Kind Of A Mess

Dan | 25 | he/him I don’t even know what I post anymore

[midnightssea]

I think a lot of people would benefit from unlearning the idea that casual sex is inherently disgusting, harmful, or immoral just because they personally don’t want to partake in it. You can stand up for sexual safety and consent without acting like people who enjoy fucking strangers are degenerates. I take no issue with anyone asserting boundaries or stating that they’re not interested in certain kinds of sex or even sex as a whole. But when you condemn or express disgust at others for engaging in consensual sex, that’s when you start to sound like a puritan.

[midnightssea]

Btw, this includes self-proclaimed “feminists” who shame and lecture women for giving men “access” to their bodies. Bodies are not commodities and sex is not inherently transactional. You don’t lose anything by having sex on purpose with a person you find attractive. Sex is not some metaphysically transformative thing that bonds you to the other person forever. It is literally not that deep.

[booksandchainmail]

is there anything as good as lying in a sunbeam

[gobusto]

telling the truth in a sunbeam #honesty

[computationalcalculator]

[anglaised]

“ud do better on tiktok” ? y would i want to this is just a blog 😭 im not a content creator im just talkin

[anglaised]

actually im inclined to agree

[mas-o-kissed]

“This kink is problematic when you think about it” ohhhhhh shit ok lemme head on over to the kink store and trade these kinks in for one that make my jackoff fantasies morally superior

[bitchautism]

can we kill Charlie kirk again that would just really cheer me up

[peach-paradox]

having being anti death penalty as one of my core beliefs is fun because it really makes me realize how even progressive people want soooooo badly for there to be a category of people they can kill. I'm sorry but "group of people okay to kill" does not exist.

[bloomfish]

Patient on the Pitt: wahhh my feet hurt

Doctor: no problem sir we'll stitch you up. Get me 100ccs of lorazepam stat and intubate. Oh no, why isn't this working? His feet are still in danger!

*uncovers sheets to reveal hooves*

Other Doctor Who Is More Woke: those are his hooves you bitch. Prep 10000ml of Ketamine.

First Doctor: damn. I was wrong and it almost cost this poor patient his life.

Second Doctor: 90% of all patients are secretly horses and anti-horse bias kills thousands every year. As Doctors we need to check our prejudices, and you can read more about this on www.somepatientsarehorses.com

[thickness-protection-program]

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[deadgenerations]

this guy is literally American.

[no-sharks-on-the-sun]

it's cool how tumblr keeps generating insular communities of mentally unwell smol beans with truly heinous political beliefs

[hyumjim]

They’re literally a convert like you cannot make this shit upppp every fucking time

[biracy]

I just think it's Inch Resting that "straight men watch lesbian porn because Lol More Hot Chicks And No Ugly Dudes" is seen as completely obvious and a well-known cultural joke, but when women (not even entirely straight women either) display a similar preference for gay porn it needs a billion thinkpieces and Substack articles and video essays to "explain why". The very fact that people think women liking gay porn requires this level of dissection is far more interesting than women liking gay porn in and of itself

[biracy]

And like, yeah there are Sometimes "more complicated" reasons women gravitate towards gay porn, gay male ships, etc etc, but like. I do not think Heated Rivalry is "better written" than the countless similar straight romance/erotica novels, I think women think men are hot. The more men the better. I think that women who are into men like seeing boy-on-boy action because they are attracted to men. "Women enjoy this because it makes them horny" feels like something No One wants to fucking accept. Everyone acts like women always need some kind of "deeper reason" for liking porn of any kind than men do. "Many women actually actively find men attractive and like to watch hot guys get it on, yes even without a woman present" should not be as difficult for people to understand as it is

[were--ralph]

[X]

we live in the worst times

[greater-than-the-sword]

My exact thoughts. Couldn't leave this in the tags.

[hummingirls]

and using those employees to train the models that will then replace them.

[nonbinarybrianmolko]

I keep seing these posts on social media of like "fun cocktails to make this summer" and most of them contain some kind of energy drink and everyone in the comments is freaking out like "omg don't you know you should never mix energy drinks and alcohol it's So dangerous you Will die" and I'm like. Is that not an incredibly normal thing to do or am I the crazy one here

[nonbinarybrianmolko]

I'VE FIGURED IT OUT it's the americans because premixed caffeinated alcoholic drinks r banned over there RIP

[badwolfdogbutch]

The amount of active transphobia and anti masculinity on this app makes me want to pull my hair out. The fuck you mean when you say butches opt out of transphobia because we are "woman-lite" or "wannabe men".... Like I haven't been getting kicked out of women's bathrooms and women's spaces since I was a kid because I've always been masculine and policing gender based of feminine and masculine aspects is a terf talking point and extremely misogynistic and transphobic but yea sure let's just forget all that as say people like me don't experience transphobia 💀🔫 the queer online community is so fucked. please TOUCH SOME FUCKIN GRASS

[treyebade]

I’m transfem and also a butch and yeah when I’m not getting transphobia for being a trans woman I’m getting transphobia for being butch. It’s ridiculous that people are saying that about butches and it’s so obvious they’ve never lived as a butch or even spoken to one. Here in the UK butches are big defenders of trans people against our terf lobby because the exact same women that are part of our terf lobby now were the ones going after butches and leatherdykes back in the 80s.

[nyctosaurid]

did it work

[akashicrecord]

the lesbian computer from portal was right. given the circumstances ive been shockingly nice

[calocera]

the less ethical brother of the 2000s horse girl movie is the 2000s big cat boy movie

[calocera]

of course cousins to the more esoteric 2000s boy meets sea monster movie

[fipindustries]

if i ever become a showrunner i will actually do the fake series finalle followed by the true ending where the popular gay ship is confirmed just so i can forever poison fandom with the idea that it can happen for real and then they will truly never let that hope go for all other subsequent shows they watch henceforth. just for the sake of making the world a worse place