*Advice for Imperfect Soul*š My past relationship has been toxic. I became negative, full of insecurities, poor self and no self respect. I was mentally tortured to the entend that i started hating male community. Being with someone was difficult for me. Rather than getting into another relationship i started to heal myself. I started growing as an individual. I realised my happiness starts and ends from me. Then i met a man with high dopamine levels. He not only motivated me in my career but also encouraged my individuality. I never had to ask him to be loyal or put efforts. Infact, he taught me that i should never ask the basic things in a relationship. I learnt that relationships can be without negativity. Maybe he never expressed his love from words but his actions were loud and clear. He also helped me to fight my past insecurities. Wrapped me up during my anxiety attacks, calm me down and actually be a part of that process. Who says your man can't become your mother? š š That's what matters in a relationship. We've been taught that "jealousy is the key to success of a relationship".Sorry to break it to you, it's not. Trust is the key to make your relationship sucessful. Trust should come from both the ends. Never compare what you've from what others have. If your man doesn't bring you flowers, chocolates but loves you, put efforts to foster your relationship, is loyal.... He loves you. And that's important. You'll see thousands of lovey dovey couple pictures online but their relationship is hollow. So don't fall in those traps. . Being with this man made me realise what mature relationship is like. We do fight, have different opinions on different topics. We just voice our opions and not throw at each other. We respect each other. Plus, this man sometimes goes out of his way to tell me i'm special. ( only for me) That's our cute little way to carry our relationship forward with more understanding, more loving, zero cheating and zero third party involvement or jealousy. #relationshipgoals #love #wisdom #rules #relationship #loyalty #lifestyle #travelpartner #couple #healthyrelationships #toxicfree #healthymind #improverelationship #igcouple #bless https://www.instagram.com/p/CA9pVNbl_51/?igshid=r3402lwdj8zi
