Men who put your comfort before their ego. Men who ask what you need and actually do it. Men who don’t sulk when you need space. Men who defend you in rooms you’re not in. Men who hype you up to their friends without making it about sex. Men who remember the small shit you said months ago. Men who plan around your schedule instead of expecting you to rearrange yours. Men who don’t get insecure when you're better than them at something. Men who check in after an arguments. Men who take accountability the same day, not three days later after they’ve cooled off. Men who don’t punish you with silence. Men who are soft with you even when they’re stressed. Men who don’t need you to mother them. Men who don’t joke about your insecurities. Men who are fine with you leading in bed and outside of it. Men who don’t need to be the main character in your life. Men who take “no” for an answer the first time. Men who are proud of you in public and gentle with you in private. Men who don’t keep score of every nice thing they do. Men who would rather lose the argument than lose you. Men who stay consistent even when things are messy. Men who know it's just the bare minimum.
