the discomfort of being visibly lgbt to cishet strangers < the joy of being visibly lgbt to other lgbt people who then go out of their way to signal that you share a community
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me

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the discomfort of being visibly lgbt to cishet strangers < the joy of being visibly lgbt to other lgbt people who then go out of their way to signal that you share a community
Transcript:
“Most of what you think you know about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is wrong.
This is the model that we all learned in psych 101 is wrong [image of Maslow’s pyramid is shown] where our basic physiological needs are at the bottom of the pyramid and achieving one’s full individual potential is at the apex.
What you may not have known is that Maslow spent 6 weeks with the Blackfoot First Nation in the summer of 1938. He learned about their worldview and the Blackfoot Tipi, appropriated and misrepresented their perspective to establish his own Maslow’s hierarchy, and then didn’t give them credit.
[Image of Maslow’s pyramid and Blackfoot tipi shown, described below]
According to the Blackfoot Tipi, self-actualization is at the bottom of the pyramid. In the middle we have belonging and community actualization, where people take care of each other and help each other with their basic needs. And at the top, we have cultural perpetuity, which is teaching each other how to live in harmony with the land and achieve community actualization through generations.
It makes so much sense, right? Taking care of oneself is not enough. We need to take care of each other and our community.
This is why we need to decolonize psychology.”
An Octopus unscrewing a lid from the inside.
Octopuses are going to kill us all someday
I had a biology teacher that told us this story about an octopus at an aquarium in Australia. The staff were concerned because their population of crustaceans kept disappearing. No bodies or anything. So they checked the video feed to find out what’s up.
Across from the the crustacean tank was a small octopus tank. This little fucker squeezed out of a tiny hole at the top of his tank, walk across the hall, and get into the crustacean tank. He would then hunt and eat. After he was done, he crawled back out and get back in his tank
Here’s the kicker: security guards patrolled the area. The staff realized that the octopus had memorized the security’s routine. It would escape and be back between the guards’ round.
My friend who worked at Henry Doorly Zoo in Omaha, Nebraska had a similar story. Rare fish were disappearing, they suspected theft, and so set up a camera. An octopus was unlocking the top of its tank, walking across the suspended walkway, unlocking the other tank, eating his fill, re-locking the other tank, then re-locking its own tank.
I can’t remember what zoo this happened at, but there was another octopus somewhere who was unscrewing a water valve in the room where its tank was located and routinely flooding the place. The staffers had no idea what it was until they filmed the octopus caught in the act.
RELEASE THE KRAKEN!! But, sir, it has already released itself!
Octopus Steals Video Camera, Films Own Escape
Octopus Escapes from Tank to Prowl on its Neighbors
Octopus Escape — 600-pound (272-kilogram) octopus wriggles through a passageway the size of a quarter
Legging It: Evasive Octopus Has Been Allowed to Look for Love
Octopus Escapes through Small Hole in Ship
My dad worked in a lab and one of the rooms had a tank with an octopus in it. If they didn’t go play with the octopus he got bored and would climb out of his tank and steal the paperwork off the desks, and drag stuff into his tank to let the scientists know he was upset with them.
Octopi: aquatic cats.
There’s also been a case of one hunting sharks in the same tank. Octopi are the assholes of the sea.
I love them so much.
You CAN Miette?! You put her in the jar like the peanut butter?! Oh! OH! Davy Jones’ Locker for the researcher! Davy Jones’ Locker for One Thousand Years!
Thoreau said, “Most men lead lives of quiet desperation.” Don’t be resigned to that. Break out! Break out! Now is the time!
DEAD POETS SOCIETY 1989 | Peter Weir
I was high off my ass last night and had this dream where I was in this dense ass forest and sitting there was a tall woman. She was so tall I couldn’t see her face but she was wearing gold and I was like “uh…hi?” And she said “I made you, do you know that?” And I nodded and she was like “I hear your thoughts. Why do you hate my creation? Why do you try to destroy yourself? I made you perfect as you are. Please don’t break my heart”. Then she started crying and it flooded and I woke up with fucking heart palpitations like what does it Mean™️????
polar opposite of this post
inspiration struck and would not let me go until i drew this
This is really beautiful!!!
OKay I subscribe to TWO versions of the afterlife now, this and eeby deeby
hi! so i’m a native, disabled, autistic, DID system and i’ve recently have been making steps to leave an abusive toxic household and move in with my life partner, and while i’ll be able to afford my month-to-month expenses once i get there, there’s a lot of one-time fees and purchases i need to make in preparation to do so, so i’ve decided to re-open my witchy commissions! any help/boosting is appreciated!
if you want to help out but can’t afford something, we can work out a price that works for you <3
pricing and payment info is under the cut !
Hi! Thanks to everyone i was able to afford to go to the dentist but i still need some help! I am running super low on groceries and need money for antibiotics for my mouth so if anyone could help me it would be amazing.
Right Now i am employed but the situation in Brazil is quite dire and even with my salary i can’t afford to pay for everything so if anyone could give me a hand, even with a dollar i would be forever grateful, thank you!
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Whenever autism moms post shit like like “autism won today 😔” Im just like okay, another win for autism!
Out of all the dumb conspiracies out there, flat earth is the one that shocks me the most because you can just... watch the ocean for a little while and know it's not true
This is the best comment section this post could've possibly had
just came up with a really good 4 word cooking horror story but idk if you guys are ready for it
2 cups vanilla extract
okay but what did they cook after they drank two cups of vanilla extract?
wow! never seen someone invent a whole new type of sin in just 14 words before!
Come on man lol
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MLK: I have a dream...
The audience:
Late night comedian tall show hosts are uncontrollably sobbing and throwing right now knowing they'll never, ever make anything as hilariously tone deaf as this
my erectile dysfunction is so bad today dude i hate having adhd
EXECUTIVE DYSFUNCTION
thinking about how orpheus turning to look back at eurydice isn’t a sign of mortal frailness but a sign of love
“Eurydice, dying now a second time, uttered no complaint against her husband. What was there to complain of, but that she had been loved?” ― Ovid, Metamorphoses
This is true no matter the version you're reading.
1. Eurydice trips and Orpheus turns to help her because he loves her.
2. Orpheus cannot hear Eurydice behind him, and fearing that he's been tricked, turns to make sure she's there.
3. Orpheus makes it out of the Underworld, and so full of love and excitement to be with Eurydice, turns to embrace her, forgetting that they both need to be out of the Underworld.
No matter what happens in the story, Orpheus loses Eurydice because his love for her compels him to look.
Orpheus, I can forgive you, then, There’s not a soul alive who wouldn’t have looked back
The Descent, by Tyler King
Don’t forget Gluck’s opera, where Eurydice doesn’t know Orpheus is forbidden to look back, Orpheus is also forbidden to tell her, she assumes he must not love her anymore, and Orpheus finally looks back to reassure her of his love because he can’t bear her anguish.
In that version in particular, but possibly in all retellings, a part of us wants Orpheus to look back, because his failure proves his love.
I'd be the voice that urged Orpheus When her body was found I'd be the choiceless hope in grief That drove him underground I'd be the dreadful need in the devotee That made him turn around (Hey ya) And I'd be the immediate forgiveness In Eurydice
- Talk, Hozier
please stop treating the word neurodivergent like it means the overlap between autism and adhd
i dont know how to articulate this well but some of you act like neurodiversity starts with adhd and ends with autism. you talk about "the neurodivergent experience" and everytime you mean "the overlapping experience of adhd and autism."
please remember us when talking about neurodiversity. ocd, dyslexia, dyscaculia, personality disorders, tourettes, intellectual disabilities, schizo-spec disorders, etc. all fall under neurodiversity.
please stop saying neurodivergent when you mean "autism and adhd."
this post is okay to reblog but do not clown on it
it’s always so funny to me when people in positions of power who had actual influence over historical events take to twitter like “okay i think we’re ALL a bit responsible for this” like?? no?? not really?? i was in my first week of first grade on 9/11 and you were an editor for the new york times. while you can argue that with the length and reach of the wars in iraq and afghanistan every american has in some way impacted what is now happening in afghanistan let’s not spread equal blame here, liz cheney.
Whoever started this grind culture deserves to be kicked in the pussy I hate you and I hate working hard fuck you
this is the cunt
Motherfucker how are you gonna push predestination AND tell us to toil endlessly? You just told us we can't change what afterlife God already picked for us, fuck you I'm taking a nap.
1000 year old grave of a nonbinary intersex person found in Finland
A Medieval grave in Finland contained the remains of what seems to be a nonbinary person.
Researchers Ulla Moilanen, Tuija Kirkinen, Nelli-Johanna Saari, Adam B. Rohrlach and Johannes Krause writes in the paper “A Woman with a Sword? – Weapon Grave at Suontaka Vesitorninmäki, Finland”:
In 1968, a weapon grave with brooches was found at Suontaka Vesitorninmäki, Hattula, Finland.
Since then, the grave has been interpreted as evidence of powerful women, even female warriors and leaders in early medieval Finland. Others have denied the possibility of a woman buried with a sword and tried to explain it as a double burial.
We present the first modern analysis of the grave, including an examination of its context, a soil sample analysis for microremains, and an aDNA analysis.
Based on these analyses, we suggest a new interpretation: the Suontaka grave possibly belonged to an individual with sex-chromosomal aneuploidy XXY. The overall context of the grave indicates that it was a respected person whose gender identity may well have been non-binary.
Caroline Anders writes in the Washington Post:
The collection of items lying with the bones seemed to evade traditional Western notions of gender. The swords suggested that the person they were buried alongside might be a man, but the jewelry indicated that the body belonged to a woman…
…according to a recent study from Finnish and German researchers, they were a male-bodied person of some wealth or importance buried in traditionally feminine dress. And that raises questions about the fluidity of gender in early medieval Finland. Researchers say it’s possible that this person was nonbinary — not strictly male or female.
Although much of archaeology and much of the world are still bound by binary ideas of gender, research has repeatedly shown that not everyone identifies with a rigid male-female classification.
“We’ve always been here,” author Dianna E. Anderson said. “Being nonbinary isn’t an invention of the 21st century. We may have only started using those words, but that’s just putting language to an existing gender that’s always been around.”
See also: 1,000-year-old grave may belong to nonbinary leader, challenging centuries-old gender roles
Top illustration from the Washington Post: A reconstruction drawing of the grave at Suontaka Vesitorninmaki, Hattula, Finland. (Veronika Paschenko)
Second image: The objects found in the Suontaka grave. A: bronze-hilted sword B: hiltless sword with silver inlays (inset); C: two oval brooches with textile fragments; D: twin-spiral chain-bearer; E: sheathed knife; F: penannular brooch; G: sickle. A: © Finnish Heritage Agency. (From paper)