL, DO IT UNNORMALIZED, NORMALIZE UN NORMALIZED THINGS I

[howifeltabouthim]

Perhaps he needed to get better at seeing his life for what it was. Better at accepting things and trying to worry less about how he seemed to others. The source of his unhappiness was that he had an overdeveloped capacity for imagining what other people thought and allowing this to change him. He knew he was thinking too much about himself.

Brandon Taylor, from Minor Black Figures

[lnoellel]

[borkx3]

Lowkey I prolly need a beta reader for my future fics but im so scared of judgement that idk if I could do it with anyone that isnt like a close friend😭 and even that feels embarrassing cuz what if they (friend or rando online) tell me “oh aha this line here needs a little work” and theyre all nice about it but secretly theyre thinking DAYUM SHE DUM AS FUCKK‼️‼️😿😿😿 or they just judge me idk