Who I Am Hates Who I've Been

Local dweeb. Non-binary ace person. TTTPG enthusiast.

[whatareyoureallyafraidof]

[b00bconnoisseur]

NEEDS MORE THAN ONLY 51K NOTES

[monchursouls]

LETS HIT 100K

[buried-l0cket]

Lesbians still making posts about how bad it is for bi women to use butch/femme:  We know! We heard u! We’re trying to make our own terms and have them used widespread but we need to get the WORD out for them to be commonplace and that’s hard when literally nobody but bis reblog posts talking about bisexuals lol! It’s not like we all follow each other. At this point the only people trying to take ur terms from you are lesphobes or young bi girls who straight up don’t realize they aren’t generic wlw terms because they haven’t learned the history bc literally no one is out here trying to include and teach bisexual kids shit about their gay lineage, everyone’s too busy trying to push it under the rug. 

bi equivalent of femme: doe bi equivalent of butch: stag

There are more for nb bis and such you can look into but there’s the basics! Look I’ve even designed flags you can find if you scroll through this tag! (i didnt come up with the terms)  

[a-daedras-best-friend]

[thefoxesraven]

So was no one going to tell me- as a bisexual- that we had our own terms that are like Butch and Femme. Or was I supposed to find that out though this post??

I seriously don’t know enough about my own sexuality.

[lazywritergirl]

Wait…what?!

[peaceofyourheart]

PSA for all the Bi. Y’all people out here spreading education.

[shatterpath]

PSA for my bi sisters and brothers.

[methodicalerror]

Since OP’s links don’t work:

Image One:

Doe: Feminine bi girl

Stag: Masculine bi girl

Tomcat: Androgynous bi girl

Image Two:

Mage: Feminine bi boy

Knight: Masculine bi boy

Druid: Androgynous bi boy

Image Three:

Dove: Feminine nb bi

Crow: Masculine nb bi

Pigeon: Androgynous nb bi

[smaug-the-wizard]

dont mean to impose but does anyone know the terms for pan people? i know a pan girl who uses butch and i feel i should correct her but idk if we have one??

[vaspider]

You should absolutely NOT correct any wlw for using butch and femme.

Butch and femme are NOT lesbian-only terms, they are not even WOMEN-only terms.

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/185533845186/ok-so-i-like-boys-and-i-might-be-a-trans-dude-but

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/171936201311/hey-not-to-be-rude-but-i-noticed-it-said-that

https://vaspider.tumblr.com/post/173899382096/hey-im-a-bi-person-who-has-mostly-left-the

The idea that butch and femme are ‘only for lesbians’ is more TERF nonsense trying to drive further wedges between lesbians and bi/pan/ply/omnisexual people, not to mention the LONG history of the terms being used in the ball community by gay men and trans women, ESPECIALLY QTPOC. 

[gabbug]

I have to agree with @vaspider. Historically, butch and femme have been used by any wlw/nonbinary/queer women. It isn’t lesbophobic to use them, and you shouldn’t let the fact that the replacement terms are cute distract you from the current radical issues within the LGBTQ+ and especially wlw communities.

The terms above are rarely ever seen, and it’s a growing issue that LGBTQ+ teens come to tumblr and are dissuaded from using their own identities and coerced into thinking similarly to TERFs.

Tumblr has a culture of extreme sensitivity and shame hosting thousands of teens and adults that come here to explore themsleves freely and find communities unavailable to them in person, and many people are subsequently shamed out of spaces before they have the information and skills to combat radicals and and actual phobes. Not everyone can spot the difference yet between cries of “I’m here and I need visibility, respect, and support,” and the reverse, the shouts of “Pay attention, I’m more important, value me!” Language used to protect the LGBTQ+ community is turned on its head and shaped into TERF and radical propaganda that resonates with young teens because it sounds right, it sounds politically correct, and nobody wants to step on any toes.

The very first opening claim from OP screams just that: I hear you and I want to accommodate your needs. Some needs shouldn’t be met. They aren’t needs, they’re rallies for segregation within the queer/LGBT community and we need to stop propagating them.

This post isn’t cute. You can use any of the terms above that you like, and you absolutely can use butch and/or femme.

Lesbian? Butch and femme.

Bi? Butch and femme.

Trans? Butch and femme.

Nonbinary? Pan? Demi? Aroace? Butch and femme, butch and femme, butch and femme, butch and femme.

Use them, it’s okay, they’re yours too.

[triskele1312]

Can i also add that its pissing me off to see people trying to clame druid is a term for an androgynous Bi boy like thats really not okay we still exist you can’t just take our name seriously what the fuck

[vaspider]

Yeah that wasn’t really for me to speak on but wow.

[catasters]

[starwarsgraphictee]

belli.. . .… høldar

[latenights]

Get you a partner who wants to invest in you, listen to you, learn from you, see you win, support your visions & fall in love with you daily

[vardaelcntari]

That’s it, the Professor is truly the King of Sass

[nimium-amatrix-ingenii-sui]

The letter didn’t come from the Nazi party, but from the publishing house which had expressed an interest in the German translation of The Hobbit. Tolkien’s response really is a thing of beauty, though, so it deserves to be quoted in its entirety:

25 July 1938                                              20 Northmoor Road, Oxford

Dear Sirs,

Thank you for your letter. … I regret that I am not clear as to what you intend by arisch. I am not of Aryan extraction: that is Indo-iranian; as far as I am aware none of my ancestors spoke Hindustani, Persian, Gypsy, or any related dialects. But if I am to understand that you are enquiring whether I am of Jewish origin, I can only reply that I regret that I appear to have no ancestors of that gifted people. My great-great-grandfather came to England in the eighteenth century from Germany: the main part of my descent is therefore purely English, and I am an English subject - which should be sufficient. I have been accustomed, nonetheless, to regard my German name with pride, and continued to do so throughout the period of the late regrettable war, in which I served in the English army. I cannot, however, forbear to comment that if impertinent and irrelevant inquiries of this sort are to become the rule in matters of literature, then the time is not far distant when a German name will no longer be a source of pride.

Your enquiry is doubtless made in order to comply with the laws of your own country, but that this should be held to apply to the subjects of another state would be improper, even if it had (as it has not) any bearings whatsoever on the merits of my work or its suitability for publication, of which you appear to have satisfied yourselves without reference to my Abstammung.

I trust you will find this reply satisfactory, and remain yours faithfully

J.R.R. Tolkien.

(Letter 30)

The Hobbit wasn’t published in German until 1957.

[correspondingnerd]

This might just be the politest “fuck you” ever written.

[geekandmisandry]

W.h.a.t.

[bramblepatch]

Not just “I wish I had Jewish ancestors, but I don’t,” but also “you do realize that’s not what ‘Aryan’ actually means, right,” and “you guys are making it pretty hard to be proud of my German heritage.”

[steakplissken]

Nazis: Are you Aryan?

Noted linguistics freak Tolkien: Are you?

[tereozil]

Laugh From Around The World In Messages.

From fb.

[i-am-a-fish]

[shingojira]

the fuck you lookin at keep scrollin

[zagreus]

maybe i’m just sleepy and cranky today but every time i’ve opened tumblr i have within two pages gotten fed up and angry about the absolute HORSE SHIT u all make me read

[zagreus]

everyone shut the fuck up and post baby birds

[sistertaxon]

[zagreus]

oh yes that’s my favourite kind of bird

[bpdkipland]

my favorite picture ever is the one that says “HELL IS FULL, BITCH” and then it has the national suicide prevention hotline on it. it makes me smile every time 

[bpdkipland]

THIS ONE!!!!

[bogfox]

I wonder who made these! I have this one saved:

[bitchstew-deactivated20240821]

Chaotic Good

[bpdkipland]

*slamming my fists on table* I NEED MORE!!!! MORE!!!!

[cozza-frenzy]

If anyone has the skeleton apologizing for triggering someone, I’d like that for my collection, please.

[catalystforameow-deactivated202]

Here!

Plus some more^^

[puddox]

[spiderman-anti]

ME ME ME

[wetwareproblem]

Gangster Popeye, the inventor of this style and artist behind several of these pieces (I’m not sure about all of them, though they appear to be her style) is a Salvadorean trans woman. Her Patreon is here.

[sewickedthread]

reblogging for artist credit and patreon info

[2000ish]

[stonedbabyygirl]

drink some water you beautiful and capable but dehydrated bitch

[askfordoodles]

The 3 stages of a cat yawn

Stage 1: cute tiny “O”-mouth.

Stage 2: sticky the tongue out real far

Stage 3: ENtirE FacE SPLItS opEn LiKE a lOVecRAFTIAn hoRROR, REvEALInG aN eNDLESS pIT of poiNts ANd blaDES oH GOD

[lindsay-blogs]

Stage 5: Mlem

[echosilverwolf]

[ddeathspell]

[khatoblepas]

There they are, the two genders.

[samael]

only a cis deals in absolutes

[cornchipz-revival]

all of life and history aligned for that one joke we’re done everyone go home

[thottistani-deactivated20220220]

No gay has all 5:

- A job

- Good relationship with father

- Neurotypical brain

- Ability to top

- Driver’s license

[garbage-empress]

this is a fun post because people will say how many they have in the tags then you get to figure out which ones.

[stability]

[hella90s]

I AM DYING RIGHT NOW!!! 😂😂😂

What started out as a print-at-home card game has now been brought to life! If you’re a fan of Cards Against Humanity and Disney, this game is definitely for you. Be aware though, NONE of these cards are rated G. 

WARNING: Unless you’re ok with having your favourite Disney characters and films ruined forever, don’t buy this game. 

If you’re a horrible person then check it out HERE

[headboardlights-deactivated2021]

gays rb this with ur favorite way to sit wrong in a chair

[yuccaglauca]