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My fave 'absolute batman' panels.

*not in order*

Also, it's always amusing to me when people talk about main timeline and continuity. Like, there are so many writers, reboots, revamps, universes, etc. The main timeline is whatever you want it to be. (Or maybe i just think like this because i like batquinn 🤷)

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reunion on erid

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@helloilovefanfiction If i may

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Question: should i watch live action alta s2 or is it just more anti-zutara, pro-kataang bullshit. Cause I'm getting tired of all these arguments etc.

should i watch live action s2 atla?

yes

no

Voting ended onJun 29

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Reminded me of this:

'Lone single fuck for whose sake we are inquiring on behalf' 🤣💀🎀

I know it's irrelevant but i wanted to add these.

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The category is....

'deserves more representation' [feel free to suggest alternate title]

yes, i know it is a Chinese film not a kdrama.

only reason i'm mentioning this is because Oh Jung Se was phenomenal as Moon Sang Tae.

i didn't finish this drama because it was a bit triggering for me

i don't remember the plotline but Ji Sung's acting was good.

i don't remember how it ended but it's about a ballerina who was blinded in an accident and gets assigned a 'guardian angel'.

a supporting character uses a wheelchair

i'm not going to recommend 'dear hyeri' because the plotline was terrible [imho].

it's actually a time travel drama but it has deaf characters and CODAs [children of deaf adults]

i haven't watched this but the actors are generally decent at acting.

masterlist

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i know this is a shitty thing to think. But i HATE/LOATHE everything and everyone today. i hate even the smallest reminders (like the smell of perfume in the air, colored chalk, a pretty watch) of how ALIVE everyone around me is. While i don't even remember how it feels to be a human/person. To feel like it's ok to want/deserve things that would bring me a semblance of joy.

So i kind of want to distract myself.

Can anyone recommend me a book(s) of the different types of plants/flowers and their symbolism/what they represent? (i don't really know any flowers. Nothing too scientific please.)

And also maybe a book about different gemstones? (A bit of science, a bit of history, uses, and symbolism.)

Addendum: With pictures if possible please. Because i don't know what different types of plants/trees/flowers/gemstones look like.

Maybe if i knew a random fact about anything, i wouldn't be so worthless.

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Ok so i started reading the phm novel and 2 things:

1. "Several coworkers and a few friends had invited me to watch this with them, but I didn’t want to spend the whole evening answering questions. I just wanted to watch in peace."

This guy gets it. I have never identified with a fictional character more.

2. Kind of thought of a 'meme'

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I love this book idc if some people call it corny. It's hilarious

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Ok FINE.

I'll break my rule of never again watching an adaptation or reading the source of an adaptation. Adaptations are rarely faithful or good.

Fine, i'll read the damn book.

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Could someone please tell me why i hate sunlight so much?

Like, everyone portrays sunlight=spring/summer= happiness. But i hate both summers and sunlight.

I want constant grey skies, foggy weather, rain, storms. I love autumn. That to me is calm and peace. Things that i never associate with summer/sunlight.

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happy pride month 🏳️‍🌈

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There's a pride month like button. Like/Unlike this post to see the flag. 🫂

(Do not send me creepy messages🙏)

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The category is....

'healing the soul'

currently watching

on watch list

currently binge watching

Soft and introverted.

Also recommend 'legend of the kitchen soldier'. I'm sure there are more dramas but i can't remember the names.

Objectively, these dramas are beautiful, comforting, and warm.

Subjectively, it's like torturing myself with fantasies of healing.

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If you're feeling bad about yourself. Just remember, atleast you're not me.

A fat depressed (at this point depression feels like such a causal word) asexual deadbeat dropout. With no skills, no income, no prospects.

Who has no friends/social life. Hasn't left the house in more than a year. Who does nothing but eat, sleep, lie in bed, cut, and watch/read fiction. I am the epitome of 'waste of skin. Vermin'.

My parents asked me, "if you're not going to get married how will you live?" I don't understand the question. What made you think i want to live? Do i look alive?

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I made a google doc on dealing with sh. Contains info on identifying wounds, anatomy, risks, etc. Link: dealing with self harm (covers much more than images in this post!) All diagrams, no graphic content.

Wound identification:

Applying steristrips:

Healing stages:

What scars can look like:

Always open for suggestions on what to add. My background is two decades of experience, of which 5 years with escalating severity and being in the wider sh community.

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You know what this made me realise?

I intentionally don't go past the dermis.

Not because i don't want to. But because then i would need to ask my family for bandages/stitches or have to go to the hospital.

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My royal nemesis is the type of kdrama that makes you feel like a plant (single af) even when you are mostly asexual and have no desire to have a relationship.

Highly recommended.

So far, i have not found anything lacking in this drama. The acting, cinematography, visuals, dialogue, everything is so good.

I really love the dialogue. I immediately want to rewatch an episode after watching it.

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i feel silly (and stupid and pathetic) asking this but,

Does anyone know if there is any way to dye a fabric (specifically cotton) a really dark color (preferably black) using natural dyes instead of the chemical powders?

Please and thank you.