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[hagrag-deactivated20240714]

Sinister Wisdom #76

[mousidy]

Sorry but I’m exclusively attracted to afab people. I wasn’t sent to conversion therapy twice as a teenager only to have people on the internet guilt me into trying to like people assigned male just like the Mormon counselors wanted. I will always advocate for trans rights but this kind of rhetoric will only hurt you. You cannot guilt or coerce people into sleeping with you or rather, you can, but you should’t.

I've been wanting to unpack this particular terf argument for a while but I'm not even sure what I wrote that you could be responding to here. yes it's bioessentialist to see trans women as our assigned sex before what we actually are, but that fact alone does not obligate you to sleep with anyone

it would be fatphobic to announce that you don't want to sleep with fat women, and someone simply calling that out alone would not constitute pressuring you to sleep with anyone you didn't want to

it's not carte blanche to announce all the minorities you don't want to sleep with and aren't attracted to

[futchlings]

these nefarious mormon conversion counselors are always telling young cis women to fuck trans girls on account of it's not gay if she has or had an outie

[1000thoughtsinatrenchcoat]

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

Framing sexual boundaries as bigotry makes you a rape apologist. Every time.

[etesienne]

Listen to trans women; sooner of later they always show themselves to be creeps, rape apologists, homophobes and misogynists.

[theoretical-terf]

The common extremist view of gay people is that "homosexuality is sexual deviance". Right wing extremists think that's bad, and left wing extremists think that's cool. But the reality is that homosexuality is a natural human variance, and it isn't sexually deviant.

[pain--pilled]

Bruh. Why are women LIKE THIS tho. It took you looking at how animals are treated to see that females are oppressed?

This reminds me of something I was gonna post about, how I've noticed that females are more often animal rights activists than they are activists for their own rights. Incredibly weird. Women are never beating the allegations that they have slave minds. It's fine to be vegan btw, if you want to do that that's ur choice, I just find it disturbing how women feel more empathy for animals than for.... themselves.

[hboharrypotter]

Man, it's really embarrassing to be anti JKR in 2026... because that means that every single time a wave of hate for her went around, over and over and over again, you never got curious enough to fact check. You never went to the source, you blindly swallowed every lie, and years later you're still parroting laughably false ideas like that she "funds a trans genocide." OR, even worse, you did read her measured and thoughtful essay, then saw the vile misogyny she received in response, and said "Ah, yes. I will side with the misogynists."

JKR is a feminist, a philanthropist, and very arguably the most accomplished author of our time. We have a whole subculture of iconoclasts who want nothing more than to erase this woman and her accomplishments, but all their years of effort has led to exactly nothing. Hogwarts Legacy was hugely successful. The Strike books are hugely successful. The Harry Potter HBO trailer is already their number one trailer. JKR just keeps on winning, and honestly? No one deserves it more. Good for her.

[rosemarieposey]

Kind of hate how utterly nuanceless progressive types are when it comes to trans ppl. The classic "conservatives hate it, we should support it!" The complete disregard for any issue that affects only women. The way that women and children and neurodivergent ppl are acceptable collateral damage when it comes to owning terfs. The way that owning conservatives is more important than actually being right or good, to the point that they can't even they can't even do that properly and just end up being homophobic too. And this weird slippery slope fear that criticising anyone in your in-group in even the tiniest of ways will instantly destroy solidarity (while they actively force gay ppl, lesbians, and feminists out of the community because they they want to stop prejudice by allowing ppl on "our side" to be prejudiced bc they are marginalized and that cancels it out) The complete inability to focus on 2 issues at once (except for when ppl in the in-group are transphobic, suddenly we understand how activism works again and being marginalized doesn't make you except from criticism) They way everything is just now US vs Conservative instead of Us vs Immorality and nobody questions that

[cupcakesandmisandry]

[sun-lesbian]

If misogyny was only just “hatred of the feminine” a supposedly mystic state of being rather than oppressive norms, women could opt out at any time by simply not conforming. This is so clearly and painfully untrue almost as if… Sex-based oppression exists

[nevertheless-lesbians-persist]

and in fact, refusing to conform to/perform femininity often makes things WORSE for females.

[fretami]

female and feminine? get misogyny

female and masculine? get misogyny

[bushpropaganda]

it’s almost like the thing that makes oppression so horrific is that you cannot opt out of it. because the system of oppression relies on immutable characteristics to effectively oppress people.

[fematrix]

current social media discourse about lesbians sounds to me like

hey gurl✨, newsflash🌈: it's totally absolutely OKAY⭐ to be HETERO!!🧚‍♀️ you don't need to be gay🤹‍♀️ to be gay🧞‍♀️! isn't that neat🫦 and valid👀? now come on, send all your thoughts 🧠 and prayers 🙏 to everyone 🙆‍♀️ who likes👍 penis 💋💅

[gokusclit]

This gotta be the stupidest post ive ever seen. “Happy pride month guys lesbophobia isnt real”

[bookwyrmbutch]

"there are essentially zero experiences that a bi woman has had that a lesbian hasn't also"

i can think of one!

[marbleguard]

is anyone keeping up with this thing where the body of a madoka magica cosplaying trans woman was found in a german river and everyone immediately with no evidence started theorizing it was a horrific transphobic hate crime only for it to be revealed it was a likely suicide and the trans woman in question was wanted for kidnapping an underage girl and was a sex offender for "sex acts with child under 15"....

and after that was uncovered, netizens immediately, again with literally no evidence at all, started accusing the kidnapped girl who was groomed when she was a child, of murder, despite the trans woman who died constantly posting suicide fantasies on social media dating back many years. Imagine trying to frame the victim of grooming as a murderer just to maintain the victim narrative of the literal sex offender

can't make this shit up

[marbleguard]

most of the discussion and sources coming out about this are not in english so its proving a bit hard for me to follow the full details (here is the government sex offender page), but is this not just a real life example of the exact sort of shit that has been going on here on tumblr too? Reminds me of all of the blogs that were deleted for posting literal pedophilia, incest, and rape fantasies, who are then rallied behind by the entire site and portrayed as victims, just because the people running them were trans women. And how about how that same circle of bloggers have been posting about how the sex offender registry is fascist or whatever?

it is disturbing but not unexpected that this is not just an online phenomenon. it's obvious, but these people exist in real life.

[marbleguard]

i notice that for a lot of female comedians a main topic of choice is routines about the details of their sex lives and their appearances. obviously this is a case of them just doing what people want to hear, so im not necessarily trying to place the blame on them. but i do think its interesting that comedy, which is at its core mostly about a person making unique observations about topics in everyday life, women are mostly only given attention for their observations about that narrow band of topics. I can't really think of a male comedian who's "thing" is routines about having sex and trials and tribulations of trying to look sexy. I think most people would find that a little weird if that was the bulk of his performance.

[calvinists-and-hobbesians]

"actually, the bible doesn't condemn homosexuality!" but are you saying that if it did condemn homosexuality, that you would be homophobic?

"actually, the bible doesn't condone slavery!" but are you saying that if it did condone slavery, that you would be okay with it?

"actually, the bible doesn't condone genocide!" but if it commanded you to, if He commanded you to, would you take up the sword?

"actually, the bible doesn't command the killing of unbelievers!" but if it did, would I stare at the blade at my chest and see you holding the handle?

There isn't a god. when you take Isaac up to the mountain, lay him across the altar, hold the blade above him; there will be no angel to call your name; to stop you; to declare it was all a test. The knife will fall and you will call yourself justified.

I've spent the time studying the bible; and I know that these aren't true. It condemns homosexuality. it condones slavery. it condones genocide. it condones the killing of unbelievers. Sometimes in the back of my mind, I fear that the people I know will look a little closer and follow what the bible actually says. And in the front of my mind, I fear those who follow it just enough to try to justify their bigotry.

There is a class, a category of people - those that follow their religion as truth, and are willing to do whatever it tells them, even if it commands things that would be evil and disgusting to a non-believer.

There are millions, maybe billions of these people. Some of them are homophobes. Some of them are murderers. Some of them are gay-affirming. Some of them are your friends. Some of them are world leaders. Some of them are your family.

The only way we can end religious violence is by condemning these people wholesale. The 9/11 attacks, the Crusades, Sharia Law, and more were caused by people believing lies. A liar is a liar and liar who denies truth and reality cannot be trusted to self-regulate and make sure their lies aren't truly in reality harmful.

not every religious person is one of these people. Some of them follow it as cultural practice, some of them are agnostic theists, some hold their religion as a hope rather than a fact. Some people observe pikuach nefesh and never let their belief override the value of a human life. But is the duty of every person to ensure that the difference between them and Heaven's Gate cultists is more than just luck, environment, and a lack of follow-through.

[detransition]

Gender Detransition: a path towards self-acceptance (free pdf) available in english, german, french, dutch, spanish & swedish

thinking about detransition? you are not alone

[atlasdrugged82]

These fuckers simply CANNOT be serious right now.

[servin-terf-haha]

A whole fucking hour?! With children he chose to have?! Hopefully in an attempt to give the woman who actually conceived them, birthed them, and raise them the other 23 hours a break??

Boo fucking hoo.

[pinkribbonradical]

has anyone else ever noticed that so many people that subscribe to gender ideology are white people? in an attempt to escape their white guilt—they too must become marginalized.

white males specifically.

by becoming trans or nonbinary, they can now claim they have been treated cruelly without ever surrendering their oppressive tyranny. they do not give up their whiteness. they do not give up their male socialization. they do however gain the opportunity to become oppressed instead of doing the oppression. 

gender ideology has given them a costume and a theory to be oppressed, but never not in power.

[animentality]