Fox || it/its

masc, fem, nonhuman terms || literally a fox || mixed origin system : DID, spiritual, created || intersex transfem

[the-fox-collective]

“ ☆ . . . skulk of foxes

⠀Fox ; intersex , 20 yrs , UK , BST

transxenine ; transfem boy , t4t

⠀aromantic ; abrosexual , lesboy

⠀married to my wife ; linux user , nerd

⠀physically disabled and finally out of uni

my pronouns are determined by this wheel (link)

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☆ . . . boundaries „

⠀no dni, I block as I please lmao. I'm pretty tolerant in conversation but I get frustrated easily by transphobia, intersexism and ableism especially

⠀use singular pronouns on me as much as possible, I don't wanna be called y'all

⠀I will use tonetags unless told not to, because accessibility should be the standard. only use /gen /j and /silly on me please unless close

⠀our headmates are headmates unless said otherwise. divigenic headmates are called the divens

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☆ . . . tagging system „

⠀#our essays

⠀#original post

⠀#fox responds

⠀#saving for later

⠀#personal

☆ . . . other „

⠀I post art on @saltyfoxes-artist and appreciate donations made to my ko-fi greatly due to the rising cost of medication and food

⠀mixed origin / traumaendo DID system in early stages of recovery. traumagenic, divigenic and willowgenic are the main origins. not pro endo or anti endo but syscourse unaligned.

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☆ . . . named posters „

⠀Evie ; willowmancer , she/xy

⠀Ellery ; willowgenic , she/he

⠀Kit ; main guy , it/its

⠀Zen ; divigenic , it/mir

⠀Nephele ; divigenic , it/noi

⠀Connor ; other guy , it/bro

☆ . . . wed decor (flashing under cut)„

credits : i'm built diff , im twilight , take your meds , survived catholic school , bigender , aromantic , I'm girl now

[genderkoolaid]

its crazy that megan thee stallion is not considered a queer artist by some people. the woman is not shy about the fact that she finds women attractive and likes having sex with them. she references it pretty frequently in her music, she made a whole song about enjoying having threesomes with a woman and a man, she made a Jennifer's Body-themed music video, she had Victoria Monét full riding her thigh on stage at a coachella, and there's literally a video of a lesbian interviewing glorilla at a party & asking who she would date if she was queer and her immediate response is "megan. megan like girls!" and then megan turns around and immediately starts flirting with the interviewer. i don't know what more you want. that woman is Bi Sexual and we should all be thankful every day for that. bi women are still bi when they wanna fuck men too you know. the fucking of men is also done bisexually.

[genderkoolaid]

its crazy that megan thee stallion is not considered a queer artist by some people. the woman is not shy about the fact that she finds women attractive and likes having sex with them. she references it pretty frequently in her music, she made a whole song about enjoying having threesomes with a woman and a man, she made a Jennifer's Body-themed music video, she had Victoria Monét full riding her thigh on stage at a coachella, and there's literally a video of a lesbian interviewing glorilla at a party & asking who she would date if she was queer and her immediate response is "megan. megan like girls!" and then megan turns around and immediately starts flirting with the interviewer. i don't know what more you want. that woman is Bi Sexual and we should all be thankful every day for that. bi women are still bi when they wanna fuck men too you know. the fucking of men is also done bisexually.

[queer-things-and-stuff]

So true, op . “i got a man i got a bitch, i’m a banana, they want a split” literally just one iconic line of many. she AND cardi b, regardless of if you like their music or them as a person, it’s such unnecessary erasure, that i feel is often racially motivated. not because people are actively thinking that because shes black that she’s not a queer person, but because when we think queer women musician we’re taught not about janelle monae or young MA, but instead girl in red and chappell roan…. there is more to the sapphic music genre than yearning and pop my people!!! i love a good acoustic banger as much as the next gay, but you are limiting yourselves !!!

[genderkoolaid]

LITERALLY!!!!!!

[assorted-aesthetics]

im starting to develop Thoughts on how comfy everyone has gotten calling other ppl autistic unprompted but y'all aren't ready for them methinks

[bunnygirljesus]

Black ppl deserve to feel safe and welcomed on the internet, on fandoms on whatever community or hobbies they want without having to deal with antiblack racist attacks, microaggressions or enablers of antiblackness . And if u genuinely consider urself to be left leaning or an ally or woke you should do and try to unlearn the colorism, texturism , eurocentrism and antiblackness

[eroscestlavie]

I need to stop replying to “how do you make friends in your 30s?” threads because all my answers boil down to “you have to want to know people instead of have friends” and I don’t think people wanna hear that

[genderkoolaid]

Transunity theory largely draws from transfeminism, however, transunity theory also has some key developments of its own. Transunitism utilises transfeminism's beliefs that everyone has the right to define their own identities and to expect society to respect them- especially without the fear of discrimination or violence. It also utilises the transfeminist idea that trans peoples relationships with oppression, privilege, patriarchy and feminism are complex and at their most basic interpretations, are rarely black and white or as clear cut as is often suggested. These principles have been a part of transfeminism since its inception, however, subsequent interpretations of transfeminism have neglected one or both of these principles, leading to the need for transunitist theory to develop. Transfeminism originated as a movement mainly by and for trans women, but much like feminism as a whole, many others can find solace and support in it. However, one of the flaws in early transfeminist theory was the neglect of non trans women in transfeminism. This has since been recognised by many early writers of transfeminist theory, however, mainstream transfeminism continues to neglect or even deliberately deprioritise non trans womens issues in the movement. The initial error is understandable, but is by no means the way forward. Feminism (as arisen from cis gender dynamics) prioritises mainly cis women's issues due to the lack of support women's issues have compared to those of cisgender men. The error is that those cis gender dynamics are frequently applied to transgender politics, but such a thing is not possible to achieve and often leaves other equally marginalised people with little to no support from transfeminism. The truth is that transfeminism has its roots in the mainstream feminist movement, but has different dynamics to it and requires more nuance in its application. Often, the (incorrect) application of transfeminism has been to prioritise trans women's issues on the unfounded assumption that other kinds of trans people's issues (particularly trans men's) have more support. Clearly, this is not the case for the following reason: Namely, that patriarchy does not value trans men as men the same way it does cis men (nor would it value nonbinary people the same way), therefore non trans women's issues are not receiving support from the patriarchy and thus prioritising trans women's issues at the expense of other, struggling trans groups is in the long run, damaging for solidarity and detrimental to non trans women.

from The Transunitist Manifesto (2023) by Luke B.

[cock-holliday]

You'll read a post that is full of the most violently transphobic language directed at trans men and you'll be like damn what is this asshole's deal with being so unable to connect with people outside their demographic and then you go to block and the OP *is* a trans man. And then suddenly it's like ohhhh the reactionary rhetoric really got to you. You are so consumed by guilt at "becoming a man" that you really buy into all the essentialism as a way to absolve yourself as "one of the good ones" please god find some self love you make me wanna hit you

And you'll have a trans woman stick up for trans men and then get the most vile transphobic language sent her way and you're like damn, people love being really shit to trans women on this site and then the person saying this shit *is* another trans woman. And then suddenly it's like ohhh you are so consumed by the idea of some sort of inherent curse by being assigned maleness that the way to atone is to distance yourself as much as possible and punish anyone who blurs the line you need to keep to "maintain your innocence."

Scum manifesto radfeminism is such a cancer in that it leaves trans people to deep fry in guilt about an utter non-issue while wriggling away from actually being responsible for the harm they are causing to their own circles and everyone else. You cannot wokely use essentialism, AMAB trans people people are not doomed by birth assignment--that is terf shit. AFAB trans people are not doomed by "choosing maleness"--that is terf shit. Y'all should drop pretending it's transfeminsim and just become evangelists the way you are centering your theory around sin.

[fatliberation]

nothing will enrich your life more than having pervert friends. get to know your local pervert <3

[rubysapphrald]

i feel so defensive and protective of people with ARFID like if i had a disorder that made my brain register 90% of food as poison for no reason and i had a bazillion people on the internet constantly calling me a manchild who needs to just grow up and stop being a picky eater i would start killing people

[77pink-prin-cess77]

Please don't forget about loveless people this pride month. Love doesn't make us human. People don't need to love in "other" ways to be valid. Some people are aplatonic, some afamilial, some asensual, some are heartless. They still belong. Abolish conformity and the idea that someone needs to be something specific to belong at pride.

[aromanticofficial]

official loveless post

[busket]

the way trans folks innocuous jokes get misinterpreted and turned into discourse should be studied. a while back i remember seeing jokes like "if you know my deadname no you dont" or "closing my eyes when sending my trans friend money so I dont read their deadname" well some folks must have seen those jokes and thought "ohh its transphobic to know someone's deadname" and thats why this year i saw someone in an argument say "why would you, as their partner, know their deadname? 🤨" huh??

[courtkossai]

some thoughts and experiences . advice is not bad to share , but definitely start to fall short once reach certain point , or even at smaller sizes if structure differently .

[f4ngbu2t]

Trans people of color!!! Do not let the culture around you stop you from choosing a name that speaks to your heritage. When I was settling on my name, I had white trans people around me tell me that my name would be too hard to pronounce or too long for most people. [Four syllable Latin name, go figure]

I'm glad I didn't listen and decided to stay true to myself and I chose a traditionally Afro-Brazilian that still makes me happy to this day. Don't feel pressured to assimilate or make yourself more palpable for white people, little reminder!

[imjunebitch]

u gotta get less misanthropic I'm not kidding

[imjunebitch]

especially now with all the bullshit going on in Kansas, in Texas, in Iran, with Israel and Palestine, this ICE shit, this Epstein shit, it is essential to remember that evil and violence is not the natural state of humanity. this is not what humanity is like. if it was, there would be no reason to be disgusted or fight against it. most people are good and decent, and are victims of this, and by reducing it to a "carte blanche humanity is fucked anyway" you are casting aside the good, decent, loving people with rich inner lives who these cowardly fucks think are disposable

[depressedcryptographer]

Asking for touch as an aspec is so weird like “hey, please touch me, but not in a sex/romance way, just in a human contact way. Interact with my body’s touchscreens. Punch me in the face or something. Please. I’ll take anything at this point.”

Edit: of course everyone here has blanket permission to tag this as Blorbo from their Shows. We love seeing representation, implicit or explicit.

[aromanticofficial]

official aromantic post

[sherlockboylove]

no no i actually think it’s super fun that you took that aro/ace character and bent them over backwards to make them gay!!!! we all know being gay is more #progressive than being aro/ace so i’m so glad you freed them from having a storyline unconnected from romance and shipping!!! you go diva!!!

[aromanticofficial]

official aromantic rage