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good morning to these talented husbands who are both called david and wear the same outfits and to them ONLY
from uncle david’s insta:
“thirty years + and counting”
HEY HAS ANYONE SEEN LIKE 400 MAGICALLY CONJURED EFFEMINATE BOYS? THEY ESCAPED CONTAINMENT IN THE WIZARD CASTLE
I had a hunch you were behind this
PLEASE DONT TELL THE WIZARD COUNCIL
hi I’m sorry but what the fuck is the statement being made here:
Look out liberals! My dog is RACIST
I would agree if it were the dog being pulled aside to reveal the flags. Symbolically, that would suggest the flag reflects the dog’s inner values. But since it’s the flag being pulled aside to reveal the dog...? It reads more like “at the core of right wing racist ideology is chihuahua”, which is just. Incomprehensible. 0/10 symbolism.
What is going on with the world??
In a move that has sparked outcry from archaeologists, historians and locals, the Peruvian government has approved a multi-billion international airport near the famed site of Machu Picchu, Peru’s single most important tourist destination. Bulldozers have begun to clear millions of tons of earth for the project, which will be located in Chinchero, a picturesque Inca town.
Building the airport in this location will destroy an ancient landscape, one shaped by the Incan people with terraces and routes.
Critics also suggest that planes flying low over the nearby village of Ollantaytambo and its archaeological park filled with ruins and a massive Inca fortress with large stone terraces, would cause incalculable damage to fragile Inca ruins there and destroy the peace and beauty of the area.
The new airport will make access to the site much easier, and thus encourage greater numbers than ever before to visit.
But Machu Picchu is already overwhelmed by almost double the limit of tourists as recommended by UNESCO. [see also India’s Taj Mahal - an incredible site simply reeling under a relentless, ineffectively managed tourist, both domestic and international, onslaught]
It’s the constant battle between protecting the past and profiteering from it.
https://www.theguardian.com/cities/2019/may/15/archaeologists-outraged-over-plans-for-machu-picchu-airport-chinchero
What the actual fuck
how about NO
Opinions are divided in the agrarian town of Chinchero, where the airport is slated to open in 2025
PLEASE REBLOG!
hey! peruvian here
to be completely honest, there is probably nothing anyone can do about this at this point because it has been in the works since the 90’s. as you can most likely tell, our government is a fucking joke. still, this needs international attention. a lot of it. this is my country’s history, culture and one of the most beautiful things we have to offer at risk.
our best bet is at the very least causing somewhat global outrage to spread awareness and perhaps make this into something bigger amongst the middle and upper class people in the central cities as sadly the lower class and indigenous citizens (the majority of the country’s population) go widely ignored by the government and the former (middle and upper class) tend to also ignore shit unless they perceive it as affecting them directly
the worst part about studying languages is knowing that you will never be nearly as good at it as a literal baby
The only reason babies are better at language learning is because it’s their full time job and they don’t get embarrassed
If you, a teenaged or adult human, wasn’t embarrassed and could study language full time you would learn way faster than a baby.
In my defense, babies receive more positive reinforcement than I do as well. Babies will say ha ba bah dah ba hah and all the adults around them will be like 🤯 really? Wow 😱 that is so interesting 😁 great job! 🤗 and then what happened? 🤔
also people who are like “I’ve been studying for a year and I only have an eight-year-old’s grasp of the language”:
how long do you think it took the eight-year-old
[screencap of a tweet from @elisekumar: People say “well what did people do before vaccines/antibiotics/pasteurisation?” as if that’s an argument for going natural. They died, Carol. A lot of people died.]
If you’re interested in these topics, I can recommend a recent book called A Good Time To Be Born: How Science and Public Health Gave Children a Chance. The author, Perri Klass, starts by laying out just how ubiquitous the experience of child loss was, as recently as a century ago–it was just a thing that absolutely everyone would experience in some form, whether their own child, or a niece or nephew, or a sibling, cousin, or playmate when they were children themselves. Then she uses primary sources like letters and diaries to show that–contrary to what people today like to tell themselves–parents and other loved ones were absolutely devastated by the death of a child; it was something people dreaded from the moment they found out about a pregnancy, and some people who lost a child never got over it.
Mortality rates were highest for poor communities, mostly for sanitation reasons, but absolutely nobody was immune; several sitting presidents lost children while in office, when they had access to the most state-of-the-art medical care available at the time.
Then she moves in to talking about specific causes of child mortality and the efforts made to combat them. The one that surprised me was “summer diarrhea,” which usually affected children at age 2 or 3–the first summer that they were weaned from breastfeeding, and thus exposed to all of the pathogens that would multiply in food, water, and milk in the hot weather. I mean, just imagine knowing that a diaper blowout could be the first sign that you’re going to spend the next few days watching your baby literally shit themselves to death.
(Klass suggests that the sentimental, idealized deaths of angelic children in Victorian literature were a response to this particular horror–you could picture your child dying calmly, ethereally pale and beautiful, among clean white sheets, and then ascending straight to heaven, instead of what really happened.)
Some antivaxxers today like to claim that improvements in sanitation were all we ever really needed to get child mortality under control–we start to see a drastic decline in child death at the time that cities and towns started working on providing clean water sources, sanitary sewers, and places where parents could get clean milk at reasonable prices, and antivaxxers like to suggest that, had no other developments been made, that downward trend would have continued.
That is bullshit, because–as public health experts at the time realized–summer diarrhea was the low-hanging fruit of infant and child mortality. It was vastly more common in urban settings than rural ones, and more common in poor urban settings than well-off ones, so it wasn’t too hard to see the differences in those settings and identify some obvious contributing factors. And once they knew the causes, they had the technology to deal with them–it was just a matter of finding the will, and the money, to do so.
Summer diarrhea was a very common cause of death in young children, and reducing it cut the mortality rate significantly–but it did little or nothing about any of the other causes of child death: the “childhood illnesses”–so called, because if you got them as a child and lived, you’d be immune–and ordinary infections (which could kill you even if the initial cause was as minor as a blister–that’s what happened to President Coolidge’s son). Society as a whole continued throwing money and effort at these problems because sanitation wasn’t enough. (It probably didn’t hurt that these were the causes of death that affected children from well-off families at similar rates as poor ones–a number of wealthy families funded vaccine research as a memorial to their dead children.) And the most recent efforts–the ones still ongoing today–have to do with care of premature infants and those with birth defects, and prevention of accidents and injury. (The book doesn’t really cover the treatment of childhood cancer and genetic diseases, which are also ongoing efforts, but aren’t traditionally considered “public health.”)
The general trend in these efforts is that they started with the most common/most preventable causes of child mortality, and progressed to the less common/more difficult ones. This was deliberate–Klass even cites some debate among public health authorities, over whether the next stage after sanitation should be childhood illnesses or premature babies. Vaccines for childhood illnesses got priority, both because there were more children affected, and because it seemed easier.
In the first half of the 20th century, child mortality was tackled–in a massive, coordinated, and expensive way–because it was a huge and devastating problem. Today, the leading cause of death for children is accidental injury, and we have the luxury of wondering if we’re doing too much to prevent it.
I read this book recently, its amazing.
My nephew likes to play McDonald's, which is what you'd expect it to be. He says, "Welcome to McDonald's. How may I help you?" After you order, he says, "Okay, coming right up," and pretends to give you your food. He has another game called "Silly McDonald's," which is the same thing, except no matter what you order, he says, "Here's your cold hamburger."
I know I'm biased, but he's a comedic genius, as far as I'm concerned.
The last time I saw him, he said, "Let's play McDonald's," so I assumed it was regular McDonald's. But then he hit me with a cold hamburger. It was Silly McDonald's the whole time. I got played.
you STAB caesar? you stab his body like the enemy? oh! oh! jail for brutus! jail for brutus for One Thousand Years!!
Don’t forget that your body is also you, not foreign or bad, and hating and punishing your body can and will directly affect your mental health. Accept and care for yourself inside and out.
saying “you are a burden on society” is just such a weird framing of priorities It’s like saying “wow, think how much better gas mileage your car would get if you weren’t sitting in it” or “think how dry that umbrella would be if you weren’t holding it in between you and the rainstorm”. the things we create? they’re for us. they are meant to carry us. they are meant to protect us. we are meant to hold them up to keep us dry.
why do we even have a society if not to take care of each other?
“Think how much better gas mileage your car would get if you weren’t sitting in it” is the best insult I’ve ever heard and I’m going to use it constantly from now on.
a friendly reminder from your local korean blogger that “lunar new year” is inclusive of the many cultures who celebrate, and “chinese new year” should be used only if you’re referring to specifically chinese cultural practices of the new year. thank you!!!
people in the notes have raised concerns that the term “lunar new year” erases jewish practices of rosh hashanah or islamic practices of hijri new year. i did not invent the term “lunar new year” and can only say that it’s the general, common term used to refer to the (mostly east) asian new year celebrations that occur in late january or early february. i welcome muslim or jewish folks to speak on whether or not the term feels exclusive to them, but as the original post implies, the point of the meme is to stop white people from perpetuating the idea that all asian culture is chinese.
Non-Jews clowning in the notes trying to white knight yourselves about Rosh Hashanah: shut up
Lunar New Year is a perfectly acceptable and accurate term for Asian New Year celebrations. Lunar New Year is used to refer to East Asian celebrations which fall on the first new moon of the Lunar calendar.
The Hebrew Calendar is lunar, correct. But our New Year - Rosh Hashanah - falls on 1st Tishrei (around September/October on the Gregorian calendar) and is celebrated as the anniversary of the creation of Adam and Eve in the garden of Eden.
While our New Year is technically a Lunar New Year in so far as it's "a New Year celebrated on the Lunar Calendar", I can guarantee you that when you say Lunar New Year, there is not a single Jew that thinks you're talking about Rosh Hashanah.
Stop trying to use me as a weapon against asian folks. I see you and I'm mad about it.
Just gonna tack onto Ash's wonderful addition that you should stop using Muslims to be racist against Asians, too.
Muslims refer to our lunar calendar as the Hijri calendar. We have never referred to it as a lunar calendar. And we refer to our new year as the Hijri New Year.
Asians using the term "lunar new year" does not erase us or invalidate us either because that's simply a term we (Muslims) do not use!
As previously stated, "lunar new year" is predominantly used by Asians so to deny them that would be to invalidate them and their traditions.
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People talk a lot about the pipeline between the 2000s-era ‘nu-atheist’ movement and alt-right fascism, and for good reason, but there needs to be more attention paid to the pipeline between hippy-dippy crystal-and-moonbeams credulous New Agers and far-right conspiracy-theorist loons, because honestly I’ve encountered a lot more of those people in the past little while.
Or, for that matter, the pipeline between mainstream fucking religions and fascism, because I would guess that that’s probably commonest of all.
You can say Christianity, it’s ok.
Except I don’t actually just mean Christianity. Maybe in America and Europe, sure; but in India, the pathway is from Hinduism; in Turkey, Erdogan legitimises his regime through Islam, just as Netanyahu uses Judaism in Israel, and in Burma, they use Buddhism. No one has a monopoly on this.
the true danger of fascism is that it can arise from any culture, under any political or theological circumstances, and thus requires diligence and clarity of purpose to combat.
NEVER FORGET
Yeah, all these takes that present the place people start from as some kind of determining factor in their eventual turn to fascism are so shallow, always anecdotal, completely ignoring cultural and social factors, economic forces, life experiences…
Blaming fascism on shit like astrology is the political equivalent of blaming school shootings on Marliyn Manson.
It’s not about that though. Discussing the backgrounds a lot of fascists seem to come from matters because it points to recruiting grounds where fascists are being particularly successful through strategic infiltration.
And while Marilyn Manson music isn’t a real recruiting group for mass shooters nu-atheist and new age spaces are definitely both recruiting grounds where fascists deliberately operate, and understanding how and why is important.
For recruitment, fascists need some material to work with (a largely white audience + a sense of superiority often works well) and they need their narrative to be tolerated enough to not get them punched in the face.
We’ve seen this very clearly in alternative music scenes. Although punk started as a queer POC dominated genre, it got a largely white audience after The Sex Pistols, and fascists were drawn to the scene because they thought their narrative would be tolerated among all the violent aesthetics. They were wrong. Again and again fascists got their asses kicked by punks and as a result they largely abandoned punk.
The next white-dominated genre with a violent aesthetics was metal. Metal had an ‘anything goes here’ mentality and fascists took full advantage of that. And the metal scene largely didn’t kick them out which is why the nazi metal scene became huge, nazi metal bands were able to play at big festivals and they actively recruit there.
Look at other recruiting grounds and you’ll see similar dynamics.
Fascists successfully recruit in new-atheist circles because an anti-religious mentality combined with a sense of superiority can easily be targeted against religious minorities and combined with a sense of white superiority.
Fascists successfully recruit in white-conservative Christian circles because white supremacy and hating minorities has deep roots there. When we try to understand this process, it also helps to be specific. They’re not that likely to be successful among say, Jehova’s Witnesses or Quakers, and there are good reasons for that.
Fascists successfully recruit in hippy new age spaces because there too you have a largely white audience with a sense of superiority, which isn’t likely to punch anyone in the face because that’s just bad vibes man. And so fascist recruiters flourish. At the intersection of new age nature religions and metal, you’ll find Odinist fascists recruiting people by presenting their all-white conservative-gender-roles version of ‘Nordic’ religions are the real thing.
Why does talking about this matter? Because when you identify it, you can organize against it. More and more metal fans are organizing against nazis in the metal scene, calling on festivals to boycot nazi bands. More and more pagans are organizing against fascists in pagan spaces.
Hippy-dippy New Agers don’t have a great track record on fighting bigotry in their spaces but they can do it too if they’re ready to speak up, organize, distribute information about how fascist recruiting works and commit to making their spaces fascist free. But it starts by recognizing the problem.
Finally:
In this context talking about ‘mainstream religions’ instead of specifying why specific subcultures within specific religions are effective recruiting grounds is unhelpful because it stops us from understanding the recruitment process, and just plain shitty because it lumps together fascist with their victims.
Queer is the label we used when we weren’t sure. Queer is the label we used when we were sure no other label would do. Queer is a gender that is my own and only my own. Queer is a sexuality that defies definition.
Queer is the label which became genderqueer, and from which non-binary and genderfluid sprung. Queer is the label which is the un-box, in which everyone who is not cishet (including ace people!!) fits. Queer is community.
Queer is activist. Queer is in the streets screaming ‘we’re here, we’re queer, get used to it!’ Queer is not ashamed.
Queer was ours from the beginning. Queer was ours a century ago. Queer was used against us, and we said ‘fuck you,’ and we took it BACK. Queer is butches and bears with bats, protecting our community.
Queer is blue-collar. Queer is working-class. Queer is poor. Queer is people who can’t afford to sit out Stonewall quietly and then go fight for marriage equality when the tax bills come due. Queer is a distinct identity, and queer is the un-box.
Queer makes TERFs and exclusionists angry, because it doesn’t let them define people by gold stars and terms like ‘SGA’ that come from conversion therapy. Queer doesn’t give a shit about historical revision to exclude members of the community who have always been here, because queer has always been here and always will be.
Queer is the life raft onto which we climb. Queer is community. Queer is important, and people will have to pry it from my cold dead hands. I’ve been queer for thirty years. My community is queer, and it is opt-in.
If you tag my fucking posts ‘q slur’ or any variant thereof I will immediately fucking block you. Don’t fucking do it. If you feel obligated to tag my posts ‘q slur,’ don’t interact with them. My identity is not a bad word and does not require censoring.
“slur” isn’t the same as “bad word”. everything this says perfectly illustrates that you literally don’t know what a slur is.
queer is a slur and none of this changes that fact. is it so hard to have some respect for LGBT people who choose not to reclaim it?? it wasn’t “ours” to begin with. society took a word that means “weird” and used it against lgbt people (AND continue to do so!) some people have chosen to recclaim it and thats fine! what i do not understand is how you have no sympathy for people in the very community you claim to love so dearly that you willingly throw their pain at their face while also delegitimizating their pain.
like. at least others who recclaim that word can at least recognize that its a slur ??
Cool, so everyone is gonna stop using “gay” all the time, because that’s the word that was used to attack me, and is still a widespread slur across the US? We’re all gonna have respect for that now?
No? Because that’s an okay reclaimed slur, but queer is so toxic that somehow in the last two years and only on Tumblr it’s become such a discourse point that y'all gonna ignore that the first uses of queer for our community are a century old, and come from within the community?
Literally everything you said is either incorrect or can be equally applied to gay. So, no, I’m not going to censor my identity out of sympathy, because I have to listen to people call themselves gay every day and do so with the knowledge that it’s their identity word and is important to them. I, you know, made my trauma my business and worked on it and didn’t insist that other people stop being gay (and calling themselves gay in my earshot) because that’s the word that got weaponized against me.
I have PTSD. I know how trauma and triggers work. I also know my trauma and my triggers are my business to manage, and not the business of another person to change a core part of their identity so I can manage my trauma. Insisting that other people change their identities for the trauma of others has nothing to do with “sympathy,” it is about control. This sudden upswell in “q***r” and “q slur” and “q*eer” - censoring an important identity word as if it is a swear word, making it a word so bad it can’t be spoken, as if it’s a community’s Voldemort - did not come from nowhere.
We literally sat here and watched it happen. We watched TERFs start this particular virulent bit of discourse, marrying “queer is a slur” - with the implication that “slur” means “irredeemable and unable to be redeemed” - and we watched exclusionists pick up the water of TERFs and carry it for them. This isn’t some bit of old contention that goes back decades - five years ago, the word we had PSAs about how it shouldn’t be weaponized was gay.
But queer is everything I said: it doesn’t let TERFs and exclusionists know for sure if they should be hateful because it’s the un-box. So that just can’t be tolerated.
The “queer is a slur (and slurs aren’t reclaimed and slurs should be censored and slurs should not be used for a group but gay is fine, gay is not a slur like that)” thing isn’t about individual trauma and it never was. This “queer is a slur” thing is about gatekeeping and control, so no, I’m not here for it, and I’m not for my identity being censored as if it’s a bad word when people interact with my posts.
Lest you forget, the most famous mantra we had as a community coming together was… We’re here, we’re queer, get used to it. You can’t erase that. It’s the name for academic studies of our community (which btw, is always led by queer people themselves). You can’t remove the label for people who are still trying to find their place in the community. For the people who never mind a word who describes them as well. Most of our labels are words that have been hurled back at us in hate. So you have to ask, who in our community started to say it wasn’t acceptable? And do you want to stand for what they do? Piss off a TERF this Pride by reminding them that we’re here, we’re QUEER, and they can just shut the hell up.
God am I sick of this asinine fucking discourse. I see we’ve reached the point where not being comfortable with a word that is regularly used as a slur means these clowns are going to imply you’re a transphobe because guilt by association which is totally sane and reasonable. Like I identify as queer and don’t consider it a slur in most usages but I still have the capacity for empathy and thus can respect that my comfort zone is not the be all and end all of acceptable positions to have on the issue. It costs me nothing not to call people queer when they dont want to be.
Saying “when you repeat ‘queer is a slur and should never be used’ you are repeating TERF talking points” isn’t calling you a transphobe, it’s saying that you are using the same talking points as transphobic people, talking points that were deliberately created to try to split the community.
I understand it’s much easier to say “wah how dare you say I’m a transphobe by association” than to acknowledge that you’ve been taken in by people who are working very hard to split the community, so if you don’t want to do the work of examining where you got your talking points and who your talking points benefit, I guess I understand, but that doesn’t mean that’s what I said.
Just because the truth that TERFs are behind the “queer is a slur” discourse makes you uncomfy to acknowledge doesn’t mean you get to change what I said so it makes you comfy in your unchallenged assumptions, and reassure yourself that you’re not saying the same things as TERFs!
You are. If you don’t like that?
CHANGE WHAT YOU’RE SAYING SO YOU’RE NOT AGREEING WITH TERFS, YOU CABBAGE.
No one is under the obligation to pretend you’re not agreeing with TERFs just to make you comfy.
This is something that drives me insane about the “Queer is a Slur” crowd. We point out they are quoting TERFs and they get mad at US! They say it can’t be true because they are trans and/or hate TERFs.
You know what I would do if someone told me a belief of mine was a TERF talking point? I would LISTEN! I would look into it. I would reexamine my beliefs. I would be horrified at my own ignorance. And I would grow.
Saying that you are quoting TERFs is not calling you TERFs, you fucking walnuts! I means reexamine your stances! It means look at where you are coming from! Take a step back and look at the big picture!
Literally gay has a much more troubling use history than queer. It is still used as an insult more often at least in my experience. But queer is inclusive so queer is out. That’s the truth.
Don’t hate us for telling you the truth, hate the assholes who lied to you!
That is not to say there aren’t people who are offput by the term, the difference is they do not police other people for using it.
I mean, I’m personally against the word ‘queer’ purely because it literally explains nothing about your gender/sexuality. Saying that someone is ‘Genderqueer’ means the equivalent of nothing. What are you supposed to garner from that?
Personally, I’ve never seen the point in using ‘queer’, which is a term that tends to have negative connotations, doesn’t explain anything, when you can use a word that is pretty self explanatory: Questioning.
I’ve never really seen a good explaination on what ‘Queer’ means besides ‘Weird/Deviates from the norm’. Which, is a bit counterproductive imho. Afterall, isn’t a big part of the LGBT movement just bringing awareness to the fact that not everyone is, well, straight, or born the right gender, and to push for that stuff to be accepted?
Afterall, claiming that you’re entire gender identity is ‘queer’, and by saying ‘I’m not normal’, seems to be more so to say ‘lol I’m just weird’. Well, why use a word that means ‘weird’ when we want to reach a point where that isn’t considered weird? And that it is, in fact, considered to be a normal fact of life.
Idk, that’s why I’ve always just preferred ‘Questioning’ for ‘Q’ instead of ‘Queer’ because it explains a lot more, and feels much more open-ended and accepting. Saying that you’re questioning your sexuality or gender is something that we’ve heard a lot for people in the community, who weren’t sure who they where- be it gay, bi, trans, whatever.
Questioning includes anyone who might be unsure if they are LGBT or not, and I’ve always seen it as a big part of the community in terms of how open and accepting it’s pushed itself to be for so long.
(Also, quick side note: I had never even heard the whole ‘I’m here and I’m queer’ mantra until, like, two or three years ago. And this thread is cool and all for saying that it’s TERFs who started this anti-queer campaign, if it is true, but some links and evidence would be hella dank.)
^Despite that little bit, I do still think ‘Questioning’ is just better then ‘queer’. Easier to grasp and understand, while still being just as inclusive as ‘Queer’ is claiming to be and without all the baggage.
1. And exactly what do you think you’re entitled to know about my identity other than that I’m not Straight™️? Queer tells you everything you need to know: not straight. Genderqueer? Not cis. You’re not entitled to any more information. Hell, you’re not even entitled to that. This idea that we must provide exact, specific, unchanging information about our affection, attraction and gender in order to be considered legitimate is coercive, invasive, and gross. If someone wants you to have more specifics, they’ll tell you. This “it doesn’t tell me enough” is the “but what’s in your pants” of orientation.
None of your fucking business, random internet stranger.
2. That you’re not aware of a 30yo slogan isn’t the fault of the slogan or the people old enough to have shouted it in the streets. It’s existed. Learn your history.
3. My Tumblr is plastered with sources and tons of posts on where the TERF-sponsored bullshit came from. People aren’t required to give sources on what was, by the fucking way, a positivity post that people keep hijacking for fucking discourse.
My existence is not an invitation to discourse.
4. I’m not Questioning. I know who and what I am.
I’m very, very Queer.
Not Questioning. Queer. A whole and complete and self-realized queer with 29y of living Out. 29y of screaming “I’m here, I’m queer, get used to it.” There’s no question: I’m Queer.
I really don’t give a fuck if you think Questioning “works better,” because … it doesn’t. You don’t get to turn people who know what they are, which is Queer, into Questioning just because you think it works better. Because it makes you more comfortable. Because you don’t like it when you don’t get to know more about people than they want to explain. Because you want people in easily understood boxes. Because you can’t accept other people’s ability and right to determine and define their identity, both orientation and gender. Because other people have to be something that makes sense to you, define themselves by your preferred terms.
Questioning is not just as inclusive. It belongs in the acronym because many of us are, but it is NOT a substitute for Queer, and insisting that it is? That is infantilizing, diminishing the fully-realized and fully-decided identities of huge swaths of this community. Turning our “I know who I am” into “but do you, really? Might it not just be a phase on your way to one of these other categories that makes me more comfortable?”
tl;dr, I give you @calourist:
No one is immune to repeating terf bigotry simply by their identity. Trans folk, lgbt folk, straight folk, anyone. You need to understand WHY terf talking points are bad do that you dont repeat them, and dont fall prey to exclusionist and gatekeeping ideology.
About two years ago I was very against use of the word queer because I felt it was othering, calling oneself strange. But I learned more about the phrase and about myself and use it because it’s not (necessarily) those things. It’s a nice umbrella term. It’s good for people who aren’t sure, sure, but it’s also good for people who are certain. Whether it’s due to an aversion to specific labels or a lack of feeling included by any, queer is able to cover who you are. I understand if you don’t like the word, though I’m baffled by someone not knowing the very famous protest chant, but it’s simply a matter of (and I don’t mean this in a mean way, just a literal one) ignorance. I understand that people probably shouldn’t have to do research to know what they are but at the moment that’s how it is, so it’s very important to do so, and not echo TERF ideology. Yes questioning is valid btw, it’s just not the same as queer.
I think I am officially Fandom Old. I am so worn out from the arguments on who’s the top or the bottom (who cares), what is allowed to be written (anything you want, bejeebus), what is Problematic (I know, just tag it), what other people Should Do (they Should live their lives free of judgment). There isn’t a Right Way to do things. Tag your stuff appropriately, don’t read stuff you don’t want to read, and leave other people (me) alone.
There is nothing quite like the freedom of having gone through all of the Discourse and come out the other side into the promised land of Not Giving A Fuck.
The three keys to the promised land are “Block, Unfollow, and Do Not Engage”
I thought this was a joke but it’s not and I wish it were
Hell world
Whoops I appear to have left my extremely powerful rare earth magnet on top of Amazon alexa
Fear is knowing a new Alexa product is being developed.
Terror is knowing that it’s for landlords to control their units remotely, while being to see and hear everything in the rented space.
Horror is understanding that if a family is a few days late for rent/electricity/gas, this product will most likely cut off the services they may need to survive like WiFi access, stove/oven/microwave/fridge appliances having power, lights, medical devices that require electricity to function, etc.
deep horror is knowing that these devices will probably be set to unlock doors remotely allowing cops and abusers into the homes of marginalized people, these devices will probably have sensors to check how many people live in the home vs on the lease, probably will have some way or reporting that the residents are “breaking the lease” ie: loud music, having overnight guests, parties, or just people doing normal human shit and having it seen as a “violation”
Hope is knowing these things have the network security equivalent of a sign that says "please do not hack me" over an open door.
If your landlord ever tries to force you to use Alexa, and you have little to no technical or programming expertise, it’s time to make your very own Faraday cage.
“What is a Faraday cage?” you might ask. “How will it help me defeat Big Sister Alexa?”
Easy answer: a Faraday cage blocks EM waves. WiFi, the thing Alexa needs to do anything of use at all? That’s a type of EM wave.
I know, I know, “Faraday cage” sounds like it’ll take 47727372 hours with a welder, right? Wrong!
A simple Faraday cage that anyone can make is as easy as a cardboard box with as many layers of heavy-duty aluminum foil as you can stand to coat the box with. I usually do about 5 layers because that number is easy to remember, but if you’re paranoid or simply need more layers you are more than welcome to add as many layers as necessary to keep Alexa at bay. I think the average is about 4-6 layers.
Hilariously, I actually learned this technique from those crazy prepper types. Which, ironically, is why I know it works. (Not to mention I tested it myself by wrapping my phone in foil and seeing if my roommate could call or message me.)
If your landlord notices, they will not receive any warning or notification that you tampered with Alexa- because you didn’t. All they will notice is that they can’t communicate with that particular Alexa device (because it will be “offline”, aka not sending or receiving signals).
A box is also easily hideable in case of surprise visits from the landlord or anyone else who might report you to your landlord, accidentally or on purpose. Just pop the bitch out, restart it (or don’t, this just clears any other hitches from the system) and it should behave normally.
Additionally, most landlords have the general tech expertise of an orangutan with a headset, so technical hitches are relatively easy to handwave with a good ol’ “Fire is scary and Edison and Tesla were witches”. Basically, if they question you about why Alexa suddenly is or isn’t working, shrug and say that it must have suddenly either just gone out or come back (depending on the situation), but that you didn’t do anything to it because you don’t know anything about that sort of tech and that you didn’t want to mess with it out of fear you would break it.
Note: Remember, Big Sister is always listening! If you wish to put the bitch in a Faraday cage, remember not to discuss it where Big Sister can hear you!
This but also remember to organize in a renters union so you together have enough power to just refuse ridiculous landlord demands.
This makes me want to start making decorative Faraday cages for people. Make it even less obvious what you’re doing.
i do not care a single ounce of shit if a the true motive of cishet guy wearing a skirt is “just for clout” and neither should you like wtf is that worth caring about like i’m sorry is there a massive skirt shortage