Twenties

Side blog - @theonetruecatgirl

[mallory-adjusted]

The way that hyper online right wing men talk about TRAs amongst themselves is very enlightening

[creature-adjacent]

Carnivorous plants doin this is so funny to me

They don't wanna eat their pollinators :(

[questionablepastries]

[pseudonaivete]

She definitely deserves it, but so do tons of rapist pedophilic heinous men, like the… president of the USA.

[fearlessfeministcat]

Preaching to the choir here, but feminism is not about gender equality it is about female liberation. Equality means to treat everyone the same, this does not overcome or defeat the centuries of female oppression. In the same way that disability accommodation mean that some people get extra time on tests, female liberation means there needs to be accommodations made to combat the systemic oppression faced by women

[cyberpsychostims]

Frankly speaking as a trans person who was assigned female at birth, if you crow to me about my "female biology" or "biological reality" or "female socialization" I'll kill you. Like I should get to kill you. You're a TERF.

[opinionatedlesbian]

it’s quite telling to me that you want to kill women because they acknowledge biological reality and female socialisation, and by extension misogyny. He/him pronouns won’t save you from the patriarchy, I know that myself as I’m quite literally a detransitioner. I hope you overcome your misogyny one day and realise violence is not the answer, genuinely.

[ilovegirlssomuch123]

This is why acceptance rates for trans people are going down and detransition rates are going up btw. The intolerance for being able to talk about a lived reality based on your sex is alienating to literally everyone else outside the trans rights bubble and also a significant amount of people in it, even if they don't speak up because of the backlash.

[servin-terf-haha]

Imagine any other delusional and/or entitled group jumping to violence, even just the written threats of it on a mostly-fandom blog site, because someone won't uphold their delusions. And we're supposed to respect your takes? And not think you're in a cult? Or, at the very least, not think you're a self-hating misogynistic who can't distinguish between personality, the bullshit concept of gender, and biological sex??

[gender-critical-butch]

i’m constantly seeing trans men making posts about about “transandrophobia” or “transmisandry” in the trans community…fellas, your trans “sisters” aren’t assholes to you because they believe you’re men. they treat you like shit because they know you’re female, regardless of whether or not you identify with the term. it’s misogyny. we live in a patriarchal society that thrives on misogyny and you’re not immune to it whether you follow all the rules as a feminine tradwife or break the rules and become a transgender man. it’s bullshit, but all the testosterone shots in the world aren’t gonna stop it.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

if you’re a rapist male who gets gropey after getting high, don’t walk into a mosh pit which is open to both sexes and then complain about being called a rapist or sexual assaulter. you know exactly what the risks are. in fact, stay home.

“hey being sexually assaulted when trying to enjoy a music festival is bad”

“umm this isn’t a safe space”

So you feel chill hanging out with a huge crowd of drug fueled creeps who will sexually assault a woman if they get the chance???

[virtualcremefem]

the man has a right to assault because drugs and music the woman has no right to not be assaulted because basic humanity and her music community will not stand with her

[noblackwomannocry]

as part of the transfem voices project, mousidy felt the need to highlight the voice of a woman who, as a 12 year old boy addicted to loli pornography, molested an 8 year old girl and spent years in the juvenile detention system as a result. this woman is now a 30 year old self-admitted pedophile, enabled by parents (whose support she credits with keeping her alive) who have seemingly coddled her every step of the way, including somehow allowing their child the means to easily access pornography after molesting another child, who now self-flagellates on tumblr about how much she wants to die because people would want her dead just knowing that she is a pedophile. not even based on the fact that she was a 12 year old boy that molested an 8 year old girl.

she loosely connects her story to transmisogyny at the end by going "well idk if I faced transmisogyny before I came out but I did after I'm so scared because transmisogynists would call me a pedophile and they would be right everyone wants me dead I can't be pedojacketed because I have the jacket on :("

great #OwnVoices job, team. knocked it out of the park. hit the showers.

if you are able, consider donating to a group like Survivors of Incest Anonymous, which helps provide a safe space for victims of CSA, including victims of COCSA, to talk about and heal from their experiences.

[swampfrawg]

Hey, look who commented on that exact post.

[noblackwomannocry]

[stellasbiggestfangirl]

if he's a child-molesting man, maybe don't refer to him as a "she" and a "woman", if ya know, he's a MAN? food for thought!

[p0pipos]

tims get super offended when you say "welcome to being a woman" when they complain about anything related to (what they see as) being treated like a woman

magnanimous ally that i am, i promise all tims that i would never say something this offensive. why would i welcome you somewhere you can never be?

[ayaahh00]

The bastardization of feminism began the moment it was watered down by male-serving talking points like "feminism is just equality" and "feminism is for everyone." Which is absolutely not. You cannot achieve "equality" within a system designed from the ground up to strip women of their rights and erase their history. Feminism is the radical liberation of women from sex-based oppression. By shifting the goalpost from dismantling patriarchy to "making everyone feel included," the movement was effectively declawed into a harmless, palatable brand to fit our very oppressors. ​

The second most insidious betrayal is the institutional push to validate gender ideology. The moment womanhood was redefined as a self-declared identity rather than a material, sex-based reality, female boundaries were stripped away. We’ve reached a peak delusion where males claim to be "lesbians," colonize female-only spaces, and weaponize slurs against women who assert their boundaries and biological reality, now they openly prey on homosexual women. We went from a movement dismantling a systemic hierarchy created by men for men, to one that demands women prioritize male feelings and predatory demands including changing female homosexuality to include them. Feminism was actively hijacked by men to shut women down.

[radfemme-rage]

came across this one conversation on the 4b subreddit where women talked about all the things they do not miss about heterosexual relationships

thought i’d share SOME of the points:

• maintenance sex

• patriarchal sex and lack of orgasm

• constantly shaving their body hair

• disproportionate domestic/emotional/mental labour while claiming the relationship is “50/50”

• subsidising his lifestyle (i.e. splitting the groceries when he’s the one who eats way more, being the only reason his apartment is clean and there’s not pubes on the bathroom floor)

• dealing with his porn addiction (where he’s watching teens and rape and misogynistic acts)

• dealing with his secret porn addiction while he claims he doesn’t watch it

• high chance of him being a pedo, misogynist, abuser, narcissistic, manipulative, etc.

• male ego and general lack of personality and accountability

• constantly having your nervous system dysregulated

• lack of meaningful care and conversation in general, especially in comparison to an average female friendship

• women having to use intrusive birth control methods because the male would rather risk her health than wrap it up

• him bonding with other men over misogyny and not having pro-social behaviours where he pro-actively stands up for women, minorities, etc.

• having to accept him checking out other women in real life, on social media, etc. and being micro-cheated on constantly, while being told it’s not cheating and that you’re insecure and crazy and a controlling bitch actually

• spending hours and hundreds on beauty maintenance while he… looks like that

• being rushed while getting ready

• never being allowed to be ugly in her own space

• total loss of bodily autonomy (i.e. being groped while doing the dishes)

• doing his laundry and cooking for him

• sharing a bed with a man (especially one who snores and is unhygienic)

• skid marks and piss and hair left in YOUR bathroom

• dealing with someone else’s trauma, from a sex that is averse to therapy and developing emotional intelligence

• a male shit-talking their past female exes (what did he do to her?)

• most males being okay with casually lying to their partner

• most males only being as loyal as their options and cheating on her if another woman ever expressed interest in him

• playing the role of a mother and a wife to a manchild

• no empathy or meaningful additional support while on your period

• having to tip toe around mantrums

• constant yeast infections and UTIs

• constantly being belittled, gaslighted, psychologically micro-abused on a daily basis

• male insecurity and jealousy, especially if you’re accomplished and attractive

• manage all the logistics and mental load (grocery lists, doctors appointments, “oh, we should go on a date” and subsequently planning the date)

• having to overlook their problematic opinions on most things

• general lack of empathy

• most men aren’t cut out to be romantic partners or platonic friends so how could they possibly be cut out for fatherhood

• having to take interest in his hobbies (sport, video games, anime) while he don’t give a flying fuck about yours

• dealing with male body hair and fat men

• man sweat, armpit hair, asshole hair, balding

• constant objectification

• constantly being reminded that no matter how progressive he is, he is fundamentally a man

• heterosexual relationships being rooted entirely in chance (i.e. of him not being a pedo, misogynistic, abuser)

what strikes me is the fact that you could have the most “feminist” man on the planet yet most of the above still apply lmao

feel free to add more, this is just the beginning of a very long list

[fematrix]

maybe i'm missing something, but where that "radfems hate/fetishise/try to silence trans men" idea came from? why would i want to do that? why would any of us do that?

many of us are detransitioners or desisters, many of us spent years and years in some local "queer" communities. maybe that's just my bias and a pure coincidence, but when i hear horror stories from those times, trans men are literally never the perpetrators or aggressors in them.

we know how it feels to be so overwhelmed with society standards, misogyny and stereotypes that we would even reach for a rusty blade if it offered to take us out of this whirlpool of despair and hopelessness.

why would i hate them? i was like them, a long time ago, although it feels like a different lifetime today. but there's no hatred or aggression, only compassion and understanding of how cruel this world can be.

[realist-fortheloveofwomen]

The myth that radfems hate trans men is propaganda spread to make people, ESPECIALLY trans men, never read ‘terf’ arguments. The fetish thing is mostly perpetuated by trans women, they’re especially into “radfems wanna forcefem trans men” bec that’s their kink and they’re projecting it onto us (source- detrans kink, forcefem, etc and other adjacent tags are primarily used by trans women).

[anjomecanico]

Autistic men are somehow horrible at all social norms except misogyny

[almondcake3]

i notice this weird phenomenon where tims are outed for having incest and pedophilic porn fantasies but people excuse it because he identifies as trans. It very much gives: I hate pedophiles. but don't hate on pedophiles who are trans!!! It's as if being trans abolishes him from any wrongdoing 🤨 face the consequences like everybody else who’s into that disgusting shit

[femalegothic]

men just love to run their fucking mouth about what women do or do not want without even once considering consulting any actual women on the matter

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[omegaversereloaded]

Im not reading the rest of this i think you should beat him and then leave him

[rabidwolf2point0]

It breaks my heart for that Washington 15yo wrestler girl that she got sexually assaulted by a mtf and has been treated so callously. One of my male friends wrestled for a long time and he’s told me about “oil checks” before, and how it’s difficult to make them illegal bc they can happen accidentally and then you’re ruining someone’s life over a sexual assault charge. But he also said 1. They almost never happen accidentally, though it’s possible and 2. The cases he’s seen them occur were absolutely deliberate and 3. Each time an “oil check” or dry humping an opponent’s head or shit like that occurred, his entire team would charge the assailant and beat the shit out of him. Take his phone and lock him in a dumpster. Etc. Like basically it sparks a massive fight.

I can’t imagine the psychological difference in getting sexually assaulted during a match, and being abandoned and shunned and dismissed in perpetuity to the point that you sue. And being sexually assaulted by a male when you assumed your female league was female. They ignore you distress, force you to lawyer up, force you to resort to right wing outlets, totally disregard you on every level.

Vs being in a league where your entire team rushes to violently defend you in the instant it happens. We have got to start taking a crowbar to these men. It seems the only language they respect is violence.

[loserdogma]

The systemic injustice she’s facing at every level is utterly disgusting. From classmates to the literal principal of the school it is shown over and over again that women and girls are simply expected to bare it: the assault, the disrespect, the victim-blaming, the incompetence of every authority figure.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

you lose your gold star every time you touch your dick to piss and jerk off to lesbian porn. you literally interact with dick every day. you take it with you everywhere. it is present every time you are sexually active. shut the fuck up. imagine explaining to lesbians in the 90s that men would be claiming to be gold star lesbians…… what the fuck kind of twilight zone are we living in

[the-rad-menace]

We know most transwomen have only slept with women. Because they're straight males.

And the ones who sleep with other trans identified males are literally just doing what men have always done when they can't get with actual women - at sea, in prison, and other male only institutions - they have sex with each other.