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[brunten]

Dear gay men with a boyfriend:

How the fuck did you do that?

[benniboom]

by getting off grindr, scruff, jack’d, etc., Treating each other as human beings and not like sex objects, talk to ONE GUY and ONE GUY ONLY, AND by keeping it in your pants on the first couple of dates.

[nobodylovesringostarr]

i’ve met my boyfriend of 2 years on grindr and we fucked right away and stayed together ever since so keep your gay bible to yourself

[llegomaheggo-deactivated2017082]

And this, right here, is a prime example of internalized hatred within the queer community. I am a gay identifying cis-gendered male and have been in numerous relationships: Met a guy through an app and had sex on the first night, met a guy at a cafe and dated a few times before we even began to cuddle, met a closeted male at his frat party and remained a discreet couple for several months.

I’ve been called easy. I’ve been called a prude.

We should all keep somethings in mind:

Firstly, some people use apps like Grindr and Tinder because it’s not easy being gay (or queer). We don’t have the privilege of walking into a busy cafe and thinking, “I can literally ask any one of you out.” No, gay men do not have that kind of access. Rather, we must think to ourselves, “I think that one guy sitting in the corner is gay. I wonder if he is single, nonthreatening, and cool.” Apps make it easier to meet other queers in our limited dating pool.

Secondly, some people like sex. Some like having sex on the first date. Some like having sex before the first date. Some like having sex and not dating. Some like to wait a few dates. SEX POSITIVITY means understanding and respecting the fact that there are varying degrees of priorities within the dating/sex world. Can we stop slutshaming and actually unify our disjointed gay community?

Thirdly, to say that “one guy and one guy only” is the only route is to be ignorant and disrespectful to those who enjoy/participate in open-relationships and polyamory.

PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE OF YOUR FELLOW QUEER COUSINS. WE’RE ALREADY A MARGINALIZED GROUP. LET’S NOT FURTHER ATTACK ONE ANOTHER. 

[kukowalker]

I will never not reblog this.

[iamout121718-deactivated2018120]

Awesome

[alexbam]

[french-verbz]

Well now I can correctly moonwalk away from uncomfortable situations

[timecouldnever]

Because everyone deserves to know how to do a mean moonwalk.

[whosfuckingbad]

guYS THIS IS IMPORTANT

[bisexuanal]

I definitely reblogged this sitting down not getting up to do the moonwalk at all

[thecockscientist-blog]

[disneyprinzzz]

[brunten]

Dear gay men with a boyfriend:

How the fuck did you do that?

[benniboom]

by getting off grindr, scruff, jack’d, etc., Treating each other as human beings and not like sex objects, talk to ONE GUY and ONE GUY ONLY, AND by keeping it in your pants on the first couple of dates.

[nobodylovesringostarr]

i’ve met my boyfriend of 2 years on grindr and we fucked right away and stayed together ever since so keep your gay bible to yourself

[llegomaheggo-deactivated2017082]

And this, right here, is a prime example of internalized hatred within the queer community. I am a gay identifying cis-gendered male and have been in numerous relationships: Met a guy through an app and had sex on the first night, met a guy at a cafe and dated a few times before we even began to cuddle, met a closeted male at his frat party and remained a discreet couple for several months.

I’ve been called easy. I’ve been called a prude.

We should all keep somethings in mind:

Firstly, some people use apps like Grindr and Tinder because it’s not easy being gay (or queer). We don’t have the privilege of walking into a busy cafe and thinking, “I can literally ask any one of you out.” No, gay men do not have that kind of access. Rather, we must think to ourselves, “I think that one guy sitting in the corner is gay. I wonder if he is single, nonthreatening, and cool.” Apps make it easier to meet other queers in our limited dating pool.

Secondly, some people like sex. Some like having sex on the first date. Some like having sex before the first date. Some like having sex and not dating. Some like to wait a few dates. SEX POSITIVITY means understanding and respecting the fact that there are varying degrees of priorities within the dating/sex world. Can we stop slutshaming and actually unify our disjointed gay community?

Thirdly, to say that “one guy and one guy only” is the only route is to be ignorant and disrespectful to those who enjoy/participate in open-relationships and polyamory.

PLEASE BE CONSIDERATE OF YOUR FELLOW QUEER COUSINS. WE’RE ALREADY A MARGINALIZED GROUP. LET’S NOT FURTHER ATTACK ONE ANOTHER. 

[kukowalker]

I will never not reblog this.

[iamout121718-deactivated2018120]

Awesome

[temptingdominance]

Dear Submissives

Can you please for for the love of god stop paying attention to that bullshit on Tumblr that tells you that you’re supposed to be a worthless object? You do realize that everybody who is spouting off about that crap doesn’t put their face or their address online?

BECAUSE IT ISN’T REAL!

You’re not going to spend your life in a basement serving somebody. It’s a fucking fantasy. And it bullshit like this that destroys the positive and meaningful interactions with in BDSM.

No one is dominant or submissive 100% of the time. It’s not possible. We’re human beings. We need to rest. We need to rejuvenate. Yeah you can have a hot session that goes on for a full weekend. You can embrace every bit of who you are as a dominant or submissive. But there’s always a break.

And if you haven’t figured this out, real dominant men provide Aftercare and take of their boys. Full stop. It’s not even a question. If somebody is going to put you through an intense situation and can’t even fucking bother holding onto you and caressing you to let you calm down, they’re just a piece of shit. There is something psychologically wrong with them and you shouldn’t be around them in the first place.

Let’s address this Alpha bullshit. No one is better than somebody else. No person is ordained as this creature that is meant to be superior to others. If someone honestly believes that they are better than someone else on purely a basis of humanity, they are most likely a very sad individual. They never achieved anything meaningful. Maybe one day they started going to the gym and realized that someone was attracted to them and then they could exert their low self-esteem on another. I can’t fucking stand people like this. And they spout their bullshit all over the internet.

And here’s the simple truth to all of this, you may read this right now and think that I’m completely wrong. But as soon as the fantasy wears off, you will start to realize that a good man is far better than anything that this fantasy world could ever provide.

So please wake the fuck up. Believe in yourself. Know that you don’t deserve to be treated like crap. Submission is a gift. The dominant has to be worthy of it. You make that determination – not them.

Stand up for yourself. I believe in you. Look past the bullshit.

Sincerely,

A good dominant man that’s tired of seeing people abused.

[spankinglads]

I don’t reblog but feel this is an important read for all the sub lads on my blog.

Often both doms and subs have a fantasy in their head that is totally unrealistic and will never happen on a meet. Especially when a bond and a level of trust hasn’t been established yet. I might only be 29, but I still feel like I have a level of responsibility for the younger gay community. I had a bad experience when I was 18, and it put me off sex for years. Please lads be careful, and be safe.

Related to the above, I get a lot of questions asking why I like being called “daddy”.

The reason is that the word “daddy” implies that I’m a top, but also that I am here to provide protection, guidance and support for the lad. For me, it has nothing to do with “daddy issues”. It’s about genuinely caring for a boy and wanting to help him be successful and be the best man he can be. 

In the past I’ve helped boys with their CVs, their coursework for University and dropped a boy home at 3am in the morning when he had a bit too much to drink.

For me, a “daddy/son” relationship is more than just fun in the bedroom.

One last thing. The above is heavily waited towards the submissive but I want to make it clear that Doms have feeling too! Don’t forget that when chatting to your dom next time, even a thank you goes a long way.

Peace,

Spankinglads

x

[boarcriminal-deactivated2018052]

if you’re a baby gay and this is your first pride, watch your drinks! men are trash across all sexualities

[mezzalunanova]

I know boys don’t get these talks so let me clarify:

This doesn’t just mean alcohol

Don’t accept any open drinks

After you get your unopened drink, you keep it in your site

You have to go to the bathroom so you leave your drink on a table? That drink is now dead to you.

You’ve been holding your drink way low out of your eyesight and people are crowding? That drink is now suspect.

Stay safe, babies

[cherrycoloredsky-archive]

Also: Rohypnol (a date rape drug) tastes VERY SALTY. If your drink is suddenly salty, STOP DRINKING IMMEDIATELY. 

[bigmouthlass]

Buddy system, y'all. If your friend is acting *way* drunker than they should, take them to an Urgent Care or ER. Date rape drugs can kill you.

[elusive-suggestions]

always rb

[tapatiopapi]

When another gay is hired at your job

[stushiroll-deactivated20200406]

When you’re the new gay who just got hired

[dragonite-master]

When the new gay get fired for not doing thier job

[stushiroll-deactivated20200406]

When the new gay shows up after getting his job back for blowing the manager

[papa-peach-deactivated20241019]

When the district manager fires both of you, and the manager, for starting drama in addition to having inappropriate sexual relationships with management.

[meatprincess]

When you, the unmentioned fourth gay, sat there and ate your food and watched your messy coworkers get fired for starting unnecessary drama.

[tyezorochi88]

[badbiboy-blog]

[chunkydunkin806]

Inbox it!

[gaypublicblog]

Ask me

[yiffandfurrylover]

Just ask

[nsfw1190]

Everyone can ask

[drvanspanking]

[briefpuller]

All the fucking time

[hottstuff]

Always!!!

[sexygayunderwearlove]

Most differently i do

[whatsunderthereagain]

Every damn day!!

[bastar1969-blog]

Especially younger guy’s

[distraction46]

[pervfantasy]

I remember when I was 13, my 16 year old brother Brent invited his 17 yo friend Owen from school to our house for a sleep over. Our parents were upstairs and we were watching a movie in the basement. I sat in between them. Brent was really focused on the movie. Owen has his arm around me, running his fingers through my hair. During the movie, Owen kept adjusting something in his pants. One time I looked over to see he was lightly jiggling his penis through his shorts. I looked over at him but he just kept looking at the screen. But I think he saw me looking at him because with the arm that was around me he pulled me in closer to him. My arm moved so it was resting on his leg. A few moment later he jiggled his dick again. This time I didn’t see it. I felt it on my arm. He kept teasing the head of it on my arm. I just kept my arm there. He looked over to see Brent was still focused on the film. He gently took my hand in his hand and placed it over his cock. He squeezed down on my hand which in turn made my hand grab onto his hard cock. I started to play with it as he removed his hand. A minute later he pulled up the opening of his shorts so I could see the head of his cock. I slipped my hand through the opening and took his 17 yo cock in my tiny hand. I moved it up and down his shaft slowly as to not alert my stupid brother. I could feel Owen’s jock cock throbbing. I jerked him like that for about 15-20 minutes of the movie. Then Owen hugged me even tighter so I knew he was about to cum. A few seconds later he closed his eyes and grit his teeth then all of the sudden I felt hot cum washing over my tiny hand. The thick wet goo was all over my fingers and palm, it dripped down his hairy balls and onto his shorts. He let out a slow exhale and grabbed my hand and used the underside of his shirt to wipe the cum off for me. Just then my idiot brother asked what that smell was. Owen and I both shrugged. Brent continued to watch the rest of the movie while Owen gave me a kiss on the cheek and rested his hand on my little dick. Giving me my first dry handjob.

[focoram27]

Sounds like me and my cousins with their friends

[intheknowmoney]

Celebrate the 4th on the Moon🌙 in 2024! 🇺🇸

[johnnyboysin]

Man kind is progressing beyond expectations

[the-gaming-page]

Keep reading

[bellygangstaboo]

what the hell is going on in this country?!

[tontonmichel-deactivated2022021]

Well damn

[justcariii]

Shit has been bad for a while

[fatcr0w]

Right so this lady was smart, if you’re ever in a sedan-style trunk there’s a little pull tab that you can use to get yourself out that is STANDARD in cars built after 2001. It’s the law just like headlights and seatbelts.

if you are in an SUV style vehicle or newer model car you may be able to find the automatic trunk release wire, pull on it, it will pop the trunk

if you can’t find any of that stuff,look for the brake light housing. You will need to pull back the trunk carpeting and feel about. It’s probably bolted in, but some careful wiggling will dislodge it. If people see a goddamn arm waving out of a hole in a car while they poke along I-95 they likely will do something about it

[msleoduh]

Reblog to save a life….

[ryderdai]

I was about to explain that handle myself. I did in the past and was told I have a sick since of humor for saying it helps to serve as an escape method in kidnappings.

Some of them even glow in the dark for easier finding.

[aixela89]

Reblog to save a life

[timberwolfalpha]

Damn right I’m reblogging, saving lives is kinda my thing.

[julshii]

anyone please ask your crush out like this

[julshii]

The thrilling answer

[brojohn4lyfe-deactivated2015102]

no they need to kiss out behind the school!!!!

[daitoshi]

oops my hand slipped

[moodycrissy]

nexttttt pleaseee :D

[sinofangels]

Come on guys add on to this tumblr needs this to be a comic series

[maria-ruta]

I was asked for doing this, so I did

BAM!

I’m out of ideas! XD

next?

[hamburgergod]

THIS IS TOO CUTE I CAN’T LEAVE IT ALONE I’M SORRY

[maria-ruta]

OHHHHHHHHHH MYYYYY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDD!!!!!!!

LOOOK ATT THIIIIS!!!!

LOOOOK ATTT THIIIISS!!!!

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NEEEXT!!!!!

[placeholderaccount]

IT HAD TO BE DONE:

[maria-ruta]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAARRRGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

*O*

OH MY GOOD!!!!!

ThAT’S IT!!!!

#0o0#

[theartofwazzing-blog]

so yeah

[inafantasy-wby]

I LOVE THIS

[romanoscurl-deactivated20170605]

REBLOGGED THIS TWICE

[deaddeavtivated]

I have a need…..I must add to this…

[aeshsar]

still waiting for the smut

[takayes-deactivated20170924]

C’mon guys… it needs some smut

[janaya7609]

THIS NEEDS TO CONTINUE

[yaoi-online]

SOMEONE PLEASE CONTINUE IT

[ringo-smile]

Not so perfect but still perfect first date

[afraidtoask]

HOLY SHIT I LOVE THIS WITH MY ENTIRE HEART

[mildly-duckbe-blog]

O HECk IT GOT bETtEr

[zaku-kazu]

OMG, THIS IS PERFECT 💖

[madhattey-deactivated20211019]

notes/letters=the most intimate gesture!

[gayties-garbage-deactivated2018]

THERES MORE

[conniemcfalcon]

I reblogged this like a year and a half ago and IT CONTINUES!? 

[charlieisbi]

ITS BACK OMG

[monstersofmemory]

Omg it’s here!

[sushisalmon95]

THIS CUTE I WANNA CONTINUE IT

[sushisalmon95]

Ok I tried because this is so cute 

[multifandom-hoes]

OH MY GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOODDDDDDDFFDFF

[soubidou]

IT GOT EVEN BETTER OMG

[madamelibrarian-deactivated2018]

This has to be the most adorable thing I’ve seen today. 

[lookingupatthestarsandthinking]

This gave me so many happy and cute feels

[snovolovac]

every time this circles back there’s always more, I love you all 

[tree-of-blue-squirrel]

this warms my heart on so many levels <3

[vampirate-lover]

ITS BACK

[lav-enderlemon]

I’m just sitting here

Hitting my knee

Squealing and smiling omfg

[aufandomlover]

this is now a tumblr web comic, who knows when the next upate is, all we know is its gonna be fucking amazing when it happens 

[lisanolicence]

best thing ever

[constellation-salad-deactivated]

Traditional style (Sorry the picture quality is really bad) but here is my (super short) update!!

(The text says : Movie? I won’t be late!)

[suckmyicelandick]

my contribution!

[leolimerencez]

This is beautiful

[chillingandtoxic]

Love it

[expremekote-deactivated20180111]

OMG I REMEMBER THIS!!! AND THIS IS SO LONG NOW AND SO ADORABLE!!! I LOVE ALL THE DIFFERENT ART STYLES!!

[gamerman2002]

I love this so much. For multiple reasons. One all of the different art styles. Two I have been seen this post around Tumblr ever since I first came here. And three ever since I first came it’s been getting longer and better ever cents!

[freakydemonclown]

This is some cute shit

[existentialalpaca]

This has been here since the start of my blog and it’s one of my favourite posts that I had on my dash and it still is

[percethecurse]

Even after all this time I’m so invested in this

[dead-nightingale-deactivated201]

I

[applegorl]

I AM SPEECHLESS

[ifeelspecial-youare]

I love this so much😭😭😭

[babytrash2003]

thiS IS THE ABSOLUTE MOST ADORABLE THING EVER XD

[sorta-phantastic-deactivated202]

THIS IS SO CUTE I’M ACTUALLY SCREAMING

[the-rainbow-shaka-brah]

I’M SCREAMING

[briezyirwin]

I’m crying and dying and screaming how is this possible

[doomednarrative]

IT GOT BETTER!!!!!

[ieroin3]

BOI THIS IS SO FREAKING GOOD!

[twentyonepilotsfanblogg]

MY HEART

[spooky-daddy-jim]

I want more

[usernam-es-blog]

This definitely needs to be continued!!

[giuliadrawsstuff]

Am I too late to join? :D

[veronicasummersfelton]

@neatatom @apitnobaka @noknmni

[neatatom]

@veronicasummersfelton why not?

[sanderschilds]

My hand slipped 

[whateveridk13]

MORE PLS!!!!!!

[kimmycup]

HOW DO I SUBSCRIBE TO THIS THREAD

my favourite thing, artists of tumblr untiting to create a comic about high school notes gay love story

MORE PLEASE!

tagging all my artist friends who need to see this @takaraphoenix @dragon-of-creation @spider999now @shirmir @noksindra

[keficafe]

I don’t have self control

[aquilacalvitium]

THIS IS THE CUTEST SHIT I’VE EVER SEEN! DO MORE DO MORE DO MORE!!

[isa-ghost]

YES HELLO IM CRYING

[fish-food-s]

itS BACK!!

[i-just-punched-malfoy-deactivat]

There’s so much more AAAHHHH

[arz28art]

I’m just gonna add something real quick 😆

[lucanisenjoyer]

Hurry someone add something please 😭😭

[alexclaremontdiaz]

AHHHHH this is so adorable 😍

[feysand-rowaelin-worshiper-deac]

SOMEONE PLEASE ADD SOMETHING MY HEART IS SOARING THIS IS ADORABLE! 😍

[allthefandoms0916-deactivated20]

THIS IS SO CUTE😍😍

[cthebooklover]

@highwarlockofhogsmeade LOOK!! SO MUCH MORE CUTENESS FROM THE LAST TIME

[noost]

This is the best

[honey-sunny-bee]

IT’S BACK

[anachronistic-cat]

this was here when i first came and it’s back and better than ever

[alexross123]

I WILL NEVER NOT REBLOG THIS!!!

[covveycrow]

*screeches*

[amazable01]

I AM IN LOVE!!!

[the-madcap-laughs]

THIS IS STILL GOING ON I AM IN LOVE

[broadwaytheanimatedseries]

I CANT BELIVE ITS STILL GOING ON PLZ SOMEONE ADD ONTO THIS PLZ

[the-picani-academy-blog]

Muses Wishlist: The premise with the locker notes and one not having a cell phone.

[catneychu]

fuck i love this thread

[trucbiduleschouettes-deactivate]

[fangirlberry]

I love this so much. Both the adorable boys and how a good portion of the artists on tumlr keep going “Oops, my hand slipped~” AND MAKING IT BETTER.

[angelsdoexist]

omg. there is more and it is BETTER EFERY TIME I SEE IT

[jaqulee-paint-blog]

Saw this and thought it was to cute not to reblog

[you-are-a-bitch-ass-cunt-blog]

I’m dying.

no.

too late I’m dead SO CUTE!!!!

[dasjansel]

IT UPDATED, YEEEEES!!!!

Look at this beauty!

[archerestarcher]

YES A NEW UPDATE!

Please oh PLEEEEEEEASE

Can someone continue this, and tag me?

[burningyetbeautifuldaydreams]

Aaaaaaa need more

[archerestarcher]

AGREED

[grey-lysander]

If someone continues this please tag me

[phlying-squirrel]

BE STILL MY HEART

[br33zymilq]

IM HAVING A FLUFF ATTACK (when something is so cute and fluffy you more than fangirl over. You OBSESS.)

[luminous-lumi]

THIS IS THE BEST THREAD I’VE SEEN AND PROBABLY WILL EVER SEE OH MY GOD

[asianartiste]

should i add something

[asianartiste]

@thewitch243 @skylagamingv2 here

[ssironstrange]

oh my god that last addition al;skdjgalsd MY MOM PULLED THAT EXACT STUNT WITH ONE OF MY EX BOYFRIENDS BEFORE 🤣🤣🤣 i thought it was hilarious, he, on the other hand, turned shades of red i didn’t think he could turn

[supremehusbands]

THIS IS THE FIRST THING THAT HAS GREETED WHEN I OPENED THIS APP AFTER 12345567890 DAYS!!!!! OMG OMG OMFG!!!!!

[wybsebastian-blog]

IM CRYING I NEED MORE

[iguessivedrawn]

i hope Y’all don’t mind

[solariumss-deactivated20191204]

DON’T LEAVE ME HANGING!!!!! WHAT HAPPENS NEXT??????!!!!!!!!!!!! I NEED TO KNOW!!!

[uccelletto-di-kokuyo]

Let’s break the notes.  Let’s go.

[zimmer2d-deactivated20181230]

i can’t! if this never ends i’m very fine with that but this needs to be made into a book with the proceeds divvied up between the artists.

[theangelpie19]

HOLY SHIT <3 <3 <3 I LOVE THIS!!!!

[i-speak-gae]

This was the shit that would be on your blog ONE WAY OR ANOTHER and now it got more BEAUTIFUL

[abby-likes-bones]

I AM IN LOVE WITH THIS

[dreamcatcherspeaks-deactivated2]

AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH I AM WEAK FOR SOFT BOYS WITH FLUFFY LIGHT COLORED HAIR AND DARK SKIN YOU CAN PROBABLY UNDERSTAND IT FUCKING SUPERB YOU FUNKY LITTLE GAYS

[greenbowlerhat]

I

Need

More

This is adorable

[aquilacalvitium]

IT HAS BEEN UPDATED

[hot-tea-and-blankets]

i added,,, a thing,,,,

[spaladoon]

I LOVE IT

[iamdarknessiamdeath]

ITS BACK! AND I NEED MORE!!!!

[rainandruins-deactivated2020022]

I’ve always wanted to add to this but like… that’s a lot

[jeswii]

There’s even more now!!!

[julianthebeautifulunicorn]

Hey look I did a thing

[avatrashh]

The five year saga continues it’s so cute

[the-incedible-sulk]

This gets cuter everytime oh my gosh 💙💙

[phlying-squirrel]

💚❤💜💖💛💚❤💜❤💖💜❤💚💖❤💜💚💛💖❤💜💚💛💖💛❤

[damasath]

Ouchhhh!! SO ADORBS I WANNA CONTTIBUTE

[jack-the-lion]

IT GOT LONGER AND CUTER!!! X3

[johnnyboysin]

Cutest shit ive seen in ages i want this thats a goal right there guy

[fapitalism-deactivated20120910]

[raisemysonbootlicker]

This is the money Patrick. Reblog so money will come your way

[gvldenhour]

“I’m getting back in line.”

[sniggadoodles]

OKAY but i just reblogged this last night and guess what i got today from my workplace’s self-audit!

THANK YOU PATRICK FOR FREE MONEY

[musinvenusian]

BLESS ME PATRICK

[lily-d247]

PATRICK I HAVE NEVER STRAYED YOU KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVED YOU