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#about me #me #personal #groups i stan #biases #bias wreckers

what is your eye color. what is your favorite color. what is the color that appears most frequently in your wardrobe. what color is your favorite blanket. what color is your water bottle.

#hazel #baby pink; lavender or icy blue #black I think #also black😌#a bright green with more yellow than blue!

what-even-is-thiss

“Cats don’t actually love you”

A cat is a small creature in the middle of the food chain that is fully aware that you are a very large thing that could stomp its head in at any moment and yet it chooses to rest its tiny little head on your leg for a nap and spreads out on the floor near you exposing its belly and its most sensitive organs. It brings dead mice and bugs to you to share food.

Don’t you get it? This tiny thing trusts you. It wants to help you too. It licks your leg thinking that it’s helping. It kneads on you to find comfort. It shares its body warmth with you in the cold and gives you your space in the heat. It hisses at other mammals it sees outside including other cats in an effort to protect its family.

Cats love you so so much. But they will keep trying to eat plastic.

#i recently saw a short in which a woman could feed her cat medicine very easily and the cat would obediently take it #obviously that required lots of training #there was also a comment from someone expressing their awe at this cat and saying that their own would never allow that #and someone replied to that by basically saying 'that's because your cats don't trust you'#and the woman who posted the short actually liked that comment #ngl this triggered me so hard #your cat can trust you and still be difficult when it comes to things like feeding them medicine etc.#not every cat can be trained like a dog and not every cat lets you do whatever to them just because they trust you #cats aren't one and the same #each is different and individual and their own life experiences shape their behaviour #my cats show all the signs of loving and trusting us and yet they would still have difficulties with this #especially my older one #she was born into a traumatic situation and rescued from there from my uncle's ex #later on she gave the cat to me at approximately 10 months old #this cat was very obviously traumatised you could hardly pet her without her trying to bite you and defend herself #with lots of peace and quiet and patience and good care and gentleness this cat has made tremendous improvement #her anxiety lessened a lot and she became much more clingy and cuddly and also less shy with visitors #she really trusts us and follows us around like s baby duckling #but she hardly lets me cut/trim or even brush her fur let alone do anything more bothersome than that #our little one is more easy going and lets us remove ticks from her which our older one would never allow #and that even though our little one comes from a family of feral cats who live outside the village in the vineyards #when she chose us as her new family she was completely unfamiliar with humans and first had to learn that we meant no harm #but since she didn't have such a traumatic start as my older one she's much more relaxed when we 'have to bother her' to help her #so it really depends a lot on the cat's nature as well as what the cat has had to endure in their life #i've never had a cat from baby age so i could raise her in a way that would allow us to assist them more easily #we usually got cats who were already they way the were and we could only do our best with our love and care #as you can see by my rant i really despise when people make such accusatory remarks #without knowing anything about the other person's situation #i'm sure the commenter treats their cats well and so replying by saying that they must not treat their cats well #since they assumed their cats don't trust them was very rude imo

goldenasirpa

Yall sleeping on this Sam L. Jackson interview about trump lmfao.

soapaipillas

It’s your uncle, Sam.

luminouspica

He was an activist before he became an actor. He was told to get out of town before he ended up dead as a young man, due to his activism.

This is just more of him being himself, which is as it should be.

tazmanian-cigarette

People really forgot that Sam Jackson was a Black Panther

bloodbatty

I reblogged this without saying anything earlier, but damn it’s so refreshing to see a celebrity that doesn’t feel the need to appeal to literal fascists.

#it honestly baffles me that this is even up for discussion #and it bewilders me that there are people who don't think that it's a basic human right to have access to health care whenever you need it #i still remember how my mom would tell me about this when i was younger and as a child i had this nightmarish vision #of a sick person in a hospital bed being carried out of the hospital and basically left in the parking area in their bed #without anyone caring about their constitution #i know that's a strange image but it used to be what i had in mind as a child and i just couldn't understand why things are like that #my mom and i usually talk about health care being low-key scammy in our country but if comparing it to the us #i'm still grateful for what we have #this should NOT be up for debate #this is a basic human right that any modern and so-called first world country should provide its citizens with #q: daydreaming✨️

itwashotwestayedinthewater

sometimes you just gotta listen to music at a volume that you know will be part of the cause of your hearing loss at the age of 28

itwashotwestayedinthewater

hey yall. im 25 now and i already have tinnitus <3 dont do this. LOL

itwashotwestayedinthewater

oh btw for those saying “i already have tinnitus haha it cant get worse” YEAH IT CAN BITCH! if you want to listen to music loud do it on speakers at least. headphones will Beam Pain Waves Directly Into Your Cochlear Hair Cells and a 10kHz Tone Loud Enough Will Give You Psychic Damage Forever

itwashotwestayedinthewater

if i have to fucken, translate it to something you’ll understand? Imagine theres a picture of garfield here saying

YOU ARE NOT IMMUNE TO HEARING LOSS

effemimaniac

#i am always so concerned about this and hope i never do it #i turned on my phone's settings to monitor my listening volume each week #luckily it's always in the 'normal' area and never tells me that i'm listening too loud for too long #i personally can feel music much more with earphones compared to speakers #and i think in this case it's really important to invest in good quality earphones #(for example i currently use jbl's live pro 2 tws because they achieve what i need and were honestly rather affordable)#a good noise cancelling feature is important because the better this feature the lower you can keep the volume #i also have this warning thingy that shows me when i set the volume too high #i try to stay below that and if i go beyond only do so for limited times #however #i do feel like when you use your earphones as much as i do #their longevity is limited #and so i feel like the volume lowers as time goes on #because the longer i have a certain pair of earphones the louder i need to set the volume to achieve the same effects #and it's not a tolerance thing because if i buy new ones i could achieve the same effect at a lower volume #so i've been really conscious about the volume that i can safely listen music to #and when my earphones start to get lower i adjust but try not to go overboard #as much as i like loud music i have very sensitive ears so things can get too loud for me pretty quickly #like a person speaking with a loud voice hurts my ears so i also can't take music that's too loud #i cannot attend concerts without my earplugs bc the music is too loud and hurts my ears #so i hope that this makes sure i listen at a safe volume #i at least feel like my ears are still top notch while both my mom and stepdad deal with tinnitus #with is crazy bc especially my mom's never used and head or earphones and my stepdad also didn’t use them much #so yeah... you can get tinnitus from other things later on as well #I'll just try to treat my ears well and hope for the best haha #q: daydreaming✨️

dream-kittty-deactivated2015092

#q: daydreaming✨️

evilwizard

you can differentiate me from weevilwizard via subtle variations in our proboscis

weeeeevilwizard

We also have different color hats. Mine is a much more tasteful jet black, while yours is pitch-black.

evilwizard

ive gotta stop accidentally summoning gimmick blogs into existence

elvis-official

I know how you feel hummina hummina hummina. I can't say anything here without a new Elvis. Why are there so many Elvii. Why

evilwizard

you’re the only one who understands me elvis

magicratfingers

elviswizard-official

woah papas, your hunka hunka burnin love conjured me into existence

#q: daydreaming✨️

krasnoarmeyets

imo the state monitoring your private messages is basically on the same level as opening and reading physical mail or perhaps breaking into your house to install bugs and cameras

recuperationdisliker

it's way worse, actually. because traditionally wiretapping and opening letters means like. the state decides that "okay this person is a suspect, we should start monitoring their phone calls and letters now while we're investigating them." what a state backdoor on encryption as suggested by chat control and the like would mean is instead "okay this person is a suspect, let's retroactively search through every conversation they've ever had." it would mean the state has access to information from before the law even went into effect. and on a technological level this could happen to anyone, at any time. i cannot stress enough how massive this overreach is.

#q: daydreaming✨️

flowersfromunderground

Be yourself so ppl looking for u can find u

ri5k

sisyphusshrugged

#this is nice #but it always makes me wonder whether anyone would 'see and find' me #because the way i experience it our society is like 'be yourself. be authentic. be true to who you are.'#and when you do exactly that you get the 'but not like that' response #an fellow autistic creator i follow said in a video that ppl liked the highly masked version of her but she hated herself like that #but the more she unmasked the less people liked her and so she asked:#who am i supposed to be? am i supposed to be the version i hate or the version everyone doesn't like?#and i really felt that #i'm convinced my friends would not like me anymore if I unmasked (irl & online) around them #q: daydreaming✨️

tomorrowxtogether

250922 yawnzzn Instagram story update

#tomorrow x together #choi yeonjun #q: daydreaming✨️

phantomrose96

You know, an interesting tumblr transformation that's happened gradually, and which I've seen no one talk about: ask-culture has essentially dropped off to nothing.

By which I mean, asks used to be WAY more of the tumblr economy. They used to be more common to send, and receive, and see. They were integral to the collaborative, forum-like behavior of old tumblr communities, not even to speak on the HUGE number of ask-blogs that used to exist to only be interacted with in ask-form.

I'm not saying this in a vying-for-attention way but instead in an observational way: I used to get way way more asks in like 2015, even with a fraction of my follower count. I wonder if it's due to the homogenization of social media sites? There's a lot more of this divide between "content creator" and "consumer" instead of just a bunch of peer blogs who would talk to each other. "Asks" aren't really a thing on twitter, are they? And as I understand it, the closest thing to an "ask" on instagram or tiktok would be a creator screenshotting some comment and responding to it in a new reel or video or whatever those content mediums are. Are asks just too tumblr-specific? Is that aspect of the site culture dying out as more and more people converge to using all their social media sites in the same way?

pendragyn

it's probably from assholes making asks a minefield of trolling/harassment for years with no real blocking ability, which turned people off from allowing asks on their blogs so as a whole the site moved away from it

but now that we do have better blocking, we should try to revive it.

triflesandparsnips

Reblog if your ask box is open.

psychopomps-recital

I hope more folks ask me stuff I like answering 🥺

asksecularwitch

it's in the name of the blog.

#q: daydreaming✨️

lostinhistory

It is possible that somewhere off the coast of Newfoundland there is an iceberg shaped like a giant dick.

lostinhistory

IT'S REAL

robotlyra

AND THE PHOTOGRAPHER COMES FROM DILDO, NEWFOUNDLAND

ysabelmystic

ITS REAL

grimblo-goblin

Mr. Pretty from Dildo, Newfoundland photographed a Giant Penis Shaped Iceberg

deadbeatescape

IN CONCEPTION BAY

psychicbirdstarlight

This reads like an article in the postillion

femboymuscles

#the stars aligned

#q: daydreaming✨️

imperfectlibrarian

"kill them with kindness" WRONG. chair attack 🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑🪑

imperfectlibrarian

This post is now about a far-right politician and one of the best moments of Brazilian live TV:

askfordoodles

appreciating the added context

amethystsoda

#q: daydreaming✨️

morsobaby

My tip for trying to compartmentalize your emotions or desires is to realize when you're using hyperbolic shorthand for an actually realistic desire. I know realizing even that can be difficult sometimes but let me demonstrate

"I wish I was popular" -> I want to be noticed and engaged with, and I need reassurance and the feeling of connection

"I wanna delete my blog and ghost my friends" -> I want to act out in a visible way that expresses how frustrated I am / I feel overwhelmed with connections and need time to cool off

"I wanna do something reckless/dangerous" -> I feel trapped in obligations and am buckling under stress, I need a sufficient outlet and more freedom to exist in peace

Obviously there may be different kinds of feelings or needs under your particular impulses, these are just some fairly common examples of what you could be feeling. The harder part is trying to figure out what it is that causes this impulse, and even harder might be if you don't have control over the situation, and are unable to have your needs met. It's not always your fault if you're feeling bad, but realizing where it stems from can help you seek out new paths to relieve it. This is something I've learnt working in therapy.

The toddler in your heart has valid needs. But it is a toddler and will scream and cry about it. Learn to sit by until it's done and then ask if it wants a juice box or a hug

#q: daydreaming✨️