#system asks

[xxcopymoonjoyxx]

✨️Constellation✨️

✨️Corner✨️

Hihi! I saw some hate blogs posting system ask games. We don't stand for hate around here because everyone deserves a space for their system regardless of origin. Without further ado- here's our version uwu. Feel free to tag systems that are okay with ask games!!

-Presley

🛰-Do you have a large headcount?

👾-Do any alters in your system have typing quirks?

🚀-Does your system have any Non-human alters?

☄️-Is your system neurodivergent?

🔭-Does your system use neo Pronouns?

🌠-Do any of the alters in your system have dyed hair?

🌙-Are there any nonverbal alters in your system?

🪐-Do any in your system have any unique roles?

💫-Do your littles use 'little speech'?'

🌌-Does your system have little to no amnesia between switches

🌟-Does your system have fairly clear communication?

🌘-Do you have a large or complex headspace?

🛸-Do you have any fictives in your system? What about Factives?

👽-Does your system have any tics?

☀️-Is your system bad at masking?

✨️-Do any in your system have an accent?

🌎-Do any in your system speak in a different language?

☁️-Does your system use things like pluralkit and simply plural?

⭐️-Are you out about being a system?

Tags below the cut:

@livingsidecharacter

@idk who else cuz I don't know many systems to tag for this-

[team-runes]

Questions to know your system better !

What's your headcount right now (how many headmates) ?

Have this number changed a lot over the years ? How ?

Who are the main fronters ?

Who are mainly managing social media (and blogging on tumblr) ?

Do you have headmates who do not have any role ? How many ? Are they active ?

Do you have non human headmates ? How many ?

Do you have a good communication ?

How do you communicate ? (clear toughts, mental pictures, feelings, journal, sticky notes, an app, ...)

When did you realise you were a system ?

Do you globally have the same opinions within your system ? Are there topics that unify everyone under one opinion ?

How many "layers" of systems do you have ? (no subsystem (0), subsystems (1), subsystems inside subsystems (2), subsystems inside subsistems inside subsystems (3), ...)

If you have subsystems, how many do you have ?

Do you have an innerworld ? If you do, can all headmates access it ?

If you have an innerworld, how big is it ?

If you have an innerworld, do you like it ? Only some headmates ? Do some headmates hate being in the innerworld ?

Are there roles that are more present in your systems (more protectors, socials, caretaker, ...) ?

Do some of your alters have a bigger "front will" than others (keeping the front if they decide to, front if they decide to) ? If yes, is it linked to their roles ?

Did you use Simply Plural and Octocon ? If you did, did you find an alternative ?

Do you usually map on paper or online ? Or do you use other tools ? Or not map at all ?

(Bonus) What are some advice or tips you want to give to other systems after thinking about these questions ?

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I hope you like the questions, feel free to ask me anything and to reblog it ! It was first meant to be an asks game but I realise it might be dangerous to share some of these informations on the internet, so you can totally use them for journaling prompts, to know your system better without sharing anything online ! (you can still ask me stuff though)

[thestarrynightcoalition]

i'm a traumagenic system who's interested in having/creating endogenic headmates to fill certain roles- did you create your endogenic headmates on purpose, and if so how did you go about it? i've come up with ideas for headmates that i think would help us function before, but i don't really know how to go about making/helping them exist or what to expect. no worries if you don't actually have relevant experiences to my question. thank you in advance!

Yes!! We did create a few of our endogenic headmates on purpose! Im not sure if this will work for you but here are a few things that worked for us.

First,come up with an idea of what they will look like,how they would act,what they sound like,what they enjoy,and what role(s) they will fulfill. Kind of like making an oc! You can make this as detailed as you want,but keep in mind they may change over time. You can also just base them off of a character!

Then,talk to them! Treat them like they're present in headspace! Do things that they would like,dress in clothes they would like,etc. Treat and talk to them like they're already a part of your system. It may take some time,and alot of conscious effort on your part,but I've found that it really works for us!

Another method we've used is just thinking of a new headmate super hard,until they appear in headspace on their own!

As for what to expect during this process,you may get headaches or feel a bit more blurry than usual. After some time,your new headmate will start to feel more solid,and become more independent from you.

I hope you found this helpful! If you have any more questions we can answer,feel free to send another ask,or our dms are always open!

Thanks for the ask!

- Solstice

[the-complicity-system]

System Members Asks Thingy

You know what- We wanna make a silly system members asks thingy that we hope has no questions you see elsewhere!

A smidge deep/intrusive questions? You can just not answer if you do want to!

🕵‍♂️ Who's the most secretive member? Is there a reason why?

🔎 Who's the most suspicious of others? Is it just a general distrust or pure paranoia?

💀 Are any of your members afraid of death?

🦴 Do any of your members hate your bones? Maybe from chronic pain or being nonhuman? Or just hate knowing you have bones?

📼 Do any of your members have a hard time understanding the concept of TV/Videos/General visual media?

💾 Do any of your members randomly save content that you find later in your gallery? What is it usually? (Memes/art/sysboxes/userboxes/posts/ect.)

🎥 Has anyone recorded a video before apart from host?

🔈 Do you have any members who's innerworld vs outerworld talking amounts are opposites (are they mute in innerworld but talkative outwardly/talkative outwardly but mute in innerworld/ect)

⏱️ What is the longest front that has occurred? Who? Why?

⭐️ Do you have members that don't understand life outside of innerworld? Outside of earth?

🎮 Do you have anyone who primarily games more than others? Are they good? Are they awful? Do you have any members who game better but dont even like games?

🎱 Do you have a member who askes a lot of questions or answers usually extremely vaguely?

I think thats enough for now lmao-

For mobile users who hate trying to copy these but love doing them (I know the pain where sometimes you can only copy a line at a time so this is for you guys!)

Made small for convenience:

🕵‍♂️ Who's the most secretive member? Is there a reason why? 🔎 Who's the most suspicious of others? Is it just a general distrust or pure paranoia? 💀 Are any of your members afraid of death? 🦴 Do any of your members hate your bones? Maybe from chronic pain or being nonhuman? Or just hate knowing you have bones? 📼 Do any of your members have a hard time understanding the concept of TV/Videos/General visual media? 💾 Do any of your members randomly save content that you find later in your gallery? What is it usually? (Memes/art/sysboxes/userboxes/posts/ect.) 🎥 Has anyone recorded a video before apart from host? 🔈 Do you have any members who's innerworld vs outerworld talking amounts are opposites (are they mute in innerworld but talkative outwardly/talkative outwardly but mute in innerworld/ect) ⏱️ What is the longest front that has occured? Who? Why? ⭐️ Do you have members that don't understand life outside of innerworld? Outside of earth? 🎮 Do you have anyone who primarily games more than others? Are they good? Are they awful? Do you have any members who game better but dont even like games? 🎱 Do you have a member who askes a lot of questions or answers usually extremely vaguely?

[soupsys-art]

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE ASK US AB9UT OUR SYSTEM WE WILL HAPPILY ANSWER AS LONG AS IT'S APPROPRIATE

[askfawkes12]

Feel free to ignore this because I'm unsure if this goes against her allowed questions or not but I wanted to know if I could ask what or more if you have a job cuz I am around your age and there's not a lot of people who are systems in my area that I'm aware of.. I want to start looking for jobs and to be able to provide for my system and I would really like to know options because it feels like I would look up options and the majority of them are being gate kept.. Yeah thank you

So I figured out I'm not a system after years of debating it, so I can't speak on that aspect of it. However, I do not have a job either way.

I do deeply apologize for letting you on thinking I had OSDD. I didn't realize my intro post was out of date, I barely use this blog.

It's a very hard thing to accomplish nowadays, even if you have previous job experience, but I'm sure you can accomplish getting hired if you try and apply for many jobs all at once. Don't rely on applying for one place and expecting them to hire you immediately. Most jobs will just ignore your application if they're not a smaller business.

One person I'd put a request in to talk too for system related questions is older systems here on tumblr or finding some on discord or reddit (what I use)

@peppercornsystem is probably a resource to chat too

I'd heard that depending on where you decide to work, your stability in working somewhere in general, and your boss/coworkers can easily make or break your experience, but yes, it is possible for someone with DID/OSDD to work in the workforce. Letting trusted coworkers or bosses know that you have DID/OSDD will help you expediently, as long as you still advocate for yourself and actions as you work.

[peppercornsystem]

Honestly, we’re just closing anon questions permanently. Please know we won’t be upset if we get private messages from people with questions for us that don’t necessarily want to be posted on the blog (unless you’re a real dick about it lol).

Honestly, getting harassed because we called out someone for being a “pick-me” (being disabled and spouting harmful ableist rhetoric) is genuinely so wild. We got another anon ask harassing us about that already, and got an anon ask of an otherkin using all caps and barking at us, of all things, about “not respecting other people’s identities”? Bestie, you trauma dumped your guilt for awful actions completely unsolicited. That’s what we don’t respect.

People are wild. Tumblr is truly a cesspool sometimes.

It sucks because we genuinely had some lovely asks before from anon asks, and some rancid people have removed that ability. To be clear, we don’t want people to stop reaching out to us.

Kristy here, I just switched in. If people want to send us asks in messages but not have their names attached, you can send them in and we’ll blot out the name and pfp.

But honestly. People need fucking hobbies and coping skills.