saw a guy dressed as mr beast. gave me a dime. ???

call me Elsa, she/her. tma. minor.

[cranberrylimes]

The left image as a rug and the right image as a ceiling poster

[desaturate-worlds]

this on the bedspread

[str8aura-no-not-that-one]

This as every wallpaper

[cranberrylimes]

Wow guys, we’ve really come together to make this House MD into a Home MD 💙

[communist-hatsunemiku]

One of the first posts I read this morning (from a trans woman!). and it mentioned "most trans girls don't transition when they are little, most of them transition when they are in their late teens!" girl I love you because I promised myself I would show as much love and grace to girls like you but, u r pissing me the fuck off🙃

[innerchildabortionclinic]

new fav niche subreddit: parents creating discourse about shows their toddlers watch

[acidtheater]

"Halloween adults are just as bad as disney adults" "Furries are worse than disney adults"

I gotta be real, I thought we were critical of disney adults for aggressive loyalty to a really gross mega-corporation, or refusal to engage with media that isn't for kids, not because people... have hobbies?

[lizluvscupcakes]

No no no, I totally see how you had that misunderstanding, but the complaint about “[blank] adults” is NEVER the very real and understandable argument regarding various corporations, it will ALWAYS be the weird belief that when you’re over 30 your interests are to include Job and Taxes and THAT’S IT.

[pitafish]

#when it’s not ‘ew disney adults’ it’s ‘ew harry potter adults’#when it’s not ‘ew harry potter adults’ it’s ‘ew marvel adults’#when it’s not ‘ew marvel adults’ it’s ‘ew dc adults’#when it’s not ‘ew dc adults’ it’s ‘ew nintendo adults’#when it’s not ‘ew nintendo adults’…#look you get the idea#i could sit here listing examples all day#it doesn’t matter what silly thing you do to make yourself happy#it doesn’t matter if you try to enjoy that thing in as non destructive a way as possible#some jackass will look at you not hurting anyone and enjoying yourself#and make stupid judgements about your character without even saying hello to you

I've experienced this firsthand when exploring public spaces on VRChat. In the past month I've been told, by younger users:

get a job

I'm old

"unc", "boomer", etc.

Things that are innocuous in hindsight because teens don't know better. I have also been told:

I'm easily identified as an adult because I talk to other users with respect

I'm safe to approach when there's chaos/someone feels uncomfortable in the public instances

and that honestly holds more weight than any digs I get for my age.

I know it doesn't mean anything in the long run, but I sincerely hope that by being an approachable adult in public fan spaces, I can help mitigate conflicts presented to me, and I can be a physical reminder that, even when you graduate school and start to shoulder adult responsibilities, you can still have the whimsy.

[laniidae-passerine]

Betty Crocker mutates your children

[antiprivateeractivist]

[laniidae-passerine]

what the fuck. hey get this off my post

[a-random-fandom-friend]

It's pride month so I'll allow myself to express one opinion on the internet :

There are no "exact color" of pride flags.

I see more and more sites and posts talking about the exact hex codes for the lesbian flag, or the right purple for the ace one, and how it should be more or less saturated and I just want to say: pride flags were meant to be sewn in your kitchen. To be spraypainted and to be recognised.

There are no "exact colors" of pride flags because you should do them with what you have ! Nobody should care if you use a crimson red instead of a cherry red or whatever ! Be free ! wave your colors ! The colors you have !

[pixeljade]

I feel like theres a tendency amongst TME trans folks to view and portray masculine features in TMA folks as a challenge to perceptions of gender but honestly to me it just feels like we're being used as a prop to further your own goals, and that it seems infinitely more radical to portray any transfem as openly enjoying femininity, because femininity is so rarely celebrated, instead portrayed as a cage or a costume.

Like. When us transfems get assaulted or murdered, it is not because we have stubble. We had stubble before coming out, it was never punished then. We get assaulted and murdered because we are embracing femininity.

So yeah. Stop drawing your transfem characters looking like a guy in a dress, you're literally just perpetuating transmisogyny and pretending its good because you use the right pronouns.

[rosepaya]

[hauntedfragmentgeode]

I could for sure write a much longer post about it, but nothing reveals the true intentions of the queerunity better than them trying to guess why so many trans women hate them.

Like, I recently ran into a random post essentially trying to explain their theory is that many of us used 4chan, it altered our brains somehow, and it made us "crazy and delusional". Exact words.

There's just something about that post, because it wasn't just the abelism, it wasn't the classic terf tier stereotype of transfems being 4chan rejects. It was the sheer casualness of it. Other queerunity posters in the comments were telling him he was being insightful.

I honestly can't bring myself to even be that mad because I'm just so stunned. Not just by the sheer ablesim and transmisogyny the sheer casualness of it all - as if it happens all the time.

Because it does! TMRAs especially use the term delusional all the time. They have pages and pages of theory describing the alleged neuroses that make us "wrongfully" hate them, and they're about on par with your standard victorian psychologist in terms of sheer misogyny. I've heard one refer to transfeminism as a "trauma ideology" - and with hardly any pushback from non-transfemisits!

And this is like, maybe half as bad as it gets, but it does explain a lot. I've often remarked that a lot of TMRAs just seem to ignore what I say, and that makes sense when you know many are fully of the opinion that I am incapable of reason.

[save-the-child-qamar]

PLEASE DO NOT SCROLL PAST A POST OF STARVING CHILDREN ...

[save-the-child-qamar]

A mother’s worst nightmare is watching her children wither away from severe malnutrition and extreme hunger. Inside our fragile tent, my children, Qamar and Omar—including my 3-month-old baby—struggle with agonizing skin rashes and harsh hunger every single day. Since my husband suffered a head injury, I have become the sole provider, but my hands are completely tied. We have no backup plan and no other escape; this campaign is our last hope for survival. Any dollar can secure milk, bread, vegetables, and the vital medical treatment for my little ones' skin.

Samar's Urgent Plea: Save Qamar and Omar

My name is Samar. I write from a fragile tent in Gaza, a mother who loves her two little children with all her heart. My husband is severely

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[save-the-child-qamar]

Your contribution is our only lifeline today; donate now to save them before it is too late. Every passing second comes at a price.

[hthrrloooo]

Catastrophize Benedictine

[gayhornythoughts]

Suicidal Naan

[my-life-is-a-sidequest]

Dyslexia pesto

[lady-viccy]

weak central coherence taco

[ace-disgrace-on-the-case]

Dissociation buffalo wing

[tgirl-tamag0tchi]

Time blindness broccoli beef

[transmuting-lead-into-girl]

Anxiety brownies

[lady-of-math-and-rope]

Executive dysfunction scone

[bookyred]

Obsessive Crisp

[rustyredrush8199]

Depressed Jelly Bean

[shrine-of-the-exoletus]

Huh? No, long hair is when it goes down to your waist. Hair down to your shoulders is still pretty short....

[estro-boi]

rule 1 of nonbinary club: there is no right or wrong way to be nonbinary :)

rule 2 of nonbinary club: if u mention that half of us get seen as quirky and the other half get seen as rapists then u will be hunted for sport

[alco-luvr]

Can you fucking TMEs stop with this fucking shit oh my fucking hell

[villainessbian]

"I've hit the stage of transition where I notice that everyone is transmisogynistic but I get not to care because it doesn't affect me :3"

[maidslime]

Saw a post that said "if you call yourself a misandrist then I know you're weird about trans women who don't pass" and like. Those are women. Like if someone is a piece of shit to non passing trans women that's transphobia. Not some made up oppression for the men. Trans women are women. Stop trying to claim otherwise.

[maidslime]

By saying trans women who don't pass are affected by misandry you have become the one being "weird" about trans women who don't pass

[frostops]

its very easy to stop transitioning entirely or stop parts of your transition or change how you identify and not be associated with detrans grifters. its to not call yourself the same thing as them!!!! you cant have your cake and eat it too here. you want the label, and you have to deal with its political baggage. if you dont want the baggage, dont take the label.

[frostops]

"but what if i WANT to use the dogwhistle???" then go fuck yourself for muddying the water here. why should we have to play a guessing game whether your a detrans grifter or a "good" detrans person, particularly when none of the supposed good ones can go five minutes without showing their entire ass.

[frostops]

just very simple risk analysis here right. i incorrectly assume some labeling themselves detrans is transphobic and i might hurt their feelings. i incorrectly assume some labeling themselves detrans is doing so in "good faith" (whatever that means) and i expose myself to someone dedicated to eradicating trans people. there is of course a simple solution. if you are not transphobic, dont call yourself detrans. then i dont need to play this game at all.

[jadeazora]

Pokemon GO's new log-in screen for Forever Forward is a throwback to one of its oldest ones!

[storyweavingspider]

I’m not sure which one came first but I’m happy for their transition!

[storyweavingspider]

Good for her and for the family and for pedestrian safety :)