Level 10 TERF: T e r f i r r i f i c

☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ Sideblog where I can explore radical feminism and my thoughts on the matter freely. I'm still learning, and I'll consider different points of view, although I'm not obligated to engage with anyone who speaks to me with disrespect. (Just sayin'.)  Disclaimer: I do not hate transpeople. Seriously. ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ ☆ approx. 8 years since I went from cautiously sipping the kool-aid, to spitting it back out when no one was looking. #NotAllPenisBearers

[madlori]

[woman-respecter]

“you don’t have to fuck men who hate you” suddenly becoming a radical feminist statement

[quinntheestallion]

Abortion rights are gone. Close your fucking legs to these men till 2028. The time for 4b is now, I'm so serious.

[tra-archive]

I’m saying the same damn thing. Gen Z men are showing time and time again why they deserve that loneliness epidemic.

4b NOW👊🏻👊🏼👊🏽👊🏾👊🏿

[killallxys2-deactivated20250216]

6B4T NOW

Stop interacting with any kinds of males and cut them off from your lives.

Not just untill 2028, but for life. Because we don't know how vile woman hating this world is gonna get. Look out for yourself..

[deadfish-inabarrel]

Don't have sex with men, if you get pregnant and there's a complication, doctors will simply watch you die.

Any man who even wants sex with you wants to knowingly put you at risk of pregnancy and subsequently death.

Women shouldn't have to do this, but here we are. Have some self preservation, don't date men, don't have sex with men.

[womenarehuman]

American men have done this to "get back" at women for not dating them. Men are bitter because they are "lonely" (read: not getting laid because they're horrible people) and now they think they can bully women into submission. As said above, DO NOT COMPLY, put MORE distance between you and men. Do not even entertain the idea of dating or catering to men.

Focus on your and other women. Protect women and girls to the best of your ability. Work together. Help each other. Fight back and make sure these men die alone.

[woman-respecter]

american women your objective for the next four years is to make men miserable. exacerbate that male lonliness epidemic as much as you possibly can.

[sichorean]

Petition for men to be silent at all times

[twoxliberation]

what gets me is that ALL men who say shit like this would choose wage labor over sex work. which is precisely why they aren't "sex workers" themselves. they know there is a MASSIVE difference between prostitution and literally every other job out there. they know that if they had to choose between being raped up the ass by 20+ other men every single day and, say, a blue collar job like pipelining or coal mining -- dangerous jobs where they risk injury and death - they'd still choose the latter over prostitution. they'd choose to go into the middle of an active war zone over being raped even once, let alone on a regular basis by countless men for years.

[wombshaker]

“Why Don’t Women Just Leave?”

Women are 70 times more likely to be killed in the two weeks after leaving than at any other time during the relationship. When leaving is more fatal than staying, the choice to leave becomes an act of bravery in the face of grave danger.

24-40% of police officers are domestic abusers. This is 2.4 to 4 times the rate in the general population. When a large portion of the police force are abusers themselves, it’s unlikely survivors will be taken serious by the authorities

On average, a victim attempts to leave 7 times before finally leaving for good. Women do “just leave” but abusers have no problem making that as difficult as possible.

Domestic violence is the leading cause of homelessness for women and children. For many, leaving can “seal their fate” due to the total financial dependency fostered by the abuser.

If you or someone you know is currently experiencing domestic abuse or is a survivor of domestic violence, the following resources are available:

http://www.standffov.org/resources

http://dvipiowa.org/resources/

https://www.gov.uk/guidance/domestic-abuse-how-to-get-help

[tsami]

24-40% of police are REPORTED domestic abusers. Remember who the reports are made to.

[thealkalinespinster-deactivated]

If we applied consent rhetoric to men the way we apply it to women: 

It’s not cool to kill a dude :( Unless he explicitly asks for it :) Then it‘s totally fine. In fact, it’s not uncommon for a guy to have a death wish (whips out statistics about male suicide). It’s a way for them to process trauma, so you’re actually helping them <3 And honestly, even if some men resist a homicide attempt, they’re gonna die anyway, am I right ;) (whips out statistic about lower male life expectancy)

[sichorean]

"I wish I wasn't that way" honey you're a lesbian and you have absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. You're surrounded by conversion therapy rhetoric and it's wrong. You aren't having a "genital preference" - you like women. The entire female form. You're a female homosexual. It's okay to be a lesbian.

There is nothing wrong with you. You shouldn't have to hide in order to pacify a mans ego.

[cookiecoyote30]

!!! There should be way more alarm in the LGB community that people, especially lesbians, are having to take their sexuality underground...The rights we fought for...that we still fight for ...

[afronerdism]

I don’t know who needs to hear this but being “kinky” is not an identity and the truth is a lot of you guys have childhood trauma that has manifested itself into degrading or aggressive sexual behavior that you really need to seek therapy for and not normalize or frame as a part of your identity.

[joykillerrr]

Photo Series Explores ‘Sexploitation’ in Athletic Uniforms

The Rio Olympics were a reminder of the often striking differences in how male and female athletes dress. But are today’s uniforms designed

I hate this world i hate it so much this is so enraging.

[lonesomebutchcowboy-deactivated]

Saying lesbians shouldn’t openly talk about being repulsed by penis is literally the modern version of “I’m ok with gay people as long as they keep it to themselves”

[user87262893]

my heart is breaking

this young woman made a tiktok telling how she was sexualized as an adolescent via a comparison to Mia Khalifa, and how it wasn't until she was older that she realized she shouldn't have had to face that behavior as a child

and Mia Khalifa responded to the young woman's video, tearful as she watched it in silence, with the most heartbreaking caption

my love goes out to them both, and all my anger belongs to the men who put them in those awful positions

[awoman-is-alive]

hate when nonbinary people are like “im nonbinary cause i just feel like a human i dont identify with gender im just a human living in this body” as if thats not how everyone feels like…….congrats you are human who doesnt identify with gender roles. how special and different of you. you are so right. women dont feel like human beings they are just a set of stereotypes and they LOVE it 

[freshpenguinfury-deactivated202]

This is what broke the delusion down for me. A few years ago I was confused, wondering why I have never “felt like a woman” and why I just felt like a person with a body that happened to be female.

I asked my female friends what being a woman felt like, and nobody could answer me - they didn’t know either.

Then I took it to Google and found the “answer” to what the coveted feeling of Woman™️ was. The answer came from various TIMs.

The feeling of woman was playing with Barbies as a child and enjoying it, playing with easy bake ovens, or loving how a dress feels. Woman is how you feel after you are plowed by a rough male and you feel coyly submissive. Woman is the ecstacy of wearing high heels or painting your entire face or doing your nails.

It was stereotypical, dehumanizing garbage that made me realize woman isn’t a feeling, that woman just is.

[antiplondon]

Helen Joyce on twitter

[lesbian-lizards]

love this guy mansplaining to this woman’s sarcastic comment.

[i-hate-men-and-there-are-reasons]

Exhibit 225/???

[eve-was-framed]

i love kink shaming actually. yes I think it’s repulsive that you like role-playing that your gf is your 5 year old daughter while you two are having sex. no i don’t think that it makes it ethical just because you didn’t actually physically rape a child. die mad about it

[soft-petrichor-deactivated20210]

[mikasasrippedtoenail]

Profanity and Misogyny

"Motherfucker", "cunt" , "bitch", "Whore" etc. are words that are so commonly used in colloquial language that one almost forgets the nuance attached to them. In almost every language there exist a myriad of swear words that refer to the degradation of the female vagina. A woman's sex is seen as her badge of shame and if she has control over her it then she has become astray from the path of the virtue.

"To insult a man, you insult his woman". I remember awkwardly shuffling in my seat, getting very uncomfortable when male peers would call each other "motherfucker" or "cunts" so casually. A woman much older than them was reduced to her sex, a tool to insult their friends. My sex- the organ that I was born with- was a sign of weakness. If you are meek or a coward you are a "pussy". In my language, I could never find the word equivalent of vagina, for it was too sexualised to use in society. Before I was even old enough to understand the workings of my body, a organ that I had been born with was left redundant to its function to please a man-villified by porn.

"Fuck" is seen as an insult because men consider sex a defiling act that takes away the dignity of the woman. Another misogynistic implication is the term "deflowering"; having sex takes away her innocence. After sex, the woman is not a human to them but a "cunt". The sexual paraphernalia of a woman is associated with purity. There is such a huge emphasis that is put on the concept of virginity, because it brings control to the patriarchal society over a woman's autonomy.

The sexual liberation of 70s was brought as a rebellion to these norms- young women were groomed into thinking that sex is empowering. Hookup culture also emerged as an aftereffect of the sexual liberation. The politics of a woman's sex is argued all day while the male penis remains as a neutral organ despite having been a tool to oppress women.

Sex is a completely neutral act of pleasure that is neither degrading nor empowering. However, this statement would only exist in a vacuum. Men use sex as a form of violence upon women-rape is a political tool. For women to take back control of their sexual autonomy, they must acknowledge the politics of sex-or lack thereof. Selectively choosing whom you are having sex with is the first step.

I implore everyone to stop using degrading profanities that have misogynistic connotations. When others around me --especially men-- use these swear words, I ask them why their insults always involve a woman to be degraded and humiliated. Not acting as an accompalice to patriarchy, not keeping quiet against the patriarchal violence and spreading word against misogyny is the best silent mutiny.