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[marbleguard]

our biggest problem is that women believe men are the people they pretend to be around women. That is not a real guy, that is his 'interacting with a woman' costume. I was reminded this for the 6897th time the other friday where not many people were in the office and the nicest young guy in the department who crochets and is very kind to all the women here was talking to a few other young guys about his girlfriend and his friends' girlfriends, and it was harrowing. What he was saying was bad enough but he and the others even stopped themselves and laughed and said "well, that's about as much as I can say in the office." like what there's MORE?

All the while I am sure his girlfriend thinks she has struck gold with her nice long haired golden retriever crochet boyfriend

[cartooncoyote]

Do twerfs actually have hobbies or anytihng

[dfabprivileges-blog]

Gardening

[theresagooseinthemainframe]

Soapmaking

[opisaterf]

video games

[badkittyradkitty]

Sewing

[writched]

art

[0-0110100-deactivated20160829]

creative writing

[gorgonology]

vigilante rapist slayer

[hematolagniac-deactivated201703]

painting

[yellow-m00n-deactivated20160512]

jogging

[tinylesbean-deactivated20200628]

Video games and writing

[radicalfeminisms-blog]

Knitting and collaging

[radfemeudaimonia-blog]

existential crisising

[505--503--4455-deactivated20161]

I bet this person Regrets

[birdcourt]

no offense but all of these are like, so stereotypical twerf url

[nansheonearth]

Thinking of stereotypical URLs, weed, volunteering, traveling, turning up on the weekends, hiking and camping, going to shows

[blackswallowtailbutterfly]

Gardening, creative writing, singing, collecting, photography, food experiments, foraging

[kaelbermarschx-deactivated20260]

reading, painting, researching obscure bands

[occasionaltmblrforafreehero]

making origami, playing the guitar

[lenalenouilleisblogging]

drawing, cooking, gaming, movie watching and reviewing, currently writing my first ever fanfic :3

[atwoodsfemalefantasy]

writing feminist horror, sewing, reading, spending time with my sister

[meanevilwitch-deactivated202601]

Reading, writing, drawing, fiber arts, marksmanship.

[girlfishes]

learning languages, writing, taking long walks

[lovelycranium]

gaming, writing reviews, writing stories, reading, watching movies, visiting places I’ve never been to, meeting new people, doing sports (I really want to start playing volleyball again; gym), going to the theatre (you should see our prices for musicals…)

[donutfem]

Gaming, reading, writing, crafting, divination, researching, working out

[kindradical]

crocheting

[lorynna]

crocheting, painting, writing, video games (if any radfem wants to play LOL specifically pls hmu I’m suffering)

[nymphichate]

drawing, dancing, singing, video games, writing, creating stories in general, playing violin, interior design

[huntertheunaliver]

old artwork of toby :/

[sakrogoat]

Gustav Klimt - Hygieia

[heteropositivity69]

'lesbian' sexposting on tumblr be like

.. what if we engaged in heterosexual sex. intercourse. breeding. i get you pregnant. it's very important that you consider that there is male genitalia. it's also violent and degrading. i'm a male btw and you're female. is my little girly looking for her daddy? headpats ;:33 did i mention that you suck my d-

authors: she/her transbian, co-author: totally valid and ultra lesbian bislut TERFS DNI

[learn-2-love-deactivated2026011]

I think it's really telling that we pretty much all say that we wanted trans ideology to be correct but no one could explain or prove it, no books, no other trans people, no activist material. I felt this same way, pretty much all my detrans mutuals or the people I follow say the same thing.

If I could find something that proves that I am wrong, that gender is definable, provable, real, and that I was simply wrong about mine, that would be very soothing. I have trans people in my life who mean a lot to me, my transition has taken up a large chunk of my life (if you start the clock at my "coming out", it literally went on longer than my previous stage of life from 0-11 years old... being from 11-23), and the progressive wing of US politics, and most pro-gay organizations, have hitched their wagon to the transgender movement.

I have no idea what people think the benefits to becoming a radical feminist are that would make us abandon the supposed truth. Feminism, like, actual "we need to liberate women" feminism, has never been popular. I suppose they just think I'm foaming at the mouth with hatred l every time I imagine a trans woman, despite the fact that I've spent months of my time and thousands of dollars emotionally and financially supporting MTFs in my life, who I thought were intensely vulnerable, because they told me they were and I believed them and loved them and wanted to protect them.

The truth is that I think that gender abolition benefits everyone, but it benefits females the most, because we are the ones meant to be oppressed by gender. If "womanhood" no longer existing means that "trans womanhood" no longer has any meaning, I see that as necessary. It's not oppression or repression to say your penis and Y chromosome make you male, especially since being male doesn't mean anything inherent about your personality or goals or feelings. It is oppression to say that female people need to sit down and shut up about gender because it makes some male people feel better about their bodies. For every woman killed, disfigured, disabled, maimed, beaten, raped, belittled, barred from education or work, forced to be pregnant or forced to abort: I HAVE to be a feminist, I HAVE to understand that being female is what makes you the target of misogyny, and for that I must know what female is.

[fretami]

also im open to being proven wrong. i am open minded, i will change my mind when presented with new relevant information, thats EXACTLY HOW i ended up leaving trans ideology.

but i haven't heard a single reasonable argument for how a male is a woman, or why we should redefine such an important word in society and law to make men feel better about their desires

[male-class-treason]

I spent years trying to resist being persuaded by (radical) feminism, not just because it would require me to re-analyze my past relationships with women and learn things about myself that I might not like, but because I realized it could mean falling out with liberal/"q***r" friends and family that I'm very attached to, mostly women.

I spent the first 25 years of my life in the liberal bubble that has been ideologically captured by third-wave pesudofeminism and regressive homophobia repackaged as "LGBTQ+ rights".

I had every possible incentive to keep believing what I was taught as a teen, that "sex work" is fun and empowering free expression and that "gender identity" is liberatory. If I could have found a way, I would have.

[radfemme-rage]

there’s nothing inherently oppressive about female biology, including pregnancy or periods - women don’t have “inferior” bodies to males, we literally outlive them in every society despite a brutal patriarchy

what exists is medical misogyny, and it’s the reason why pregnancies and periods are so much more harmful than necessary in a scientifically advanced, modern society

but to think that the issue is inherently women’s bodies is just wrong, though i get why the patriarchy can trick you into believing this

women and girls just haven’t been the spotlight at all within medical research, but many people - both females and males - wouldn’t exist or survive into adulthood if not for scientific innovation

it’s not female bodies which are the problem, it’s just the fact women and girls haven’t been deemed worthy enough to understand, and we were barred from scientific fields for millennia

[maliceshoujo]

All the platitudes in the world won't change that nature is brutal and childbirth is extremely dangerous. It won't change that menstruation is incredibly disruptive to a person's daily life and puts her in a vulnerable position.

Only the female body is hell to live in from puberty onward, and it has absolutely nothing to do with the patriarchy, but everything to do with the fact that we essentially live with a chronic illness which causes us debilitating pain on-schedule and exacerbates any existing conditions we have. Medical misogyny didn't give you cramps and back pain, nature did. "Scientifically advanced, modern society" is the only reason some women have the massive privilege of skipping their periods, and if medicine was female-centric, ending menstruation in a healthy way would be a central goal.

Nature is cruel without patriarchy. The female body is oppressive without the patriarchy. We're not as bad as the female octopus destined to be eaten by her offspring, but young women have all the right to be frustrated.

[radfemme-rage]

no one is saying women don’t have the right to be frustrated, we absolutely do, but i fear this is just selectively taking issue with the female body

natural is cruel to every living being regardless of their sex. without innovations like vaccinations, antibiotics, pain medication and anaesthesia, without knowledge of hand washing and sterilisation, without knowledge of building a fire or the discovery of electricity or the agricultural revolution or the development of modern civilisation, life would be hell for both women and men, if you even survived that long into adulthood

yes, women have to deal with pregnancy and periods, but - perhaps even due to the fact women control reproduction - women on average live longer than males, have better immune systems, have higher pain endurance, have brains with better social and emotional processing, and are clearly designed to survive in a way male biology is not

hence why i refuse to say that female biology overall is more oppressive, when the reality is that female biology has just not been properly cared for or considered under patriarchy - if we lived in a matriarchy, period pain, risky pregnancies, etc. would just not be a thing for any woman and we would’ve technologically evolved past that a long time ago

[radfemme-rage]

just some more thoughts on this:

• all humans can get sick, can get the flu, can get cancer, yet we wouldn’t view humans as oppressed for this as long as they have access to adequate treatment options, such as pain killers, antibiotics, cancer treatment, etc. as well as adequate sick leave and care

• men in general are more susceptible to cancer overall (with recent research indicating it’s due to their biology, not differences in lifestyle or screening, etc.)

yet men’s biology isn’t deemed as inferior to women’s because of this. 1 in 8 men will develop prostate cancer in their lifetime, which isn’t dissimilar to female conditions like endometriosis, yet men aren’t viewed as oppressed for this simply because society has poured resources into treatment, screening and research in a way it simply hasn’t for women’s health conditions

• we see medical outcomes worsen with other identity factors beyond sex, like race and social class. does this mean that the white man is just built biologically superior to everyone else, including all other races and women, because he experiences fewer ailments?

does this mean white women are biologically superior to brown and black women?

no, it means we have a patriarchal and racist medical system which treats the white man as the standard (and white women in the rare cases of female-led research)

don’t get me wrong, periods and pregnancy suck, but the main reason they suck in 2026 is because of patriarchy and other male-built systems like capitalism, not because women’s bodies are biologically inferior (which objectively speaking is simply not true) and destined to suffer as a result of it

[homosapiennns]

Happy pride month to THEM

[detrans-lesbian]

many radfem leaning spaces like to claim to be friendly to detransitioners but then turn around and mock tifs with so much vitriol that it really doesn't feel that way

[detrans-lesbian]

since i'm getting some misinterpretations of this post, let me clarify:

what i am tired of seeing is people mocking the effects of hormones (ie making fun of tif voices) or implying all tifs are stupid for buying into trans ideology (good for you that you avoided our fate, but many of us transitioned due to some combination of trauma and internalized misogyny. i would just hope for more empathy from fellow feminists)

these are things that are off-putting to me, as a detransitioned woman. i'm not saying you need to be nice and polite to any tif who is making misogynyistic or abusive statements

[theradicalbutch]

No exactly, and this honestly speaks to a bigger problem on here where a lot of radical feminists don't "practice what they preach" so to speak. Reblogging posts about empowering women and fighting the patriarchy is great and all, but if your response to women who disagree with you is to insult their appearance or call them misogynistic insults (I've seen several people on here unironically call straight women "breeders") then you haven't really deconstructed your internal misogyny.

You can't claim to want to free all women from their oppression while simultaneously pushing every woman that disagrees with you down. Degrading and insulting women who you don't like is what the patriarchy wants you to do; we need stop using their tactics.

[cat-pilled]

discovering radical feminism has made me fall in love with being a woman again. a common smear campaign against the movement is that we only "trauma bond" and believe womanhood is only suffering etc etc but literally no other group of people has made me feel comfortable with my body, proud of my natural skin and unashamed of being a woman.

[ausradfem]

I will never get the point people throw at radfems that it's all about us just being doomerish women who only want to talk about the ways in which women suffer. That it's this collective trauma bonding experience. I have never felt more comfortable in myself! And being comfortable in myself has meant I've been more comfortable in every aspect of my life. I don't pay any mind to what men think of me, my friendships with women are stronger. I'm more focused on my interests and hobbies, the goals I want to reach don't feel as insurmountable. The types of people who shit on radical feminism either:

- don't know enough about it, and have only heard bad things so they stay away.

- know enough about it, the power it could potentially wield, and as such warn others away from it.

They know, that's why they demonise it.

[radfemradio-deactivated20250327]

Exactly.

Their goal in calling radical feminists miserable doomers who have no hope/joy/fun etc, is to psyop other women into avoiding real, meaningful feminism and undermine class consciousness and solidarity.

Expressing our joys in radical feminism and solidarity with other women, will directly undermine their efforts. This is why it's just as important to publicly share the things that make you happy as a radical feminist, to counteract the propaganda employed by TRAs/TIMs to scare other women away from us.

Being openly happy and proud to be a woman, and a radical feminist, is revolutionary.

The most fun I've had in years was with other women, who were also radical feminists. We did EVERYTHING together and it was awesome. The most enjoyable conversations I have are with other radfems. Other women have brought so much joy, optimism, and comfort to my life - and I wouldn't have experienced that without radical feminism. It's phenomenal.

[raddazestarlight]

What the patriarchy says to women: starve yourself, wear makeup, get plastic surgery, your female body is dirty and taboo, perform sexually and socially for men in every way but also don't lead them into temptation, don't be "like other girls" because being a girl is something to be ashamed of, other women are your competition

What radical feminism says to women: eat and enjoy it, don't alter your body, accept and love yourself as you are, get stronger, your female body is amazing and deserves knowledgeable care, don't give a fuck about men's opinions in any form, it's okay to be like other girls (but always be yourself) and love other girls because we're all in this together, other women are your sisters

[radfemme-rage]

[sunb1eeder]

tumblr user puppygirlsisterrapist1488: it’s pride month and tumblr is literally killing us (banning our porn blogs) donate to my gofundme

[theoretical-terf]

It's pretty clear that a lot of TIM anger comes from jealousy.

They're angry about TIFs being welcomed in lesbian spaces because they want to be there instead, they think they're more worthy of being there. They frame it as concern for "men in lesbian spaces" and it makes them furious, because they know inside that they are the actual men in lesbian spaces.

They're angry about women and TIFs talking about our sex based oppression, because they wish they had oppression to talk about. They try to claim they're oppressed for their dicks, but deep down they're aware that they know nothing about sex based oppression and never will.

They're extremely angry about lesbians existing. They grew up feeling entitled to women's bodies, and lesbians rejecting them made them angry because they wanted access to them. So they tried to make up a workaround by identifying as a lesbian, and it infuriates them when it doesn't work, because they so badly want to force women into having sex with them.

They all try to pretend their anger is about trans rights or justice, but in reality they're just painfully jealous that all they have is male experience and they'll never have anything else.

[pelagae]

Saying only women experience the sex-based oppression of misogyny is not defining women by our suffering. It's the first step in challenging sexism. If you cannot name a problem and its root, you cannot uproot it.

Saying women are adult human females is not reducing women to genitals and pregnancy. It's saying sex matters and impacts our experience of life on Earth. It's saying a woman does not need to do or be anything except female. It says all female humans, no matter how they present or what they do or whether they can or choose to have children or not, are equal in womanhood.

Saying women are indefinable, just a feeling, or characterized by stereotypes does reduce women to sexist caricatures and a meaningless identity that has no class consciousness and no clear avenue for liberation from patriarchy.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

hint:

if you find your dick getting hard while watching lesbian porn, it is not a sign that you are a lesbian, it’s a reminder that you’re a man. lesbians don’t have penises.

[glitter-soda]

I’ve said it before, but saying “I’m a lesbian because I love and identify with lesbian porn” is ironically incredibly male. Most real lesbians, even libfem ones, hate mainstream lesbian porn because it’s obviously not for us, it’s meant to fetishize our sexuality to titillate men. Like pornsick transbians are practically misgendering themselves every time they open their mouths

[bumblee-stumblee]

If you've got a Twitter pls show her some love 💕

These are amazing!

[amilta]