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Look at this. What you’re seeing is the brain changing itself in real time. Those connections aren’t fixed. They form, fade, and reshape depending on what keeps running inside the mind. That alone proves one thing: change is not an exception. It’s the default.
Hello! I hope you don't mind me asking, but do you have any thoughts on Howard Schubiner's Unlearn Your Pain, Mind Body Syndrome, treating neuroplastic symptoms, etc.? I was just referred to a pain management group that centers around these concepts, and I'm having some Feelings about the whole thing.
Just wondering if you've had any experiences with this type of treatment, or thoughts about its effectiveness. Thanks!
Okay, so this is going to be long, and I'm going to need you to stick with me through the tangent. I promise it's relevant.
I haven't read Howard Schubiner's work directly, but his colleague Alan Gordon was a key speaker at the Migraine World Summit this year. I found his talk interesting enough to buy his book and do some more research on my own, and I found it worthwhile pursuing on my own.
I know enough from my mast cell disorder to know that the body develops 'bad habits' around pain.
In the case of anxiety, stress, or panic, mast cells become more reactive, and this can make pain worse. This is true for everyone*; it's just those of us with MCAS or some other type of mast cell disorder who have more alarming symptoms like idiopathic anaphylaxis.
So, unfortunately, if I, as someone with MCAS, experience an acute pain from an injury or illness, the inherent stress response of the pain and the out-of-balance response from my nervous system can make my mast cells degranulate. They're little fuckers like that.
Mast cells can also put your body on an inflammatory cycle that is counterproductive to healing. They can literally get trained to anticipate reactions and pre-emptively react, because again, they are little fuckers.
To give you an example of this for me: my major migraines, the ones that land me in the hospital, occur on the dot every ten days. There are no hormonal factors to this that can be found or other consistent triggers or stressors, but I was unknowingly being exposed to an MCAS trigger roughly every ten days for a while. When I realized, I removed the trigger, obviously. Problem solved, right? Unfortunatley no. By then, my mast cells had trained themselves into a new pattern, and the migraine now is both the response and the trigger. It's some bastard thing called Innate Immune Memory. But it's also, partly, my subconscious anticipating the event and priming my body for a reaction, which I am susceptible to because of my MCAS and dysautonomia, which is a type of nervous system disorder.
And this is where the neuroplasticity comes in.
I'm currently in the process of trying to unlearn this response and better regulate my nervous system, which unfortunately makes me sound like a TikTok girly with a link in bio to sell you cortisol healing tea, but I promise you the only thing I'm interesting in shilling is my smutty vampire books. (And this post will be how some people learn I write books)
Anyway, why am I bothering to explain mast cell dysfunction like this in relation to neuroplasticity?
Because, yeah, if a pain doctor handed me a leaflet about 'unlearning pain' and I didn't understand how my body is routinely sabotaging itself on a cellular level in response to acute and neuroplastic pain, I'd also be rolling my eyes and feeling like I've just been handed a bottle of snake oil in the market.
God knows I've been handed 'mindfullness' leaflets by enough shitty doctors who don't actually understand what it means when we say "stress affects the nervous system" and just assume the patient is inventing symptoms to be annoying.
Thankfully, that is not what this is. At least I am hoping the doctor sending you there doesn't think you are causing your own pain. What they are hopefully trying to do is introduce you to something that a lot of chronic pain patients are reporting helps them feel more in control of their lives after many years of feeling at the mercy of their pain.
I don't attend the sessions at my brain injury clinic (yet), but I do know they use neuroplasticity therapy to help amputees with the phantom pain they experience from missing limbs. My physical therapist spent an entire session singing its virtues to me while I was fighting for my life on a balance board. Which is also why I decided to look into it after I heard Gordon talking at the Migraine World Summit.
So, do I think Schubiner's methods are hokum?
No, I think there's a lot of merit to the things he talks about and explains, but I also know the only reason I think that is because of the insight I have into the brain-body bundle through the experiences of my mast cell disease that has taught me there is nothing the brain is incapable of fucking up.
Do I think targeting neuroplastic pain will work well for everyone?
No. I think you need to try it and see if it's a good fit for you.
Some people who attended the World Migraine Summit think it's snake oil/just another way for pain doctors to foist us off into the realm of mental health care. Conversely, other people won't shut up about how learning to break the cycle of fear and panic around their pain has been life-altering for them.
For me, it's been more subtle and is part of a broader spectrum of therapies and medical treatment I use to keep my nervous system in check. It certainly hasn't done me any harm. If anything, I found it quite validating to hear someone say, "Oh, the pain is in your head? Of course it is. Let's try to fix that," and then gave me actionable coping methods. They might not work profoundly in the long term. I'm still a sick bitch with multiple acute causes of my pain. But it's also not harming me the way mindfulness was (many chronic pain patients can find it traumatizing).
I will say, I am concerned that some doctors will use the treatment of neuroplastic pain to dismiss treating acute pain with physical causes.
Just like how mindfulness has been abused by an overworked, underfunded medical system not equipped to handle chronic patients, there's also the risk of neuroplastic therapy being tossed over the fence in a similar fashion as a last ditch Hail Mary to treat patients they don't have time for. But I don't think it's widespread enough yet for that to be the case.
I dunno. Give it a try. If it's not for you, it's not for you.
Personally, I hate anything that revolves around group therapy, but I did find the book "The Way Out" by Alan Gordon insightful in helping me figure some things out. Maybe see if your local library has it before you drop money on any sessions?
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*There has also been more compelling evidence recently that suggests that chronic pain conditions like fibromyalgia are also affected by wonky mast cells. Also arthritis.
What Trauma Actually Does To The Brain: An Educational + Deep Dive Into the Nuerobiology of Survival
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When people say trauma “rewires your brain,” it’s not metaphor. It’s neurology.
Understanding trauma’s impact on the brain helps to demystify our reactions — and lift the weight of shame. Trauma survivors often ask, “Why am I like this?” The answer is: because your brain adapted perfectly to danger. Let’s break this down.
Chemically Speaking: What changes?
1.Cortisol & Adrenaline Override
Trauma floods your system with stress hormones, primarily cortisol and adrenaline.
This is useful short-term: it sharpens reflexes and numbs pain. But in chronic trauma? These chemicals get stuck on high.
🔸Result: Hypervigilance, anxiety, difficulty sleeping, poor digestion, high heart rate, emotional flooding.
2. Neurotransmitter Dysregulaion
Repeated trauma interferes with:
Serotonin (mood stability)
Dopamine (pleasure & motivation)
Norepinephrine (alertness)
Oxytocin (trust and bonding)
🔸Result: Depression, low energy, difficulty feeling joy, trouble connecting with others or yourself.
3. Histamine & Immune System Overreaction
Many trauma survivors experience mysterious allergies or sensitivities. That’s because trauma activates mast cells and increases histamine, which is meant to fight threats—but in trauma, the body starts treating life like one big emergency.
🔸Result: Skin flare-ups, food sensitivities, digestive issues, headaches, overeating.
Structurally Speaking: What gets rewired?
Amygdala (Fear Center)
The amygdala becomes overactive. It constantly scans for threat — even when you’re safe.
🔸You feel: Startled easily, overwhelmed by crowds, panicked by “nothing.”
Prefrontal Cortex (Logic & Decision-Making)
This part shrinks with chronic trauma exposure, making it harder to regulate emotion or make clear decisions.
🔸You feel: Scattered, impulsive, like your thoughts run too fast or not at all.
Hippocampus (Memory & Context)
This structure gets damaged by cortisol, shrinking over time.
You may struggle to remember things clearly—or feel hijacked by memory fragments or body sensations.
You feel: Disoriented, like past and present blur, or like your body “remembers” things you can’t explain.
You are not broken.
You’re adapted.
If you’ve:
Lost your appetite or have food aversions
Felt “frozen” when trying to make a simple decision
Reacted strongly to sound, smell, texture or light
Needed rigid routines just to feel okay
..your brain is doing exactly what it was trained to do.
Trauma isn’t just emotional pain. It’s a full-body reprogramming for survival.
The Good News: Neuroplasticity
The brain is not fixed. Healing is possible.
With:
Trauma-informed therapy (EMDR, somatic work, IFS)
Regulation practices (breath work, safe ritual, or co-regulation)
Nutrition and movement, when accessible
..your brain begins to rewire itself back toward safety.
Every time you listen to your needs, rest, hydrate, name your truth, or say no—you’re re-parenting your nervous system.
Instead of:
“Why am I like this?”
Try:
“What did I survive that made this necessary?”
Let this serve as both science and sacred permission.
To be soft. To be patient.
To be a body learning how to come home again.
#spiritualtrauma #scienceoftrauma
Repetition Builds Identity
Neuroplasticity is the brain’s ability to reorganize its structure, function, and connections in response to experience, learning, or injury.
Neurons form new pathways, strengthen existing ones, and prune those that are no longer used. The brain is continuously adapting.
This is what allows recovery after injury, habit formation, and skill acquisition. The same mechanism that helps someone relearn movement after a stroke is the mechanism behind changing behavior and thought patterns.
The brain does not stop adapting in adulthood. It is constantly updating based on input. Structural changes occur in how neurons connect. Functional changes occur in how those connections are used.
This adaptability is neutral. It does not select for what is “good” or “bad.” It reinforces what is repeated and what is attended to. This is why the same system that builds skill can also reinforce negative patterns, chronic stress responses, or maladaptive habits.
How Does It Work?
Neuroplasticity follows use.
Repeated thoughts and actions strengthen specific neural pathways. The more something is activated, the more efficient that pathway becomes.
Novelty forces the brain to form new connections. Learning a new skill, language, or environment increases neural flexibility.
Attention determines what gets reinforced. What you consistently focus on is what the brain prioritizes and stabilizes.
Lifestyle factors such as movement, social interaction, and nutrition support the brain’s capacity to adapt, but they do not determine direction.
Direction comes from repetition and focus.
Neuroplasticity gives you the ability to change. It does not decide what you become. That comes from what you repeatedly engage with.
Neural Pathways vs Neural Networks
A neural pathway is a specific route through which signals travel. These are structured, often long-range connections that carry information between different regions.
A neural network is a broader system. It is a pattern of interconnected neurons working together to process information.
Pathways handle transmission.
Networks handle processing. When you repeat a behavior or thought, you are not just strengthening a single pathway.
You are reinforcing a network.
Over time, that network becomes more efficient, more dominant, and more likely to activate automatically.
This is where patterns begin to stabilize.
Neurotransmitters
Neurotransmitters are chemical messengers that allow neurons to communicate across synapses. An electrical signal reaches the end of a neuron, triggers release of these chemicals, and they bind to receptors on the next cell.
This either increases the likelihood of that neuron firing or reduces it.
This process is fast and continuous.
Neurotransmitters do not just pass information.
They influence whether connections strengthen or weaken over time.
Repeated activation of the same circuits strengthens synapses.
This process underlies learning and memory.
It is also what stabilizes patterns of thought and behavior.
Repetition & Neuroplasticity
Repetition is the driver.
Hebbian Learning explains why this happens. Often summarized as “neurons that fire together, wire together,” it describes the process through which repeated activation strengthens the connection between neurons.
The more frequently specific neural circuits are activated, the more efficient and automatic they become.
This is the neurological basis of repetition turning temporary actions or thoughts into stable patterns.
When a thought or action is repeated, the connections involved become stronger and more efficient.
This creates a physical change in the brain.
What starts as effortful becomes automatic.
Processes move from conscious regulation to systems responsible for habit and routine.
The brain prioritizes efficiency. It automates what is repeated.
If something is not used, it weakens.
Connections are pruned. Patterns lose dominance.
This is not selective. It applies to everything.
How This Shapes Identity
Identity is not fixed.
It is a stabilized pattern of repeated neural activity.
What you repeatedly think, do, and focus on forms consistent networks.
Those networks become your default way of interpreting and responding.
That is what feels like “who you are.”
Saying “I am a runner” is not just language.
It reinforces a pattern that biases behavior toward consistency.
The brain does not verify whether a repeated thought is accurate. It encodes frequency and relevance.
Repeated self-concepts, even if initially untrue, can become stabilized as part of identity.
This is why negative self-talk can become embedded.
It is also why it can be changed.
Identity is built through repetition.
It is maintained through reinforcement.
Because the brain remains plastic, identity is always being updated.
What you consistently engage with now becomes the structure that defines your future responses.
You are not uncovering a fixed self.
You are stabilizing patterns through repeated input.
That is the mechanism.
In blind people, the occipital cortex, the brain part normally used for sight, gets repurposed through neuroplasticity to boost touch, hearing, and sometimes smell.
Hi!! I have a question! ૮◞ ‸ ◟ ა
Well, one of them is, how is the brain connected to the change in realities through our self-concept?
I mean, how is that possible?
How does our brain tune into other realities that have the same self-concept that we are transforming?
I feel stupid because my brain only looks for logic.
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Hii, sweetthing 🥰!! Thank you so soo much for such an interesting and thoughtful question!!
I absolutely loove the kind of curiosity that dives into how the brain, consciousness, and self-concept interact. Questions like this are exactly what lead to deep understanding, and I'm excited to explore it with you!
[And I'm a huge nerd about neuroscience sooo this is right up my alley. So yeah, I’ve had so much fun responding to u 💋]
𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐧 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐂𝐡𝐚𝐧𝐠𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐑𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐢𝐞𝐬 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐩𝐭 (neuroplasticity easy-mode)
── .✦ 𝖥𝗂𝗋𝗌𝗍 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖿𝗈𝗋𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗌𝗍, 𝖨’𝗆 𝗀𝗈𝗇𝗇𝖺 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗌𝗌𝗎𝗋𝖾 𝗒 𝗈 𝗎: 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝗂𝗌𝗇’𝗍 𝗌𝗍𝗎𝗉𝗂𝖽 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝗅𝗈𝗈𝗄𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖿𝗈𝗋 𝗅𝗈𝗀𝗂𝖼. 𝖨𝗇 𝖿𝖺𝖼𝗍, 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗅𝗈𝗀𝗂𝖼𝖺𝗅 𝗍𝖾𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗇𝖼𝗒 𝗂𝗌 𝖾𝗑𝖺𝖼𝗍𝗅𝗒 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗆𝖺𝗄𝖾𝗌 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖼𝖺𝗉𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾 𝗈𝖿 𝗎𝗇𝖽𝖾𝗋𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗇𝖽𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗌𝖾 𝗂𝖽𝖾𝖺𝗌 𝖽𝖾𝖾𝗉𝗅𝗒.
Your brain loves patterns, cause-and-effect, and connections—that’s why it can grasp the concept of reality-shifting through self-concept. That’s how intuition works by the way!
The idea is that your perception of reality is inseparable from your sense of self݁ ݁ — •
.✦THE BREAKTHROUGH OF THE SELF-CONCEPT.
the way you think about yourself.
your abilities.
your worth
your identity
—𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗅𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁 𝗐𝗁𝗂𝖼𝗁 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖾𝗑𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗂𝖾𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗒𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗇𝗀. 𝖨𝗍 𝗁𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗅𝗂𝗀𝗁𝗍𝗌 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖾, 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖺𝖼𝖼𝖾𝗉𝗍 𝖺𝗌 𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗌𝗂𝖻𝗅𝖾, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗎𝗅𝗍𝗂𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗅𝗒, 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖺𝗍𝗍𝗋𝖺𝖼𝗍 𝗂𝗇𝗍𝗈 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗅𝗂𝖿𝖾.
for instance:
𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘢 𝘳𝘢𝘥𝘪𝘰 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘲𝘶𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘺 📻✨
Every thought, belief, and feeling you have is like a signal transmitting on a certain frequency.
THE UNIVERSE—god, source or whoever is you believe in—doesn’t “judge” your signal; it simply reflects back what matches it.
📎 If your self-concept is one of limitation, the world appears full of limits. If your self-concept is one of abundance, opportunities, and possibility, that becomes your reality.
.✦HOW DOES YOUR BRAIN ACTUALLY TUNE INTO OTHER REALITIES.
── .✦ 𝖨𝗇 𝗇𝖾𝗎𝗋𝗈𝗌𝖼𝗂𝖾𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗉𝗌𝗒𝖼𝗁𝗈𝗅𝗈𝗀𝗒, 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝖽𝗈𝖾𝗌𝗇’𝗍 𝗁𝖺𝗉𝗉𝖾𝗇 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝗅𝗂𝗍𝖾𝗋𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝗃𝗎𝗆𝗉𝗌 𝖻𝖾𝗍𝗐𝖾𝖾𝗇 𝗐𝗈𝗋𝗅𝖽𝗌. 𝖨𝗍 𝗁𝖺𝗉𝗉𝖾𝗇𝗌 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗌 𝗂𝗇𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗆𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗂𝗍 𝖺𝗅𝗋𝖾𝖺𝖽𝗒 𝖻𝖾𝗅𝗂𝖾𝗏𝖾𝗌 𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝗋𝗎𝖾.
When you shift your self-concept, you are literally retraining the brain to recognize patterns, possibilities, and opportunities that were always present but invisible to the “old you.”
N E U R O P L A S T I C I T Y ;
.✦THE BRAIN IS MALLEABLE
── .✦ 𝖶𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗉𝗋𝖺𝖼𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖾 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝖻𝖾𝗅𝗂𝖾𝖿𝗌, 𝗍𝗁𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁𝗍𝗌, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝖻𝖾𝗁𝖺𝗏𝗂𝗈𝗋𝗌, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗇𝖾𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗅 𝗉𝖺𝗍𝗁𝗐𝖺𝗒𝗌 𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗀𝖾. 𝖸𝗈𝗎 𝗅𝗂𝗍𝖾𝗋𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝖻𝗎𝗂𝗅𝖽 𝗇𝖾𝗐 “𝗋𝗈𝖺𝖽𝗌” 𝗂𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗆𝗂𝗇𝖽 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗌𝗎𝗉𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗌𝗈𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖺𝗋𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗂𝗇𝗀. 𝖸𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗋𝗍𝗌 𝗍𝗈 𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗂𝖼𝗂𝗉𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝖾𝗑𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗂𝖾𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗀𝗇 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝗏𝖾𝗋𝗌𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗈𝖿 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖿𝗈𝖼𝗎𝗌 𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗌 𝗈𝗎𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗈𝗅𝖽 𝗉𝖺𝗍𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝗌.
Attention and Perception
── .✦ 𝖮𝗎𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗇𝗍𝗅𝗒 𝖿𝗂𝗅𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗌 𝗏𝖺𝗌𝗍 𝖺𝗆𝗈𝗎𝗇𝗍𝗌 𝗈𝖿 𝗂𝗇𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗆𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇 𝗍𝗈 𝗌𝗁𝗈𝗐 𝗎𝗌 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗌. 𝖶𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿-𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗉𝗍 𝗌𝗁𝗂𝖿𝗍𝗌, 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝗋𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗅𝗂𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗌 𝗐𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗂𝗍 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗌𝗂𝖽𝖾𝗋𝗌 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝖾𝗏𝖺𝗇𝗍. 𝖲𝗎𝖽𝖽𝖾𝗇𝗅𝗒, 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗇𝗈𝗍𝗂𝖼𝖾 𝗈𝗉𝗉𝗈𝗋𝗍𝗎𝗇𝗂𝗍𝗂𝖾𝗌, 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗇𝖾𝖼𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝗌, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗌𝗂𝖻𝗂𝗅𝗂𝗍𝗂𝖾𝗌 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗐𝗈𝗎𝗅𝖽 𝗁𝖺𝗏𝖾 𝗂𝗀𝗇𝗈𝗋𝖾𝖽 𝖻𝖾𝖿𝗈𝗋𝖾—𝖻𝖾𝖼𝖺𝗎𝗌𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 “𝗒𝗈𝗎” 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖾𝗑𝗂𝗌𝗍𝗌 𝗇𝗈𝗐 𝖾𝗑𝗉𝖾𝖼𝗍𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗆.
Emotional Resonance
── .✦ 𝖳𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝖽𝗈𝖾𝗌𝗇’𝗍 𝗈𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝗈𝗇 𝗅𝗈𝗀𝗂𝖼 𝖺𝗅𝗈𝗇𝖾; 𝗂𝗍 𝗈𝗉𝖾𝗋𝖺𝗍𝖾𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝗋𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁 𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝖺𝗅 𝖾𝗇𝖾𝗋𝗀𝗒. 𝖶𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖿𝖾𝖾𝗅 𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗀𝗇𝖾𝖽 𝗐𝗂𝗍𝗁 𝖺 𝗇𝖾𝗐 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿-𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗉𝗍, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖾𝗆𝗈𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇𝗌 𝖺𝖼𝗍 𝗅𝗂𝗄𝖾 𝖺 𝗍𝗎𝗇𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗄, 𝖺𝗆𝗉𝗅𝗂𝖿𝗒𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗌𝗂𝗀𝗇𝖺𝗅𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗆𝖺𝗍𝖼𝗁 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖿𝗋𝖾𝗊𝗎𝖾𝗇𝖼𝗒. 𝖳𝗁𝗂𝗌 𝗂𝗌 𝗐𝗁𝗒 𝖿𝖾𝖾𝗅𝗂𝗇𝗀𝗌 𝖺𝗋𝖾 𝗈𝖿𝗍𝖾𝗇 𝗆𝗈𝗋𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝗅𝗂𝖺𝖻𝗅𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝗈𝗎𝗀𝗁𝗍 𝗐𝗁𝖾𝗇 𝗂𝗍 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝖾𝗌 𝗍𝗈 𝗆𝖺𝗇𝗂𝖿𝖾𝗌𝗍𝖺𝗍𝗂𝗈𝗇—𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗒 𝖺𝗋𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗂𝗇𝗍𝖾𝗋𝗇𝖺𝗅 𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗉𝖺𝗌𝗌 𝗀𝗎𝗂𝖽𝗂𝗇𝗀 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗍𝗈𝗐𝖺𝗋𝖽 𝖼𝗈𝗇𝗀𝗋𝗎𝖾𝗇𝗍 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗍𝗂𝖾𝗌.
SOoo, in a sense, your brain isn’t accessing some magical parallel universe. It’s reshaping your perception and experience of the universe around you to match the person you are becoming. Every shift in self-concept opens a doorway, and your brain—the filter and the interpreter—helps you walk through it.
IMPORTANT — Changing you reality starts with changing your inner identity.
── .✦ 𝘞𝘩𝘦𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘥𝘰𝘱𝘵 𝘢 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧-𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘺. 𝘠𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘱𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘪𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘢𝘷𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 “𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶,” 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘯, 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘪𝘯𝘤𝘳𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘯-𝘥𝘦𝘵𝘦𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘮𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘨𝘪𝘯𝘴 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘩𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘦.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO ABANDON LOGIC OR RATIONALITY ! ! !
Logic helps you map the process:
self-concept → neural alignment → perception shift → reality reflection.
𝖡𝗎𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗆𝖺𝗀𝗂𝖼—𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗉𝖺𝗋𝗍 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖿𝖾𝖾𝗅𝗌 𝗂𝗆𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗌𝗂𝖻𝗅𝖾—𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿-𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗉𝗍 𝖼𝗁𝖺𝗇𝗀𝖾𝗌, 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖾𝗇𝗍𝗂𝗋𝖾 𝖾𝗑𝗉𝖾𝗋𝗂𝖾𝗇𝖼𝖾 𝗈𝖿 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗐𝗈𝗋𝗅𝖽 𝖻𝖾𝗀𝗂𝗇𝗌 𝗍𝗈 𝗌𝗁𝗂𝖿𝗍 𝗇𝖺𝗍𝗎𝗋𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗒, 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝖻𝗋𝖺𝗂𝗇 𝗂𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗍𝗈𝗈𝗅 𝗍𝗁𝖺𝗍 𝖺𝗅𝗅𝗈𝗐𝗌 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗍𝗈 𝗌𝖾𝖾 𝗂𝗍.
So the next time you feel “stuck” in logic, remember: the brain is your ally, not your enemy.
LOGIC EXPLAINS THE PROCESS — read that again.
── .✦ 𝖫𝗈𝗀𝗂𝖼 𝖾𝗑𝗉𝗅𝖺𝗂𝗇𝗌 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗉𝗋𝗈𝖼𝖾𝗌𝗌; 𝗒𝗈𝗎𝗋 𝗌𝖾𝗅𝖿-𝖼𝗈𝗇𝖼𝖾𝗉𝗍 𝗍𝗋𝖺𝗇𝗌𝖿𝗈𝗋𝗆𝗌 𝗂𝗍. 𝖳𝗈𝗀𝖾𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗋, 𝗍𝗁𝖾𝗒 𝖼𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗍𝖾 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝖻𝗋𝗂𝖽𝗀𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝗍𝗐𝖾𝖾𝗇 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝗒𝗈𝗎 𝖺𝗋𝖾 𝗇𝗈𝗐 𝖺𝗇𝖽 𝗍𝗁𝖾 𝗋𝖾𝖺𝗅𝗂𝗍𝗒 𝗒𝗈𝗎’𝗋𝖾 𝖻𝖾𝖼𝗈𝗆𝗂𝗇𝗀.
So apparently there's this massive study of over 17,000 people that found if you had 4 or more traumatic experiences as a kid, you're 12 times more likely to attempt suicide, develop depression, or struggle with substance abuse as an adult. and it can knock up to 20 years off your life expectancy.
but here's the part that actually got me. childhood trauma doesn't just leave emotional scars, it literally, physically rewires your brain's architecture. your amygdala, the part that detects threats, gets stuck on high alert and starts treating a weird tone of voice or a loud noise like a life-threatening emergency. meanwhile your prefrontal cortex, the part that's supposed to pump the brakes on all that panic, never fully develops because your brain was too busy building survival circuits instead.
and your hippocampus, the thing that's supposed to file memories away neatly with timestamps? trauma shrinks it. so traumatic memories don't get stored as "something bad that happened in the past," they stay fragmented and timeless, which is why a random smell can make your body react like it's happening right now.
the wildly hopeful part though is that the same neuroplasticity that let trauma reshape your brain means it can be reshaped again. your brain is literally ready whenever you are.
Read the full breakdown: How Childhood Trauma Rewires Your Brain and What Science Says You Can Do About It