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Rule One.
The feminine energy respects itself when it’s protected! Do not allow people into your spirit, your vortex, your world, your space, your heart, your life, your mind and lastly your body that disrespects, devalues and breaks the boundaries you set for yourself. Dismissal of such behaviour should be automatic!
You’re Not “Masculine”, You’re a Wounded Feminine
Many of us think that because we are out of touch with our feminine, we are automatically the opposite, masculine.
This is not true for most. Here’s why:
You likely lack leadership skills (including boundaries)
You likely lack the ability to have hard conversations
You likely lack control of your emotions
You are likely indecisive, unable to breakup with your partner or go no contact with family
How to Heal Your Feminine Wounds
Book Recommendation: “I Have > I Am: Masculine Guidance for Feminines”
Wounds include:
Xesual trauma
Abandonment issues
Resentment
Codependency
Indecisiveness
Avoiding Confrontation / Responsibilities
Shadow Work
What is “Shadow Work”?
Shadow work is the act of asking yourself (& answering) hard, intimate questions. The goal is to get to the root of your trauma(s).
Click here for a brief YT video detailing shadow work
Accountability
The greatest masculinity lesson I’ve learned is:
It’s always your fault.
Even if it’s not your “fault”, it’s your responsibility.
The “responsibility” part was the highlight for me. I needed to be more responsible about the people I allow in my life, otherwise I’ll have to be responsible for the consequences of their actions (& attitudes).
Accountability is a combination of things, including discernment and self control. You must have the physical and mental ability to honor your responsibilities, goals and boundaries.
Cancel Closure
Dismiss the need for closure. That is when you actually begin to heal.
Yes, you were wronged. Yes, you deserve one last convo. No, it’s not going to happen how you want it to. This is why you must release the need for closure, it’s a form of being controlling.
You are trying to control the ending between you two. This is why it keeps backfiring. Until you release the need to control, you will forever be in this cycle of needing to feel validated by those who wounded you.
Community
During our darkest hours, many of us are in complete isolation. No friends, no family.
As you’re emerging from this space, it is important to find a community where you can connect with people who keep you focused and inspired.
Start with community work, such as volunteering. It could be the animal shelter, working with children in the shelter or miscellaneous organizations on your area.
Click to join our Discord community, linked in our FREE “Date Great” Guide. (Limited time only)
some of my favorite archived stripperweb posts - hustle hut (pt. 1)
💗The full archived version of Stripperweb can be viewed here💗
I'm going to make this a series in order to help sw'ers, especially those who may not have been around to experience Stripperweb. I'm also kick-starting this series with some of my favorite posts/threads from the Hustle Hut forum so we can all make some fat stacks! Reblog to fatten a hot girl's wallet tonite!!! 💰🤑💰🤑💰
Time to get back on the saddle.
I’ve said it once and I’ll say it again, the man you choose is the life you choose. I’m so sick of this 50/50 conversation. I will not accept a life I do not deserve. Some things are simply traditional and shouldn’t be changed. A man paying for the date is the gentleman like thing to do. No if, ands or buts about it. Men who want you to pay 50/50 are lazy. Men have been paying for dates for generations and it’s something that shouldn’t change. I rather be single than be with a man who wants me to pay 50/50. There are men who will literally carry you up the stairs so you don’t have to walk, the type of man who wouldn’t think twice about splitting the bill. He would never want to do that. Only date men who are super into you not half into you. Take your time getting to know them and walk away from anything that doesn’t align with your standards and boundaries. Princess treatment only or leave me alone.
5 Things Your Mother Never Told You About Men
If he wanted to, it’ll be done by now. You’re meant to be surprised, not stressed out.
You are whom you give ass to. If you’re dealing with a man who acts like a “lil boy” then you indeed act like a little girl. The reciprocal.
He doesn’t listen to you because there is no incentive for him to do so. Whether you’re whining for a ring or for respect, you give him no reason to give you what you want because he already has what he wants: usually easy access ass or a hot plate and folded draws to come home to.
He has an agenda, they all do. A high quality man has an agenda of marrying you because he wants children. A low quality man has an agenda because he wants to take advantage of you financially. YOU MUST HAVE AN AGENDA TOO
Coochie is currency- don’t waste money: Use your holes to get what you want, but learn how to withhold xes in order to get what you want as well. In the words of someone’s granny:
COOCHIE IS SHAPED LIKE A COIN PURSE FOR A REASON!
Next Post: Dating Out of Pity or for Companionship Can Have Fatal Consequences (for You and Your Loved Ones)
Glossy, juicy lips. Vanilla perfumes and cocoa hand creams. Business and first class plane seats. Smooth, crystal clear skin and buttery soft legs. Trips to Cancun and France. Spending weeks in South Korea exploring. Speaking multiple languages. Jewels on my wrists. Fresh macarons and hot cocoa.
Women who are seeking/in a relationship with a male partner: Here's a fun game to play called Would He Do It For You?
The rules? Simple. Take an aspect of your life or relationship and ask if your male partner would do the same as you're willing to do. Here's some examples.
You decide to try not shaving your legs, but he asks you to continue your usual weekly shaving routine. He likes the "smooth, silky" feeling of your legs, he claims. Okay, fair enough - you like the way smooth legs feel too. So ask him to shave his for you.
No? He won't do it? Ask him why. And when he spouts off some reason, ask why again. Ask why as many times as you need to.
And then ask yourself if this is the ~only~ area that he's not willing to treat you the same way you're willing to treat him.
Here's another example.
He likes when you keep your hair long. Okay, sure, you're willing to let it grow out, even though you kind of like how much easier it is to shower and get ready when your hair is cropped short. Ask him to keep his hair and/or beard long and groomed for you, since you also like the way it looks on him. Wait, he's not really interested in doing that? Why?
You can play this game with more than just looks and aesthetics. Take this scenario, for example.
He asks you to pick out a birthday gift for his mom next week, since you have such a good eye for it. And you think, sure. You like his mom, you know what kind of gifts she would enjoy receiving. So you go shopping on your own and bring back a great gift. Then, your mother's birthday rolls around and you're busy with a project at work, so you ask him if he would shop for her this week and pick out something she'd like. Would he do the same for you? Or would he whine, moan, make excuses, give in, and then call and text you a million times until you wish you had never asked him to help in the first place?
Another.
You're getting married to a man you truly love! He loves you and treats you as an equal in everything. You've found one of the good ones. Then, it comes time to plan signing your marriage certificate, and he makes a little remark when you say you're keeping your name. It turns out, he wants you to take his name - it will be easier, he says. Matching last names on bills, bank accounts, and of course, the kids. Yeah, okay, maybe the idea of matching names sounds nice - so ask him to consider taking your last name instead. Would he do the same for you?
Ask him why.
Ask him why.
Ask him why.
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a guide to habit stacking
what is habit stacking?
habit stacking is an important life hack to help you form new habits more efficiently. to put it simply, you are taking an already existing habit and adding (or stacking) another behavior on top, pairing it with a current habit. habit stacking comes with a very simple formula: after/before [current habit], i will [new habit]. eventually you can turn a habit stack into a long chain of behaviors that come almost naturally to you and require little to no effort. this can also be a basic structure for creating routines in your daily life.
habit stacking examples
after i make my coffee in the morning, i will meditate for a few minutes
after i change out of my work clothes, i will immediately change into my workout clothes
after i sit down to dinner, i will say one thing i’m grateful for that day
my morning routine habit stack
after i get out of bed to turn off my alarm, i immediately brush my teeth
after i brush my teeth, i make coffee
after i make coffee, i plan out my day and write a to do list
my night routine habit stack
after i make tea, i read for about 30 minutes
after i read, i take a shower
after i take a shower, i do my skincare
time and location
this strategy will only be successful if the time and location of your habit are suitable for that habit to happen. don’t ask yourself to do something every day at a time when you’re likely to be occupied by something else. you should also consider if the current habit you are stacking your new habit on is aligned with the new habit you are trying to create. they should have the same frequency and allow a natural flow to the next behavior.
finding the right trigger
to find the right trigger for your new habit stack, brainstorm what habits already exist in your life. create a list of the habits you do each day without fail (for example: brush your teeth, make a cup of coffee). then, create another list of things that happen to you each day without fail (for example: the sun rises, you get a text message). the key here is to look for specificity. provide yourself with specific instruction on when, where, and how to do this new habit.
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25 Life Lessons I've Learned In 25 Years
In honor of turning 25 this month, here are some lessons I wish someone could've baked into my brain by 18. Hope this helps xx
Putting yourself first is not selfish, it is an act of self-care. Actively discounting others is not the same as protecting your peace.
Pay attention to who gossips and keeps to themselves amidst an interpersonal conflict. Insecure people or those in the wrong will speak the loudest and go on the longest in a fight to prove their innocence. Individuals who are self-assured and comfortable with the truth know it's better to communicate their feelings appropriately and then move past it. Confidence is assertive, tactful, and relatively silent.
If you want to know who to believe in an argument, pay attention to how both sides speak about the conflict. The perpetrator will often speak about the individuals' character/morality while the victim will explain their personal experience in the context of the relevant situation.
Display empathy and consideration, but don't live to satisfy others' emotional needs and expectations. Say farewell to anyone who dismisses or guilts you for your own needs, emotions, priorities/life goals & aspirations.
Your needs matter. No one needs to approve or validate your desires. If someone feels they have control over you or tries to persuade you to change your mind to ensure you put their emotions and needs first, cut them out of your life. They do not care about you.
Almost no one deserves insider access into your life and mind. Upholding your right to privacy – especially regarding your finances, dating life, health conditions/concerns, and long-term goals – is the simplest way to protect your peace.
A friend to all is a friend to none. Be wary of those who will not stand up for you behind closed doors. These people do not care about you, they care about what your place in their life does for them and their ego.
Be radically honest and accepting of who you are. Don't apologize for your preferences, aspirations, and values. You deserve to live in a way that makes you happy, not to appease others in hopes of their approval or future favors due to your karmic good deeds.
You deserve happiness, love, and nice things, life experiences, relationships, and opportunities in your life regardless of what others may or may not possess/ be able to experience. Dispel this scarcity mindset ASAP. Jealousy and internalized shame are destructive to your self-esteem and all your relationships.
You are worthy and offer many incredible, unique gifts to the world. Don't allow naysayers, critics, or bullies (of any age) to dim your light or sacrifice pursuing your dreams. Decide you're the leader of your own life. Then act accordingly.
Direct communication is always the way. Remain tactful, but at least when dealing with non-manipulative people, always say what you mean and mean what you say. It will save a lot of trouble and petty disagreements that could've been avoided with clearer communication.
You don't owe anyone an explanation for your feelings, emotions, and actions that don't have a direct, inescapable impact on someone else. "No" is a complete sentence.
Approach conversations as a meeting of the minds. Healthy debate or conflict is about seeking to understand the other person, not prove yourself right. Leaving your ego at the door will allow you to expand your mind and avoid many unnecessary conflicts or arguments.
If it's not a hell yes, it's a no. For a job, date, sex, attendance at a time-sucking social event, family gatherings, an informal meeting not essential for you to keep your job, a wedding, birthday party, holiday invitation, etc. Outside of your contracted hours and time necessary to keep yourself/your home clean & well-maintained, you should spend your time exactly as you please. Doing things you don't want to do will only breed resentment down the line toward yourself and others.
Detangle yourself from any who refuses to self-reflect and take accountability. This person is selfish and will never see you as fully human with emotions, needs, and a complete life/internal world of your own. Cut them out (or at least fully emotionally detach and limit contact with them) immediately.
Speak your truth, but always say a little less than you feel necessary. Overexplaning and oversharing do you no favors. At a minimum, this approach allows you to protect your peace. In the worst circumstances, this tactic can also save you from a lot of trouble in your personal or professional life.
Learn to ask for a little more than you're comfortable with, but do so with grace, tact, and confidence. Whether it's a salary/rate negotiation, flight/hotel/restaurant accommodations, get in the habit of making that slightly higher/up-leveled request like you're expecting a "yes." You can't get something you don't ask for, so speak up and show you know your worth. This habit can bring a lot of great opportunity into your life and builds up your confidence.
Everyone is on their own timeline and path. Don't compare yourself to others' credentials, job titles, relationship status, net worths, or jean sizes. Comparison is truly the thief of joy. Remaining envious of others only takes up the energy that could otherwise be used to elevate or enrich your life.
Become clear on your priorities, and remain diligent with your habits & routines. Set SMART goals. Implement healthy habits and rituals into your daily lifestyle. Be consistent with goal-supporting and wellness rituals (generous sleep schedule, healthful eating habits, daily movement/regular exercise, reading, task time-blocking, cleaning, and life/work admin schedule), so they become second nature. Help yourself by creating these default habits to ensure your brain is wired for success whether you're in an easygoing era or a stressful life season.
Stop seeing other people (especially other women) as your competition in your profession/dating life and within your platonic relationships. Use your immediate criticisms as a tool for self-reflection. Actively deconstruct the patriarchy in every aspect of your life. Other women coworkers, dating prospects, and friends are not your rivals nor individuals who should be evaluated based on their assertiveness, sexual history/appeal, relationship status, or desire to perform traditional maternal/domestic roles.
Understanding how to interact with others in a cordial, tactful manner is significantly more important than having everyone like you. Learn how to positively influence people without seeking approval. What other people think of us is none of our business. All we can do is show up as the best version of ourselves, and remain optimistic about a potential connection.
Acceptance, accountability, and consistent discipline are the holy trinity to creating a sustainable change that you can maintain for the long haul. There's no shame in starting from the bottom, but you need to be honest about where you're at, so you can create a realistic game plan/small behavior-changing habits that stack up over time to help you implement the radical change you're craving.
Let go of any internalized shame. Being the "good girl" does you no favors in life. Set a standard and expectation to be respected, not to be perceived as "innocent" or submissive – this is how you get taken advantage of in professional, platonic, and intimate relationships. Remain ravenous for respect. It's the only way to live life to the fullest.
24. Investing in your appearance is a form of self-respect. Wanting to look & feel your best and present yourself in the best light possible to others is not a superficial pursuit. Remain unwavering about your hygiene/beauty/grooming routines, deliberate styling choices, healthy eating & workout habits, and mindfulness of social graces. You're your #1 publicist, so act like it. Life is all about embracing satisfaction with a sprinkle of reputation management.
25. Be unapologetic about your financial ambitions, priorities, investments, savings goals, etc. Financial freedom IS freedom. The only way to change the system is to break it from the inside out. Leverage is everything. Allocate, and assert your (financial) power wisely.
journal prompts you can use to improve your life
journaling is a really powerful habit that i love because it has helped me a lot in my transformation and healing process. it also offers us many benefits for our life. when we write down what we feel or what we want to achieve we are focusing and giving it much more clarity. through this magical practice, we can solve any type of situation or problem. It helps us to get rid of fears and anger. my favorite way is to ask myself questions that I can answer, this gives me more clarity and concentration. i recommend doing it on paper in fact i have my own notebook in which every day i carry out this wonderful practice.
✨ some of its benefits are:
helps reduce anxiety and depressive thoughts.
improves cognitive capacity, writing by hand activates many neural networks and, consequently, improves our cognitive capacity. In addition, it also emphasizes that this activity promotes prospective and working memory.
helps cultivate discipline
improves memory
it helps us to create habits moreover, writing on paper those "tasks" or habits that you want to integrate into your life, makes your brain catalog them as "important actions" and it is more likely that you fulfill them in the day. What happens is that your reticular active system (SAR) files them as actions that you must accomplish.
✨ journal prompts ideas
for the morning - have a great day and focus on the positive and what we want to accomplish today.
how do i want to feel today?
what should i focus on?
how do i need to act today to get closer to my best self?
what should i avoid?
what can i do to have a great day?
what would i like my day to be like?
today…(the things you will do, how you will feel)
today no…. (the things you want to avoid and not focus on)
for times of stress or anxiety.
how am i feeling?
what has caused me to feel this way?
have i felt this way on other occasions? is it a pattern i am repeating?
how would i like to feel?
what should i focus on?
what would make me feel good right now?
is there anything i can do right now to fix it?
how would i like to act the next time this situation happens?
how would my best version of me act in this situation?
is there anything I can do to make this better?
to become our best version
what would my best version look like?
what things should i change to get closer to my best version? (like thought patterns, habits…)
what can i do to get closer to becoming my best version?
what do i commit myself to every day to be closer to this version?
what would my desired life look like 6 months from now?
what would my desired life look like 1 year from now?
what are those thought patterns or limiting beliefs that prevent me from living my life the way i want?
what is it that makes me feel fearful or insecure? (make a list and next to it you can replace the negative affirmation with a positive one).
write down 5 positive affirmations of how you want your life to be from now on and commit to repeating them daily.
to focus on new goals or habits
what habits would i like to implement in my life from now on?
what habits do i need to remove from my life?
what would my desired routine look like?
what can i do to achieve this?
what would be my dream lifestyle?
what can i do to achieve it?
what are my goals?
how can i get closer to them?
do i feel capable?
if not, what is stopping me?
what can i do to change that thinking?
against negative thoughts
where does this thought come from?
how does it make me feel?
how would i like to feel about it?
what thoughts would i like to have?
from now on i commit myself to…(list of positive beliefs you will have from now on)
for the evening, to end your day on a high note and prepare for the next day.
3 things i am grateful for today
how did i feel today?
what can i improve tomorrow?
what should i focus on more tomorrow? (e.g. goals)
how would i like to feel today?
these are just a few examples, you can use them if they help you or invent your own, the important thing is that they help you feel better or whatever you want to achieve at that moment.
it is important to write every day, even if you feel good, write how your day was, what you want to improve, what you can do to make it better, anything! but this habit is very powerful and will improve your quality of life a lot.
HOW TO BECOME "HER"
BUILD SELF-CONFIDENCE
Work on building your self-confidence by recognizing your strengths & accomplishment. The moment I’ve decided to show up for my self every day. My self-confident jumped to the roof.
How do you show up for yourself? Only tip you need… Do the things you said you were gonna do!
You said you were going to the gym 3x/week, do it. You said you would start that business, do it. You said you would stop eating out, do it.
SET GOALS
Identify your goals & values.
What is your dream job? Who do you want to become? What do you want to achieve in your life?
SET HEALTHY BOUNDARIES
Learn to set clear boundaries in your personal & professional life.
« No » is a full sentence. Also remind yourself that people that react negatively to your boundaries weren’t meant to stay in your life to begin with.
PRACTICE SELF-CARE
Practice self-care & well-being. Make yourself a first priority.
SURROUND YOURSELF WITH POSITIVITY
Surround yourself with supportive and positive influences.
LEARN A HIGH INCOME SKILL
Learn a high income skill to become financially independent, so that you can allow yourself to reach your money goals and have the freedom to make choices that match your values and dreams without needing financial support from others.
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Tarot Inspired Journal Prompts
Fool: what is something new you are doing or want to do?
Magician: what is a magical way to enhance my day? Or, how can I be more like the magician?
High Priestess: what are my thoughts on divination? What about intuition?
Empress: what part of myself do I want to grow/nurture?
Emperor: what part of my life needs me to take authority? How can I?
High Priest: what are my personal traditions? How is my spirituality unique to me?
Lovers: what relationships mean the most to me?
Chariot: what part of my life needs me to be more combative/ warrior-like?
Strength: what part of my life should I face with courage?
Hermit: what do I need to do alone more often? What do I need to do with others more often?
Wheel of Fortune: what do I think about luck, fate, and/or fortune?
Justice: when do I need to focus on legality vs fairness? Or, What may cause me to seek justice/retribution?
Hanged Man: what have/will I sacrifice for -x-? What am I never willing to sacrifice? What will I easily give up?
Death: what is something personal I want to end or change? What is something that will end or change no matter how I feel? How can I accept it?
Temperence: what part of my life needs more patience? What part needs more balance? How can I achieve both?
Devil: what is a primal desire I have? Should I grant it to myself? Why or why not? How can I get what I want?
Tower: what can I learn from the current or recent chaos/disaster in my life?
Star: what do I hope for? How can I get it?
Moon: what part of my life is best kept private? Why?
Sun: what makes me happy?
Jusgement: what part of me needs reflection? What is a fair assessment of that part?
World: what parts of my life have been fulfilled? What parts are still lacking?
Living in the end completely changed my perspective.
So, I started building up my self-concept, I started living in the end, I started doing shadow work, I stopped trying to tap into the void, I stopped trying to shift and I stopped listening to subliminal. I started this at the beginning of 2023. It was hard, but I persisted and I'm happy to say that my mindset completely shifted. Here's how I did and how it changed my outlook on my life.
"Living in the end. It is a state of wish fulfillment. It is not trying to get your desire, it is knowing that you have your desire" This never clicked, You see, I would read all these posts about people having an epiphany and it just started to make sense. But, no matter how much I read these posts, no matter how many mindset change subliminals I listened to, and no matter how many methods I tried, it just never clicked. It didn't make sense to me.
As humans we desire proof. Growing up, a lot of us were told that what happens all happens for a reason and that our fate had already been decided. That's why the idea of LOA seems so unusual. Suddenly, we find out that we can change anything? We can control every aspect of our life? It was strange. I never really understood what it meant when someone said that I was in control of my life. But what I knew I was in control of was my thoughts.
Wish fulfilled. The state of thinking from the perspective that creation is finished. That you aren't manifesting your desire but that you already have it. I knew that no matter what, I would always be in control of my thoughts. Even though I never understood what the state of wish fulfillment was, I just started thinking from that perspective. It didn't feel good. I felt like a liar and delusional. But, I kept persisting. Every time I would look in the mirror, I would compliment myself in a way that my desired self would. I started thinking like her.
Thinking like her wasn't easy. But, I took small steps. I started thinking like her with regard to food. Then I started thinking about her with regard to my education, Then I started thinking about her with regard to social media. I would affirm whenever I had free time. But, I did it cause I enjoyed it. Don't force yourself to do the same.
Once I did this, my entire life started to change. I tapped into the void state, I shifted, I got a partner, I made a ton of new friends, My appearance changed to my liking and I got my desired life.
I don't want you to spiral after reading this. I'm just sharing my journey. LOA is like life. Everyone has a different path. Not everyone is going to have the same journey. Don't let that demotivate you. Create your own path. No matter how long it has been, don't ever give up. Keep trying and trying. It will be painful but nothing is more painful than staying in the same place for the rest of your life.
YOUR FUTURE SELF NEEDS YOU
YOUR PAST DOESN’T.
Shadow Work Prompts
With my last post being about shadow work, I thought I’d give y’all some prompts to use.
How does the feeling of envy show up in your life?
What do you need more of in your life?
What do you love most about yourself?
If you could get rid of one bad memory, what would it be and why?
In what ways are you inauthentic?
What irrational fears do you have and how do they hold you back?
Do you hold grudges against others that could be let go? What’s your motive for holding onto them?
What do you hate about others? Why? What might that say about yourself?
What do you need to stop running away from?
What do you need to let go of?
What should you attract into your life?
How do you feel about “love”?
Why do you think you don’t deserve love?
What do you minimize about yourself? What do you flaunt?
How do you deal with criticism?
How do you perceive pain?
Why haven’t you dealt with your past before?
What don’t you like about your life? Why? How can you change it?
How often do you lie to yourself and what about?
What emotion(s) do you try to avoid? Why don’t you want to feel those ways?
Write a letter to someone who hurt you and then burn it.
How does your inner child see you?
How are you deceiving yourself?
What does success mean to you? How are you standing in your own way?
What is going on in your life that you are actively ignoring?
What keeps you motivated?
What inspires you?
Who or what is making your life difficult? How can you deal with it constructively?
How have you been betrayed in your life? What did it teach you?
How has your voice been stifled in the past?
What areas of your life do you excel in?
What are the most important/integral things you have learned over the past few years?
In what ways are you too defensive? Why?
How are you pessimistic in your own life?
Why do you not trust others?
What hardships have you overcome? How has it changed you?
What are you doing to pursue your dreams?
What do you still need to forgive yourself for?
What did that relationship teach you? (you know the one… that one)
How can you maintain your individuality?
In what ways can you be more true to yourself?
In what ways are you lying to yourself? Why?
How can you lead with your heart in your life?
How have your dreams fallen short of reality?
What is your relationship with your mother like?
What is your relationship with your father like?
Write a letter to your inner child. Maybe apologize for what has happened to them and that you couldn’t protect them, tell them how far you have come and how much you have done. Say whatever comes to mind.
How have you been a martyr/victim in your own life?
I’ll keep this post updated with more prompts when I find them
Some topics + prompts for your grimoire or book of shadows
books you want to read
local folklore / mythology / legends
the wheel of the year
plants you have in your house or garden (their care, properties, uses, draw them etc)
theban alphabet
days of the week and their correspondences
write about a deity you worship / are drawn to
draw art for / of a deity you worship or are drawn to
colour magic
the elements
write about the crystals you own (draw them, write their properties, correspondences, uses, how it makes you feel etc)
how to make your own crystals
your birth chart
your sun, moon and rising sign
natural medicine (as a chronically ill witch I love natural medicine NOT AS A SUBSTITUTE FOR PRESCRIPTIONS! for example I take all my prescription meds and then if I'm having period pain I might drink some raspberry leaf tea)
positive affirmations / mantras that you connect with
how to manifest
history of witches
deities in a certain pantheon you're interested in or drawn to
write about a spell you've done (how you did it, why you did it, how you felt, the results of it, what you would change if you did the spell again etc)
chakras
write about a dream you've had
tarot reading tricks and tips
moon phases
sabbats
zodiac signs
family tree
poetry / songs / quotes you connect to (i like to find ones that make me feel powerful or witchy, or remind me of certain aspects of my practice. a song i like for this is rhiannon by fleetwood mac and i'm going to post more things like this regularly on my page)
feathers and their meanings
simple everyday magic
recipes
some ideas for the next sabbat you plan to celebrate
tarot spreads you like
write about a tarot reading you've done (any prep you did, the deck you used, the cards you pulled, your personal interpretation of the cards based on the art and how you feel, the meaning of the cards, how the cards relate to the questions you asked, final reflection on how you feel the reading went)
interesting mythology
tree of life
glamour magic
money bowls
crystal shapes and their meanings
grounding techniques
cleansing
protection
banishing
cord cutting spells
essential oils
types of divination
planets and their correspondences
angel numbers
witchy wishlist
go to supplies and ingredients (herbs and things that you use regularly)
favourite crystals
working with your inner child
if you've had a really good or particularly insightful meditation session it can be nice to either draw or write what happened and how you felt during it
witchy arts and crafts and diys you want to do
altar ideas
read a witchy book / watch a witchy video and take notes
write about your ancestors
witchy things to incorporate into your daily routine
what is a tower moment
witchy reset / self care days
the history of the area you live in
veiling
how to make your own incense sticks
shadow work
shadow work prompts
ok, that's all the ideas I have for now and I hope that helps someone! I'll be posting some pages from my grimoire and some more prompt / topic ideas in the near future which I'm really excited for.
P.S. please remember that everyone's practice is their own and you should do what feels right to you while respecting that other people have their own beliefs (as long as they're not hateful).
