assigned angry hairy feminist at birth

don’t test me bro

[sickofeverythingmale2]

I hate whenever I watch any piece of media that is in any way terrible for the average person or akin to a dystopia, I have to shut off the part of my brain that asks, "Why are these people reproducing?" Why did the couple have a baby in A Quiet Place when there's monsters everywhere that will kill you for making noise? Why were people having kids in Les Mis during the French Revolution where we're shown they do not have enough to provide for themselves? Why were the people in The Hunger Games having kids when their kids were literally being forced to kill each other? It totally takes me out of it. And I might be able to forgive them if it was clearly "so the story can happen" type of reason, but people just act like this everywhere, so really it's just a reflection of how the average person functions.

[catsruleokay]

also idk why bdsm people are seen as enjoying sex more than the average person...to me the opposite is true. u don't even like sex bc u need all these ancillaries just to enjoy urself. u had to turn it into something else like getting strangled or punched in the head. and this is backed up by the way they r constantly trashing 'vanilla sex' which is just sex like u hate sex...

[fretami]

wait… the way in which this is the most important thing

[girlfishes]

What girls and women are taught about God directly sets them up for abuse from men. We were told that God is our father and is all loving, but that he punishes disobedience by sending us to be tortured forever. Furthermore, this punishment is not a contradiction, but a sign of his love for us.

When women are taught that the model for a father, god himself, is violent and vindictive, she is taught to expect that from male authorities in her life. When a husband or father hurts her, that is a sign of his love. He is only mirroring God.

When women are taught they if they don’t serve God, she will be sent to hell, that models her service to the men in her life. She must serve her husband like she serves God, and if she doesn’t she deserves what she gets, because the punishment is from her husband, her model of God.

When women are taught that even thinking ill of God is a sin, we are therefore taught that thinking of husbands, fathers, and pastors, in any negative way is a sin.

This is a psychological trap that functions to keep women in service to men. The contradiction of an all loving and violent god isn’t a mistake. It’s to teach women that violence is love.

[comrade-meow]

(Lenin’s wife, for those that don’t know)

can’t believe nothing’s changed in over a hundred years

[goodoldfashionedloverbutch]

idk the fact that ppl constantly ignore Stormé DeLarverie's (a black butch lesbian drag king) part on the Stonewall uprising is so telling of how they see lesbians, particularly gnc lesbians of color.

[seagullgal]

so hard to be sex positive in a "women and even men should be able to healthily masturbate and enjoy physical pleasure" kinda way while also being very very anti sex industry is hard sometimes.

Ahh but porn has always existed!! Look at cave paintings! Okay. Masturbate to cave paintings. I really want you to masturbate to cave paintings. If it's the same thing, you should have no issues masturbating to cave paintings. I'm dead serious when I say I have no issues with anybody masturbating to cave paintings, or even written smut or anything that doesn't rely on the rape of real people and profiting off of it. I'd be fine with hentai if so much of it didn't try to up the shock factor as much as possible to get people hooked on various fetishes.

People have masturbated forever, and they didn't need HD violent videos to do so. You can do it with your mind, or a nice lil story, I promise. Make your own horny cave painting, idgaf

[feministdragon]

#porn apologists are so fucking unserious when they compare drawings to filmed abuse of actual human beings

[deerwomann]

"Sex positive" and then its about different domination roleplays meanwhile sex still begins with male boner and ends with male orgasm

[hugewoman]

The finger painting of a guy throwing a spear at a big hairy elephant is exactly the same as actual video footage of potentially trafficked and drugged real women being violently sexually assaulted

What do you mean you can get it up to watching a teenage girl being brutally fucked within an inch of her life, but that the big hairy elephant doesn’t do it for you? They’re both pornography. Look at the sensual curve of its trunk, and the man’s spear is very suggestive.

[residentofincelistan]

What sex positivity should've ACTUALLY been

Normalising women wanting sex

Guides on how to orgasm

Normalisation of ACTUAL female sexuality in media (no not porn, like actual shit like lyrics about being eaten out, orgasming, stuff like that)

Literature and Erotica directed towards women

Research into women's sexual health

What it ended up being

Prostitution

Onlyfans

"Blowjobs are real jobs"

"Are you saying women cant make choices???"

"I use the patriarchy to my advantage >:)"

Female sexual degration

How to please men

"Empowering!"

Booktok

"My body my choice!!" Even though that phrase was originally intended for reproductive health

Playboy bunny

[fisewalafel]

is hijab a choice? let’s ask muslim men. let’s ask muslim women from usa and western europe. let’s ask converts whose families aren’t even muslim. let’s ask non-religious men.

time to ask women in afghanistan. oh, yeah, i forgot. they have no right to speak.

[aspiringxxspinster]

Women could never hate men as much as men hate women. But we should try.

[roycohn]

sorry but i'm ordering a complete shutdown of heterosexual jakeyism until we figure out what the fuck is going on with these women

[roycohn]

i think there's some unholy combination of benevolent gender essentialism and terminal fandom brain that makes women like this make romantic excuses for an adult man's inability to live in the world without a woman playing annie sullivan bangmaid for him. i honestly have much more respect for the straight women who have the presence of mind to demand a 6'4" chad in finance and not settle for soft tummy jakey who doesn't know you can salt your pasta water or use a pillowcase. get UP girls............

[flowerlygirls]

if you dont realize the purpose of FABRIC S O F T E N E R the state should just force you to start school over again. like thats it matthew youre going to be the only 26 year old in 1st grade and youre gonna work your way all through 12th grade until we let you anywhere near heavy machinery like a car or a university.

[fflittermouse]

Kinda funny how a woman’s place is in the kitchen until they’re a chef, a woman’s role is to care for others until they’ve a doctor, and a woman is expected to effortlessly manage households but not businesses or corporations. It seems that a woman can do anything except be in a position of power.

[fem-scum]

“Here’s the twist that emerged. Some young women wanted sexual equity with men: that’s a claim for equal power. They didn’t want to be mere sex objects, they wanted to be active sexual agents. But while true and total sexual equality between men and women is still too threatening, it has nonetheless proved lucrative to flatter women that they have it. So the media began to highlight this message: it’s through sex and sexual display that women really have the power to get what they want. And because the true path to power comes from being an object of desire, girls and women should now actively choose—even celebrate and embrace—being sex objects. That’s the mark of a truly confident, can-do girl: one whose objectification isn’t imposed from without, but comes from within. You have to admit, this is a very slick contortion. The best way to gain this kind of power is to cater to what men want. And you’re not acquiescing to men or to patriarchal sexual requirements: by submitting, you’re in the driver’s seat!”

Douglas, Susan J. The Rise of Enlightened Sexism: How Pop Culture Took Us from Girl Power to Girls Gone Wild. St. Martin's Press, 2010.

[fem-scum]

This is how they feel. Don’t let them deceive you. There are millions of women who would be alive right now if they had never fallen into the hands of a man. Women are most often killed, abused, or raped by the man lying in bed next to them, than a stranger.

[artemissgroves-blog-deactivated]

No warmth, affection, fondness, nothing.

I was so glad once I found out this was basically the default way men think about women. Why?

One, I could stop worrying I would miss out on "one of the good ones". "Good ones" would not tall this way about anyone, let alone someone they would have romantic feelings for.

Two, it made me realize that no man is worth putting in effort for, or fighting for. This isn't what I ever wanted out of a relationship. If this is what every man I encountered was like beneath the surface, then its nothing that I want. Fighting other women over these sacks of shit isn't worth the time, energy, stress, or resources.

It was such a freeing revelation.

[fem-scum]

100% they’re not worth fighting for or trying to build relationships with. Just seeing the way men treat every woman in my life, friends, aunties, casual acquaintances, my mother, I knew I never wanted to deal with their nonsense.

There’s no man friendlier than one who hasn’t slept with you yet.

[lauramarysue]

And then the women from radblr get offended at us when we call for separatism

[unebeguine]

male civility is a facade.

[kawaiigardenerwolf]

Why is it the woman who is supposed to know better? Why are we treating human males like they are braindead dogs that we just let run the streets?

"You're just a manhating feminist!" I mean, yes, I hate men, but I also think we need to hold them to human standards. We traveled to space and devote our lives to gathering information because all our base needs have been met due to our extremely advanced technology. It's time for men stop acting like feral, bloodthirsty chimpanzees and evolve into humans.

[femsolid]

French radical feminists were protesting against pornography today, targeting specifically the most popular french pornographers and their parisian store. These pornographers are currently facing charges for rape and human trafficking. More than 50 women have filed a complaint against them.

My kink is your dick in shreds #nokinkshaming #sexpositive

The store was forced to close.

[radvia]

mes sœurcières <3

[morbidfem]

men who are against pornography most likely aren’t going to be against it in the same way radical feminists are. men who are against it aren’t against the exploitation of women and children in the industry, most of them only quit because “my dick won’t work anymore :((“ just because he doesn’t watch it doesn’t necessarily mean that he’s on our side.

[anti-death]

picketing the pussy waxing salon like it's planned parenthood