i need able-bodied people to stop comparing their pain to my pain and the pain of disabled people
like, an actual interaction I have had with friends many times:
friend: yeah me too, i fell asleep at 2! when did you fall asleep?
me: oh, like 11, but it doesn’t really matter haha
friend: hmm, i think I’m more tired than you
friendly neighbourhood reminder to all you able-bodied people that your tiredness and pain is rarely comparable to a disabled person and a friendly reminder to all my disabled people that your tiredness and pain is rarely comparable to an able-bodied person