femidactylus garnotii ;)

collective sideblog of an all-female gecko species

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

I think every lesbian who says she wouldn't date a bi woman is functionally on the same wavelength as men who say they would only marry a virgin

[going2hell4everythingbutbeingbi]

it all boils down to "penis steals women's purity" and there's literally no non-shitty way to believe that. being gay doesn't give you a get out of jail free card for being sexist

[vintage-bentley]

Huh??? There’s many lesbians that just want to date somebody who shares their experience of homosexuality. Or who have had bad experiences of homophobia from bi women and find it safer to be les4les (one of the main forms of this homophobia I’ve heard of is lesbians saying that bi women treat them like men, much like this post). Why is every other minority group allowed to say they only want to date within their community, but suddenly when lesbians say the same it’s a problem?

I think every bi woman who shames lesbians for not including them in their dating pool is functionally on the same wavelength as men who get pissy when a woman isn’t available to them sexually.

[unhingedcherhorowitz]

Notice 99.99% of the time the question is "what is a woman". Nobody is asking “what is a man”.  The reason for that is because staying close to the reality of who is biologically male and who is not is a life or death assessment. A miscalculation could literally kill you. Even other males knows this. Transwomen know this. A bus of 50 trans men and a bus of 50 “cis” males is not an equivalent bus in terms of risk and harm if you’re a member of a vulnerable population. Hence people’s willingness to muse endlessly and "deconstruct" woman as a concept or aesthetic yet they somehow sober up when it comes to discussing men and indulge much less in such fanciful musings.

Men have no worries about sharing their prisons, bathrooms, clubs, and gyms because everybody is terrified of being in closed spaces with them alone. There’s zero effort from men in practice or policy to make their spaces welcoming for trans and non-binary people. Nobody dares to even suggest it. Men’s outright rejection of and intolerance of trans people is accepted like a weather report yet they’ll shout, scream, cry, throw up and act like it’s the New Jim Crow if a woman says “hey that’s fine but self Id laws don’t provide enough protection for women can we come up with another solution”. Men’s social dominance is protecting them from being “deconstructed” the way women are. So we have a social phenomenon where only women are disrupted, imposed on, challenged, and re-defined and men are for the most part completely undisturbed/untouched? And that's supposed to be "breaking gender barriers". The only barriers being broken is women's boundaries and ability to assert their needs. Which is a reproduction of the oldest gender paradigm ever. You're "disrupting gender" but the main benefactors of gender hierarchies are totally untouched/unbothered/undisturbed? lol k.

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[cupcakesandmisandry]

[lavenderfeminist]

Seems to say something that I’ve never heard of a non-binary IDed male getting breast implants to affirm his gender but women who don’t even ID as men are having whole mastectomies. Male default strikes again.

[lavenderfeminist]

I would like someone, in good faith, to explain to me why they think “gender affirming care” is functionally different from other dysmorphia-driven cosmetic surgery, and why I as someone who is highly critical of the cosmetic surgery industry in general should be uncritical of this specific kind.

[lavenderfeminist]

Need a specific distinct term for trans people who specifically want to date homosexuals. Like “chaser” but for trying to get validation from gay people.

[quinntheestallion]

A "small, vulnverable minority", should be making small, inobtrusive requests. Redefining sex in laws that affect 3.5 billion women, trying to throw out the concept of sexual dimorphism for every species on the planet and enforcing the entire reorganization of language and linguistic norms- are demands that don't match the whole "pls we're so tiny" vibes.

[firesuns-archive]

men are so obsessed with women to the point where they will draw or stage photographs of what they think women’s lives are like when men aren’t around or even when no one is around, they are obsessed with corrupting the solitude of women with their watchful eyes, they think they can imagine or correctly understand the multitudes of womanhood through the lens of art because they believe themselves to be artists that are somehow above misogyny and have therefore gained a higher understanding of womanhood and women’s solitude.  men are literally obsessed with corrupting women in any way they can, be it by taking a woman’s “virtue” or by painting pictures that basically say even when women are alone, when women try to be free from society, when we are just lying in our beds or staring ourselves in the bathroom mirror, men are always always always watching. so like… male artists paint something else challenge

terfs dont touch this post

[furiosamedea]

THE ENDDDDDDDD IM DYINGGGGG WHY WOULD YOU RUIN SUCH A BEAUTIFUL POST LIKE THAT

[xan-thi-ppe]

How can someone be so close and not get it? It’s literally the next step to the conclusion she’s coming to.

[radsplain]

tags by @hyenagurl as a very necessary addition

[vuvaliniterf]

TIMs are men, OP, and they’re the worst of those men who want to be our voyeurs, because they invade our spaces.

[clytemnestradidnothingwrong]

“terfs don’t touch this post”

Why? Because we won’t hesitate to remind you that your post is literally about “transwomen”?

[boudicasdaughter]

I cannot implore you enough to GO TO THEIR SUBREDDITS AND READ WHAT THE MtF SAY ABOUT WOMEN AND WOMANHOOD. Click into their profiles and see what else they are saying on the smaller subs. Go look. Go on.

Sissification, dollification, rape fantasies, humiliation and submission fetishes, forced lesbian and feminist conversion, dykebreaking- JUST to name A FEW. JUST A FEW.

It is vile, truly the worst and most depraved misogyny of humanity I have ever seen outside of true crime stories where women are butchered.

Go read what they have to say about us. Nothing I can say will convince you more than they can.

[bonobomildred]

fucking... ms paint comic about eggs

[bardcoremusical-deactivated2025]

A History of Feminist Antisemitism

The story of how activists and academics exchanged the struggle for universal female improvement for a politics of division and hatred.

Today’s feminist theory is art pretending to be history, brilliantly referencing and riffing on older feminisms, and offering blueprints for a new and supposedly better world—a world in which, as in many leftist iterations past, the destruction of Israel is a foregone conclusion.

[jewish-vents]

Oh I'm sorry where are all the feminists now that a man who RAPED A ISRAELI GIRL AND THEN BEHEADED HER was released from prison for being A RAPIST AND A HORRIBLE DISGUSTING HUMAN BEING

You all yell and scream and cry about rape but are SILENT when it comes to Israelis and Jews who experienced the same thing

Imagine Ted bundy (before he died) was released and allowed to roam the streets free again. I highly doubt people would stay silent. People around the world would yell in anger and demand he be put back in jail.

JUST BECAUSE IT HAPPENS TO ISRAELI AND JEWISH PEOPLE DOEANT MEAN ITS ANY LESS IMPORTANT

YOU GOYS (DEROGATORY) CALL IT RESISTANCE BUT FIGHT BACK WHEN SOMEBODY SAYS "SHE WAS ASKING FOR IT"

WHY DO WE NOT GET THE SAME JUSTICE, WHY ARE WE PUT DOWN AND LAUGHED AT, WHY IS IT US THAT THE FEMENISTS IGNORE

You guys cannot call yourself feminists if you're ignoring the rape, sa and complete disrespect Jews and Israelis get.

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[lecruee]

leftists should have abandoned the trans rights movement the second TIM/Fs fixed their mouths to call gay people transphobic for not wanting to have sex with them.

[niiwa-angel]

Another Radfem already pointed it out, but what the trans rights movement did is it gave homophobic liberals an excuse to be homophobic. They don't hate gay people! They hate transphobic gay people! So silly guys

[bettybeagettymcclanahan]

[antiplondon]

[starryweever-blog]

You don’t HAVE to have sex with trans women, you just have to lie about the reason why you won’t, and don’t admit that you’re homosexual, ever, and you HAVe to pretend that you theoretically might sleep with a trans woman if someone asks so we can all keep the charade going, because lesbians’ sex lives are centered around stroking males’ egos and not actually about lesbians trying to have fulfilling consenting relationships. This is nothing like when homophobic straight society forces gays and lesbians to enter loveless het marriages and remain closeted so straight homophobes can feel better about themselves, btw. Just a silly coincidence.

[madwomxxn]

How is it not concerning that the vast majority of lesbians who look like you and move through the world the way you do are no longer calling themselves women or lesbians, and probably over half of those are getting surgeries and taking testosterone? And the numbers keep growing and the ages at which women and girls do this keep lowering. How does it not look like obvious internalized homophobia to everyone watching? And how does it make me a TERF or a bad person to not feel comfortable with this?

[kkoffin]

gender is a conservative-made social construct btw. It has no purpose besides keeping women subordinate and dependant and making sure men join the military. It’s not an identity, it’s a method of oppression, and you are falling for it head over heels.

makeup and breast augmentation, high heels and false eyelashes aren’t “gender affirming “care””, they’re a product of capitalism that targets women, designed to make you feel ugly without them and become reliant on the industry.

Gender ideology is conservative and “gender affirming care” is capitalist. You aren’t a leftist or a communist.

Gender and capitalism doesn’t care if you’re born with a penis and doing these things, it profits just the same.

[queen-mayhem]

"Anything other than medical and surgical transition on demand is conversion therapy" does not make sense if you're understanding gender dysphoria/GID as a disorder.

If it's a disorder, then you should want people to try less expensive, less invasive, less dangerous treatments. You should want those to be the first line of treatment. You should want more research into those kinds of interventions. Because that would actually be better for people who suffer from the disorder.

If it's not a disorder, then your transition is entirely elective and you have no standing to demand healthcare coverage or public and social accommodations for gender affirmation.

It can't be both.